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where is claremont?
ooh okay i saw him. good.carry on

Her mum predicted.
Am I the only one not suprised?

@op

This is what happens when you spiritualise everything.
The pastor is only there as a spiritual adviser but He is not God [/b]and therefore should [b]not determine your destiny.

Who told you that God still resides in the mountains?I know what you mean here but please lets respect God enough at times and do the right thing at the right time and in the right way.Read the scriptures well.

Listen please; God gave us a manual! but we refuse to read it, then we go pray and fast in order to get a quick answer.
We start seeing crazy visions and hearing crazy voices and say God spoke.Question is 'Is it in line with the manual called Bible?

If the bible says He will fulfill the desire of your heart, then ask youself what kind of woman do I desire? There's nothing spiritual here.
Look for a quality woman not one that can prophecy and speak in many tongues! it never makes a wife afterall.

God brought you your heart's desire but instead of embracing it,you went to seek more counsel and prayers. 

He gave us Brains and to use so that we dont keep pestering him with silly questions.

I will not tell you what to do cz you broke a good girls heart. If I were you[b] I would give her a chance and see how things go[/b]
Start hearing God for yourself.Then approach the pastor to wed you.He doesnt have to know about your love life.
good luck

@op
I quote you below.
'Modern girls are a problem, they burn universities, they can burn a husband, I fear the rage of a woman'
That made me laugh so hard.
However what caught my attention was this 'I know some marriages are bliss, but these are very few,
I like telling anybody who cares to listen;

1.Do not give up on living because somebody committed suicide
2.Do not fear investing because the stock markets paint a different picture
3.Do not give up believing in God because some 'idolised man of God' sinned.
4.Do not give up on education because there are many jobless master holders
5.Do not give up on marriage because of the rising no of divorces etc etc.
etc etc.

If we all become pessimists then what kind of world will this be? If you believe some marriages are bliss, then join that clique of those enjoying bliss.Find out from them why its all bliss. Hardwork is the name.Rem,theres nothing new in the world after all, so all these evils will continue happening whether or not you get married.

A marriage without conflicts is almost as inconceivable as a nation without crisis.
This is where many fail leading to those divorces. Study this course called conflict resolution and you will live happily ever after.

Oh plus its not a sin to remain bachelor.Paul never married but he had one heck of a thorn in the flesh.


cheers

smbody is provoking somebody!
pdude.how does a mentally ill woman in nigeria or Africa behave?
and whats romantic here? her shorts?

Its all there.Shes mentally ill and was hallucinating. Its got nothing to do with colour.
Its a miracle she survived. A mentally stable person wouldn't have.My guess.

oooooh claremont claremont!!! not again.

The sudanese have warmed up to kenya investors because the kenyans hosted them when their country was in turmoil.
Kenya is one E.A Africa country that opens its doors to troubled neighbours.But some misbehave at times.Sudanese can be very good neighbours. No issues no funny groups.They are just tall and very dark
The somalis open madrassa classes all over the moment you allow them in.They buy homes and convert them to madrassa classes.
These classes end up producing extremists.That is why they are treated the way they are.
Be careful when you go to sudan.They are not stupid.They already know that everybody is flocking there now because of oil.
Those guys can turn on you in a way you wont believe if you dare provoke them.
I love Africa

now its turning into a comic.I watched on yahoo how that crazy animal jumped over the wall and disappear into the bush!
Now these new photos lol!! the dude hugging that pole must have peed on himself!!.Beneath him was a pool of water I guess a fish pond then here comes an angry leopard !!oooh To drown or to be mauled! or both
And if the tranquilizer didnt have any effect on the leopard, then better use it on myself! and very fast for that matter.
As 4 the camera guy? even with the zooming, he must have been strategically placed to be able to capture this well.
or was he the zoo man that let the tigers out? get good shots and sell? OK this is too much thinking. enough.

@steady angel
you are not steady at all. Your conscience is too seared with guilt over this thing.
You have used that word over and over and you are opening up when you are deep in the murk of things.But hey you can still come out.
Since you cannot undo the past, let bygones be bygones and focus on now and the future.
Have you ever posed to ask yourself how many girls in worse situations than yours are making ends meet without selling their bodies?
What else do they do? is there any option? explore pliz.
You are the child here not the parent!Be careful what you sacrifice. You are shouldering responsibilities not meant for you and its no wonder you have resorted to extreme measures.Your parents laid back attitude leave a lot to be desired, but anyway put a stop and use what you have now to move forward.
How do u feel when you see your family advancing while another is slowly disintergrating?
There's nothing mind disturbing than ill gotten success.A good man will help you with no strings attached.
Change this its all in your hands.

