CalliDora1:
Move on and let her be.

Just see it as, since she doesn't want to be with you, why would you wanna be with her. Then forget all these talks about ticking all the boxes because she clearly doesn't otherwise she would have ticked the "stay with me forever through thick and thin" box for you. So, stop tormenting yourself and erase her from your memory. If you have to pray about it, pray. Prayer works too.

Finally, stop stalking her. I know you do it.

She dey speak from Experience

JERRY1925:


A girl did this to me. Called telling me a pastor said ill leave her after 3 years of marriage. I love this girl so much. But she left. Not easy moving on, but am trying.

She is tired, just used that format to discharge you.

Uyi168:
...
Satan, upon discovering that the name bleaching cream has casted, decided to renamed it organic skincare

Lol

Angelfrost:
People who do such nonsense actually end up on the short end eventually... Who in his/her right senses commits this deeply into into a mere relationship??! Smh!!!

Good point. People even tend to misbehave when they know u are so committed like seeing their tatoo on you

pocohantas:
Nothing is compulsory, definitely not this. Many men do not pay any or all and the world hasn’t come to an end. Whatever works for you and yours is key. If she believes she should never help with bills, it is okay for you to believe you shouldn’t help in whatever she is accountable for.

Last last, I like to think sensible individuals do not have these useless arguments in reality. They simply know what to do that would help relieve their spouses of physical, financial and emotional stress.

How many people are Sensible ?

sweetmelanin:
Everyone is quick to remind men of their responsibility to provide but if you dare remind a woman of her responsibilities in the home, you are branded a misogynist..

Gbam

omoharry:
Well, majority of Nigerian men are male-chauvinist ..to them the women should do thier duties of giving birth and taking care of the home and the family even when they know they are equally career women . Men also believe that they are the head of the family and most times, decisions about the home is carried out by him alone with very little contribution from his wife that is if he permit it .Now will this kind of man agree to marry an independent and career woman ? I doubt . So it all depend on the personality of the man in question .
If he is a liberal person that believe that marriage is all about partnership. Then both couple can contribute to the bills of the house and make decision together. And at thesame time, respect each other's views in decision making .
On the other hand, if the man in question is authocratic in his view to marriage, then he must work very hard to pay the bills and provide for his family- so that he can exact his authority over his dependent & submissive wife, who he might have also told not to work but stay at home or do business, so that she can have time for the home .So which ever works for the men in question .
Ideally, it depend on who earns more ..If it's the woman , then she can contribute majorly to the running of the house hold but the problem is that such a woman must have a voice in the decision making of that home and can never be a door mat .

U have a point, it still boil down to selfishness on the part of both genders

CalliDora1:
It is, 100%. That role has not shifted. so tie your belt very tight and get ready to take it up when the time comes.

Ajuju 21st century.

Interesting. But be aware that domestic chores and cooking, taking care of the kids is 100% your responsibility too. No cheating, nobody should help one another .

JovialJune:
No it's not compulsory, be the househusband let your wife be the head and breadwinner of the family, simple.

I don't have a problem with the man being the head, financing everything, but don't throw that double standard of he should help me my wifely duties, assisting in bathing the kids, cooking etc . If you can't assist him in his own Responsibility no matter how little, women should also stop crying that men left them all alone to handle domestic chores.

I don't blame the women anyway, so many men also want a woman to share bills with, but are they also Ready to share domestic chores with her ?


Both Genders need serious orientation

egobetatoday:


Since you know these things so well why did you bother asking? The soul is the real u, it has the shape of a body. It's like a duplicate of your body.

guy stop making up things to defend rubbish
@bold , Flesh too ? Cos the tongue is made of flesh . How come this soul has Fleshly tongue?

egobetatoday:


To be frank, I didn't see the need to reply you after your rude reply. Is it only the things that drink water or has tongue that goes for judgement?

Bro nothing is rude, am reasoning with you from the scriptures u quoted, in the story of rich man and Lazarus, we saw that the rich man has tongue, and he drinks water . This is a contradiction to your statement that it's the soul that goes for judgement .

Let me burst you further , according to you only the soul goes for Judgement, But according to Jesus in Matthew 10 vs 28, it's body and soul that goes to hell, So if body go to hell, how many people have gone to hell with their human body ? Or who is lying between. You and Jesus ?

egobetatoday:


God breathed his spirit on the earth he formed (body) and it became a living soul (Genesis 2:7). From this you can see the relationship between the spirit, soul and body. So man is made up of a spirit (which is from God and will go back to God after death. It is God's property), a soul (which is the real you, the soul returns to his maker too. It is the soul that goes for judgement with God) and a body (which was made from earth and which we carry around when we are alive, at death it goes back to the earth).

Am not sure you read before replying me,

So a soul has tongue ? A soul drink water ?

obonujoker:



You think hell is a physical fire?

