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FamilyRe: Is Africa Really A Better Place to Raise A Child Than The Western World? by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 6:05pm On Feb 22, 2021
Klass99:
Okay.

@ Topic, I am undecided but something an Arab cabbie in the UK said to a friend has stuck with me.

He said, in all his time of being a cabbie conveying people/families around, he noticed that kids of indians and asians, held on to their cultural values, tend to be respectful and not easily influenced or carried away by the negative aspects of Western culture.

However, when it came to us Africans (he specifically mentioned Nigeria and other African countries) he noticed our kids tend to be disrespectful, eager to embrace the negative aspects of western culture and discard theirs, while the parents seem overwhelmed and at a loss on how best to handle their own kids.

He went on to narrate an interaction between a son and a mother in his cab of Nigerian origins that enraged him and broke his heart at the same time, but he stayed out if it. The boy was being extremely rude to his mother to a point where she became teary and all.

I truly don't know which climate is better for raising kids, but that cabbie's observations was or is food for thought. I like what the person above me (etrange) said particularly in her last sentence
But the Indians in UK don't need to send their kids to India in order for them to be respecful and cultured. They learn it wherever in the world they are. The parents teach by setting example.

I'm sorry but a lot of Nigerian parents behave like children. No self restraint. They always have to show off. Moving from one drama to another, one party to another, yay selfie, learning dance reigning in Nigeria, forming marlian at age 45/50?, must drive mercedes benz, audi or range rover etc because that is what so so and so is driving. Must wear this if not I will feel poor. Consequently they are always working or chasing money. Add to this distractions from having affairs outside marriage that Nigerian couples are slowing getting notorious for, then you are left with kids with no guidance who, if not checked, might end up getting out of control. When this happens, instead of the parents to step back, swallow their pride and engage with the child, they want to fob the child off to Africa for a quick fix of brutality? Jokers.
TV/MoviesRe: Review Of Namaste Wahala: A Nollywood - Bollywood Movie (Photos, Video) by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 5:30pm On Feb 22, 2021
Sleyanya1:
Guy...you just crack me up now grin
grin grin grin
TV/MoviesRe: Review Of Namaste Wahala: A Nollywood - Bollywood Movie (Photos, Video) by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 4:22pm On Feb 22, 2021
Sleyanya1:
cheesy

Hit Or Miss


Like for hit
Share for miss

It's a miss for me sha sad
...Whether e hit

...Whether e miss

...e no affect my bank balance

...the only time e go affect my bank balance na if I watch am

...Whether I go watch am

...Whether I no go watch am

...I no go know unless I get plenty time for hand

...Whether I go get plenty time for hand

...Whether I no go get plenty time for hand

...na until that date reach

..Whether that date go reach

...Whether that date no go reach.............
RomanceRe: What A Man's Babe Sent To Him. Should He Be Worried? by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 1:47pm On Feb 22, 2021
Chicko1995:
grin she has been booked till Saturday.. please pray for a safe trip
...and he should make sure he gets his cut too cool

TravelRe: Pictures Of Air Force Personnel Who Died In The Abuja Plane Crash by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 1:38pm On Feb 22, 2021
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
May their soul rest in peace...they look like real niggarrrrs....rest in peace
For every day we wake we are faced with more than a hundred ways to die
We were born to die And death is only the beginning...

That is why as a real niggarrr I live my life on the fast lane...
Got police chasing me, smoking weed, banging enough pussy, drinking my bottles, bombing and making some dope money
Brah, everyone's fate is different.
TravelRe: Witness: Why We Didn’t Rescue Victims Of Abuja Air Crash by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 1:25pm On Feb 22, 2021
thesicilian:
That's an interesting point of view. Does that mean that all our struggles on this earth are essentially pointless?
Even though I believe that our fates are sealed at birth, no one actually knows what it is. If you believe that you destiny is to be rich, famous, successful, very influencial or game changing, then you will work hard with the full confidence that you will get there irrespective of the magnitude of any setbacks. People like that keep on going till its physically or mentally impossible for them to do so. Remember companies like KFC, Mcdonald, Home Depot were started by people who were above 50 years.
PoliticsRe: 1,525 Nigerians Killed In Six Weeks Of 2021 by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 11:15am On Feb 22, 2021
tsephanyah:
Misleading informations anyways with savages, the weak in body or mind are soon eliminated; and those that survive commonly exhibit a vigorous state of health. We civilised men, on the other hand, do our utmost to check the process of elimination; we build asylums for the slowpoke, the maimed, and the sick; we institute poor-laws; and our medical men exert their utmost skill to save the life of every one to the last moment. There is reason to believe that North has preserved thousands, who from a weak constitution would formerly have succumbed to suicide. Thus the weak members of civilised societies propagate their kind. No one who has attended to the breeding of domestic animals will doubt that this must be highly injurious to the race of man. It is surprising how soon a want of care, or care wrongly directed, leads to the degeneration of a domestic race; but excepting in the case of man himself, hardly any one is so ignorant as to allow his worst animals to breed.

