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Indecision.

Philandering.

Poverty

Over idealizing the institution of marriage.

Fear of failure or making the wrong chioce.

Confusion.

e.t.c

Hmmm,

Maybe it's locked.

U wan kill Urself abi person pikin. Salt shey? U never know wetin salt fit do.

So she feels Ur a better daddy for her baby than the man that she's having the baby with?

Hmmm, This is funny o.

Some of this is gender deceptive. Inspiration to get U into sh*t they didnt tel U bad girls end up in.

Postee, u make sense jor. No mind the rest of us.

Sad as it is it does happen. Not sure if it was always the case for brides to be, but these days it does happen too often for comfort. Makes a guy think: "So who's my girl soliciting sex from where ever she is now sef?"

There are those that don;t anyway but who can tell. We don spoil our selves finish na decay remain.

Phew! Thank goodness it's a woman. That can be handled nicely, especially if she's just curious or experimenting and isnt stoned in the brain to imagine she's a lesbian.

Then U should have been honorable to have waited a lil longer for Miss A or told her U weren't available no more when she returned.

Fear and Faith are cousins. What u fear U will do U most likely will do. What U have faith will happen will happen.

Obviously Ur not busy enough. U myt need to go visit Ur wife after sending the house girl back. Those house girls thingys can be very ambitious U know. Their targets are usually the men in the house. She knows what she's doing.

Call Ur wife now and tell her in detail the things U want to do to her once she gets back and the things U would do to her now if U were there. Don't mice words. That U are miles apart doesnt mean U cant find satisfaction with her. U owe it to ur marriage to let her know what U are going thru. Try that. It should help.

This NL with una problems making people sound like retards! What the heck is womanly now ehn?

MouthAction

Vaginal sex


bottom line: there was sex.

It takes a lot for a woman to go down on a guy sha, that's probably more uncool, but mehn, all na the same thing.

On top of what exactly are we talking about and how come we're talking "Always?"

Al depends on which one U can live with more comfortably. Career women are not so easily impressed and it is good that a man in his natural elements be found impressive by the woman he calls his own.

If I were in ur shoes, I think I'd go for the not so presentable one. She can always be polished. It's a very good sign when a girl laughs a lot around a guy. If Ur that guy, then U myt have it made.

There's no telling who will change for good better or worse. Te career babe myt turn out to find joys in being a woman and a wife and the other one myt just turn out to be more ambitious than U know it.

What women say is not as strong a thing to go by. What they respond to is.

Check Urself and check them too. Who knows, myt not be either of them sef.

Shey na smart man him dey feel like. He has become a victim of his lie. He could always develope a distaste for his women undies fetish and that would be that or he could tell his girl how much he loves seeing a girl in boy shorts, then from there they could share his and he'd still be wearing "female undies."

That's sad.

Adamse, 21st century shey? I wish U luck with Ur mind set on ,arriage as a 2wst century institution.

How much will U pay me to tell U why?

As authoritative as can't sounds, I feel it'l be best to accept first then open dialogue for him to help U see reason why it would be good for Ur relationship for U to not do any formal work, Does he earn enough to keep Ur home with ease? is he asking u to not work at all or to not be formaly employed? what are his reasons for wanting U to not work?

I'm more amused by some of the responses than i am in the postee's quetions.

Dude, while Ur libido myt just be a lot higher than U imagined it is, U really should be working on getting it under control rather than seeking support that probably would encourage U to continue to go with the flow.

Na by force? thank God U realize U are the problem.

Hmmm, Oh my!

Well, it's up to U. I really am not sure of what to tell U but do U feel U can keep a wife U probably would find hard to trust like U should considering the present circumstances?

U probably should listen to Ur friends now. Don't feel like U owe her being stupid cos U wronged her in the past. If she hasn't forgiving U for that or wants to punish U for treating her wrong before then U either let her go, writing her off as not mature enuf ( ) or brace urself for some mud trips.

Why girls assume there is such a thing as a man that can't get a girl because karma has caught up with him amuses me. Old or young, tall or short, thin or fat, wiked or kind, generous or stingy, good or evil, there will always be girls that would want that guy and even more that would think: "I can change him" or "he will change for me."

I'm not in support of the guy that said something like this above, albeit in a very immature and crude manner. I'm just stating reality.

The guy had a way with chics in school and had them as often as this postee wants us to believe, then he still has it in him;

Unless of course he got struck by lightening and now has amnesia as a result of the accident.

Oh yes, U could remove the "mama" from Ur proile name too, let the more mature one's try that. It would suit them better.

1st thing: it's IMPOSSIBLE for a woman to get stranded in any man's house unless of course that's where she wants to be.

2nd thing: I think Ur rather off the smart side, Brothers? BROTHERS

Anyway where U went wrong in the first place was making Ur best friend some other guy instead of the one U are with.

In any case as repulsed I am by Ur level of reasoning and Ur emotional immaturity, I'l leave U with this:

We all get the opportunity to learn sometime.

, Oh yeah, there are more married people in here than I thot too. Hmmm,

Four years is a long time o. Some guys have it in them. others don't.

So he loves her. Does she love him? So he wants her, does she want him?

To me this has more to do with the both of them than with if they are in-laws. They are after-all not related by blood.

I doubt she cares enough about him or want to be with him tho. When people love something their focus is usually more on why it's right and why it can work more than why it could be wrong and why it myt not work.

Her reasons are a warning sign to me sha. I wouldn't think twice about a girl that makes excuses why we myt be incompatible especially when it's more than just a need on her part for reassurance.