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gbemishile:
A Nigerian lady on Twitter, CrystabelKelsey narrates how she almost gave her life to Christ on her way to see a man.
CrystabelKelsey had ordered a Taxify to go see her man, unfortunately for her, the driver was very spiritual and played Igbo worship songs that broke her to tears.
She was worshiping God, crying and sniffing, and couldn’t continue her trip to see her man.
The Taxify driver took her back home at her request. She alighted, went inside her room, and kept praying.
After she was satisfied with her soul, and the way she prayed ceaselessly, she stood up.
Without wanting anything to distract her movement, she got dressed again and still ordered another ride to see her man the same day.
What Do You Think About This?
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saphiere:
Not so. She's a product of the marine world. Ancestors have no hands in her madness. This might become a trend later.

Xenry:
I found this picture confusing, is the person in it a boy or a girl?

Bornsinner7:
Does the pussy print out Kuwait dinar?

Ctorch:
Man shares photo of his bride price list that includes 10k for father-in-law cigarette, sparks reactions.

The list which was divided into two sections had the sum of N10,000 earmarked for father-in-law cigarette.

The bride price list, from the image he posted, was divided into two parts. One had items for the father-in-law and the second for the mother-in-law.

Some interesting items and their price tags as seen on both sections included N10,000 for father-in-law cigarette, a table for counting money at N15,000, a knife at N20,000, opening of the house at N50,000. All totalled over a million naira.

Taking to Twitter, the Abuja based logo and graphics designer with the handle @ekibyleo shared a photo of the list as he lamented saying:



https://twitter.com/ekibyleo/status/1369358235111657480?s=19[/quote]Lol! Them go soon begin add ashawo money for bride price list too

bloggerblogger2:
YOU MAY AGREE OR DISAGREE.

A 100K monthly salary earner in Nigeria is better than a 400K monthly salary earner in the United States.

The luxury lifestyles some of us live here with 100K, cannot sustain us a day over there. We can’t try such in US and save a dim.

Some of our annual rent here is weekly/ monthly rent over there. Can you pay over 100K naira monthly house rent with 400K monthly salary here in Nigeria? You can’t do that, but you don’t have a choice over there. You pay or kicked out of the house.

Some of our people over there are becoming wiser now. They don’t mind sleeping on the streets, work for at least 5-10yrs, move back to Nigeria with their savings. You cannot survive with 100M living comfortably a year over there. Tax go finish you up. But you can live large with 100M for 5yrs or more here in Nigeria depends on your lifestyles tho.

You don’t pay unnecessary tax here. But in foreign countries you pay almost everything.
In naija you can own 10 cars..not in the United States because you pay for packing space for each car. You get the point now?

Some of our people in diaspora, once they earn $10K in a month or so, depends on the job, they’d send $9K down to their Nigeria account and keep $1K for their upkeep. Some would buy lands and build houses for rent or some other businesses.
If you don’t do that, you’d work all your life and come back with nothing. Those of you on this method are wise. But becareful of the people you send your money to here. Trust no one! Get a trustworthy lawyer involved.

U can make unnecessary noise or play loud music here. You can’t try such over there and not find yourself in police cell.

So you see….We are privileged here. We only need to get bad political leaders off the way. By getting involved in politics, national, state, LGA and community affairs. That’s how American youth you admire, do.

They don’t just fold hands, wailing and waiting for a miracle. They debate, disagree, challenge, involved and create. You get the point now?

Bhams:
In Nigeria, English Language is not our native language; it's not a bad thing if you don't always speak it correctly.The bad thing is if you don't always strive to learn the correct way of speaking the language.Here are some of those grammatical errors:

1.Incorrect: Gabriel, while you're coming back from school,branch at Emeka's shop.He'll give you something.
Correct:Gabriel, while you're coming back from school, call at Emeka's shop.He'll give you something.
2.Incorrect:Jessica, did you cook the stew?
Correct: Jessica, did you cook the sauce?
3.Incorrect:Tell her to dispose that food.
Correct:Tell her to dispose of that food.
4.Incorrect:It was her that fell the blackboard.
Correct: It was she that fell the blackboard.
5.Incorrect:We saw much shoes in the room.
Correct: We saw many shoes in the room.
Note:"Much" is used with uncountable nouns, while "many" is used with countable nouns.
6.Incorrect: It's alright.Everything will be fine
Correct: It's all right.Everything will be fine.
7.Incorrect: Bryan, why don't you go and toast that girl.It seems you like her. (welcome, toasting machine)
Correct: Bryan, why don't you go and woo that girl.It seems you like her.
8.Incorrect: He is a stranger, he came to see our parents.
Correct: He is a visitor, he came to see our parents.
9.Incorrect: You came in time.
Correct: You came eventually.
10.Incorrect:This task will need an hour.
Correct:This task will take an hour.
See the complete list here:
http:///s32631e87210308en_ng?link=1
Don't forget to the list.
Challenge:Submit a list of 10 such incorrect statements.
Let's see the winner.

OfficialR:
I was looking for different story books for my children then I found this (not my picture)
I don't know what to say but I wonder... Is this even right?

Kriss216:
This Harry is just a SIMP.le guy!


How can you abandon royalty and your family for an over used kpekus that left her 4 year marriage?

The love of a woman taste as wine and last only for a while, but, the love of a family last forever!

YoungLionken:
Leaders should lead by examples..

The man was part of the exercise too,so what's the childish jabs for??

ameh99:
It's just a mind game ..