The aid which we feel impelled to give to the helpless is mainly an incidental result of the instinct of sympathy, which was originally acquired as part of the social instincts, but subsequently rendered, in the manner previously indicated, more tender and more widely diffused. Nor could we check our sympathy, if so urged by hard reason, without deterioration in the noblest part of our nature. The surgeon may harden himself whilst performing an operation, for he knows that he is acting for the good of his patient; but if we were intentionally to neglect the weak and helpless, it could only be for a contingent benefit, with a certain and great present evil. Hence we must bear without complaining the undoubtedly bad effects of the weak surviving and propagating their kind; but there appears to be at least one check in steady action, namely the weaker and inferior members of society not marrying so freely as the sound; and this check might be indefinitely increased, though this is more to be hoped for than expected, by the weak in body or mind refraining from marriage.
Hmm.....
TravelRe: Witness: Why We Didn’t Rescue Victims Of Abuja Air Crash by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 10:12am On Feb 22, 2021
thesicilian:
Thankfully it's not your decision to make. Second, their fates were already sealed the moment they died.
Actually our fates are already sealed once we are born.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls Are Awesome... All Of Them (Pictures) by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 10:12pm On Feb 21, 2021
Meedon:
That is what it is. They are good and well mannered. They can cook for Africa. Nigerian girls are the best, when it comes to relationship.


They don't nag, fight or quarrel. They are like angels in the eyes of the beheader. They are very neat ooo.


Brotherly, if you happen to meet one, respect and cherish them. In addition, they are God fearing. They can fear God for Africa, maybe that is why they usually attend Shiloh every year.
Very very true. Especially the ones wein carry yansh like this....

RomanceRe: Now I Understand Why Niggers Are Always Poor. by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 5:59pm On Feb 21, 2021
400billionman:
US has oil in abundance.

US is a well rounded country. Has everything, manpower, brains and resources.

It's European countries block like Germany and Asian tigers like Singapore, who don't have oil. They depend on oil and gas mainly from Russia and other OPEC countries, but they have the best refineries.

While quality of life in Germany and Singapore is comparable to US.
You are very correct. The US is the only potentially self sufficient country in this world. They have the ability to function without importing anything from anywhere.
TravelRe: Military Aircraft, King Air 350 Crashes In Abuja, 6 Passengers Feared Dead by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 2:12pm On Feb 21, 2021
Perfectsouth:
welcome to a country where nothing works..
Where old and outdated equipments are used at the risk of the masses..
So no test was carried out before take off?
Our military still uses outdated arms while ordinary herdsmen uses sophisticated weapon, let's not even talk about boko haram's armory
The Beech King Air 350 is for people who want to make their airplane budget in ink, not pencil. Its rugged design, more than 40 years of heritage and robust systems make the 350 one of the most dependable and predictable turbine airplanes around. The entire King Air fleet has logged an estimated 40 million flight hours since the first one was delivered in 1964, and more than 6,000 have been built.

Nothing wrong with that plane. Probably maintenance issues which may be down to Nigerian factor, but nothing wrong with that plane
PoliticsRe: Fani-Kayode: I Am A Lion That Cannot Be Caged by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 1:06pm On Feb 21, 2021
Odewaleadesoye:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/02/fani-kayode-opens-up-on-defection-i-am-a-lion-that-cannot-be-caged/
L
All these our plenty lion for Nigerian politics. Na only for money matter or sharing of appointment them dey show beast mode.

When it comes to defending the common people or standing up to miscreants.....

RomanceRe: She Told Me She Has Herpes by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 10:06pm On Feb 20, 2021
Ola5TP:
Thank ur self that she told u. Let's wait for our fellow NDs for more details about it. Sit back and relax bro
She was only kidding because you were putting a rush on her. She pushed you awayba few times but you were still coming on to her, so she told you she had herpes.
CelebritiesRe: Veteran Musician, Chris Ajilo Is Dead (Photos) by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 3:59pm On Feb 20, 2021
sammysmiles:
He must be a Local singer
R. I. P
Amongst other things, he produced almost all Steven Osita Osasebe's albums on Polygram Records back in the day when we had labels like EMI, HMV, Decca, CBS etc operating in Nigeria
CelebritiesRe: Veteran Musician, Chris Ajilo Is Dead (Photos) by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 3:55pm On Feb 20, 2021
Queenlovely:
Eko O Gba Gbere
Emi Mimo
Ariwo
Golden Oldies Vol.12011
Ojo Nlo
Orilonise
Iku Eko
Tetede
Ladies Beware
Suzzy
Ariwo
Marvellous Boy2009
Only You

RomanceRe: After Having Sex With My New Boyfriend On Valentine's Day, I Saw This In My Body by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 12:52pm On Feb 20, 2021
benjackugo:
After Having Sex With My New Boyfriend On Valentine's Day, I Saw This In My Body (Photo)

A Nigerian Lady had sex with her new boyfriend on Valentine's Day and days later she discovered maggots in her private part, IgbereTV has learnt.

