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Foreign AffairsRe: Let's Have Your Questions Here: Ask A Cameroonian? by pendo89(f): 8:09pm On Oct 11, 2012
lol! grin.
Foreign AffairsRe: Who Are The Most Trustworthy People In Africa ? by pendo89(f): 8:04pm On Oct 11, 2012
@goodgirl.Subiri nikupige risasi wewe mwizi. grin
Foreign AffairsRe: From Nairobi Kenya To Monrovia Liberia: Lawmakers Are Ripping Off The People. by pendo89(f): 7:59pm On Oct 11, 2012
President Kibaki has declined to assent to the amendment to the Finance Bill that was passed by Parliament last week terming it unconstitutional and untenable.

It will not happen.The president is a no nonsense one.
FamilyRe: Washing Twice by pendo89(f): 8:17pm On Oct 10, 2012
I wash mine twice as well if am doing manual.Perhaps its just a compulsive disorder.
Foreign AffairsRe: Who Are The Most Trustworthy People In Africa ? by pendo89(f): 7:59pm On Oct 10, 2012
lol! wewe! jeez! I have never been to malawi neither have I interacted with them so,can't tell.
but ur description of my neighbours is harsh! lol.We kenyans find them slow and polite cz kenyans work like safari ants and are ever on the run.
Got a colleague who went there and anytime I email him, he tells me to wait for a reply after 24 hrs cz, well what's the hurry ! grin
I know they find kenyans to be rather arrogant and proud,(wajuaji)so they keep provoking yet they they need us and vv.
Whatever the case,I think am comfortable around a tanzanian.100 times more with the gigolos. grin
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Happy Birthday Reality101 by pendo89(f): 7:34pm On Oct 10, 2012
HBD smiley
Foreign AffairsRe: Jubaland: Africa's 55th Country by pendo89(f): 1:23pm On Oct 10, 2012
LINK??
That wouldn't be so bad. Esp if they move the refugee camps to Jubaland.Afterall, they are gateways to terrorists and weapons.
Foreign AffairsRe: Kenya: President Kibaki Rejects Mps' Send-off Pay by pendo89(f): 1:19pm On Oct 10, 2012
This is why I love Kibaki

Quiet,slow but sure.He gets things done! not an activist or noisemaker.

Greed ended with Moi era.It's a new dispensation and leaders aren't having it their way

Kudos to Kenyans.
Foreign AffairsRe: Who Are The Most Trustworthy People In Africa ? by pendo89(f): 9:29pm On Oct 09, 2012
@ good girl they are rwandese not rwandans lolest! but i find them 'humble'
In West Africa is is CERTAINLY Gambians. In East Africa it is Tanzanians, in Southern Africa it is Botswana, in North Africa it should be Tunisians.
i think this is true.
RomanceRe: Does Sex Really Promote Love?? by pendo89(f): 8:58pm On Oct 09, 2012
Yes and No depending on the set up.
RomanceRe: How Do You Resolve Conflicts In Your Relationship? by pendo89(f): 8:42pm On Oct 09, 2012
ogeeh: As different Humans ,Brought up in different environment.we are bound to have conflicts of interest.
(1)How do you resolve or what is the best way to resolve conflicts of interest in your relationship:you win,I lose; you lose ,I win; no one wins or loses?Chose one and give your reasons.
(2)This Is 4 the guys:In resolving conflict in your relationship,do you both air your your views or does your baby girl have to condescend to only your opinion?
1. When in a relationship, get rid of this word 'COMPETITION'.You are equal partners, so whatever each one of you does affects the other.
In a conflict,don't look forward to winning.Look forward to PEACE even if it means humbling yourself. It's not politics.

2.Understand your partner. How does he react to issues? Is he the quiet type,angry type,loud or what?
That will help you understand how to react when conflict arises.

3. Learn to ignore small things.Let go off stuff because they pile up and explode with the least provocation.
RomanceRe: How Do You Deal With Anger Issues. by pendo89(f): 8:23pm On Oct 09, 2012
I get my recorder and compose songs.Tunes and rythms just flow.
Not to talk about housework.I get this extra energy to clean everything.From roof to floor.
Can even wash the neighbours dishes! The satisfaction is awsome. wink
Work really does wonders.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Kails Come In Here by pendo89(f): 7:51pm On Oct 08, 2012
LOL.I swear you two are just the bomb! grin grin
Somali chasing Kails from thread to thread. grin

I love it when you are both fighting.
CultureRe: I Wanna Know More About Jamaican Culture by pendo89(f): 2:03pm On Oct 08, 2012
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
smh,
Foreign AffairsRe: Let's Have Your Questions Here: Ask A Cameroonian? by pendo89(f): 10:47am On Oct 08, 2012
poa.poa.

Mhh.ok I need a cameroonian man. grin grin any possibility?
Foreign AffairsRe: Who Are The Most Trustworthy People In Africa ? by pendo89(f): 10:45am On Oct 08, 2012
Good Girl: I disagree. Matapeli wale! cheesy
Roflol!!

