Foreign Affairs › Re: African Militaries/ Security Services Strictly Photos Only And Videos Thread by Patented: 12:45pm On May 09, 2020 |
Fineman87: You will not hear anything from me. I can name weapons in the Army that nobody has ever heard of. And you yourself will tremble. So just chill.
Unfortunately, there is no info but someone once dropped a hint. No source no date. I can type too |
Foreign Affairs › Re: African Militaries/ Security Services Strictly Photos Only And Videos Thread by Patented: 12:42pm On May 09, 2020 |
QuietMynd: Augagust reincarnated Was trying to remember that name |
Foreign Affairs › Re: African Militaries/ Security Services Strictly Photos Only And Videos Thread by Patented: 7:08pm On May 08, 2020*. Modified: 7:51am On May 10, 2020 |
They din't lose all those wars to the poisoning of the Nile. Also you have to consistently poison the Nile for ages and right all their allies. Even Israel go find u come |
Foreign Affairs › Re: African Militaries/ Security Services Strictly Photos Only And Videos Thread by Patented: 7:02pm On May 08, 2020 |
Fineman87: Egypt has lost wars to the- UK, Israel, Saudi Arabia, France, Morocco, Ethiopia, etc.
Me, I don't follow "theoretical rankings". The antecedents say otherwise. In contrast, Ethiopia & Nigeria have never lost a war. Abeg how many peer wars has Nigeria fought oooo? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: African Militaries/ Security Services Strictly Photos Only And Videos Thread by Patented: 1:15pm On May 08, 2020 |
Fineman87: Details of SSM, AShM, SAM, etc are no longer for public consumption. Satisfy yourself that Nigerian Navy is well armed and is expanding its capabilities every year. We need not show you proof.
We can show you our ships, but not the high calibre ammunition they fire. At least u can offer some form of proof or explanation of how you know? Or are u merely assuming |
Foreign Affairs › Re: African Militaries/ Security Services Strictly Photos Only And Videos Thread by Patented: 1:01pm On May 08, 2020 |
Generally when you make assertions you should provide some sort of proof. Pictures or a link to a reliable or even unreliable source.
Been reading and wondering when there would be proof of the missile capability of the NN. |
Christianity Etc › Re: God Will Punish Those Who Wear Perfumes And Deodorants’ – Born Again Christian by Patented: 1:11pm On May 07, 2020 |
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Health › Re: COVID-19: Flour Mills Of Nigeria Distributes 35,000 Test Kits To Kano, 14 States by Patented: 10:36am On May 07, 2020 |
benedictac: Good one from them but they should bring down the price of flour Biko. From #9400 to #11500 haba na and them say make we nor add money to bread � No be them increase price of Flour na the middle men, distributors and ki. Na we dey do ourselves |
Food › Re: Picture Of A Big Snake I Almost Caught At My Backyard by Patented: 8:25pm On May 06, 2020 |
U for try post am for twitter, make people finish u. Liar! |
Romance › Re: Difficulty In Getting Over My Ex Who Happens To Be My Colleague At Work. by Patented: 8:21pm On May 06, 2020 |
Pele. Look for another Job. Till then u will just have to endure and work on Ur emotions. She is trying to get to u, don't let her and don't try to get to her to |
Investment › Re: If The USA Is The World Power Why Is The UK Pound Stronger Than The US dollar? by Patented: 10:46am On May 03, 2020 |
Because value of the currency does not necessarily reflect the size of the economy among many other reasons. There are many other indices to consider, military might for instance. |
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Crime › Re: BREAKING: Fishermen Capture And Butcher A Basilosaurus In Bonny Island (PHOTOS) by Patented: 1:29pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
First it's a whale. 2 Nd it washed ashore dead, 3rd whales are not fish.
