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krandelly:
he is so unromantic. But he knows i am a virgin. As least we cld kiss n handle. Could it be respect for me or is he just to himself. Its boring help out

U don dey find wetin U don dey find.

Blueice4rw, U never talk true finish. U watch when U miss him and then do nothing. Serious U never talk true finish.

Which is easier to learn? Sexual maneuverability or Good cooking?

Naija_Sisi:
thanks Onchedu 4 your advice i'll try it out 

U r welcome.

Tacky.

Naija_Sisi:
sometimes when i ask him he says i wont be able to handle it, as a man there are some things which he just needs to get on and do himself, because if he tells me i wont understand, thats what he says and I find it really frustrating because it means he is undermining my ability to understand some of his problems

Some guys are like that. Maybe U and him should talk more about just every other thing. When a man is comfy talking to U about lil nothings and percieves that U are like minded with him in them he usually would find it easier to talk bout "big stuff."

Some of us guys just get too traditional about stuff sha. Sometimes it's good and sometimes it's bad.

The thing is if a guy thinks U aren't the kinda girl that could carry some of his weight and still look up to him then he's right about keeping them from U ad it's best U don't find out how he just knows cos then it myt be too late.

Oh that's easy Naija.Sisi, Just ask him and he most likely will tell. That there's smth on his mind and U noticed would be flattering to him and that would loosen his jaw; plus talking about it with U could help him deal with whats there more effectively.

^^ Agreed shey?

Worse for the ladies sef. A bi-sexual man, That's the height of confusion.

I don't understand. I marry a girl I know is bi or I discover my wife is bi? That's two different things o.

Why would I marry a girl I know is sexually confused? That's like Bella wanting a vampire and a werewolf. No be craze be that?

Demand and Supply. That there is a demand doesn't mean there should be an equal supply. Hoarding is what real marketers do sometimes to get value attached to their products and earn more for every little they make available.

Ur girl is to demanding and greedy and it's getting worse cos U supply her always. It's ok for a man not to have sometmes or to have and not so easily give.

If I were U I'd try not giving in for a change, If I were U I'd know she wasn't looking at anything long term with me. Most times when a girl is looking to be with U for long and has the future of U and her in perspective she would cringe when U appear to be reckless with money and sometimes even being generous to her family could be frowned at as being financially reckless (Probably cos she's thinking of her kids who haven't even been conceived).

Anyway, U are mugurizing Urself for her and she probably knows it.

Moral of this story: don't get it twisted. If Ur not with them avoid communication with them especially if U ever were close to them. Hanging onto an ex has a nasty way of coming to hunt, esp when what U have in the present is passing thru rough times.

Babe, U are confused and have allowed Ur life get tossed here and there in confusion. Get a grip already. Forget the men if necessary and lve for Ur God and Ur baby.

Maybe U met a bi sexual, not lesbian. A real lesbian wouldnt not even allow U the room to toast and U would know before long that she's not into "Ur kind" unless of course U are just too high.

picking up girls from clubs is dangerous o. Some guy did that in the US and when they went back to his place and things got steamy, she brought out cuffs and he thought she was just kinky. She cuffed him to the bed and opened the door for five men who paid her off and then proceeded Bleep the guys back door. He went nuts and had to be hospitalized. Apparently he was the catch and she was the bait.
U'd be lucky to pick up a lesbian. That's cool compared to this guys predicament.

As surely as sun rises and sets and men live and die there will be toasting and getting toasted. Naija babes wey dey from well well (Which is more of a good thing by the way when done in moderation), na them U feel say go toast U? E dey happen but mehn more chances are it is spawn of overrated feeligs which could lead to an obsession.

No be only seminar. Abeg when u don organise seminar titled; Glue how important to a carpenter, let me know.

Person wan make money.

Is it's a secret admirer, how would U know? Guess U meant to ask who we admire secretly? No one. Don't know no one here lil enuf to admire them and keep it secret.

Mr Anus:
Brother, QUIT LYING. are u sure u not a virgin?

How U take know say na lie him dey lie and wetin dey there if him na virgin? May we no start with ths topic again o.

But U sef think am again: How U wan put man and woman for the same place for ten years and dem go dey relate and no be mama and pikin or brother and sister and nothing go happen?

This is some idealistic test. Not real. Ten years? Hmmm! Even Naija movie no dey get this kain script.

