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You need to tell her. I think it would be horrible for her to hear it from someone else. The best scenario in my opinion is that you and her dad (your husband) sit her down together and tell her.

TEAM ANISTON

In my opinion she is sexier that Jolie but you are right it was probably mostly white american men that were polled

Let's just be happy that the government is recognizing that this is a national stigma. Of course we know that Yerima is still screwing a baby as we speak and we know that most of them are forcing their house maids to have sex but at least they thought about this and that is commendable

She is mentally unstable. She and her husband. It is the children I feel sorry for

I wish them well

Jesus. Is she alive and why is she left lying on the floor. OP what did you do when you saw a human being in such bad shape. paparazzi. You are taking pictures instead of rushing her to the hospital

This child can die if that hand is not treated. The hand is clearly infected. I hope they get him on antibiotics right away

I see absolutely nothing wrong with saying Nigerian American. I consider myself a Nigerian American. For people who say their parents are NIgerian and they are not I am not sure why you would say they are lost. Not everybody identifies with Nigeria. It used to irritate me to hear that but I realize that everyone has a different upbringing.
As for the OP don't be too hasty in your decision. As you can see the Nigerians here in the states already have a problem with you saying Nigerian American. Your mother is American and yet you will be labeled simply because you choose to embrace that part of your history. We wise with your decision

OP how are you doing?

smh

Wow see transferred anger. You people should go have a talk with yourselves and find out why you are so angry. These people did nothing to you. Your anger is not their issue. Go work on yourselves.

LMAO @ husband snatcher

Odunnu:
I have several reasons to visit hospitals most especially to see the sick. I've come across a lot of incompetence even in our hospitals amongst Doctors and nurses. I have seen a young boy who was to take two shots of injection after 2hrs of the first, they gave him the first, dropped the syringe in the thrash and then the nurse remembered she would give the boy another shot later, you know what she did? she went back to the thrash and picked an assumed syringe used on the boy amongst others (a syringe costs less than N30) and kept on the table awaiting the boy. I was MAAAAAAAAAAAAADDD that day. Since i didnt kill that day, I bet i'll never commit murder in my life. So since then, i'm always wary of them health personnels.
In your case, going before hand and asking nicely if the items were sterilised might help, most times, the doctors dont even know if they are clean and just use as they are placed for them. Maybe you should get to know the theater head is and make friends with him/her

This is why I like to stay to myself in Nigeria. Imagine if I saw something like that. I might feed that witch the syringe. Someobody has to be cursed to pull some sh111t like that

Sometimes the system just goes overboard. I would like to see how this plays out. There might be more to it. Maybe the boy said something sexually suggestive

Seems like Ojukwu was attracted to bright and intelligent women. Sad to hear that the family pressured him to marry again. Probably because she was a divorcee and her first son was from someone else.

God will help them. Everybody deserves to be treated with respect and dignity

To be honest I believe that infidelity can be worked through if the offender is contrite but I cannot judge you as I have not been in that situation in my marriage. I had an ex cheat on me and I moved on with no problem. I know it is totally different in marriage but still you have to give it time. Even if it takes forever. Don't sit on it. If you need to vent about it then do so. The other part of moving on from infidelity is the offender understanding that he has to work to restore the broken trust and regain that respect that came from a heart of trust. I honestly cannot even imagine what I would do. I might castrate him so I cannot come here and tell you to get over it when I know that I might not be as diplomatic

Does he go to school? What state do you live

What is that about. The man comes across as an agbaya though

Things are about to get nasty for him. His best bet is to focus all him anger on his game. He will not win in a court of law.

chaircover:
Don't they talk at home? 

Only God knows how many marriages have broken up because of this facebook wahala.

Wahala

This is sad. Are you here in the US. How old is the child. If the child is 3 or older then he should have an IEP by now. The parents cannot say that they are ignorant of what his issues are. I have dealt with african parents of kids with disabilities and I think it will be better for me to reserve my comments. I think you have a responsibility to say something. How you say it though is important to the outcome you want. i will even go as far as saying that if they do not start trying to help the child you report it to the school district. Maybe they can reach out

This is not unusally for many married succesful muslim women in my part of the country. To me these polygamous marriages are just so the woman can wear her badge of "married woman" and then continue with her life. The husband does whatever the heck he want but still counts her among the numbers as his wife. This is sad. I like to read about successful Etsako women because there are just not that many. May her soul rest in peace