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Foreign AffairsRe: 140 Nigeria Police Officers Arrive Somalia For Peace Keeping by pendo89(f): 1:57pm On Sep 24, 2012
lol
FamilyRe: Life For A Woman After A Divorce.... by pendo89(f): 2:56pm On Sep 23, 2012
My goodness.Some men gosh.

You know what, bear the pain and do not try to suppress it. The anger bitterness revengeful feelings are normal just don't act on them.
What I know is that this pain you are feeling right now will lessen with time and more so when you find that loving guy who will turn your life around.
And as you continue healing, embrace any positive encouragement coming you way.Go out and make friends who will not keep reminding you of the past but talk positive about future.
You will soon discover that you can tell your story without pain and anger and that is the time to move on and trust me you will.
In the meantime God is not asleep.He knows how best to avenge and he sure will esp if you played your role well.
I can't wait to hear you open a thread about him begging to be part of your life again. That is when you smile and tell him sorry. I am a new person with a loving caring man.
Now please don't be too negative or hard on yourself.You will not die but live to enjoy all goodness in life.
At times we spend too much time looking at a door which is closing we fail to see the one opening.
Focus ahead and not on the past pain,Pick up the broken pieces (not all can be picked but whatever you can, pick) God will seal the gaps.
Eat well,mingle,force a smile,engage in a hobby and live.Do not lock yourself up and hide in a cave.
The world will judge you for sure but sorround yourself with positive people.Listening to other people's trials also helps one not to feel like the world is caving in on them
Take heart cz It will be well.
Wish I could give you a hug but just receive it online.
RomanceRe: I Don't Know What To Do by pendo89(f): 11:20am On Sep 23, 2012
Akin1212: I am so in love with a girl and we started dating over a year ago, it took six months for this girl to accept me. We met in school. This girl had a boyfriend she claimed they've been together for 7yrs.
She made it clear to you that she had a bf but you persisted.She accepted you cz of pressure? just a guess.
But the guy will not give up. To cut a long story short, recently the girl came visiting and before she got to my place she deleted all the messages the guy sent to her so i would not get mad at her,
Now that doesn't mean a thing.You getting mad is not good enough reason.very shallow and temporary measure.
Messages are deleted from phones not hearts.

my girlfriend said she went to see 'someone' i looked into her eyes and she said she went to see 'someone like that'.
Very confused.She has her emotions split between two guys she loves.

So i got mad and asked for a break up and she wept profusely i mean non stop that i can't do this to her.
She said i should trust her that she has nothing to do with the guy. Almost all girls behave this way in such situations.It's normal.
She said she doesn't know how to tell the guy that he should leave her alone because he has health issues.
Now what issues? Did she make a vow to the guy? What did she promise him that make her feel so much guilt?
Then i collected the number and call the guy that he should stop disturbing my girlfriend that he is trying to break us apart.
Honestly,I think it's you who broke them apart.
And he sent this message to my girlfriend 'can't imagine you doing this to me after all your promises when we both spoke last. Why did you have to give him my number, you know this is between me and you. You now put me back into another dillema abi? I just want you to know that i don't deserve this from you if you can still remember the past. Tell the guy that i will get back at him i promise. Good day'
What you did wasnt right.Wear the guy's shoes for a second and imagine how that feels.
this girl is a virgin and i feel like fighting this war to the end, War? you found her in a relationship rem. cease fire and allow her to choose which guy she wants or else she plays both of you
.[b]as far as i'm concerned [/b]we love each other,
True it's as far as you are concerned but what about as far as she is concerned? A girls heart is difficult to predict.
we have done things together that she has never done before. Every girl has a starting point so that shouldnt blind you.
I affect her positively and does the same to me. I have a feeling the other guy affects her more.There must be a pact they made.
I don't want to leave her but i don't know what to do. Please advice me
Be open for anything including a heartbreak.Give her space please.At the moment she's feeling pressure from both sides and her decision is based on who exerts the most pressure.If you love her release her and see if she will come back. Free your heart too and relax.
CelebritiesRe: Omotola’s Husband, Capt. Matthew Sacked From Air Nigeria by pendo89(f):
Da kingpin: so what should i do. Should i start boiling beans
LOLEST! You guys are funny!
CelebritiesRe: Omotola’s Husband, Capt. Matthew Sacked From Air Nigeria by pendo89(f): 9:14pm On Sep 22, 2012
It is still sketchy where the light skinned pilot will be heading to,
lol that caught my attention even though I know neither. Why the description?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Banned From Romance Section By Sexkillz Ban Expires: 7:28am On Feb 07, 2106 by pendo89(f): 8:58pm On Sep 22, 2012
expires when?? grin grin grin eti Garri activist? lol
RomanceRe: Am Pregnant With My Dad's Baby by pendo89(f): 5:27pm On Sep 22, 2012
Ths is what I classify as gutter press, full of gutter news to sell.
RomanceRe: Ok by pendo89(f): 4:18pm On Sep 22, 2012
donfreke: Another way to find out is to check out the wideness of their V. Most Virgin walk and stand tightly than nons.
Very funny thread. grin grin grin grin.
RomanceRe: How To Fall In Love by pendo89(f): 1:30pm On Sep 21, 2012
grin grin grin grin grin grin
Made my day!!
RomanceRe: Divorce and Us by pendo89(f): 12:12pm On Sep 21, 2012
How does divorce kill marriages??

