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Misogynist2014:
Marriage is not a prison sentence, in fact she's gonna have a better life than you can ever dream of having.

And where are Sanusi's daughters of same age.....I bet they are in school not enjoying d "better life" that your muumuu self is alluding to. Odesco!

Poor woman...RIP. But why didn't GEJ fly her abroad for treatment like he n Patience do?
And why is GEJ losing his family members every year since he assumed office? I'm not superstitious but....
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Op, there's really no excuse for infidelity! Your gf is not really into u. And that guy is not a friend, if all he does is "comfort" your baby anytime u two quarrel....hmmmmm. U are taking a very big risk living in d same house with those two.....they may plot your exit so be wise n evict them. U must either break off with both of them or with one of them....d choice is yours but u can only have one of them or none of them.
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I just hate this abuse of young children (17yrs is a child under d law) by their so called Muslim faith. If u must marry 4 wives, must u snatch a child from her cradle? Is it even a must to marry 4 wives, whether or not u can afford to? I know some rich Muslims who didn't make that number, so they won't get to their heaven, kwo?
I admire SLS professionally but I'm so disgusted at his choice of bride.
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Op, u shouldn't do some of those things even when u are married. What are peeps thinking making these n.u.de tapes n pix anyway? ? It's also wise to protect your pin/pwd....it's not everything u want yr spouse to see....and there's nothing sinister behind that motive
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Op, since there's no bloodline btw d couple, that fraternal, brotherly or sisterly feeling shouldn't manifest. What a long term relationship does is to sizzle out d heady uncontrollable passions n longings in d affair and leave them with a matured kinda love that promotes a rational, enduring and engaging union, trust and understanding that usually transcend s.ex.ual indulgences. This doesn't diminish d desire/longing for each other, rather it enriches d exercise....d gratification is in d intimacy rather than d penetration.
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Thank God for our Catholic Priests.....they don't ask u for your full month's salary, under any guise. Even your tithe can be paid in cash or kind. My own bible even says the "FIRST of your first fruits", not everything oh!
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Pikin wey say im mama no go sleep.......
Better to be tied down than missing oh!
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Op, people express themselves in different ways. A shy guy would normally express himself in writing so texting your feelings does not turn a girl off. From your post, I will concur that it's not good to wear your emotions on your sleeves or over-express yourself, always give your partner some space and don't show all your cards at once. Keep her guessing and wishing and panting!
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Notwithstanding d op's extract, I love d prose of his write-up. I don't know d guy so won't dwell on his 2014 year-in-review case-by-case narration
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I know d op said "assuming..", but Domestic violence is NOT to be encouraged under any guise....I'm concerned by some of the responses here and we just never know who is behind d keyboard. Abusers usually will latch unto any opportunity to unleash their violent streaks.
A slap will usually graduate into a punch then a shot and voila..... a dead mate/spouse
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Oh really. I didn't notice it last night with d way she performed at d cross over party at Boat club.
Congrats n safe delivery!
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Some men never learn! This one has chased after money unto death! I only pity his family, as for him, he knew d risks he was taking so may God receive his soul! Such a shame!
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dammytosh:
Change is Jimi Agbaje. We need another group of people to look at all the things done since 1999.

Jimi Agbaje for Gov

Buhari for president.

No need for sentiment.

