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FamilyRe: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by openmine(m): 9:22pm On May 24, 2020
EgunMogaji2:
Hold the press.

“ Why not tell them on this forum how you use to beat your wife black and blue in Nigeria. Why not tell them on this forum how the police has arrested you on various occasion in Nigeria for beating up your wife. Remember to also let people hailing you on this forum know how you have a case with the human rights commission back home over your senseless beatings and abuse.”

If this is true, which I have no way of telling, but why would she then still move to U.K. with her alleged abuser?
Excellent question!
EducationRe: WAEC Result 2019 Statistics: Females Outshine Males by openmine(m): 7:33pm On May 24, 2020
MarieSucre:
Lol, i have a doctorate degree in stupidity
Really?
Nice one!
cheesy

FamilyRe: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by openmine(m): 2:52pm On May 24, 2020
Luckymama:
God bless you real good sir. Your kind of man is rare. At Oga OP with the Jezebel wife. Check yourself by yourself. Can you honestly say you treated your wife like this gentleman?

Instead of exercising genuine headship and leadership in the home by [/b] building your wife up emotionally and psychologically [b] you were busy doing gragra.

Thank God you have gotten rid of this Jezebel wife you have. When you marry the perfect abroad angel, please continue doing gragra with her Nigerian style. You will always get the result of what you sow.
OP has extensively explained 'ad infinitum' that he never maltreated or did anything wrong to the wife while also conceding that he is no saint!
You are fruitlessly trying to look for a way of blaming the OP for the wife's godawful behaviour!
You have this programmed belief system that there is no way the wife would have acted the way she did without the influence of OP!
There are people who have showered love and care on their loved ones,yet they got the reverse!
RomanceRe: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by openmine(m): 11:19pm On May 22, 2020
Johnnydboy:
Alpha simp like you..... Listing ur qualifications for just woman as if say na job u dey find.........u might be jobless sef... Who knows?....... Be a man for once jare
cheesy cheesy

RomanceRe: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by openmine(m): 2:02am On May 22, 2020
Tripitaka:
"I told him to"
"I want him to"
"I warned him not to"
"I advised him to"
"He wouldn't listen to me" and all the other stuffs.

It appears to me that you are foisting your opinion, choices and wishes on your partner. You want him to live his life your way, pursue his dreams following your chart and run his race with you as guide. Perhaps you want to be the Kapellmeister while you lead the orchestra that is his life.

If he were to follow your advise and it backfires or doesnt yield the expected fruit, who would take responsibility? There is something some of us do not acknowledge which is that not everyone wants to be wealthy, some people just want to be successful at what they do, some people just want to lead a simple and fulfilled life.

I also find your intentions questionable. Do you have all those "nice thoughts" for him because you love and wish him well, or because you want him wealthy enough to marry you next year and give you "the life"? Its a shame that you say you're not proud of someone ou claim to love and painting him as some loser.

There comes a time in the life of a man when he wants to do things his own way, steer his own ship, make his own mistakes and celebrate his own little victories.

I would have asked you to talk to him, but I believe you guys have talked about this over and over. So, the choice is yours to walk or stay
Superb!

RomanceRe: I Accessed My Gilfriend's Phone, Now I Can't Walk. Help! by openmine(m): 1:17am On May 22, 2020
Dearlord:
We worry ourselves so much over a useless issue.
We should learn to give no Bleep to any mother fucker.
We are born alone and so shall we die alone.
We should make ourselves happy by ourselves all the time.
Stressing ourselves over the right things or the right partner is a mare mirage.

