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And this rascal is supposed to be a born again Christian, kwo? He better go n face his job n his constituency. Instead of pursuing development in Ekiti it's Buhari that's his focus. GEJ needs to call him to order.....his utterances will surely impart on GEJ's rating.....the ant dancing on water.......
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Op, why would u do d nasty in your baby's presence? A 6 month old baby is very aware of his surrounding, don't u know. If u live in one room apartment, pls hold body till baby falls asleep. Biko nu.
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For sure, I abhor death wish on another human being......that's unhealthy politicking, But in Nigeria, throwing insults at d opposition is rampart in both PDP n APC. It's bad, no doubt, but that's our way here. People, myself inclusive, call GEJ clueless, drunkard, inept so if u can dish it, u should be able to take it too! But no death wish pls!
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Op, falling in love is an emotional issue and can be triggered by many things...physical attributes, intelligence, character traits, mannerisms, etc. it may as simple as d sound of her voice and sometimes d reason may be difficult to decipher. So chatting online with someone for long periods, discussing certain topics plus the tone of d convos can elicit feelings akin to love. Also d status pix may even be d trigger. So yes, it's possible to fall in love without having physically met d object of your attraction.
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berekete86:
Dear Op, i've read the responses so far, but remember what works for one will not work for the other.....so ill advise you to chill...there are some ladies that will do everything and the guy will not still marry them, as for me, i never did anything for dh, infact, he wouldnt allow me touch anything even if i offered, and he still married me, because of the immense love he had for me. Now after marriage, whenever he sees me working, cooking, he always has this surprised look on his face, he says he didnt know i could do all these, when im making plenty delicacies for him ehn......so my dear, who wants to marry you will still marry you abeg! Dat guy no be your husband...fullstop.

Thank yoouuu! Some people were just attacking me, forgetting its different strokes for different folks! As if housework is d only prerequisite for marriage. Wife material ko, lace material ni.
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Hmmm see attacks on my post oh
Well, if u like, slave for a bf, that's not a guarantee that he will marry u. There are other noble qualities some men look for in a "wife material". Not all men are slave drivers.....mine isn't, anyway. Eat your hearts out!
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Well spoken BRF. Forgive d drunk....he was already high on his usual stuff at that mtg.
He wants to "free" lagosians but can't free d chibok girls from BH bondage. Gaskins ni!
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Op, don't mind d guy....he's just lookg for excuses n subtly lettg u know yr stand ......he won't marry u.....period!
Any man keen on marrying u will be happy pampering u, not complaining abt everything!
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Op u try
But why is that guy in orange holding d bouquet. Is he d bride?
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Nor mind d yeye boy...his mouth na basket naa....it must leak
Abeg let's free him, I'm sure he meant it as a joke but Nigerians' nerves are so wired up in this perilous times that it takes little to set them off.....what with elections delaying, prices rising, naira falling, insecurity mounting, nothing working. God help us!
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This is one issue I disagree with in my church. Catholic frowns at (preaches against) any form of contraceptive. But I think it's more practical to use a condom than bring children into d world that u can't adequately cater for. Yes yes yes I know about abstinence but in reality which husband n wife fit hold body.....sleeping in d same bed, rolling over, bodies touching.....every night, not so? Those s.e.xu.al tensions must find an outlet that won't result in unwanted pregnancy abeg.
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No naa....that can't happen, unless the wife is a crazed ashiii. No matter what d MIL does, it's best to ignore her, though some of them deserve to be thrown out with their bitchiness n cruelty. But hey, we still need to respect their age.
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Op what's your point.....She still looks pretty to me. Every woman in her industry tushes up....don't u know!
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I was at The Palms and he was an unwelcome distraction...imagine him interrupting my special moment with my boo...who does that
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Tinubu has Buhari on a string like he did Nuhu in 2011. That crackhead is tryna rubbish their candidate albeit subtly.
So which debate will they be comfortable to participate in now? Too many excuses for an ordinary debate....haba!
I smell fear, low self esteem, and dishonesty!
Let Buhari go for the one an NGO is organizing for women candidates on Wednesday then
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May his soul RIP. One of Nigeria's silent majority contributing their quota without making noise ...unlike some people.
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9ijaprince:
what am i seeing on the table there,a sachet milo?

