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I said -10 not 10 but who knows it might be colder where you are

Where are you buying your wool coats please. I lived in chicago for more than 10 years and have been in Ohio about 5 years now. I wear wool coats every single winter. I stay warm and toasty. Invest in a good quality wool coat and you will not be cold. It's as simple as that. My wool coat has kept me warm in -10 degree weather so I am qualified to say they work

I love my winter coats. I dry clean my coats but the winter white one lost its shape a little bit when I dry cleaned it earlier this year. It still looks good but not as structured as it used to. I love the feel and look of a wool coat. Wool will last if you treat it well. My burnt orange pea coat is about 4 years old now.

It is her real hair. I even saw her showing Chris Rock. I too was shocked to find out that it was all hers but she has the money to make gold grow out of her scalp if she chooses. It is not infusion. I have done that and you cannot play with it the way she was with Chris Rock and not be able to tell

For me it has to be wool. I have a burnt orange peacoat, a long black maxi coat, a blue knee length coat and a winter white knee length with a belt and they are all WOOL. Never thought about it though but I just realized that my winter coats are probably the most expensive clothing I have

It was some weird reaction to headache medicine

It makes no sense. The man is a murderer. The woman is a fool and the children not very smart either

Sorry to hear about your baby JoanPaul. You will have many more. I will send that link in a few

email it to me at lovecherishme@yahoo.com

ROTFLMAO. I ran into my uncles tummy once and it was actually hard. I don't even know how that is possible

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Oh I actually remember once in springfield, illinois at the grocery store when I wanted to pay for my groceries she actually asked me if I was paying with LINK which is basically foodstamps. LOL.

Not directly as far as I can tell

A lot of it comes from people not having these things before and when the opportunity comes for them to have something they over do it.

Actually I do and it is more like a tshirt with the girdle built in. So a banker for example can wear it under his shirt to work. LOL though because your thought was exactly mine when I first saw the ones for men. I thought about our pot bellied politicians

I actually sell them. I can send you a link to my website if you give me your email. There are other girdles but this one is made specifically for post partum

This works wonders. If you need one let me know. It is better than tying as you can wear it under your clothes with any outfit. The first couple of weeks after birth is critical unless of course you are so blessed and don't need to tie or wear a girdle. First pregnancies usually go back to almost normal if not normal. Second pregnancies are a different issue especially if you get pregnant again almost right away

I understand or should I say understood where the original poster is coming from.

Benedict you need to repent. Stop pulling out the scriptures that benefit your selfish and wicked ideas. The same Bible you quote says that faith without works is dead. If she likes let her pray with sack cloth and ashes from now till tomorrow. She needs to take action or her faith is completely useless. If a man is hitting her then a trial separation is the way to go. The same God that is powerful enough to answer her prayers in that house will answer it even if she is in an igloo in Antarctica.
Most men who kill their wives do not plan it out. In a fit of rage they hit her and she falls just the right way and dies or they punch her in the head and a few hours later she is dead. You have the mentality of someone that is very capable of inflicting injury on a woman. I am married so do not think that you can pick on me like you are picking on Aisha because you assumed she is not married. You do not have to be married to have common sense

She should get $200,000,000 sef. Ibinabo killed her husband because she chose to drive drunk and it does not matter if Ibinabo is in jail already. This is a CIVIL suit and she is jail for a criminal offense. Two completely different things. The man was paying for his children's education and they were schooling in the UK. He was the SOLE bread winner. She denied the children their father and the woman her husband. She threw their lives in total chaos but went ahead to keep partying and doing her thing. Meanwhile this woman was left to pick up the pieces. I cannot believe that a woman is on here saying that the victim is shameless. While you are busy calling her shameless why don't you dedicate even 20% of yor paycheck to help her meet her bills so we know that you are better than her. Mscheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

there is virtually nothing you cannot make with a sari. My Indian friend bought me a very expensive sari when he went home to India and my little sister made a dress out of it (without my permission of course) but it was lovely.

