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Foreign AffairsRe: South Sudan Locks Out Somalis by pendo89(f): 6:42pm On Jul 21, 2011
I don't blame sudan for taking that action
what everybody seems to miss out here is that most of these 'somali' investors have hands full of pirate money
What they do is enter a country and buy off a large building or land.They buy churches,schools, everything they can lay hands on and they are willing to pay twice the cost! They can occupy an entire estate and don't forget each has like 3 wives so you can imagine the population!
Once they done buying,they start renovating the entire building and bring over their people from somali land.
They come in droves take over businesses and set camp!
These people can turn your country into a smaller version of somali.Some places even bear their names because of their sheer numbers!
They are in camps but what happens is that their able relatives go first and acquire land and property within the city.Then they transfer them from the camps to multimillion buildings built by pirate money.
Sudan is very much aware of this ! let in one somali business man and he will buy half of sudan property with pirate money!
They buy off cops,pastors, administration everybody to get hold of property!
Then try getting them out! They start blowing everything up! and causing havoc
RomanceRe: My Girl Lover Reported Me To My Mum by pendo89(f): 6:16pm On Jul 21, 2011
my exact thoughts.A side dish.
'your girlfriend' has the audacity to 'sit down' your 'mum' and discuss 'you and your marriage'
On what grounds!! Everything is soo wrong here.
no comment lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: My Girl Lover Reported Me To My Mum by pendo89(f): 6:04pm On Jul 21, 2011
undecided ;d
RomanceRe: She Is Married But Kept Calling And Sending Romantic Messages by pendo89(f): 5:42pm On Jul 21, 2011
I just laughed at your 'come to my aid' C'mmon are sending an sos?

How hard,just how hard is it to delete her number,change sim and never call her/receive her calls again? Be a real man and do it!

Respect yourself!! and ignore her.She will soon feel neglected and the lust will grow cold the moment you starve that line of communication.

Finally it will die.

You are treading on dangerous grounds bro leading to your grave

That which you call friendship is lust so cut it off if you care for her and yourself too. Or else you both lose!!
RomanceRe: My Girl Lover Reported Me To My Mum by pendo89(f): 5:28pm On Jul 21, 2011
Op
Are you talking about your girl lover or your wife?
The term 'marital issues' applies to married people.
Be clear on this first.
Or could she be your 'side dish'huh
RomanceRe: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by pendo89(f): 11:46am On Jul 21, 2011
^^
The rate at which you are breaking ribs is starting to worry me! save one for eve pliz!
I swear claremont left a lasting impression on my mind ,not that I believe in his theory but I have never seen a guy defend his theory the way he does!
I hope he is a lawyer!
RomanceRe: What Will You Do by pendo89(f): 11:33am On Jul 21, 2011
undecided undecided undecided
RomanceRe: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by pendo89(f): 11:28am On Jul 21, 2011
Op ,I quote you below,

'And I told this girl that I'm interested in her since the day after we started chating through facebook but what she keeps telling me was that she is engaged. I do call this girl 2,3 or even 4 times sometimes in a day just to greet her and to equally remind her that she should give me chance that I'm interested in her but she still keeps telling me she is engaged.'

I wrote something here the other day about phantom relationships. Its always good to define your relationship otherwise you end up wasting each others time and breaking hearts. She was just being nice but you misinterpreted that.There are many doing that even now!
I dont blame the girl because she told you very well that shes engaged the moment you expressed interest,but you were blind. Why did you allow those feelings to grow? Thats not love i prefer calling it infatuation or fb love or better still claremont/delusional love.
It hurts but you must let her go and find new love because healthy and true love must be reciprocated! You cannot be the only one in love here and expect it to go anywhere.
Get over it and attend her wedding too.Take heart! search and you will find!
RomanceRe: Why Are Some People Afraid Of Falling In Love? by pendo89(f): 10:53am On Jul 21, 2011
shocked shocked
Talk of claremont and he appears!!
Pliiiiiiiiiiiiiiiz dont start the love thread again.!!
RomanceRe: Why Are Some People Afraid Of Falling In Love? by pendo89(f): 9:30am On Jul 21, 2011
ooh love again!
where is claremont!
RomanceRe: Is It Possible To Fall In Love With Cousin? by pendo89(f): 9:23am On Jul 21, 2011
jeez!
I am not going to condemn you because we are flesh and most often we fall short of expected standards.

Start dis entangling yourself from your cousin both emotionally and physically.

This will only be possible if you put a stop to all these meetings and sleeping together in the same room.