So? No bi rural bauchi dem dey? The hotel(?) try sef wey den get beverage at all.....some serve only kunu ooo
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Enjoy d ride while it lasts lady! Console yourself well with "insisting he takes care of his madam"........u silly thing.
Don't worry, all side chicks eventually fall by d roadside. You will cry blood when he dumps your worthless a.ss
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What a boring "debate". This is just a Q&A naa....no punchlines, no interaction, so dull unmotivating....arggghh. The prepared questions were handed down to d panel, even their follow up questions were very lack luster.
I expected the debaters to take each other on....at least be allowed to ask each other questions? Why was there no audience participation..read questions from social media, etc?
In summary NEDG should rebrand that so called debate or scrap it...waste of my precious time.
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Many were born with bronze spoons naa.....Burna boy, dr Sid, Tiwa, dbanj, etc
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Abike bike....MC extraordinaire....she's trying sha, going everywhere for d rallies. I really enjoyed yest Lagos rally....it was da bomb! If only APC fielded a likeable controversy free candidate!
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Yeah....love is beautiful and blind and sometimes dumb. Yet "better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all"
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Nedg, ait, channels, whoever n however, Buhari must participate in A debate. Undecided voters like me need to hear from d horses' mouths. In 2011, I was like d Judas in my family when I constantly refused to support d shoeless drunk, against all manner of sentiments n armtwisting. When he chickened out of d first debate I had my weapon to stand my ground against my family. Of course when he debated with himself, it further alienated him from me....I even gained one or two converts to my side then......that's d power of d debates. I wanna hear GEJ n Buhari in a debate....APC make it happen oh
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Op, all I see is low self esteem. By d way which class of girls are u moving with?
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An. May God never ever allow this dopehead crook get to Aso rock! The SW state funds are no longer enough for him or what? Anyway I know he can never get northern votes....we don't know him nor care for him here! He has a hidden agenda in pushing for ?Buhari to get to power but he will be pleasantly surprised with how d tides will turn against him. What sacrifice is he yarning sef?
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Oh, I just love afang soup.....I eat it with everything. But op, u forgot to add isam? I prefer d big isam tho!
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So d drunk put shame aside n went soliciting support from his erstwhile public enemy number one? See life.....be nice to people u meet as u climb up d ladder, they will be the ones to catch u if u fall!
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Did Mark say GEJ is d "best man".....is it for his 16th wedding ceremony or what? I just detest sycophants n lapdogs
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Op, na u sabi. Just give her d money n forget nomenclature, biko!

Reminds me of one time at Macy's, I saw a girl I used to know very well in Nigeria. Because I couldn't keep up with how fast she was walking, I shouted out her name Silifa, Silifa. She turned and instead of d joyous greeting I was expecting, she gave me a proper eye-down and with a furious scowl, she berated me for yelling out her native name. I was shocked as that was d only name I knew her with. I apologized n asked for her name and she said Sophia. How can? Sophia....for a Muslim girl? How did Silifa turn to Sophia naa? Na wa for Naija peeps, abeg.
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Op I don't understand u? If u knew your neighbour had molested u as a child, didn't u realise that u had lost your virginity as such? Why did u then hide that encounter from yr hubby n allow him think he's marrying a virgin? Virginity is purely a physical thing...once d hymen is broken, any which way, then u are no more a virgin! U may still be regarded as innocent though.
Anyway it's never too late to explain to your hubby...whether he believes u is another kettle of fish. This may even destroy d trust in your marriage n u will have to work hard to regain his trust. Good luck!
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If we follow d bible passage where Jesus said if u lust after a woman (man) in your heart u have already committed adultery, then we all have cheated at least once!
On a serious note, it's easy for anyone to cheat....there will always be a reason and one reason is as good as the next. And I do believe men cheat more. But cheating is so wrong.....if u can't resolve yr differences then pls end d relationship.
Cheating in a marriage is more difficult to resolve......in our clime it's not easy to walk away just because of infidelity.
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Arsenate:
and you are spot on.

Thanks. When we count losses we normally neglect emotional n psychological losses which in some cases are very profound!