Ok.Rwandans
Foreign AffairsRe: Let's Have Your Questions Here: Ask A Cameroonian? by pendo89(f): 10:40am On Oct 08, 2012
smiley
RomanceRe: What Makes You Want To Remember Your Ex? by pendo89(f): 9:57pm On Oct 07, 2012
190: anytime i see any wild animal, i remember my ex

last time i saw a wounded bush pig - thoughts of her came running through my mind undecided
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

This man will one day kill me wth laughter.Gosh. grin grin grin
RomanceRe: HELP! Is He A Cultist? by pendo89(f): 9:18pm On Oct 07, 2012
grin grin grin grin am sorry but the pic is funny
CultureRe: What Amuses You The Most About Nigerians? by pendo89(f): 5:57pm On Oct 07, 2012
everything
CultureRe: I Wanna Know More About Jamaican Culture by pendo89(f): 5:55pm On Oct 07, 2012
Lmao! Sickness galore!!

Somali and Kails!! grin grin grin

You guys are here? I knew somali had a thing for Kails.And Kails I told you that wedding bells are about to ring in somalia.

I want to be party to this. grin grin
RomanceRe: Indicate Your Interest In a Debate Entitled, Money Sustains Love by pendo89(f): 5:40pm On Oct 07, 2012
sexkillz is there a time limit?
I am available now but cannot confirm my availability 3 hours from now.
RomanceRe: Which Of These Can You Share With Your Partner? (be Sincere Pls) by pendo89(f): 3:31pm On Oct 07, 2012
define partner.
boyfriend NONE.
RomanceRe: What Are The Things That Makes A Girl To Cheat On A Guy? by pendo89(f): 3:11pm On Oct 07, 2012
Luv Mercy: The girl can hardly boast of the guy spending upto #5000 on her in a month,and the guy is telling her not to cheat on him.
What am I reading here?
If a guy ask you not to cheat on him, there is something he must have noticed in you, which makes you prone to cheating.And in this particular case it's money.
Money plays a role in relationships, but if you measure love against the amount spent or invested in you then you are on the wrong track.
In short a guy who spends more on you, doesn't love you more than the one who doesn't.
RomanceRe: Love At First Sight Or Lust At First Sight by pendo89(f): 2:41pm On Oct 07, 2012
grin grin grin @ replies.Anyway,this is what I think.

We lust after what we see, but grow in love with what we don't see with the human eye.Lust to me stops at physical features, but love goes beyond that.
Physical stirs up lustful feelings.It wants instant gratification, but love is gradual,connects with emotions/character and is not greedy.

It's therefore possible to lust without love but it's not possible to love without lust.
RomanceRe: Depressed: My Fiance Says Am Too 'slim' by pendo89(f): 12:53pm On Oct 07, 2012
I feel more stressed by that 120kg than your 43kg.
I am 49 myself and my partner is 84 and I find him heavy.
Good if your guy is muscled up, not jelly-like.
RomanceRe: NL Experts, Wat's D Meaning Of Diz! by pendo89(f): 12:33pm On Oct 07, 2012
You are not her type.
Saying she loves you is just but a cushion.
RomanceRe: Ladies; Can You Sleep On A Mat In Your Boyfriend's Apartment? by pendo89(f): 10:23pm On Oct 06, 2012
Okay read here again
On getting there you discover
grin.
It has never featured in ur communication.

I love these kind of strange experiences.Out of the normal kind of stuff cz they bring about creativity in a romantic way.
But I am assuming there's a mattress on that mat?? If not then can't he afford a mattress at least?
If he can't buy at least a matt.after having worked a month or two, then I will assume that he doesn't like himself and that is scary.
RomanceRe: So I've Noticed by pendo89(f): 10:20pm On Oct 06, 2012
jacobscros: That the less attractive a woman is, the nicer and more exciting and open she is. this could be because her ego is not overblown or it could be that she can feel I'm not attracted to her and thus she puts her defences down.
How did you come to this conclusion?

What attractiveness are you referring to? cz I can place them in categories; Intelligence,Status,Career,Finance,physical etc.

Now the opposite of what you are trying to imply is called low self esteem or depression.
RomanceRe: Ladies; Can You Sleep On A Mat In Your Boyfriend's Apartment? by pendo89(f): 10:13pm On Oct 06, 2012
[quote author=Mrs..Chima]I would settle for the couch.[/quote]Read again.It says 'ALL HE HAS'in hs room.
Unless you choose to sleep on the radio,I see no other choice. grin
RomanceRe: Ladies; Can You Sleep On A Mat In Your Boyfriend's Apartment? by pendo89(f): 10:05pm On Oct 06, 2012
I wouldn't mind at all if we've dated for a while and I already know his situation.
But I must have paid him a visit during the day, before I can consider going there at night.
And if he's a great guy why not? it's him I love.I may not even notice that mat if the feelings are too strong you know.
Always rem that everything has a start.I love looking at life from that angle.As a journey not an end.

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