Let us learn to be strong to face and change any choice we make without breaching the pillars of our longetivities

RomanceRe: I Accessed My Gilfriend's Phone, Now I Can't Walk. Help! by openmine(m): 10:35pm On May 21, 2020
Irabor1990:
Na wa oo..with all these that is happening dis days, shey person go see husband marry like dis so since one or two babe don turn almost all guys to indabosky bahose
cheesy cheesy

RomanceRe: I Accessed My Gilfriend's Phone, Now I Can't Walk. Help! by openmine(m): 10:27pm On May 21, 2020
Exc2000:
cool


Stop having unrealistic expectation on a lady you haven't engaged or married, infidelity and cheating is only for married people after saying their vows, or engaged couples who had made there intentions clear..

relationship these days is like shareholders company, its who controls the highest stake in a kpekus that is the main guy while others are side niggars, even as you are getting angry be certain that many fvckers are in her facebook and instagram DM trying their luck to gain the opportunity to slack the pvssy

So kindly also toast more girls, go on dates, have fun and have side chicks, option A, option b and Option C in another state or location, this way you can also enjoy your life without too much worries and wouldn't be going to buy pad and cooking cat fish over Vagina that is cheaply available to everyone this days even teenagers

In your 20s you are supposed to explore all your options and browse every available kpekus so that you can settle for the best, your girlfriend already knows the drill, na you still dey slack

.
Marriage does not stop cheating!
A cheat in a relationship will do worse once they are married!
RomanceRe: I Accessed My Gilfriend's Phone, Now I Can't Walk. Help! by openmine(m): 10:09pm On May 21, 2020
@OP.....Learn to have less expectations about people and you will never be disappointed! cool cool
FamilyRe: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by openmine(m): 5:10pm On May 21, 2020
Greatzeus:
You could just drive there with your Lamborghini,end of discussion grin
grin grin grin grin

NYSCRe: Guys, Don't Ever Date A Lady Going For NYSC. See Why. by openmine(m): 9:24am On May 21, 2020
grin cheesy
FamilyRe: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by openmine(m): 5:51pm On May 20, 2020
Still remember a facebook status where a lady advised and persuaded her sister to dump her struggling bf and marry a rich guy who stays abroad...after many years,the then bf is still struggling to find his feet while her sister is enjoying her marriage and recently welcomed a new born baby in the family!

Its well...
Back to this discus....if the ex was still at his former level,would she have blamed hubby?
RomanceRe: How I Discovered My Girlfriend Has Been Cheating: Pics Included by openmine(m): 12:17am On May 20, 2020
DonMekino:
ppl condemning op for three years rship as time wasting are daft, dumb, immature and hypocrites....if she feels her time is being wasted, let her take a walk...or did the other guy propose to her?? Let us learn to condemn that which is evil. If she feels op is taking too long, then get the hell out, but from the chats I see, it's all about love-peddling, because this other guy will use "heads" to keep her down for more years.
Oga oversense will not kill you smiley

RomanceRe: How I Discovered My Girlfriend Has Been Cheating: Pics Included by openmine(m): 12:16am On May 20, 2020
Babyforever:
Since she came to your apartment has she cheated on you ? I guess the answer is NO you see she's just like a baby under your care put somebody to watch her for you when she goes back and delete the guys contact invite her over and over again if possible give her head too since that's what is taking her outside that way the love will grow ooo nna
What??
shocked shocked shocked shocked

FamilyRe: I Was A Husband: My Experience by openmine(m): 10:26am On May 19, 2020
9 Two people are better than one. When two people work together, they get more work done.

10 If one person falls, the other person can reach out to help. But those who are alone when they fall have no one to help them.

11 If two people sleep together, they will be warm. But a person sleeping alone will not be warm.
If a lady were to abandon or leave her hubby,due to his present inability to provide for his family,and then marries another man who happens to be comfortable and rich,what would she do if hard times also fall on her second hubby just like her first?
SportsRe: Eto'o Dismisses Diouf And Drogba Claims To Be Greatest Ever African Player by openmine(m): 4:13am On May 19, 2020
principalgee:
Eto'o is far better than Drogba and Diouf.
The only African player than won UCL back to back for different clubs and even scored at both finals.
Barcelona and Inter-Milan.
Samuel Eto'o Olanrewaju, RESPECT!
Etoo never scored in the finals for inter milan against Bayern Munich!