I thought that marriages die, before divorce takes place not the other way round.And it happens a lot elsewhere.

If you shift your focus a bit to those getting married for only a week you will come up with new statistics.

Focus on what is good and you will not be discouraged.
Foreign AffairsRe: 140 Nigeria Police Officers Arrive Somalia For Peace Keeping by pendo89(f): 12:04pm On Sep 21, 2012
Nitakushow dust.mnyambo wewe. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Do you even read news or all you do is sit and wait for the khat loaded cargo plane to arrive? grin grin

Kenya Defense Forces along SNA and Ras-Kamboni militia has captured the town of f Jana Abdallah located a few kilometers outside Kismayu.

On Sunday, KDF and SNA, alongside Ras-Kamboni militia engaged defensive positions of the militants inside f Jana Abdallah killing a company size number of the militants.

In the past fortnight, KDF has captured Biibi town, Miido, Harbole, besides other villages of strategic importance further degrading Al-Shabaab capacity to freely operate and launch attacks.

However, intelligence shows the militants continue to regroup in an effort to put a brave resistance against the Kenyan forces who are the first in the world to destroy and weed out militants in Somalia.
It's very easy to destroy you hooligans and send you back to somalia but you know why the goverment is slow? It's cz YOU KILL YOUR OWN WOMEN AND KIDS!

We can put you all in lorries and dump you at the boarder.It has happened before u know. But all those women/innocent babies will die at the hands of the militia. See we are not as inhuman as you guys.And you are here jumping up and down like a crazy gazelle.
Foreign AffairsRe: 140 Nigeria Police Officers Arrive Somalia For Peace Keeping by pendo89(f): 11:46am On Sep 21, 2012
somalia5: hopefully alshabaab will get good target on these monkeys
RUBBISH.WHY DO YOU MAKE UNNECESSARY NOISE ONLINE.WE KNOW YOU ARE JUST AN IRRITANT PEST.BUT KEEP ENTERTAINING US AND PROVING THE STATS RIGHT.lowest IQ.
YOU EXHIBIT SYMPTOMS OF POST TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER AYANLE/ALI. I KEEP TELLING YOU TO SEEK HELP BUT YOU REFUSE.You are not a young man as you would like forumites to believe.Where is your wife and kids? In a camp I guess.


Read here;

Kismayu has Fallen to KDF, Al-Shabaab Defect and Flee
http://intelligencebriefs.com/?p=3080

Kenya defense forces have started taking control of the the Somali port of Kismayu, the last bastion of the militant terrorist outfit Al-Shabaab.

While the port is not completely liberated, KDF special forces are already taking out members of the Al-Shabaab elite forces who are giving a last fight.

KDF elite forces are operating from the west of the city of Kismayu while others have landed in the beaches of the port, Strategic Intelligence service confirms.

KDF special forces, a mixture of different elite forces landed from the sea while others landed from their helicopters and another battalion hit the port from the west.

