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A girl thinks she must be the center of a man's world ALL THE TIME. A woman understands a man has other passions that have nothing to do with her and if she just lets him be with them they won't ever be a threat to her position in his heart.

Kx:
What is the difference between a woman and a girl pls?

Besides age and, maturity and the fear that she has more to loose the older she gets than the guy next door? Besides knowing that there is a time and place for everything and that feelings aren't strong enough to go by? Besides being more able to prioritize using logical reasoning in tune with her emotions and facts on ground? Besides thinking that young girls of nowadays want to go naked on the streets when she or the girls of her time did the same? Besides the knowledge that men don't ALWAYS think about sex? Besides the realization that no matter how hot she is if a man is not pleased with her he would not find her provocative or even appealing sexually?

the differences plenty.

Boys will always be boys but some girls become women.

Tell her fables if U don't have any real stories that will move her emotions from here to there and back to a place making the conversation like a real experience for her.

Story tellers are good with girls. It doesn't even have to be true except in your head. U can make up imaginary characters and create imaginary plots then tell it like it happened in reality.

Men hear words better than they feel them. Women feel words better than they hear them.

It's important that Ur girl feels Ur words, and Ur silence of course.

All these guys promoting the "I love U I love U" syndrome, chic go quick taya for una o. Keep a girl excited not comfortable. Woman appreciate comfort more than excitement, girls appreciate excitement more than comfort.

Abi una no know say U fit talk I love U too much so tay the thing go just no get value again?

Must U talk? If U're through with the high note, close the conversation,  Matter of fact close before U get to that peak. U want to create an addiction to your voice in her so don't completely satisfy her prematurely; Just keep getting her close enuf, higher and higher one day at a time till she's comfortable with silence with U, then give her a good HIGH and then withdraw and hand over the baton to her for a while till her satisfaction has waned enuf to create desire to be satisfied again the repeat the process.

Demand and supply. Know how to control those too and U will have power.

Meanwyl so what if she wasn't impressed this time around. Don;t go trying to hard to impress any girl o. That U have doesn't mean U should give.

What U probably didn't know is that it's a whole lot easier for a girl to move on after getting out or been thrown out of a relationship that should have lasted. It's not necessarily for the better neither the worse, just easier.

If she feels good about him she'l probably bury U in the abyss of her heart and give him fair wins to sail.

How U take think wey U throway 6year dey trip me o. Devil beat drum for U U dance? No be say she even do U strong thing. Six years o.

This is crude and funny and self centered but U'd be surprise it works perfect with some girls. At least it's confrmed in practice that girls respond more positively when U keep them on their toes. Only women who are tired of the girls rat race and those who somehow were smart enuf to not get into it in the first place appreciate rest and comfort and knowing they don't have to struggle to prove themselves superior to other girls in chasing the reigning guy.

True. Luv forced cannot be sustained.

What's the oyinbo babe for sha?

4 years? hmmm, A stretch in consistency or U've waited on her for 4years? Better face forward.

In simple English and summarized, what's Ur point?

^^ you're smart.

Why won't U be faling in love with a girl that seems to understand U better than the one U are with. If U've had sex with the gf then just forget the sister and possibly the both of them in the name of all thing righteous.

^^ Shey? I agree.

*Hmmm, Lets not start.*

ok so ur in a cult and U want to know whether it is better to tell the woman U want to marry before U do or after? Maybe she wouldn't want to know? It's better u tell her tho but then U'l put the burden of secrecy on her and she myt not be able to hold her tongue then u myt have to kill her or something.

If U leave her will U get another girl that would understand U? Do they have girls in Ur cult? If they do U could just hook up with one of them.

I'm trying real hard not to tell U Ur on the wrong course here if U are serious; Ur soul is probably in danger of death and Ur more concerned about Ur girl?

Whoooo! Ok I've finished venting.

U and ur girl need to find a mid point for Urselves where U both can redefine romance as it suits U. I like Ur approach sha. I don't like ur gf very much, Ok maybe I'm not thru venting, Some girls sef ehn,

chrishenzo:
Sometimes my girlfriend will suddenly be unhappy and when I ask her the reason she won't tell me. But few days ago, she opened up. She told me she is comparing me to her ex boyfriend. When I asked her on what bases, she told me how her ex used to wash her clothes for her, cook food for her, do the house cleaning for her, and do the shopping for her, and when she is not happy, the ex will feel unhappy.

I told her that if she is waiting for me to do all that, then she can as well wait for "Thee Kingdom Come" because to me that doesn't mean romantic but slavery.


Am I taking it too far?

U and Ur girl just differ in what U feel is romantic. She went too far comparing U with her ex and expecting U to follow in his shoes. If I were U and I found my girl telling me such, I'd make sure I did everything opposite of what her bf would do and to hell with that relationship. If her ex was perfect why did her become the ex?

Child! Hisss

I think I understand Ur point; however I must say i am displeased u would separate Naija ladies from the rest then castigate them.

The girls that are not satisfied with one man are those that can't differentiate between men and shoes. They want it all and when it appears they can't get it all in one man, even without looking, they fall for any good proposal in anything elsewhere.

As for the men that don't stick to one girl, they sometimes just fear being cheated on so they go on ahead and pour their hearts in bits into many vessels so if one breaks they would still be safe, Kinda like voodoo.

There are other reasons too. These just popped up in my head.

kaysquare:
@onchedu,dat is normal now.even if one is married,,u men will still come to make your advances.do u think dats d cause?bt i dont think i've come across a guy dat can completely replace dis BF of mine,yet i still hav feelings of doubt abt my luv for him

Must U indulge the men that make advances at U? Spyker is on point but I doubt U will listen to him.

Not everyone will be happy at the end of the day even tho everyone can be happy at the end of the day.

But U are Mrs. Hyde. Why should I believe anything U say?

queeneve:
She is in the middle of HER WIFELY DUTIES,

She will be with you shortly,

In the middle is she? Don't tell me Dr. Mrs Jekyll is maried to Mr. Hyde cos being in "the middle" of wifely duties doesnt sound lke what she would consent to.

I guess we'll have to wait for Dr. Mrs. Jekyll to come interpret to her then.

Tell Mrs. Hyde to log off Ur page already.