HELL NO. Unless he has been in a coma for the last 20 years. Also what man with any kind of pride would tell a woman that he gets paid at so so and os date. He can fix the date and take the girl. She does not need to know the color of his mothers pant before their first date. Sounds like a loser to me

[quote author=tpia. link=topic=337691.msg4735939#msg4735939 date=1255574849]its quite glaring and I wonder why you dont see it.

Do you want her to call her boyfriend on you before you leave her alone.[/quote]Gosh you are wicked

I think you just want reassurance but what you need to hear is that she has moved on and so should you. Ignoring you around her family says to me that she does not even want her people to know that she is serious with you. Going back to Lagos without you pretty much says Bleep off. You are only 26. You will find someone else to love

Aloy where you not saying in the other thread that having women and children all over the place was okay since he is African. This clearly shows that it is just a lack of discipline. A man that should be celebrated for his greatness is now being seen as a dead beat dad who did not even know all his children. What is honourable about that. May his soul rest in peace.

benedictac:
@ Poster, I feel for u but dont pity u. Dont pity urself or allow anyone to pity u in this case or in any other.

Pls dont allow divorce or take any advice for it, it is never the best option. I will advice to bring Jesus into your life and home. I've learnt one thing in life and that is, You must make Jesus the head of your home and not a guest.

My dear, concentrate on your job, pray more often and leave the rest for God to solve. Then check on your characters and see if u are that virtuous woman the bible spoke about in Prov. 31. Be very patient at the end u will laugh and smile.


i know some of these advice will be difficult, but pls try and do them and u will see the results

1. when he comes back late dont ask him about his outing, just wellcome and give him food,

2. Avoid getting into agurment with him

3. tell him he is the best thing that has ever happened to you always.

3. learn to say you are sorry even if you are not at fault.

4. Swallow your anger to let peace reign.

I know many others will post to confuse pls dont be confused. Do what ever is right in the sight of God to keep your marriage.

If u could stand b4 your families, his families, friends and even enemies to say "I DO" then keep to your word.

the bible says "The wise woman builds her home, but the foolish one pulls it down with her own hands".

FAIL

The bolded point are ridiculous to say the least. He is not the best thing that happened to her when he is a complete idiot. Why should she lie about that. He needs to know that he is hurting her. He has NO RIGHT to go out and come as he pleases. He has to answer to her as she also does to him. Why should she treat her husband like he is mentally handicapped when he is not. The husband should even feel insulted by your suggestions. The man is an ass and he needs to know that. She needs to stop crying and let him know that his behavior will not be tolerated. When he goes and catches a disease and comes back home you will recommend prayer and fasting for a situation she could have avoided by simply refusing to have sex with his ass. We do not seize to have common sense because we are Christians.

The only way I would not hit back is if the first punch knocked me unconscious. I would not advice it though as a man mad enough to hit you could kill you. Dial 911 and fast and pray that he gets locked up with someone that beats him black and blue.

Jennifer hudson's husbands father is 100% Kenyan and his mother is white so he most likely is not Nigerian

LOL. I was about to say the same thing. Nigeria is in depression

Nijasingh:
You can get all types of Nigerian Churches, BUT MOST are indeed very good and are more wellcoming and supportive of their members compared to the typical church in the western world. They are what a church should really be about--supporting its membership and all who come to it. In fact African churches are much more closer to the true christian doctrine compared to others. There are a few that are simply commercial ventures.

I cannot speak for the whole of africa but for Nigerian churches I can clearly say that most of them are what I call modern day pharisees. It is not the all inclusive doctrine that Jesus taught. When people used to tell me about how Nigerians talk I used to go here they come again until I joined my church. I don't want to say much because even the Pastor has suffered in the hands of "christian" folks because he is a different tribe. When you throw other people in the mix then maybe Nigerians will not feel like it is their space and start to make the usual trouble they enjoy making with each other. It is a different feel I get in my sisters church where there are nigerian, ghanaian and american pastors.