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Romance › Re: You Guys Get Real by pendo89(f): 3:50pm On Aug 27, 2011

sexsinners:
i have also study you too

you are Mrs.Chima ,goldieluks, pendo,and Mzdarkskin.

Ye shall know the truth after the Holyghost has come upon you.

Romance › Re: Is It Possible To Fall In Love With Someone You've Never Met? by pendo89(f): 3:43pm On Aug 27, 2011

I think 2 people should take a break from this thread before its derailed

Romance › Re: Is It Possible To Fall In Love With Someone You've Never Met? by pendo89(f): 11:42pm On Aug 26, 2011

I got 2 friends that are happily married after they met online so I hate to trash it all together.

life is a risk, some are worth taking others not. so before u start 'falling in love' make sure you are sober enough not to 'love' what you can't have,

Plus it also also depends on the site you are at. some have pretty weird characters. [s]_{And this is not one of them}[/s] lipsrsealed

Romance › Re: Is It Possible To Fall In Love With Someone You've Never Met? by pendo89(f): 11:19pm On Aug 26, 2011

LesbianBoy:
Pendo sweety since u haven met moi can u fall in love with moi! least i forget i drive a range rover sport jeep

Now that's where you lost me completely!! I get repulsed by such lines cz they give me nausea and migraine.
maybe am not human enough.
fyi I fly a plane.

Romance › Re: Is It Possible To Fall In Love With Someone You've Never Met? by pendo89(f): 11:11pm On Aug 26, 2011

Yes op .its very possible. I can only allow it to grow if there are high chances of us ever meeting physically to confirm our love 4 each other. Anything short of that is a waste of time,emotions an internet time.
Note: Do not be foolish like some fb dude who had an encounter with a 419 ghost.

Romance › Re: I'm In Trouble! I've Fallen In Luv With 419 devil On Facebook'' by pendo89(f): 9:13pm On Aug 26, 2011

2buff:
@pendo. It happens. There's a lot of lonely people who would empty their bank accounts for a chance at love.
Sadly, the devil slithers about like a deceptive anaconda seeking whom to swallow and poop out.

And what exactly do you call that cz foolish sounds sweeter. I feel embarrased on his behalf.
Sending money to a profile with ability to type ? damn! you are worse than the Ghost!! nkt.
I still think its a joke anyway.so laugh it off.

Romance › Re: I'm In Trouble! I've Fallen In Luv With 419 devil On Facebook'' by pendo89(f): 8:18pm On Aug 26, 2011

Successimpactld:
I met a friend on facebook(female). We ve been friends for 5yrs now,becos of one or two reasons i decided to fall in luv with her, not knowing dat she deceived me with pix. To cut d long story short. I later realised dat it was a man that is using lady pix to deceive me behind by collecting money frm me in d name of luv. Pls i need some one to rescue me!

I DO NOT believe all that. Too many holes.

5 years of sending money to some online love? never ever wanted to see/call or meet the person you were busy sending money to? 5 GOOD YEARS? You are giving the word 'patience' a whole new meaning op.
Hole

What about status updates,tags,photos. Fb can reveal a lot if you are not very careful with P.settings.
And I highly doubt if this is the kind of dude that would make his profile extremely private since it would reduce his chances of catching unsuspecting fellows.
Hole

But thanks for entertainment.

Romance › Re: How To Tell You Bf And 9ja Dad You R Pregnant by pendo89(f): 2:47pm On Aug 26, 2011

i know its a joke.

Politics › Re: Bomb Blast At United Nation Abuja -- BREAKING NEWS by pendo89(f): 1:47pm On Aug 26, 2011

And just this morning we were busy trying to convince some top co. fellows on the need to invest in nigeria by creating a regional office there to serve the West Africa Market. UN are our top clients.Damn bomb!
He's leaving tonight after the bomb just confirmed his worst fears.Nigeria is politicaly unstable and now Ghana is the next option.I feel very sad.
My heart goes out to the hurt and the bearieved. Praying 4 u guys.

Romance › Re: I Want To Get Married by pendo89(f): 8:30pm On Aug 25, 2011

Adopt one.On second thought No! cz u don't qualify.
See when you are ready you will not need to ask.
We will only see several junior 190's on nl bearing several handles.
That will be proof that you got married.

Romance › Re: I Want To Get Married by pendo89(f): 8:22pm On Aug 25, 2011

190 stay off women

Romance › Re: I Want To Get Married by pendo89(f): 7:51pm On Aug 25, 2011

ok sober advise now.
you are not ready to be a Father till you are able to decide on the woman of your choice.
so far undecided

you are not doing soo well.

Romance › Re: I Want To Get Married by pendo89(f): 7:29pm On Aug 25, 2011

Goldieluks:
am not angry,i just find it kinda sarcastic,but i saw the defence coming though,its all good ma'am.

Well am still cz sorry sarcasm wasn't in the mind at all.

Romance › Re: I Want To Get Married by pendo89(f): 7:23pm On Aug 25, 2011

Goldieluks:
hey come ,but its nl,meaning?? don't get all sarcastic on me please.