The two goals were scored by Diego Milito, in the 35th and 70th minutes. Milito's first was scored following a long clearance by Inter goalkeeper Júlio César flicked down by Milito to Wesley Sneijder, who returned the pass to Milito to score. Milito's second goal came after he collected a pass from Samuel Eto'o and beat Daniel Van Buyten with the ball.
FamilyRe: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by openmine(m): 9:09pm On May 18, 2020
slyfox35:
He’s a human being like you and me,I don’t think ethnicity has anything to do with the heart of man
Exactly!

EducationRe: WAEC Result 2019 Statistics: Females Outshine Males by openmine(m): 9:03pm On May 17, 2020
MarieSucre:


i am Trash.
Ohh the glorified schmuck just strolled in....i really missed our 'steamy' conversations! kiss kiss
Whatsup dearie? tongue tongue
HealthRe: Madagascar Records First Coronavirus Death by openmine(m): 7:04pm On May 17, 2020
Stephenomozzy:
See honest people!

They could have lied just to keep promoting their remedy.. But they came out straight.
Exactly!
Oversense will not kill you! cool cool

Christianity EtcRe: Aggressive, Violent, Cool, Calm, Which Is The Best Way To Pray As A Christian? by openmine(m):
adadike:
It depends. If you are under witch craft or demonic attack, my brother , forget calmness. Demons and witches are like violent mad people , if you don't show them you are more dangerous and violent, nna, forget , you are already a gonner.
cheesy cheesy
Its your relationship and faith in God that matters not your prayer VOLUME!
Most believers become so aggressive while praying because of fear just like what you have already said....
Most Believers subconsciously 'elevate' the power of the demons....hence indirectly and erroneously equating their powers to that of God!

Fear is the most powerful weapon the devil uses against believers!
When a believer is afraid,the devil is already 80% in control of that person's subconscious no matter the person's prayer volume!
Is it not surprising that most people who pray aggressively and apparently in a violent fashion are still the ones who get attacked easily by the devil?

When Jesus and his disciples faced the storm,Jesus simply and calmly said "peace be still"!
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by openmine(m): 11:27pm On May 15, 2020
davosea:
grin thruth be told man,you need a sledge hammer on your skull
grin grin grin

SportsRe: Lionel Messi's New Look As He Resumes Training (Photos) by openmine(m): 12:47pm On May 13, 2020
CeCeEkol:
please someone should enlighten me here-- why is he called a GOAT?
Greatest

Of

All

Time
SportsRe: Wenger Picks Kanu As His Greatest-ever Arsenal January Signing by openmine(m): 11:27pm On May 12, 2020
Staphylococcus:
Wenger can use 10 million to buy 11 players

Dude is a descendant of Ijebu
grin grin

SportsRe: Wenger Picks Kanu As His Greatest-ever Arsenal January Signing by openmine(m): 11:20pm On May 12, 2020
tareigns:
Papilo....one of the few Nigerians that stayed in England for over a decade and his accent didn't change. Unlike some people that will travel to Ghana and they will miraculously have an accent like James bond.
grin grin

SportsRe: Wenger Picks Kanu As His Greatest-ever Arsenal January Signing by openmine(m): 11:09pm On May 12, 2020
The jersey those days looked like agbada ohh grin grin grin

RomanceRe: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by openmine(m): 10:43pm On May 12, 2020
Doyou2019:
I don't blame the dolts judging and making fun of hm; I blame him for seeking validation from a forum overflowing with the vile and caustic.
Exactly!
RomanceRe: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by openmine(m):
lol....its never too late to get married and raise your own children!
Some folks here who are complaining of OP's inability and low level of agility to train his future kids @ his 40s should say that to a couple that married at their late 20s but could not bear a child until they were in their late 40s....!
What is important right now is for OP to settle down with a good partner and every other thing will fall into its rightful place!
Its totally wrong to discard anyone due to their age...No one can dictate or predict other people's timeline using their age!
TravelRe: Bayelsa Intercepts Two Busload Of Almajiris by openmine(m): 9:15am On May 12, 2020
commercial fishing expedition kor grin
Una never start grin

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