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Smart woman.

Hope say another guy no dey one corner dey wind Ur head?

Omolola1:
@ochendu, if she marries sum1 she does not lov nd meets a guy dat sweeps hr off her feet,my broda,she wuld cheat on him!

Trust me, whether or not U are in love U cannot be swept off your feet unless U make provision for the sweeper to sweep u off of them.

Even if U get instantly swept off your feet the high on the floor won't last long enough unless of course U stay on the floor and encourage the person to keep sweeping U on the floor.

Whether U love or are in love U will continue to meet people U find attractive thru life's journey; now that's confirmed. It's how U handle the attraction that leads to whether U will be found wanting or not.

TEE MAMA:
i met this guy am dating online, though is a yoruba guy, not too long  we  met each other, and he called me always but just few days later  he stop calling, then i called him and he give me the excuse that nigeria network is bad that he will call me ,since then i didnt hear from him anymore, and am in love already, so my fellow people i need your advice cos am dying for him.

Mirror his actions.

Omolola1:
if u marry hm without lovn him dere is every probability dat u wuld cheat on him! nd u both wuld onli end up frustrated!

People don't cheat cos they don't love the person they are with; people cheat for other reasons but hardly, if ever, cos they don't love the person. best not expect that love would keep U from cheating.

True she should marry a guy she at least feels good about being with.

I've heard it said by mothers in advices to their daughters over and over again to marry a man that loves them more than they love him. I think loving is a man's responsibility cos with men it more often than not holds more meaning, even when it doesn't feel like a pleasure trip. I would rather marry a woman I love more than she luvs me. A woman's love can fade like rain bearing clouds blown away by the winds.

Is there a man who wouldn't take pride in getting a brand new car over a fairly used one or second hand one?

There's not not a man worth being called a man that doesn't like exclusivity. That's the way I see it.

Lets just say, as much as there is no guarantee that the virgin today will not end up being the whorish woman tomorrow, men find peace in knowing there isn't another man that can show up from her past that would pose as much a threat that he could worry about.

I don't need to trick anyone cos I naturally look good.

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Just cos U can't see the beauty doesn't mean no one else can.

It's not pedophilia until there's sexual content.

If U don;t know then I doubt U are ready to take on the responsibilities of marriage.

One day soon, someone myt just ask "How do U breathe in and breathe out air?" on this site.

Life should be natural for the most part. If U need to know how to express Ur feelings to ur partner and need a format for doing so before he or she can tell U are feeling this way or that then one or the both of U need to see a shrink.

Deep Soul:
That's what I'm trying to avoid.

Why trying to avoid it if U intend to get the message across? Anyway what will be will be. I'm sure U'l find a way to communicate what U want more with this dude; to be had or to be left alone. U don't need advice from without like U do from within.

. . . Clueless.

I'd say leave but would U listen, especially considering that I don't have sufficient info to give that advice besides that the guy is dating someone he cherishes more than u and his reactions to U with respect to that have shown he is lacking in character.

U want to change him?

es--dee:
blow the geez man, an ask questions later, if she's someone else's wife then it means her husband ain't giving her what she ants, help the poor babe abeg, else pass on the torch  

So that's good enuf excuse for Ur wife to give U if she cheats on U shey? U would take it very calmly if U got married and had sexual challenges and she went out to get her hits shey?

Why do most girls use the "just being friendly" card when a guy is "not smart" enough to do them strong thing when they are infact giving him the green lights? Flirty and friendly aren't the same. Guys know the difference so stop acting like we're dumb. Na by force to do?

Ur topic says "Give Me 5 Reasons,why I Should Take Him Back"

Isn't it obvious U want him back? That's one strong reason enough to stand in for the remaining four. Besides, U said it already, U love him, he loves U.

Now I'm not saying U should take him back. that myt not be right and it might not be wrong either. What do U think would be best for U?

What if it turns out she's someone else wife? Don't U think it's a bit strange she would say not to call her? meanwyl why did she give U her number if she knew she didnt want U to call her?

Last last if I were U I wouldn't, for several reasons.