Jennifer Ijeoma, an Admin in a private Facebook group, shared the news in the group after receiving the news from the original poster.

See the post below.

https://igberetvnews.com/1383059/sex-new-boyfriend-valentines-day-saw-body-photo/

Lalasticlala
Rubbish!
PoliticsRe: Geofrey Onyeama: Benin Republic Ready To Be Nigeria’s ‘37th State’ by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 12:22pm On Feb 20, 2021
GeneralPula:
About 65 of them speaks Yoruba..

But how’s this gonna be possible? France still controls Benin till date. I heard France is still behind how they check and balance everything in Benin...

Benin election is coming soon. I smell another political scam, just to make the yorubas in Benin to vote for him, cuz the man is kinda heartless and they don’t like him..
All we need is the Yoruba part to link up with their kin in Nigeria. No need for unnecessary excess baggage.

PoliticsRe: MC Oluomo's Daughter, Nofisat Akinsanya Becomes A Registered Nurse In US by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 12:10pm On Feb 20, 2021
jaybenugo:
MC Oluomo's Daughter, Nofisat Becomes A Registered Nurse In US State Of Georgia

Nofisat, daughter of Chairman of the Lagos state chapter of the National Union of Road Transport Workers, MC Oluomo, has become a registered nurse in US state of Georgia, IgbereTV reports.

Nofisat who revealed that she passed her National Council Licensure Examination (NCLEX) with the minimal number of questions, said her support system was always there even though she was freaking out.

She wrote on her Instagram handle;

"Allow me to Reintroduce Myself....

Ms. Nofisat Akinsanya, BSN, RN. I’m officially a Registered Nurse in the states of Georgia. I passed my NCLEX with the Minimal Number of questions and even though I was freaking out; my support system did not back out once.. Will be working at Northside and I can’t wait to begin this journey

According to Cardi B “My careers taking off, these hoes jogging in place”"

https://www.instagram.com/p/CLfJLvEnG6B/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
It's commendable that she took up a humble profession. I know it pays well in USA when you put in the hours, but it still remains a profession where you have to humble yourself to get the best out of it. And she's pretty too. I wouldn't let my views about her dad influence what I think.

Congratulations.
PoliticsRe: Kagara: Sheik Gumi Meets Kidnappers Of Niger Students And Teachers (Photos) by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 11:04am On Feb 19, 2021
contigiency:
Is it not better they sanitize our area for us. The ESN you are saying did not touch anybody, killed scores of soldiers. And mind you if they are not checked now, they will eventually turn worse than these bandits.
I can't disagree with you here. But why can't they do the same with these bandits and kidnappers in the North who are casually doing 100s times much worse just for money. Why??
PoliticsRe: Orji Kalu: I Spoke All Night With Governor Wike; We Need Him In APC by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 9:40am On Feb 19, 2021
I'm sure most of you commenting here want the Ipob Slayer to join APC but you don't want the move to be credited to a Igbo. Nothing to make the Jews feel relevant in this APC.
RomanceRe: How Married Guys In Akwa Ibom Are Constantly Tempted By Sexy Single Ladies(Pics) by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 2:57pm On Feb 18, 2021
DissTroy:
More sexually liberal? Erm, well... Paedophilia? Generally frowned upon.

The Ibibios aren't as liberal as the media would like you to believe. Relatively conservative. But the Oros/Orons? Extremely sexually liberal with sex. And, no, no Oro/Oron person should argue this with me 'cause I'd mention names and the terms the call this heightened promiscuity. Generally, folks from other tribes are warned from getting serious with Oro/Oron girls 'cause of their promiscuity.

They have an euphemistic way of terming it: it's called "ulo". The Ibibio or Annang translation of that word would be "Udor", which would mean "friend". But for the Oros, it's a mild way of saying "my sexual partner" or "sex mate", even with married women. And they are more closely related to the Efiks too. While sweeping generalizations are wrong, my asssertion holds true in this case.
Yeah you're correct. Although I didn't want to go splitting hairs but I understand Orons are more culturally related to Efiks than Ibibios/Annang.
RomanceRe: Searching For A Wife Material (photo) by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 1:13pm On Feb 18, 2021
mosdii:
For Your Information, Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them
I like useless females. Very easy to deceive and fvck, married or unmarried. Therefore I don't see a problem here.

