Okay!! why is everyone mad at Neo for requesting that the poor boy call him ? u guys are not in his mind and what he is up to, can u guys just chill a little pls, he might be able to help the poor guy out .

Yes am a girl, but would not advice my brother to marry such, tho i would be happy for the lady that she no longer do such. men with all the diseases, no way

Between those two, Osuofia is thw best.l can't stand Mr lbu, the guy is annoying .MUMU of the highest order

What you don't know would not hurt you, but then again like Rhodalyn said she could be doing her own thang on d side.

my dear just go to Sally's store and get urself an eyelid shaper that will help you out , that is if they have it around your neck of the woods .

ok, l would love to know somebody that resides in Abuja, l do go to Naija every year but heck i do nnot know any body there.

l think Abuja was designed to be built like that right from the start so there's no way lagos will ever be like Abuja.

l need to post ma pic here , so how do i go about it?

ok guys , the topic of spousal snooping is once again being brought up just like when i asked a if it's ok to confront or collect evidence to which most ppl did reply to. okay my thing is that most people do things for a reason. in thatt line of thinking, most people snoop because they suspect their mate is up to no good. l sincerely doubt that your girlfriend would have been checking your phone, if she didn't think that something was going on.

Ofcourse men do it all the time why not women.

Absolutely wiseguy. lf confidence is the key to finding a partner, then compromise is critcal once you have one.

l do by all means trust my instinicts, but then i don't let my suspicions get the best of me.ok in a situation where you direct your concerns without outright accusing your mate but at the same time feel that something just doesn't feel right . is it ok then to snoop? even though your mate has attempted to quell your concerns.

Confront Or Collect?

Assuming you suspect that your mate is not being completely honest with you about cheating, spending habits or any other action that is not in line with maintaining a positive, successful relationship, should you confront him or her straight away or try to 'collect' evidence and then take action? what do ya'll think.

ina aju nkita na nsi obu gi ga eriya.
asawa akwa agadi nwayi, agasputa nsi.
otu anya ji onye isii ugwo.

:lol guys are sooo funny in here. l can't stop laughing .

l will open a state of the art Restaurant that will have club, show girls and a whole lotta things. oh yeah Buffet style

ocho in regards to what said , am sure most of us fall somewhere between those two extremes. people say that you don't really know someone untill you live together and l sure believe it's true.


Ok another question: WHAT MAKES A PERSON MESSY OR NEAT?
Do you think how aperson is raised determines a large part of how messy or clean he or she will be as an adult?

Blabla it's up to you to decide .weigh the options urselve.Nigeria is not all that horrible like you said. l know a whole bunch of Nigerians here who would like to go but can't because they don't have anything to show  for having being in the states for a long time.Just listen to your heart.

seun you are right in that you know u are a slob, lol okay i bet we all know people that obsess over keeping things pristine at all times. my friend was a superduper messy slob , but do keep things clean but not tidy nor organized. l have found my self cleaning after him so many times after nagging , suggestions and hints to clean sure enough it does fall on deaf ear.

l totally agree with everybody but then it sure depends on why and how we broke up. for instance how about a guy who has been cheating on you with your best friend and at the same time has been a liar , nah i don't think i want to see this person again , much more in communication with him.

ln a grand scheme of relationship issues, it may seem though a pile of dirty dishes or a room full of clutter are not important. However, conflict over mess can often put a serious strain on a relationship. Do you guys agree with me? and if so would you leave or significant other because he or she is a messy slobb or a neat freak?

Confidence it's what we all want when we set out on a date, so we enjoy ourselves without worrying about height, blushing, stammering or even sweating. just be urself and give the girl a chance and let her decide whether you are short or not for her.

Expalin urself some more pls. third party in regards to what ?

Nahh i won't cancel the wedding , but guess what after saying l do all hell wil break loose.

you're too good for me!!!

Translation: he is a dog, and he knows it. l think if a man tells you he's not worthwhile, he's probably right.

JosBoy you just have to tell them the truth about your situation i.e being a student.cos most of the time we don't let them know what is really going on here . So just be upfront about it nad hopefully they will understand.

ok! Have you ever wondered what guys are really thinking when they toss these hackneyed breakup lines?

it's not you.it's me,l need some space, it's crazy time at work,so i can't have a relationship now. . for me l think when they say it's not you but it's me ,what he is implying is that you are not his taste. so what do ya'll think. ok ya'll can toss some of those breakup lines.

gabng it looks like there is NO TRUST in that relationship in the first place. so let it go.because if u don't trust her what the heck are you 2 doing?

shee why would you do dat ?? kiss her or him when you know she's got the cough thing going, Nahhh i would not do that.

True to dat Hotstepper, but then the church is where u get your soul fed and all dat . i think it'
s a good ground to sound such alarm for ppl to abstain from adultery and sort.

And again i would not vouch for them girls in Naija, not all of them sha , majority of them can do anything  for money .