But who can explain to me what that guy with rifle in the second pic was thinking about?
watching the tiger pounce on his friend? and he had rifle? And in the first pic hes soo calm resting and watching the drama unfold!
I guess it happened so fast but still!!
shivers shivers.act! lol

Babe you got my vote.

^^ well said
Resist all appearances of evil and he will flee from you.!

God have mercy.They better speed up the process because half of them survivors are too old and may not live long enough to receive justice.
The grandkids will anyway.
Good thing is there is enough evidence to prove their case but I hate the process!!

WOW.
And who the heck was the camera guy! taking photos instead of taking to his heels!
second pic gives me shivers.

SOMALILAND (not the somali you read about)

President: Ahmed Mohamed Mohamoud.

It shares borders with Republic of Djibouti to the west, Federal Republic of Ethiopia to the south and Somalia to the east.
The Republic of Somaliland known as the Somaliland Protectorate under the British rule from 1884 until June, 26th 1960 when Somaliland got its independence from Britain. On July 1st 1960 it joined the former Italian Somalia to form the Somali Republic. The union did not work according to the aspirations of the people, and the strain led to a civil war from 1980s onwards and eventually to the collapse of the Somali Republic. After the collapse of the Somali Republic, the people of Somaliland held a congress in which it was decided to withdraw from the Union with Somalia and to reinstate Somaliland's sovereignty.

The country has a republican form of government. The legislative assembly is composed of two chambers - an elected elder's chamber, and a house of representatives. An elected President and an elected Vice-president head the government. The President nominates the cabinet which is approved by the legislature. There is an independent judiciary

The country has three political parties. The elections in 2003 and 2010 are symbols of Somaliland's political stability and maturity.
Somali is the official language. Arabic and English are the other official languages.Somaliland has a budding tourist industry and is home to what is often considered to be one of the most interesting attractions in the Horn of Africa which is the Laas Gaal cave paintings. Currently, a small number of tourists travel to the country to see this sight.Somaliland also also exports Hides, Skins, Myrrh and Frankincense in smaller scale.

Okay that's somaliland for you.Complete opposite of the other we know.

Problem is they are very hostile and violent. I dont know why they are always willing to fight at the slightest provocation.
God help somali.They are now facing the worst starvation and moving into Kenya in droves!
Another camp has been opened to accomodate them! and theres fighting over whether they should be allowed into Kenya or restricted to their country because of the numbers. Its sad to see the women and kids starving and all that!!
But theres theres is a goverment called 'somaliland'
complete opposite of the one we know of.

@
Stop getting baffled.You will understand better what they mean when you marry I guess.
They love and respect their wives but use and dump their sidedishes.
That's what they will tell you.

life partner?? wow!
meet,not dating,not willing to and you conclude you got a life partner!
okay cool.

@ pweety
lol you and faces! I don't take anybody's profile pic here seriously you know.
public is public and private is private.

claremont
cz he doesnt believe in love

oh God,

last time it was claremont vs sexkillz
now its claremont vs full-lips

same topic love!

@op
Is your hubby a pastor or those men who spend 99% of their time in church?f so then I can guess why u are hurting.
If not then you need to stop taking church as your refuge and confront this issue with him.
Remember,Neither of you is married to church!! Your marriage is more important than that 'church'
Engaging in soo many church activities doesn't even bring you closer to God! It only takes you far from your family and husband/wife.
Balance dear.Many christian families are boring coz having fun to them means attending church functions! all the time. Nothing other than that!
Set your priorities right and focus on building that relationship.If you were never counselled b4 marriage then get some counselling ( and yes from the right pple as smbody rightfully said),and know the role of a man, woman and marriage and fun. Don't even say 'its coz of the kids' You kill it already by that statement.
goodluck

^^
Newbie? I highly doubt but no worries, somebody else could be feeling the same.

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i believe my brain is jammed!
lemmie just pass.

And that is a 'naughty wink at the end of your post'

Guard your marriage and stop getting tempted here! some are wishing to be in your shoes while you are joking!

lol.
Are you in a cage? My dear marriage life is supposed to be happy/fun not like living in a cage.

It requires both your efforts to spice it up.The biggest mistake people do is stop dating each other the moment they marry.

You stop going out and doing all the nice things you used to do together during courtship.

Suddenly routine creeps in, you get used to each other, you bore each other to death because there are no more suprises!!

Romance flows out of the window and you are reduced to a worker! while he becomes a couch potato with remote in hand!

There's nothing to miss 'out there' Did you not run away from the 'out' life to settle in marriage?

You r the lady! be creative and go out together,meet other couples.You are now ONE remember so you are not thinking as 'I' but as 'WE'

And nobody is using you to decorate anything!! hey its your house/home and you want it to look good!! dont you?

All women do this.Its part of being a woman and the very reason he married you! cz you are good in housekeeping.

Take is an added advantage and stop whining!

Organise a getaway and invite him.

question?