That's where I'm leaning towards.....though Buhari still scares me but I'd rather vote him than that ogogoro master.
We in CWO are campaigning for Jimi, our brother
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I drove along that road......It's more beautiful when u see it....so heartwarming to behold!
BRF.......our President-iin-waiting!
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4 or 5 more years of GEJ ke.....blood of Jesus! More drunkenness, cluelessness and incompetence......Holy Ghost fire!
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It beats me why a party with no national or even regional spread will be wasting its time efforts and resources to field a presidential candidate. Prudence dictates that u vie for posts u have even d slimmest chance of winning. I believe a serious political party should weigh its strengths n devote its energies towards vying for n winning positions within its political reach. Otherwise it's sheer tomfoolery!
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A 1-day private trip? It must be for a sinister purpose otherwise why weren't we told d reason. What's so important n urgent to warrant such short turnaround trip. Hmmm Jonah, what are u up to?
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My Igbo brethren can be funny atimes.... They say Charity begins at home. The day I see the first non-Igbo elected as whatever in an Igbo state, then I will gladly vote for d next Igbo man/woman in my state. Until then, every man, every tribe to their own state oh. So if other tribes resident in ?Lagos also clamour for inclusion, how many positions will remain for d Yorubas themselves?
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Oh Wow! That must be so embarrassing! Hope she wasn't exposed or hurt. Ndoo Yeni......u pretty lady.
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Sultan well said....I hope a fatwa won't be taken out for your life? As far as I know, BH claims they are doing their allah's will by attempting to Islamize d country, exterminate all infidels and impose sharia rule. I am inclined to believe what they say is their mission than to believe d Sultan who is not a member of d sect, or is he?
I am still waiting for d Sultan to organize a mega anti-BH rally with all prominent Islamic leaders, alfas, almajiris and Muslim faithfuls in attendance, that's my charge to him.
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And who approved those building plans without toilet facilities? Fayose better look inwards towards his ministries n agencies first before issuing empty threats. Who will even help him to enforce the laws.....d same workers u haven't paid their salaries since September abi? Ok oh.
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Why are guys so touchy about women taking money from them.....how much are we talking about here sef? Taxi fare, recharge card.....all this talk for chicken change
I know ladies doling out real cash to their bfs n they are happy!
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Hmmm this is precisely my reason for not wishing to vote for this Buhari. The man is a religious bigot......picking a pastor as VP is just a ploy to pull d wool over some gullible people's eyes. Even if he makes such promises, I don't trust him. I believe he will ensure Nigeria becomes a member of all Islamic organizations in d world. Abeg ooo.....I need unfettered freedom to practise my faith.
He's also known to be very partial so issues that will get his priority attention will be those that are Islam/Muslim based.
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Good tidings to everyone who impacted my life one way or d other this year, either I know u or not. To those who keep my heart warm at all times, to those who look up to me for advice n direction, to those whose criticisms keep pushing me higher n higher and esp to those who don't wish me well yet can't help but witness d abiding grace of God in my life.
To ALL I say Merry Christmas and May Christ renew His spirit within u! Let go n let God.....enjoy!
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Well Omo sexy has a valid point but I believe both parties should be punished....I mean d tempter n d adulterer. The bible says What God had joined together, let no man (or woman) put asunder.....this includes d couple themselves...this is why d Catholic Church does not allow divorce. Sometime it's even d husband or wife that goes around chasing others so why jail only d third party?
But for those small small girls chasing their father's n grandpa's agemate, stalking d man, bombarding him with obscene pix n text msgs, those ones should do jail time.
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Op, of all our human senses, it's our eyes that elicit d most attraction....meaning we (both men n women) are primarily moved by what we see. However while a man goes gaga at d sight of B-B-Bs and all reasoning may fail him as his adrenaline pumps up, a woman, though excited by what she sees has d innate capability to restrain herself n control her emotions n reactions. That's d simple difference.
To me looks are shallow, only skin deep so glancing at a handsome man may not attract me to him. But a humorous well-mannered well-dressed man would definitely catch my fancy. As I usually say there's no general rule....different strokes for different folks.
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BRF is still working to keep lagosians happy during this festive period. From tonight d bar beach area will come alive with lots of music, entertainment, food n drinks all day everyday till d New Year. Catch your favorite artists n celebrities as they make an appearance on stage to wow d crowd of fun seekers. Don't be left out!
Who amongst Ambode n Agbaje et al will continue BRF's legacy in Lagos state?....that's d man I want to vote for
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Girl, whatever a guy is doing when u met him, he will probably continue doing, u may not be able to change him. Habits die hard!
On d car issue, since u have talked about it n he persists, it's either he's not that into u so he can disrespect u OR he's d type of man who values his friends more than his gf. U have only 2 choices......continue condoning his hurtful habits or leave him.
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Op what about shows, concerts etc for adults esp?