Turn your attention to your boyfriend and spend more time talking to him than your cuz.

I like calling that a displacement.Get him off your mind and replace him with your boyfriend.

Avoid him like plague until you are sure hes more cuz than lover. You cant avoid family gatherings but don't seclude yourselves at all when they happen.

Prevention is better than cure so don't light a fire you will not be able to put off!!

You have been warned.
RomanceRe: I Cant Sleep! by pendo89(f): 8:57am On Jul 21, 2011
its called insomnia.

Medication :Valium - a tranquilizer  used to relieve anxiety and relax muscles; acts by enhancing the inhibitory actions of the neurotransmitter GABA; can also be used as an anticonvulsant drug in cases of nerve agent poisoning

I hope you have not started convulsing! undecided

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RomanceRe: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by pendo89(f): 8:52am On Jul 21, 2011
now I feel guilty  undecided
maybe he's just a teen
But op, she's told you a million times but you dont get! now you want nl's opinion.
seriously do you imagine what anybody says here will change her status to single,available and ready to mingle?
we dont know her we just know her status. Hang around nl you may find somebody else.Really.let go. angry
RomanceRe: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by pendo89(f): 8:27am On Jul 21, 2011
angry angry angry angry

Ok OP

WHAT PART OF  'I AM ENGAGED don't you understand'?

[b]affianced, betrothed, pledged to be married,  [/b]THAT'S WHAT!

In simple english,she is on her way to getting married unless she tells you otherwise so kindly step back and find your rib elsewhere maybe here on NL undecided

Gosh! you amaze me. angry
RomanceRe: Love Has Drowned My Thinking Oo by pendo89(f): 6:32am On Jul 21, 2011
define that relationship and make up your mind
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Unpleasant Goodbye To My Nairaland Love by pendo89(f): 6:20am On Jul 21, 2011
^^lol James am cool very cool
I c you are the perfect example of a player!
your one crazy dude.
But funny I like that.
RomanceRe: Do You Believe In Love? by pendo89(f): 6:11am On Jul 21, 2011
Cuddle cuddle. you are totally drunk with love! damn who did this to you gal?  undecided It happens anyway.  grin
Everytime I read that word love only one person comes to mind .
His name is CLAREMONT .The professor of delusion grin grin(I love undecided you claremont dont hate)
I think only you and you alone can dissuade him from his crazy belief.
You are the 'epitome of romance on nl' if I may say so and Claremont doesn't believe in all that stuff.
Negatives attract from my physics lessons. Would you therefore be kind and write him a love note.
see if he goes jelly at the knees. Who knows! undecided
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Unpleasant Goodbye To My Nairaland Love by pendo89(f): 12:05am On Jul 21, 2011
The suspence is good. dont kill it cz it will lose the flavour.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Unpleasant Goodbye To My Nairaland Love by pendo89(f): 11:45pm On Jul 20, 2011
ooooh not with all these smart nlandrs here.
it will be evident plus al spoil the fun and open a can of worms
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Unpleasant Goodbye To My Nairaland Love by pendo89(f): 11:33pm On Jul 20, 2011
^^1989!! shocked shocked shocked shocked

And change the thread title now.Its no longer goodbye.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Unpleasant Goodbye To My Nairaland Love by pendo89(f): 11:26pm On Jul 20, 2011
i got 4 .narrowing it down to 3.not easy to say the truth
Everybody loves you so its pretty hard
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Unpleasant Goodbye To My Nairaland Love by pendo89(f): 11:22pm On Jul 20, 2011
ok back t myself
grin grin grin grin
I actually have 89.
leakage pliz
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Unpleasant Goodbye To My Nairaland Love by pendo89(f): 11:20pm On Jul 20, 2011
^^^lol grin grin grin grin grin grin

cuddle u made me fall off my seat laughing
grin grin grin grin
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Unpleasant Goodbye To My Nairaland Love by pendo89(f): 11:14pm On Jul 20, 2011
190 is calling out for his love on the other side through poetry grin
Amazing what love can make people do.
both of you have become poet masters cz of this thing called love.
I wait with bated breath grin grin
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Sos Romance Call To That Special Nairalander - Dedicated To The One - I Love - by pendo89(f): 10:47pm On Jul 20, 2011
There are 2 poet masters in nl now.
190 and cuddle have taken poetry in order to get their messages across.
whoever you are kindly reciprocate and show back love. These people must be hurting for real.
Wish y'all lots of luck in your endeavours.
Love is heavenly.

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