Third, get Ur facts straight |
Crime › Re: Street War, One Million Boys Gang Snatched Army Patrol Van In Lagos (VIDEO) by Patented: 7:03pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Lie! Video is from last week or the week before |
Romance › Re: Fear Women!!!! by Patented: 2:20pm On Apr 19, 2020 |
If u ask am now e go talk say na only em mama and sisters and future daughters different. Be careful when u make general statements |
Romance › Re: A Married Man Is Wooing My Girlfriend by Patented: 12:09pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Find his wife |
Business › Re: Trademark Registration Needed by Patented: 9:31am On Apr 18, 2020 |
Moralgladiator: I want to register a logo design ASAP,who can be of direct help in getting that done? Pm me |
Family › Re: Can We Still Enjoy Marriage After Premarital Sex? by Patented: 10:00pm On Apr 16, 2020 |
Sounds like you think sex is all that happens in marriage DT is worthwhile |
Romance › Re: Is It Good To Marry Out Of Pity?please I Need Your Opinions by Patented: 7:58am On Apr 16, 2020 |
The pity will not last |
Crime › Re: Woman Pours Pepper Into Her Maid's Private Part & Eyes In Ebonyi by Patented: 7:53am On Apr 16, 2020 |
" She sought permission form the auntie" this part weak me. They should just allow the girl to do the same to the woman. |
TV/Movies › Re: THE WITCHER- A Thread by Patented: 5:00pm On Mar 23, 2020 |
Unfortunate: And my fear is it has only season One for now. The movie is quite interesting It was reasonably successful I believe so a season 2 should be expected |
TV/Movies › Re: THE WITCHER- A Thread by Patented: 3:38pm On Mar 23, 2020 |
Hmmmm!! Keep watching all shall be made clear by the end of season 1 |
Politics › Re: Senator Bima Enagi Introduces Bill To Ban Generators; 10-year Jail For Seller by Patented: 4:17pm On Mar 11, 2020*. Modified: 6:22pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
the Twatt does not realise that Nigeria is powered by generators |
Agriculture › Re: Aquarium Fishes And Pump by Patented: 8:54pm On Mar 09, 2020 |
ceny6: Please am trying to set up an aquarium and I need assistance to where I can buy attractive fishes to put in my aquarium and also buy water pump. Who can help me? I'm in Lagos There is a guy in Ikeja GRA......08035277772 |
Health › Re: The Centipede I Killed In my Room. I Am Scared by Patented: 10:56am On Mar 09, 2020 |
fumigate |
Health › Re: Coronavirus. What Is Your Take On This? by Patented: 8:52pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
The paragraph just before was a miss. |
Family › Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by Patented: 8:50pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Apostle must hear this. |
Health › Re: Pimples/bumps At The Lower Back Of The Head by Patented: 3:06pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
Try Damatol |
Family › Re: My Wife Of 3 Years Is Very Shy Around Me by Patented: 2:00pm On Feb 29, 2020 |
I still dey find d problem ooooo. Accept the woman she is Bervelyhillz: This is a bit long but please bear with me.
I’ve been married to my amazingly beautiful wife for 3 years. The problem is she is very shy around me but at the same time seems to try to secretly please me constantly. It leaves me feeling guilty and I’m not sure of what to do next.
Backstory:
I met her through my mom. My MIL and my mom are childhood friends who grew up together. I never met her at the time since I lived in the US while She was in Nigeria. When I was 20 I saw her in a family friend’s wedding album. I was floored and my eyes were watering. She was the most attractive girl I had ever seen.
I figured out her FB and messaged her since I didn't want to initiate contact through our moms. I struck up a conversation. I soon realized that my mom fed info about me to my MIL which in turn got fed to her , so she already knew a fair bit about me. We chatted constantly, met up on my vacation to Nigeria , and hung out together every day. I learn she is still a virgin saving herself for marriage. I was still one too, mostly because A) I was chubby most of my life and didn't dare go near girls in that state and B) when I did start getting more fit, I already fell in love with her and it felt wrong dating at the same time. So yeah we had that in common.
Skipping ahead again to three years ago when I graduated from grad school. We met up a handful of times more, and things were awesome. She was outgoing with me, giggling over almost nothing and general silliness. We never did anything sexual, but we were intimate enough and honestly seeing her gave me goosebumps, so it wasn't on my mind. On one visit to Nigeria, she brought up the topic of marriage in a joking manner, something about how our mom's always planned it. I jokingly replied that I would be happy to marry her, then she got all serious and asked if I was for real. I said yes and, well, the rest is history.