This was the strategic approach and Al-Shabaab least expected this, Strategic Intelligence has confirmed.

KDF mapped out new transport, resupply, and troop movement routes making Tana River and Mada Bay new strategic operations area.

Al-Shabaab has hoped KDF would come to Kismayu through the Afmadow road, however, KDF has restructured its approach to the objective by redesigning its routes.

Most of the Kenyan elite forces are using a specific long-range gun that has completely forced Al-Shabaab fighting units out of their way.

The UN and AU has started lobbying for KDF to take extra caution in their urban operations to minimize collateral damage and loss of lives.


After this repatriation starts.You MUST go back to your country.We shall move those Refugees camps to somalia and create a buffer zone.
Weaklings that cannot allow their women or kids to enjoy their own country.
Foreign AffairsRe: A Female British Soldier Put To Bed On The War Front by pendo89(f): 10:47am On Sep 21, 2012
Hahaha Camp Bastion? That's a hell of a place But Harry is right there.
The other day insurgents killed two marines right inside the secured camp and blew up 8 jets! after gaining entry through a hole in the fence.
Chills. But a nice excuse to leave the camp and go back home.
CrimeRe: Man Caught Selling Vulture As Fried Chicken by pendo89(f): 10:38am On Sep 21, 2012
freecocoa: Thought you've eaten hyena,no? huh
hahaha.funny.
What will happen to this man? any law prohibiting?
RomanceRe: What Makes You Lose Interest In Someone? by pendo89(f): 10:24am On Sep 21, 2012
If interests/goals/desires don't match. What else is there to attract?
CrimeRe: Man Caught Selling Vulture As Fried Chicken by pendo89(f): 10:02am On Sep 21, 2012
I think if one consumes a vulture he will start behaving like it or assume it's features.
It's like eating a hyena.
RomanceRe: How Do U Cope Wit Your Wife High Pay At Work by pendo89(f): 9:18pm On Sep 20, 2012
Good luck.jobs aren't that easy to come by anyway,so make sure you can single handedly take care of all financial obligations.
RomanceRe: Please Help Ooo!!! by pendo89(f): 9:07pm On Sep 20, 2012
Help with what now?

I do not think so.Actually depends on what both of you are doing or aiming at.

22 is thinking school,career,work. What's on your mind?

Give her time to study,work and mature mentally cz when she hits 27 you will be 36, assuming it lasts between both of you.

27/36 looks ok.
RomanceRe: Why Is This Lady Behaving Like This?? by pendo89(f): 8:52pm On Sep 20, 2012
Johnny: I met this lady some months back and it was love at first sight.She‘s got good body and facially beautiful;an average man would go for her.We got talking that night and she gave me the sexiest look I had ever seen.We exchanged numbers and started talking.I asked her out and she accepted me immediately but told me that she was living with her husband (or boyfriend) for whom she already had two kids even though her dowry hasn‘t been paid.I was a little confused initially but since her dowry hasn‘t been paid,I won‘t be accused of going out with a “married“ woman.
Oh c'mmon dude.She just told you that she's got 2 kids with a man she lives with.Married or not this is enough to make you pause and THINK! But I guess the sexy look left you confused
So we continued, continued with what now? undecided Mistake 1.you ought to have stopped.
and a week later,she visited me and we had s*x (safe s*x).To cut a long story short,we have had s*x three times and possibly having another tomorrow.....
Oh is that so?? you are stealing you know that? grin grin