Goldie trust me I don't do that.I just thought of asking out of a clean heart. When i say its nl what I mean is, its forum,as in the profile is no big deal. Please don't read too much dear into that plus,I apologise If I made you angry by that.

Romance › Re: I Want To Get Married by pendo89(f): 7:13pm On Aug 25, 2011

Goldieluks:
w[color=Black]hat does it matters pendo? LDN,LON, all means same thing na.[/color]

K no worries.the code is Lon but its nl.

190smh:

Leave london - midlands trains alone and answer me

Im prepared to be the best father in the world, I've thought bout it

I just want a Junior 190

And what will you be? you are junior 190.

Romance › Re: I Want To Get Married by pendo89(f): 7:05pm On Aug 25, 2011

Goldieluks:
men stand a chance only if they got kids out of wedlock,if not,then they dont stand a chance
to enjoy the sweetness of marriage.

K I get it.

190 anybody can have baby but not everyone can make a Daddy/Father.

Off topic

_{Goldie. does the LDN ref 2 london? make it LON, if your in london ie.}

Romance › Re: I Want To Get Married by pendo89(f): 6:53pm On Aug 25, 2011

Goldieluks:
Yes,get married so that young under 16 girls can rest,from your prying fingers .

Ah ah that never happens.Some habits don't die.
190,I say yes its too early because a guy can marry even at 50. But ladies dont stand a chance.
A man takes time to metamorphosise from being a male to being a man.
I think you are still a pupa or larvae

Romance › Re: I Want To Get Married by pendo89(f): 6:46pm On Aug 25, 2011

yes. Even though we say maturity is not age and blabla. For a lady no,but dude yes. I lack the energy to elaborate.

Romance › Re: The Value Of Getting Rejected By Women. by pendo89(f): 6:41pm On Aug 25, 2011

[quote author=deal_ordea link=topic=744553.msg9006539#msg9006539 date=1314290660]You know what, I think it becomes clearly obvious, that the more success you have and the more willing you are to market yourself to available women, the more rejection you will suffer at times.You have to be willing to suffer more rejection in order to meet a greater number of women. How many times can one become complacent and stick in a relationship with someone they shouldn't be with, just so they don't have to deal with the hassles of dating?

The fact is, the more you put yourself out there, the more you will be rejected, but if you can quickly surmount these rejections, you will have met so many more women and had so many more experiences.

I have learned that no matter how good your game is, it is a crapshoot! One day you could meet 5 women and be successful with all of them and the next one, you strike out. That is simply because most women have no clue what they want. Many might be dating or not able to act on things, etc.[/quote]The bolded caught my attention. See,it really depends on where you are fishing Op.
Its very easy to catch small and cheap fish near the shore than the big and quality ones in the deep seas.
Some settle for less and keep complaining.They cannot weather the storms to get what is valuable.
Dare and go deep sea fishing and 'reduce' the chances of rejection.
But see,you must also be a good sailor and fisherman to be able to do this.
The fearful stay at the shore or wait at the market place.

Second yeah you are right.Most of us women enter relationships without a clue of what we really want.
We live it to figure itself out.

Romance › Re: Love And Faith by pendo89(f): 6:26pm On Aug 25, 2011

claremont:
Divorce rates among religious/non-religious groups in USA (Culled from US Population Statistics, 2010)

Religion % have been divorced

Jews 30%

Born-again Christians 27%

Other Christians 24%

[size=13pt]Atheists[/size], Agnostics [size=13pt] 21%[/size]

A simple tabular statistic speaks louder than 1000 words, need I say more?!

That confirms my post above. Religion or faith is no guarantee for happy relationship.It helps in making choices.
You need to work hard and make it work not leave it to God and sit back with folded arms cz that's being silly.

Romance › Re: How Do U Put Off A Guy That Talks Through Body Language In An Effort To Impress by pendo89(op): 3:26pm On Aug 25, 2011

SAFO:
Well I'm happy everything worked out for you pendo, but you still should've warned him about that rusty nail.

Nah,I avoid responding to mosquito bites using a hammer. That was too much.

Romance › Re: Love And Faith by pendo89(f): 3:11pm On Aug 25, 2011

emofine:
On topic: . . .@ believers, I'm still eager to hear from those who have a sustaining relationship with God. When one inspects and considers the components invloved in a spirtual relationship with God such as commitment, love etc, one will perceive that similar attributes are also present between Man and wife. Does the spiritual tie you have with God effect, strengthen and enable the way you manifest your love in your matrimony/union due to excercising those cornerstone ingredients in your spirtual life? Or perhaps did your spiritual life prepare you for married life? Does your faith enable you to manifest love in a wholesome way as there is a spiritual factor here?
If you had lacked God in your life do you believe that the love you would have reflected would exist on a different dimension towards your loved one. .?

OP this is what I believe.