The problem:
We had our wedding in Nigeria and, after the papers got sorted, she moved to the US to live with me. The first few months were interesting. She knows English pretty well and she majored in her native language, so she looked for translation jobs. She never got replies from employers, so I was getting a little suspicious, especially since she was an honors student at a pretty high ranking international university. I found out that she wasn't actually sending the applications out. I bring this up gently with her, and she starts tearing a bit telling me she wants to be a stay at home wife and that she didn't think I would be proud of her if she didn't get a real job. She says she was going to tell me soon, which I believe because I found a recent word document in our computer that was basically a draft of the speech she was going to give me. I don't mind her staying at home as I bring in enough money for the both of us and she is a really good cook.
This prompted me to sit down with her and figure out where our communication is breaking down. After a bunch of long discussions about this, I felt we were on the same page. She was still growing more timid around me and didn't start conversations easily with me, but she always seemed happy. I stepped up my displays of affection, showering her with compliments, hugs, and kisses. I would often catch her staring at me (usually while we ate), to which she would get red-faced and look away quickly. It’s been 3 years now and still does the smiling stare, except now she doesn’t look away when I catch her. The conversation starting has gotten a bit better, but nowhere near pre-marriage. While she always had this quiet peacefulness to her, I noticed she is intentionally not doing things that might get me worked up. Examples being: discussing politics (we have the same views), discussing my work problems, discussing anything philosophical in nature, etc. She will respond if I start, but she doesn’t take the initiative like before. I really miss that.
The sex is...interesting? As I said before, I didn't have any prior experience so I can't judge her, but she just lays on the bed and doesn’t move until I suggest to. She never initiates but never declines. I try to make it about her more often than not, but if I’m looking for feedback she quietly agrees with whatever I'm doing. After we finish, she lays in the same position looking at me, sometimes smiling, sometimes teary-eyed. I take it she likes it, but then again she never likes to talk about sex. From what I gather in our pre-marriage talks, she doesn't have any negative views on it and it wasn't shunned by her parents, it's just that she is shy. She doesn't like me seeing her naked even though I do (ha ha...:/ ). She is…shy very well proportioned…and I tell her how it is so she shouldn’t feel self-conscious. But she still covers up outside of sex.
Another issue is fitness: I work out constantly at home or in the park (calisthenics) and I invite her to join but she politely declines. She runs almost every morning so I thought maybe she gets enough from that. But I have noticed that my weight backpack at home is sometimes at a different weight than when I left it. I have also noticed She has made some serious butt/thigh gains which really stand out on her thin frame. When I ask if she is doing anything differently, she says “maybe it’s the running” then changes the subject. I don’t understand why she is working out in secret. This is most likely my fault though since I used to try and tease her into working out with me; I made a silly remark about how squatting/ham-raises will put more meat on her legs.
Conclusion:
Guys and gals, I need help. I love my wife dearly. She is funnier than any comedian, more disciplined than any soldier, and more beautiful than any celebrity. But she is making me feel weird by trying to secretly improve herself based on my preferences. Her shyness around me is awkward and I want a return to the easy-going pre-marriage . Has anyone had experience with this?
Also: she has made many friends here and still is in contact with a few back home. However she doesn't seem excited to be around them as much as when I offer to go out with her. She's always offers to cancel plans to stay in with me or go for a walk. I thought she might be depressed, but she is super cheerful even when she doesn't know I'm around. |
Health › Re: CONFIRMING TB JOSHUA’S 2020 PROPHECY ON ECONOMY by Patented: 5:46am On Feb 27, 2020 |
mysteryman2014: Fake news, Reddington hospital is in VI and not mainland There is a reddington in Ikeja. But I still think it's fair news. |
Crime › Re: Fbn Ip Infringement by Patented: 6:26pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
Go to court |
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