Na Spiritual fire ? Confused people

BlowYourMind:
If you don't believe hell, you don't need to, but I wish you will never experience hell, but what is the essence of doing evil and died an a dinner and probably there is hell and you are tormented for life what will be your gain

This mentality would get you inside that hell ( doesn't even exist Though) , but do you read that The Fearful will end in the lake of fire ?

jesusjnr2020:
Why You Shouldn't Wait To See Hell Fire First Before You Believe That It Exists

Because to see hell fire, you might have to be inside hell fire first, and by then it might already be too late for you to be able to do anything about it even though you now believe it exists.

So your believing that hell fire exists after you've seen it with very own your eyes would not be of any use to you, just as it was with the rich man in the instance of Lazarus who couldn't use it to do anything about his own stay there. Hence his request that those who were yet alive on Earth be reached with the message of hell's existence by someone who had seen hell fire after death but wasn't in hell like Lazarus, who didn't wait to see it first before he believed, so that they wouldn't have to go to that place of torment.

Luke 16:23-28 (KJV)

And in hell he lift up his eyes, being in torments, and seeth Abraham afar off, and Lazarus in his bosom.
And he cried and said, Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus, that he may dip the tip of his finger in water, and cool my tongue; for I am tormented in this flame.
But Abraham said, Son, remember that thou in thy lifetime receivedst thy good things, and likewise Lazarus evil things: but now he is comforted, and thou art tormented.
And beside all this, between us and you there is a great gulf fixed: so that they which would pass from hence to you cannot; neither can they pass to us, that would come from thence.
Then he said, I pray thee therefore, father, that thou wouldest send him to my father's house:
For I have five brethren; that he may testify unto them, lest they also come into this place of torment.

That request of the rich man in hell fire has been granted by God on several occasions, as He's sent many people like Lazarus to testify of hell fire's existence to those alive on Earth who've never been there before, so that they wouldn't have to also go there as the rich man just because they didn't know that it existed.

But if despite the warnings of all these people that God had sent from the dead to testify of hell fire's existence, you still end up in hell fire as the rich man because you wanted to see hell fire first before you believed in its existence, you wouldn't have anyone else to blame but yourself, because the same testimony of hell fire you wasted, was that which the rich man in hell fire wished he had to prevent him from getting there.

God bless.

Human body in hell with tongue ?

I thought u guys said one spirit is what goes to hell ?

Explain yourself

Mcslize:
The problem I have with ladies regarding relationships is the way ladies convert it to money making venture. Even those that are working will still want you to spend on them.

You can't have a peaceful discussion chat with a lady without her bringing in money issue.

Let's turn the table around. Guys stop forming big boy to girls to stop them from billing you. When you meet a girl, from the get go tell her you are broke even if you are rolling on top of money. Stop discussing your actual source of income with a lady you really want to be with, to know if she will truly stay with you if you don't paint yourself to her like Dangote. If she is the gold digger type, she will milk you with billing.


Most guys saying they will marry their supposed girlfriends here now is money they are using to sustain the relationship o. Some spend unnecessarily just to keep their babes. That's not love brother.

If you are using money to sustain your supposed relationship and you call that love, you are deceiving yourself. The true girl that truly loves you is the one you spend no dime on but she is still with you.

If you spending on a girl and you claiming she loves you as a guy, you are deceiving yourself. Remove the money whether she will still stay with you.

So brothers, don't use money to maintain a relationship and think the girl loves you. How you know if a girl truly loves you is when you don't spend on her but she still chooses to remain with you. That's how you know a girl that truly wants you.

But if you are using money to bribe her and you are here claiming she loves you die. I put it to you brother, it's your money she loves not you.

I told one I am a primary school teacher. Hehehehe see the speed she take vanish eh. Gold diggers everywhere.

So you expect me to tell you my actual me so you will start bombarding me with billings.

They are heavily invested in the relationship with their money lol , why won't they wanna marry her over and over again.

odave:
Hmm, I'm impressed, only few people would recognize your contribution to their success, you will be hearing, I passed my exams in flying colors, I was made the manager in so so place, I did this, I did that... To all God have been using for me since I came to this world, most especially non family members, may God bless you all, amen

Really fine Comment u made here

Barristter07:


an accused person is still innocent until proven Guilty by a court of law.

This is not the case here, the persons were condemned to torture in fire because they have been judged as " Wicked " , or are they innocent ?

You see your life outside.

he is telling us they are innocent until proven guilty later. Innocent but sent to hell , very dumb guy . The decision to send them to hell is a judgement

Emusan:

You are already a fool, if not you'd have known that the word SPIRIT doesn't convey the same meaning.

If you think it does, then God is a SPIRIT means God is mere BREATH of life and not a person.

That was the reason I quoted verse 21 to show your ignoramus that different versions interpret it differently but you're too dull to grab it.