When ever a girl does that she simply want to see your reaction and gets you jealous to know if you really love her
She's just srewing with your mind..

The guy she will really fall for and later bang will not be brought to your notice..

IlufoyeOlamife:
Mr Man, as long as you are not yet married to her I don't see any wrong in she telling you about guys crushing in her.....infact if you are a lady in a serious relationship and nobody is asking you out, something is wrong with you....
single ladies most have at least a new toaster every week, then an average lady should have two, den a beautiful lady will get one everyday...
For your girlfrnd to tell you about guys crushing on her or even asking her out is not a bad idea, what if she no tell you....
Even some married woman still dey get toasters, the only thing is that they don't exchange numbers...so my guy stay calm, your babe na ur babe, after she no like you u can't force her to stay

IYANGBALI:
Olympus has fallen.

DontSuckToto:
Women with this kind of long nails, how do they do house chores and even to wash their toto?

That is why I'm an advocate of no sucking of toto

#DontSuckToto

damiloladuke:
A lady has taken to social media to narrate how she found out that her mother was her sister.

In her narration in a video which has since gone viral, the lady spoke on how her 'sister' was sexually assaulted by their father when she was just 10 years old.

According to her, when her elder sister turned 18, she left the house and after some years apart, her sister was able to locate her on social media.

She got in touch and they linked up, that was when the sister told her that when she was very little their dad took advantage of her, she became pregnant and gave birth to the lady who they all refer to as her sister.

After knowing the truth about her real mother, she then confronted her parents and they said it was kept a secret in order not to embarrass the family because they have some traditional values which needed to be upheld.

However, she then asked for permission to go stay with her older sister, when she was allowed, she and her sister then did DNA test and it was confirmed that she was the mum.

On getting the confirmation, they reported the case to the police and her their dad was arrested and jailed.

Watch the video below:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tFfCOAtECrs

https://lailasnews.com/lady-narrates-how-she-found-out-her-elder-sister-is-her-mother-video/

Drealflex:
dating.

mantosa:
source: https://tushmagazine.com.ng/7-women-working-behind-the-scenes-contributing-to-the-growth-of-nigerian-music/

Drealflex:
please what do you advice can be done. I’m in this boat

OnlyDeCapPlease:
Every man's worst nightmare in the UK. He should try these guys. He has nothing to lose.

https://www.fathers-4-justice.org/contact-us/

If somehow he can raise money, these guys specialise in cases for men

https://cordellcordell.co.uk/

ASUNDER:
My friend is currently going through a divorce in the UK and having a hell of a time. His wife mounted as many allegations on him as possible during separation - domestic violence, marital rape, child abuse, drugs and alcohol use, adultery, forgery just to name a few. He had to leave the house. He has moved to a room in a shared house and now even struggling to pay the rent. He does not see his kids anymore (not by choice). He is very broke and in debt because of all that is going on. He can no longer afford a lawyer. He feels so powerless, helpless and hopeless that he cannot fight most of what his wife is putting him through in court. He represents himself these days.

He has stopped looking after himself and is always looking sad . He also lost his job due to his arrest and all the drama. He was arrested because he tried to go see his kids at his former home and his wife called the police that she was afraid of him and that he had come to harass her. Police arrested him even without any traces of any harassment. Note that he moved out of the family house voluntarily thinking that the period of separation would ease tension between him and his wife.

I always feel sad seeing him in this state and just wish that he could recover and bounce back. He is considering moving back to Nigeria.

Have you gone through divorce in the UK or do you know anyone who has? What was the experience and what advice would you give someone going through this?

Thank you.

Seniorwriter:
So how will multiple divorce help better her life! SMH

Proactivity Leads To Productivity!!!
@Seniorwriter

Lyrics269:
My friend went to this job interview in Lagos and after passing through all the steps. The manager told him that his results were good but that they don't employ Igbo people in the organization because of the [b]nasty experience [/b]they once had with an igbo employee. My friend was shocked and very depressed.
Have you ever lost a job because of your tribe

Seniorwriter:
Ladies are one complex creation...they hardly know what they want early in life.
They all have weird desires.
Tell a lady to describe her kind of man and u'll be shocked the qualities can't be of this world.
Anyways if you are a lady try prioritize your desires.
BTW if financially independence is key to having the right partner around you then in future you might start to crave for the most important thing in a marraige relationship which is companionship!!!!

Proactivity Leads To Productivity!!!
@Seniorwriter

Racoon:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/03/breaking-oil-price-hits-71-28-on-opec-decision/amp/

79733139:
Maybe I oversimplified things, I don't live in Canada or UK and I am a guy... so I definitely see things differently.

Tizzz78:
We started dating last year December, we are cool with each other, we try as much as possible to avoid quarrels.. I noticed something about my girl, everytime she meets a new guy, she tells me about it whenever we chat or talk on phone..

Pls just kind of curious, what could b my girl motive to always tell me about every new guy that meets her and exchange contacts with her..

Any bashing is welcomed, na normal vibes for here as long as I get ur opinions..

Zzor:
Should a man who claims to love you demand sex just because he felt he has spent so much on you?Is this enough reason to completely write him off?

Liposure:
For me, Love is better expressed than professed.

79733139:
Most of them didn't develop their social skills. They basically don't know how to make friends and they don't know how to approach (and take rejections) the opposite sex.

In Nigeria, their social life was structured and for guys, money might have played a big issue in dating. However, in western countries, you need to be proactive about your social life and having money doesn't give you a big edge when it comes to dating.

We also have Nigerian females who believe women shouldn't try and approach a guy to spark his interest.