Marriages or relationships are not spiritual. The reason we say they are is cz 2 spiritual beings who believe in God and allow Him to guide their day to day living come together in a union called marriage. They purpose to be guided by the principles outlined in the word of God.
Anybody can marry including a pagan.We call that a marriage as well. And who said there will be marriages in heaven?
The place is only for spiritual stuff and not physical stuff like marriage.

Now we need to differentiate btw the 2 kinds of love Agape and[b] Ero[/b]s
The love you have for God (agape)helps you connect with him spiritually and helps you develop a christian character which should in turn help you in making decisions pertaining to relationships. The word becomes your guide.
See,things of God are about peace love patience endurance etc and all those are fruits which anybody professing christianity must posess.
It however takes real life challenges to cultivate these qualities as they don't just drop like manna when you pray.

When it comes to human relationships we apply eros love. I cannot claim to love my partner the way I love God No.Theres a big difference.
I must love my partner romantically. Now that 'eros' love knows no religion or boundary.Its felt by everybody and anybody can be romantic.
The guiding principles for eros love apply to both believers and non believers.
I am talking about mutual attraction,the loveydovey feelings,and what it takes to sexually or romantically sustain such a relationship.

If I profess agape love and I don't know how to express the eros,then my relationship will go down the drainage.
But you can lack agape love and be able to express the eros and build a very stable and longlasting relationship.

Why is that so? because human relationships are just that human. Not really spiritual.
How you sustain them will depend on what you believe works. Bottom line is 'they can be sustained regardless of faith or religion.

Romance › Re: 'ladies Cursing Men' Does It Realy Have An Effect? by pendo89(f): 2:25pm On Aug 25, 2011

squino:
@ Pendo89 wats the name of that your[b] shrine [/b]again?

shrine>>>a place where devotion is paid to a deity or deities

Had to do that for u to understand. NOTE:: I don't believe or worship in shrines squino.
I believe in JC who lives in my heart. fullstop.

Ope you dont do those things fanatics do in the crime section. I have read pretty weird stuff there. undecided

Romance › Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by pendo89(f): 1:03pm On Aug 25, 2011

mmh blackmail.
why the heck did she have this other relationship.
whatever the case.you dont solve evil with evil so go ahead spill it out cz I can guarantee you that this dude will keep playing this game till the marriage eventually collapses.
Its good to face the consequences of our stupid actions once in while.

Romance › Re: How Do U Put Off A Guy That Talks Through Body Language In An Effort To Impress by pendo89(op): 12:51pm On Aug 25, 2011

Romance › Re: 'ladies Cursing Men' Does It Realy Have An Effect? by pendo89(f): 12:48pm On Aug 25, 2011

There is a trend in the church today to try and blame every sin and problem on some sort of generational curse. This is not biblical. The cure for generational curses is salvation through Jesus Christ. When we become Christians, we are new creations (2 Corinthians 5:17). How can a child of God still be under God’s curse (Romans 8:1)? The cure, then, for a “ curse” is faith in Christ and a life consecrated to Him (Romans 12:1-2).

You cannot curse what God has blessed. This is manipulation and witchcraft in church.fullstop.

Now op this is NOT ROMANTIC at all.

Romance › Re: Am Confused! Facebook Love. by pendo89(f): 12:35pm On Aug 25, 2011

Damn and your a black gal? The caste system will drive u nuts
Theoretically, all foreigners are considered to be casteless and hence outcast; meaning that Hindu, especially the orthodox upper caste families, would not touch or invite them to their homes
Fb? I wouldnt advise. Let him come where you are if hes serious but not the other way round. lol

Romance › Re: How Do U Put Off A Guy That Talks Through Body Language In An Effort To Impress by pendo89(op): 12:16pm On Aug 25, 2011

^^ And you think I cannot discern the voice of God?
Let me tell you a secret.If you want to be deceived believe in prophecy only.
God speaks through day to day activities,The bible (which is the best ), through our conscience and through people as well.

Now if I happen to hear such a voice,I will not do anything,I wont even worry or bother.
I will first check to ensure its in line with the word of God cz His voice (prophecy) cannot contradict His own written Word!
Therefore anything out of word is null and void.

Two I will go on living my life as usual. See you must know God's promises for you.Its all in the word. When He says 'I shall give you your heart's desire' then it means I must have desire for a particular kind of man.Not just anybody fits my desire. We are free to choose, so God doesn't impose a man on you.

Then God is not silly.He doesn't speak our language lol
See, Don't confuse things here. You must be natural and I always say,there's nothing spiritual with relationships or marriage.
Its a natural process and you shouldn't go out dating while carrying a bible or speaking prophecy.That's stupidity and deception.
Be normal,natural and let God fulfill your desires.

I never mention God anywhere in my day to day living.I allow my life to speak. I just know where the boundary is and if you try to cross it then I give you my reasons why. That's when you will hear me mention Him.

You guys seem to believe in prophecies too much. I dont.I prefer seein God speak through day to day interactions and activities.
So now your question 'how do I know hes not mine?' simple he doesnt fit my desire. I don't see in him what I desire 4 in a man. And theres no sin in that at all.

Be careful never to spiritualise everything.

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