If they had been having sex and they fell out and were still agreeable on cohabiting but not intercting intimately then it myt be possible. Or if one of them was unable to have intimacy. I've met a woman whose husband has no been sexually intimate with her in 10years, but it's not like they never had sex or either or the both of them aren't getting it elsewhere.


See ehn, it's more impossible than it is possible. Two mature people living together, getting along very well and not having sex with each other or anyone else? That's unnatural. Na only God fit make that kain thing happen.

Condition B works just nicely for me as long as that girl thinks the world of me and doesn't mind not having sexual relations either; and on the condition that I am going to be busier than ever with tasking but fruitful and highly rewarding ventures.

It's easy to abstain from sex when the person U are allowed to have it with is with u on the abstinence. She'd better not be getting ideas either. it takes two to tango.

Nothing t panic about here if U had played Ur game right with either or the both of them, cos at least one of them is bound to come back. When she does, apologize and settle with her and don't go causing confusion next time. If neither of them shows up, get a move on, and next time try be smart enough to know how to handle such a situation or don't get Urself into it at all.

The wrongest thing U can do now that they are both gone is to go after either of them. Do not be tempted to do so.

Who want's more bad advice?

U seem to not have noticed from the poster's words that the BF portfolio hasn't been handed to him yet. He's on probation,  3 months trial without confirmation of office unless he proves himself indispensable or at least makes her feel so.

If he was confirmed already he wouldnt be jittery over lack of what to say and she would bring something up to talk about just to keep him there.

I grew up in a different environment. The kinda girls I roll with know a boy from a man. They'l make U feel like scum if U act like scum.

A wanna-be bf takes your advice in my world and he'd be the joke of the day.

Guys sef una no just know say when sex and food no get control of una woman go trip pass for U.

That's how it works with your girl?

Silence doesn't always mean "U messed up big time." Sometimes it means: "Keep going, I'm listening." and "What do U take me for" sometimes means "Pervert, WHAT DO U TAKE ME FOR?"

Me I don't know the kind of girls U meet sha. Maybe all U want is a one nyt stand and your tactic is to keep shooting randomly without any specific aim hoping one of your bullets will hit a target and U will have a meal for a day. If she's worth it at all why have her just once when u can keep her forever if U want? Tactics boy tactics. If Lions were chasing after all the prey they came across they would die hungry.

Anyway lemme stop here before I spoil boys like U.

Gan gan!!!

Not women, girls. Ok so women like it too but they know better and those that don't usually end up in a bad shape.

I figure instead of trying to know why, just use the knowledge to ur advantage. U meet a girl then give her the best of both worlds without gettinglost in the twists and turns.

Leech?

A guy finds infidelity difficult because it robs him of that feeling of "I know "something" no one else knows." the best flower isnt the one on a girl that has experience or can twist and wind. It's the flower on the girl that keeps it secret for that one man.

Ever notice how when a man starts misbehaving in marriage and wants to send his wife packing always hesitates as long as he can't pin infidelity on her? No one will support him. Infact men that get beat up by their wives would still tolerate the abuse as long as she's not giving it out to anyone else.

Some men even prefer women that aren't soooo interested in sex cos when she does have sex it will be obvious she Chose to have it and wansnt pushed to it, bla ba bla,

When it comes to women, men haven't evolved much. We still like exclusivity. Girls on the other hand are known to almost worship "sexual experience." U have it and they figure U should be a better lover. They seem to not know that getting experience requires making a habit. Habits are not easily broken especially when addiction is a strong possibility. Sex is addictive. It leaves U wanting more.

The same girls can be mean to themselves. Cat fight get levels. A girl will bleep her friends guy just to prove that she's hotter than her or just to get even for something the friend did.

A girl will also bleep a married man she used to bleep just to feel she still's attractive beyond vows the dude made before God or just to spite the wife and feel good.

Women don't always want a bodily orga$.m. Sometimes they want a psycholoical one.

And they think we have ego problems.

snthesis:
play on words- ask if she wud like to get wet

That myt work well with a girl that is already Hot or close enuf to it; or a girl who's just feeling nutty and was hoping a guy like U would come indulge her.
girls generally think sex is all we think about so she's expecting U to go there. Girls are hardly ever impressed when a guy is predictible and typical. U want to play with words but weave in and out here and there till U do turn her on (if that's your aim). Of course U myt want to know what her values concerning sex are cos in the long run as much as she myt enjy the high from getting turned on by what U say, when she's sober and her conscience comes knocking she myt just see U as a negative part of her life and a smoother guy, when he comes along will steal your babe.