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Prettyhurts:
Baby Iphy always reporting #threadbabies
I can now turn from back to tummy, tummy to back.
Move with bum bum to get something
Yesterday I spoilt daddy's calculator mehn, he thought I was joking and gave it to me to use and play so that'll stop disturbing him. I pushed it down and he started calling mummy to come and carry me.
Please don't mind my mummy, I don't play too much oo, I'm just exploring.

thorpido:
She doesn't have a utility bill.Her mom has all the documents.

ifyalways:
She has to convince her mom she's truly changed before she can give her the utility bill.
I frankly do not understand the rush to open a bank account

Rehabilitation first. If anyone wants to urgently give her funds, Tehn is there and can keep the money till a later time when it can be handed over to her. What says Moji won't abuse her mom, leave the house once she gets access to some money now? Are we out to help her for real or we just want to sugar coat things then leave her in worse condition?

Has Moji told us the day she intends to start going to he mom's shop to help or when she's resuming the beauty school and ante natal?

tipsyjules:
I really dnt know what the registration is about na muna explain how I will fully register. .What should I do?

MetroTee:
So I just got a response. It's located in ikoyi and they have music, baby gym, swimming and French classes. The email is so long so can't post here. Basically there are different packages, 1, 2 or 3 sessions per week and you pay per term. Starting from 48k

You can write them for details or I could forward to you if you prefer that- popplagos@gmail.com

sisisioge:
ignoro ti daru!

Pls the comments here are good advice. Don't pay the sheethead, rather forrk him up big time. By the way, he might have the pics copied somewhere so breaking the laptops and electronics ain't enough, let him sign an undertaking with the police.

Summarily, report him to the police. Let them do some legal cleansing there. Then privately fooork him up.

By the way, I hope the scumm is the only one you have to deal with in your wife's past. I never cease to wonder at the nudepics senders stipiidity. Iranu...abacha!

thorpido:
She wants to go and open a bank account this morning.A nairalander wants to help her.
I said she could.I don't think anything is wrong with that abi?

dairykidd:
where can i get one,Vivarium i mean

dexterush:
Hmm thought I was the only one oh,esp now that morality has been thrown to the dogs,someone will just be having high bp thinking of what they are doing.
They only thing is just to pray they abide by the values inculcated into them.

rofemiguwa:
I tot we said november.am eating my last bread n mayo na biko

Loisemm:
@ Onegai , dont misunderstand me o. I support you and others who have chosen to show tough love to the Op. But the key word is willingness. U also realised that yourself in your last post.

If she isn't willing, let her receive money for her and her babies upkeep plus antenatal only. If not, people here trying to help with business, counselling, this and that will only be pouring money down the drain. Her mother is not poor and can cater for her comfortably more than some of us can ever do. It's just because she is not on good terms with her, that's why the Op is for money.

thorpido:
Update.


So familylanders,where do we go from here?

dexterush:
Hmmmm dexterush ke,me that is looking for flesh

GenyEbere:
Here is mine(don't mind the pix quality,just took it now so I won't forget)

Funjosh:
This is one https://www.nairaland.com/1999911/pls-peepshelp-me-out-bad/4

moji26:
my dear sister, onegai, I apologize to u, I'm vry sorry for what I said, bt I said that out of frustration ,I'm sorry sister, pls forgive me,and Tanx for ur concern on me since morning, may God continue to bless you

stadora:
At d bolded, that's where am worried cos he hasn't started eatin other foods. I ve been trying to let him have a taste of other family foods, but he always runs out wen Eva he sees food. People said its because he s still breastfeeding that's y he s rejecting food. Yet now that am stopin d bm, he s still not attracted to food.

I ll try d sippy cup method, but am guesin he ll reject it as usual.
Nnaa eeh, d cry no b here oo, had to succumb as I got scared
I pray we get ova this soon n he starts eating like other babies.
Thanks 4ur response

Jumaii:
I prefer GH based on my experience when i had my LO. I was using both private and GH for my ante natal. Fast forward to 41 weeks, i went for my AN at the private hosp, the gynea checked and said baby and mother are doing fine so i should go home as i still have one week to go before there is any cause for alarm.

My mum followed me that day, she did not even argue. She just told me 'oya let us go to MCC gbaja' .Off we went and when i was checked, the doc said he was not comfy with sounds from my belly or something so i should go for a scan. I went for the scan, took the result back to him, LO's estimated weight was 4.3kg and was already getting weak. The Gynea there and then admitted me and i had already packed my box and put it in the boot. To cut the story short, i was induced very early the next day, i had a very short labour and i had an episiotomy as LO was so big. I almost gave up o, but i was resuscitated. LO was born looking all white and was not breathing, It was after she was tapped/slapped on the bum and her nose was suctioned that she cried out. I was so weak, but looking at my bundle of joy in My arms gave me so much joy that day.

So, that's my own take. For my next LO, i'll still do the same thing. Register at GH and private in case of any emergency.