Now my problem is this;She‘s bothering me too much for money,even though she isn‘t asking for too much.She works and her “husband“ is also there,why the persistent requests?? Now who Forced you there.You invaded another mans' property! and want to eat forbidden fruits without obligations. Play by the rules or get out of that mess.lol!
Just last week here,I gave her some money,a day later she called and “begged“ for her cream,and just now she sent in a message begging for some money again that she‘s very broke.....I like giving alot but not to be put under pressure,and above all,she knows I just did some expenses that I shouldn‘t have any money now.Is she greedy,inconsiderate or wants to take advantage of me?? No No No.She is not! You are! The woman has issues with her hubby and you have offered yourself as a scapegoat.Why are you complaining again? I don‘t have that kind of money to waste abeg! But you have forbidden sex to enjoy LOL.What a mix
*Do you know this lady was even begging me the other day to buy her cake for her son‘s birthday;can you imagine!Am I the boy‘s father??*
Oh so you are not? You just told us that you are planning on having a steamy session tomorrow with a her. Are you her husband?
RomanceRe: 10 Rules 2keep Men Of Nowadays by pendo89(f): 8:25pm On Sep 20, 2012
I can never work hard to keep a man. If he is unstable,it don't matter if you lick the floor he walks on,cz he will still step.
Don't struggle too much to be perfect cz that kills romance.
RomanceRe: Dont Knw Who To Choose by pendo89(f): 8:19pm On Sep 20, 2012
Get real!
Are you falling in love with careers or people? cz that is what you are asking us to decide.
TravelRe: Nairobi Photos (kenya): A Beautiful East African City by pendo89(f): 1:09pm On Sep 19, 2012
Homesick damn! na niko tu hapa karibu na park.
That giraffe is the most kissed in the world.I have kissed and fed it pallets.
RomanceRe: She's Only Beautiful At Night!... by pendo89(f): 12:47pm On Sep 19, 2012
Smh.
I really pity some women.I really do.
Foreign AffairsRe: Are Somalians And Ethiopians Really Africans? by pendo89(f): 9:32am On Sep 19, 2012
And what is the essence of this thread? Why are people trying so hard to prove race?

Ok they are chinese.But HALLO!! some poor somali is dying of hunger in a refugee camp.
While another SOMALI/AYANLE suffers from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
He needs psychological help not a discussion.
Good day.Do not reply ayanle!
Foreign AffairsRe: African Union Should Withdraw From Somalia- From A Somali by pendo89(f): 9:25am On Sep 19, 2012
smh.Sad fellow. Pay ur cyber fee and go sit idle by the roadside.
In the meantime there's no technological advancement in your country somali. What a pity.
Good day.
Foreign AffairsRe: African Union Should Withdraw From Somalia- From A Somali by pendo89(f): 9:11am On Sep 19, 2012
somalia5: go pick cotton
Ok you go masturbate and use CDs. grin grin AIDS kills.
Foreign AffairsRe: African Union Should Withdraw From Somalia- From A Somali by pendo89(f): 9:00am On Sep 19, 2012
Over thousands of Somaliland people are suffering from[b] post-traumatic stress syndrome.[/b]

You are a sufferer Ayanle. You talk about HIV all the time.

Could this be you? [img]http://t3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTsaKyagqNLMU6ex4-KVR1YIJV1MN5lhOmH7ThyghCWrQ2uKr3N5g[/img]

Camel milk and Urine won't help you!See? IQ issues again!!

If you do not have access to modern treatment we can donate to buy ARVS for u. Your address please?
Foreign AffairsRe: African Union Should Withdraw From Somalia- From A Somali by pendo89(f): 8:54am On Sep 19, 2012
You are too shallow Ayanle. A total waste of blood and flesh cz that is all you posess.

This is why you guys will never develop because you boast over what you do not have! Who eats skin colour? Who cares about race anyway esp if you are soo poor.
Great you feel superior but why hasn't your superiority brought change? Your community keeps getting worse by the day and it's such a pity cz no nation wants you.

See why SOMALI IQ is among the lowest in the world? Cz you only talk about race and khat while the rest are progressing.

Continue chewing khat like a cow and burning incense. The rest of Africa has serious work to do.
Foreign AffairsRe: African Union Should Withdraw From Somalia- From A Somali by pendo89(f): 8:30am On Sep 19, 2012
somalia5: dont make me post pics of ugly mofos who have aids walking around in negeria
you wanna compete with me? FYI am ethiopian.Post our pics.
Foreign AffairsRe: African Union Should Withdraw From Somalia- From A Somali by pendo89(f): 8:25am On Sep 19, 2012
AYANLE/SOMALI5 WITH HIS WIFE AND KIDS.

Am sure they are suffering in the camp while you are online blowing hot air on people with stable homes and families.
Just GROW UP dude and stop diarrhoeing khat all over the forum.

https://www.aljazeera.com/mritems/Images/2011/7/8/201178155612720734_19.jpg

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