#sips juice ... Interesting

Either it refer to a person or breath.

Animal and human spirit are the same , one , not two kinds , one spirit.

Any idiot that claim human spirit is a person, must be so ready to accept animal Spirit is a person too

The spirit of a man is a person....continue to rant over that. Spirits do possess human.

Look at @color and see the lying liar mouth changing mouth. You know the word interpreted as SPIRIT there has different meanings that was the reason you said "...THERE"

Your God is a breath since He is a SPIRIT.

You're already a silly idiot.

Here comes the low reasoning man

When a spirit being possess an human, Casting it out doesn't kill the man. So if human Spirit is just a person, people won't die when it left them .

But when human spirit left a man, the person died!!! . Spirit in the case of human therefore is the Breath OF LIFE also called Spirit of life.

There is RIVER not even ordinary water in heaven according to Revelation. Idiot!

Where was it say in the scripture that Lazarus didn't buried? Lying liar JWs.

Show me where the story said Lazarus was buried ? Am waiting . Shey you decide to be stupid


I ask that water mr man, Is it for Angels to Drink ?


Cos In that story someone needed to drink water , So spirit beings drink water ? idiot

And the idiot don't know, "it is appointed to die ONCE and after that judgement" means no repentance in the grave.

Oponu radarada!

Because they are already judged as going to hell ,
The word judgement ring a bell, Emusan can rant as he likes , spirit Going to Father as a person after death means judgement after death. You are trying too hard to deny this implication because it make God a person that make errors .

livingchrist:
Idiot so there are different ranks of God? Clown so Jehovah is not the only true God, eeehee.
Fool
So position determines a real human or a fake human? Clown

E pain am

livingchrist:
fool so position determines if you are a real human or not? Dundee, so Buhari is a more real human than you?
Fake human
Clown

Nature place Jesus and Peter on the same level during his ministry , You are an idiot to rate them as equals because they share same human nature.

Position always is the key .

God of Jesus Christ is Bigger than Jesus.

Emusan:


What was he even saying here

Very incoherent jargons

Spirit of man is a person
That is why I quoted verse 21 for you which you disregard.

Verse 21 did not contradict 19, don't be an idiot

One spirit, not two kind of spirit. Same one , animals and man have . So if you claim it's a person, then ready to make animals own a person too . Don't be a fool.

In addition, A Spirit being doesn't have flesh and bones. An human therefore can't have a spirit being as component.

Spirit there equals breath

But there's fountains of WATER IN HEAVEN

Which spirit like angels Drink ?

The rich man ( man ) not rich spirit. Request for water to drink, this is an human not spirit. This question your spirit being go to the Father idea totally.

can you see how deluded you are?

You fool didn't know Lazarus DIED first.

So if Lazarus was carried to heaven BODILY this shame your lying doctrine that HUMAN BODY CAN'T go to heaven.

It's getting interesting!

The place didn't say Heaven ( John 3:13 ) heaven was never mentioned in that story . Don't be a silly idiot. Lazarus wasnt buried but was carried bodily to bossom of Abraham. Begs the question, how can Abel who died years ago go to the bossom of Abraham who wasnt born yet ?

With all this prove of bodily existence, has ressurection occured ?


Concerning if what goes to the Father is judgement or not. I said below


And some of you idiots will quote Hebrew : It is Appointed unto man to die once, after this a what ?

You are an idiot.


If no judgement was involved , all would be directed to the same location, that separation is an attribute of Judgement.

livingchrist:
you just reveal how stupid you are! The difference between Buhari and the road side mechanic is just position nothing else.
They are all equally human being, Since we all same human being then the statement that buhari is the only true human would be wrong.

How can you call Jehovah the only true God if there are other true gods too?
Idiot

Equal human being because they all have the same human nature. So postion is the real determinant not nature. Nature places everyone on equal level , even Jesus while on Earth will be the same as Peter if Nature was used. So only idiots use nature to categorize or class equality



Christian's sharing divine nature are the same as God by nature. So it's wrong to use nature.

Position is the real determinant , and no one come close to the Only true God, the God of Jesus Christ.

Chii59:
You broke up with a girl you dated 4 years, two months later, you're taking someone else to momma. See your problem? You never had time to heal. I'll tell you why. Your ex's infidelity broke you (not that you're a saint anyway). It broke you and the next thing was to break up.
But instead of you to calm down and heal up emotionally before entering another relationship (to avoid emotional backlog like what you're going through at the moment), you wanted to pepper your ex. To show her, she's easily replaceable and that you've moved on.
See where it got you?
Your memories haunt you. You will most likely end up cheating on your present, maybe not with your ex, but with someone else.
Your refusal to heal will continue to be a problem in this relationship and even the next - if any.

Too many immature people on this forum.

Many ( both genders) are guilty of the bolded and it's backfiring