RomanceRe: How Married Guys In Akwa Ibom Are Constantly Tempted By Sexy Single Ladies(Pics) by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 11:16am On Feb 18, 2021
Anigreat:
shocked




I really dont know why when they talked about sex , Akwa Ibom and Edo state leads. That's nonsense stereotyping; there's no place in this world were people are not having obsession about sex. Akwa Ibom love sex that much, and the population there is yet to beat that of northern , western or eastern Nigeria.

And there's this picture they tend to paint about Akwa Ibom girls, they make it looks like it is very easy to bed them..like they are cheap, and they love sex too much...this is the greatest lies of all time. Yes! there loose girls there, just like we have in other tribes, but that doesn't make you used one or two loose girls you met to judge all the girls there, it doesn't make sense infact it makes you sound or look stupid.

enyak mien mba ke emem mbok
You are correct to an extent, but let me tell me what I observed. Akwa Ibom men sexualize the girls there when they are very young. As soon as girl don grow small, the older guys go begin knack them. Dem no dey even let them grow. So you will see a 13 or 14 year old girls already very sexually active. Add to this the fact that Akwa Ibom girls, especially Ibibio from my experience, are quite attractive (dem carry better yansh/bobby), feisty (they speak their mind and say it as it is - no fronting), bold (them get mind well well), physically strong and intelligent. You then end up with an attractive young lady who is very confident, strong with a healthy sexual appetite. What is wrong with that? Do Akwa Ibom girls do ashawo more than Urhobo, Igbo or Ebira? Also from my personal experience, I observed that Akwa Ibom people in general are quite "liberal" in certain aspects compared to their neighbours.

The myth about sexual prowess of "Calabar" women, whom people often confuse with Akwa Ibom women, stems from the ancient Calabar fattening room tradition where prospective brides where sent off to be fattened (so that yansh and laps go big grin) in preparation for marriage. From what I understand, these women were also taught how to cook sumptuous dishes and exotic ways on how to sexually please their man, hence the anecdotal line about a Calabar woman whose husband comes back from work and she'll ask him if he's hungry for food or s3x? I would imagine that such traditions have long since disappeared and it was the Efiks and not Ibibios who did this. However most people will just generally refer to everyone from that area as "Calabar". Even Davido in song was singing "I go Calabar, go see Godswill Akpabio..."
RomanceRe: How Married Guys In Akwa Ibom Are Constantly Tempted By Sexy Single Ladies(Pics) by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 9:13am On Feb 18, 2021
angelfallz:
How do I know that those 4 girls are from Akwa Ibom?
The first and last are Nigerian girls. The others are not Nigerian.
TravelRe: What Should I Know As A Nigerian Before Immigrating To The UK? by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 7:56pm On Feb 17, 2021
Futureukstudent:
aswear....I was literally lost in my imagination cheesy cheesy
grin grin grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: / by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 7:53pm On Feb 17, 2021
StacyO:
Sorry, gentlemen in the building.

Please what is the meaning of those words in asterisks down below??








Man: Please na

Woman: NO.






Man:


**I want to put the tip,just the tip**

**No,it will not enter too much,you will not even feel it**

**Okay,I'll just rub it around**

**It will not hurt you,I'll be gentle**

**Please na,just the tip**






Please,we don't understand all this foreign Languages.


Is it Latin or Spanish??
And what's the reason behind saying all those things cause, it's getting annoying already (Yes, barbarian languages we don't understand usually annoy us).




Honest and insightful answers please.




Thank you.
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RomanceRe: Help!!! My Crush Found Gay Men Photos On My Phone by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 7:43pm On Feb 17, 2021
northvietnam:
Can we see the photos she saw before we can comment
GAY ALERT

TravelRe: What Should I Know As A Nigerian Before Immigrating To The UK? by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 7:08pm On Feb 17, 2021
eastOFwest:
Now back to reality:

3 bedroom house for sale, £350000, East Ham, London E6 ( poorest area of London, yet most young people in London aren't earning enough to afford a mortgage for this property ) :
Na real back to reality grin
Christianity EtcRe: Apostle Johnson Suleman: In COVID I Bought My Third Private Jet (Video) by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 4:50pm On Feb 17, 2021
LifestyleTonite:
In COVID I Bought My Third Private Jet - Apostle Johnson Suleman

Says he doesn't want COVID to end.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QsA3_p_ozgA&feature=youtu.be
Get thee behind me o yea crude purveyor of deceptive miracles.

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