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It happened just last week as the government out hold on all tertiary Institutions. I traveled for some business hustle. At around 4pm on the Sunday I called my babe and we chatted for some time then someone coughed in the background which I asked who was that she replied a friend, I said ok..

Getting back to school o as to pack up things and finally go home. She came to my place and while trying to make love with her she said oh babe am not comfortable now. Like my conscious is priming me. I stopped and tried to let her talk about it but she waved it off and said she just wanted to see my reaction. Well as man be we continued after we were through she was like 'boo what if I tell you I someone has sex with me what would you do'.i just did as if I didn't hear what she said, I first left her and went to the sitting room to take water from the fridge and during to calm my nerves and be alright. When I came back to the room I asked her what she said the other time she just said oh nothing she's just afraid to say what she wanted to say,right then I know something's up. I entered motivation mood and started hyping her how good she has been to me, how she have changed me to a better person and how positive this relationship has been, how we have been best couples on campus and people envy our Union. Truth be told we love each other I even opened a business for her. She sells ladies footwear's and bags all imported from outside country.. before I know it she started crying that babe pls I'm sorry there's something that happened to me on Sunday and it would end our relationship, I was like nothing you want to say that is new in this world and that has not happened before, that no one is perfect. Well she said her ex chatted her up and was like pls he's down and needed some help that she should come help her out at home. On getting there the guy is was watching movie in his room. Well she's there already and sit down. All the guy was saying wa how he missed her and regretted cheating in her and all that before she could know it the guy pinned her down through struggle and all that the guy had his way with her..
I was so devastated don't know what to do at first because all I was thinking is that after all we've been through and done together our relationship will be a year by may, you still went to be laid by your Ex, asked how many times has it happened in our relationship she said 3 times, the first two when we just started that she still feels for the guy then.but now she don't feel for him again and that will be the only time she visited him since she got serious with me. but as someone who is matured and experienced I just kept my calm because she started crying and throughout the night she cried her eyes out.. I just remained mute till morning. The next day I told her we need a break but it got worse she fell and hit her head on some table.. I had to take her and apply some medication on her..

Why I came in here is for you fellow nairaLanders to advice me on what to do.
1st I love her
2nd she's known to my mom and brother
3rd I've draft out how my life is going to be spent with her forever.
4th can I continue dating her and tell her to cut ties with the guy.

Pls help me, what do I do and not do. What do I tell her and not tell her..

Thanks plss

I laugh in chinese. President Bohari has come again. My pipu if truely they want to employ qualified teachers then NCE HOLDERS should have been the very first ones to employ but alas nothing like that during their teaching practise, they observed that for good 6months while University students observed theirs for just a couple of weeks. I want to ask you all now that among this 2 who do u think is more qualified...
The federal govt are the major problem who rendered POLY & COLLEGE OF EDU useless.

safarigirl:
because dead people are so concerned about who shows up for their funeral....


The most striking thing here is

"Not even a former team mate...."

What kind of relationship did he have with his former colleagues that none of them could make themselves available? If you were a President in any Union and no one from the Union, not even those who served with you could show up at your funeral, then something must have gone terribly wrong.

I tell bloda mi. Even though they might use been so busy as an excuse, they ought to contribute a little something to the family... So so bad

Walahi OP u no get work, a whole Olamide Baddo u rubbish lyk dis. Hw i wish voicenote can be used on nairaland. I would av personally tel u al Olamide has done dis yr alone. He no be Audio celebrity lyk others. He jux gave al dis upcoming artistes d yr 2 bloom bcox he cant be competing wit trash. Do u think d likes of zlatan and naira marley would last 2to3yrs?. Abeg park well!!!. Who knw go knw, who no knw no go knw. .

thatkindthing:
The concert really made sense,but my question is, wouldn't the military question her for using their uniform like that?

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Na wa o. Dis ur qstn na next yr d ansa dey. Show we be say na Naija Army band open am. Dem dey wit us 2ruout d show. Pls if u wil be going out for d marlians concert make u dm biko.

Wonderful i love igbo women. God go punish who say make i no marry from the east.. I don't think you see what i saw, the background of that great woman. What happened to the glory of her history, i supposed she should be in overseas by now chilling in one of her children's home. If she's still alive thou. Pls MOD help us find out...

A big congrats to you Mr Orlu... It is I Mr Umuahia saying greater heights and to my other contestants this is just the stepping stone for us all... He really deserves it.
And to the CEO Zanzy Entertainment, I want to say you're a man not been biased or racist. Even thou you're from the east, the theme for the year is from the east, yet a Yoruba man deserves it and without thinking like some lackadaisical people you make sure the right person wins it.. Fellow nairalanders, this man deserves some accolades.. Not some that will be shouting biafra, oduduwa or the hausa's.. I was there live from start to finish... Thank you all for the wonderful experiences and meeting top Nigeria celebrities..

Follow @zanzyentertainment or @pattoski_aladin on instagram for more..

Playing I want to ask is the father also pregnant.. Abii u guys no see wetin I dey see soooo?!!

#Pattoski....
#pattotelli....

Hmmmm... This is really a complicated matter..
Op plsill advise you just forget about this issue and mind on with your relationship is your truly love her, in this life anything can happen..
But take this pieces of advice, try to know her phone password, don't call her you're coming over to get place, just show up and give her some sleeping tablets. Gbam!.. Go through the damn phone and make your heart breaks into pieces....
Observance is the key to this issue...

Thank me later...

#pattoski...
#pattotelli....

EKITI PEOPLE!!, which way? Pls you guys should update let's know the final result.
Shame on nigreia politics, see corruption at its peak. They are not even ashamed to showcase thier stupidity. Even with the monitoring by world bodies.
Both APC&PDP are CLOWNS!!!!!!!!


#PATOTELLI
#PATTOSKI

Very good move, i think this is the best news i've heard so far. Bcoz i know a lot of people out there who sponsors theirselves through shool. And at the end age barrier denied them job. God bless the honorable that movr motion for this.

#patotelli,
#pattoski