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Congrats on your academic achievements.Its inspiring and u deserve a pat.


Why not put a pause on both options till ur mind is made up? You got a whole life ahead of you and plenty more girls to meet.
What would happen if u marry against ur parents wishes in this day and era?

Is that the tree Wangari Maathai planted at Uhuru Park? It must be. from its uniqueness.

And finally the long awaited 787 Dreamliner made its maiden landing at JKIA last year.Kenya Airways have ordered 9 of them.This will give the rest like BA,KLM and Virgin Atlantic a run for their money.
https://www.standardmedia.co.ke/images/thursday/busmain151211_02.jpg

Wow gallivant. You make me fall in love with my country even more.
By the way tell your guy that kenya promotes local tourism as well. The reason he sees the white fellows is cz these pics are mostly taken during peak season when the rates are extremely high due to demand from tourists and the hotels make a kill during this time to make up for low season.
The locals know this and stay off during such periods.But when the tourists go back and rates come down its the opportunity for locals to go enjoy themselves fully if time permits them.
Kenyans enjoy working more than relaxing I must say.

Now who is the white fellow on the rack and what the heck is he doing their getting blown by the wind.

Do u know JKIA was voted as the best cargo facility in Africa by Shipping, Transport, Aviation and Tourism (Stat)??
The Apt is undergoing a Sh4 billion renovation due to end in June. After the expansion process, JKIA will be elevated to Category One status of the International Civil Aviation Organisation, meaning it will have complied with all international standards in terms of infrastructure, safety and security.

Increased passengers also led to the airport being voted best emerging African airport beating, South Africa’s Cape Town, Bole (Ethiopia), Cairo (Egypt) and Monastir Habib of Tunisia.  Ok am shocked cz I know how Capetown is and Ethiopia has always been a leader in the region.

NAJIVUNIA KUWA MKENYA KABISA.

onila onila
I beg to disagree.All what you mentioned (except rape) happens to PROUD/IGNORANT/ARROGANT pretty girls.
why would any sane person call a pretty gal a slut without reason?

sexkillz:
[color=#000030]Pendo relax there!

I'm protesting behind my laptop screen, on Nairaland o jare. . . Protest is protest! [/color]

ooh puuliz. the soldiers go to the battlefield and fight real battle.cowards sit and fight online battles! get out
by the way whats hppng? r u guys on strike beg tmorrow or what

sexkillz:
[color=#000040]You see, i always advise you to watch TV with glasses. . . [/color][color=#000040]Hmm, and if he's hurt, or worse still killed? What if a peaceful protest turns bloody? I mean, it happens, doesnt it?. . .[/color]

if its ur appointed D -day u go! you cannot stand in the way of a vision. so if ur girl's vision is to protest let he fulfill it but warn her of the dangers.
Not everybody is called to be a soldier in battle so let those who are,  be the soldiers they are or else they are letting down humanity.
Get her a bullet proof jacket,helmet,boots,pants and escort her to the street corner.

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=841720.msg9921635#msg9921635 date=1326049848]Let go to BATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTLEEEEEEE!

CHARGE!!!
RIGHT!
FORWARD!!![/quote] your crazy.
But Nigeria is all over the news from bombings to protests. I saw a protestor (thought it ws sexkillz cz of resemblance ) being chased by a guy carrying a machete.
And the crowd was watching while some bayed for his blood. if thats romantic then to hague with it.

@ topic if he/she decides to protest give him the moral support and pray he comes back safe. Some personal fulfillments/achievements supercede romantic love and you cant stand in the way if the mind is made up cz al hel end up doing is becoming disgruntled for not being part of a revolution.(if thats what it is).
I have no probs taking part in a peaceful protest.

you are talking about sonko.
Hes an aspiring presidential candidate,and I know hes got supporters.

appreciating nature.
No wonder Tunde became an heir overnite.

[quote author=Afro_Blue link=topic=837303.msg9916696#msg9916696 date=1325973717]@pendo89

You have 9 what?  [/quote]9 lives like a cat

lmao! nlanders

Since my early days in school I only knew one tribe in Nigeria and that was Yoruba.
And So it is with most people from EA.They think Yoruba is the only tribe/language in Nigeria cz there is more emphasis on the yoruba culture esp in history books set books,cultural events,drama/plays and museums.
And to make it worse,the dresses worn by Yoruba women and Men make people think Yorubas are the only people in Nigeria.
I even used to think the islamic militants the bokos are yoruba muslims till I joined this site.
Now I know there's a tribe called igbo and hausa. Cant tell the diff though.

I am having trouble getting that a million millipedes sucking your fingers dry out of my mind!!!!  
It makes me itchy and am I angry? mh i think so. eew

I know
What I can confidently say about Kenya is that things are better now with the new constitution in place than they were with the previous regime when corruption was deeply rooted, it became a culture. It was almost adopted as a favourable subject of study in education instiutions. jke.
But when a people say enough is enough, they vote to put the right systems and structures in place and eradicate those that made it impossible for any changes to be effected.
And Kenyans did exactly that when the new constitution was progulmated.
There are more prosecutions now with results and the coalition goverment keeps everything in check. Not there yet but there's progress.
The police department is one of the few corrupt ones because everything happens on the road and there's hardly any evidence to prosecute apart from one or two videos which are captured by media houses when they turn investigative.

That aside,theres a terror alert issued by the UK as usual warning guys to beware of elshabaab.You know they have been served a major blow after most of them were killed including their leader.
Security has been beefed up everywhere since the war began and when nothing happens laxity sets in,till another alert is issued. crazy

oops Inked Nerd.The baby is born already damn. Thought she was expectant
She was blinded,played never bothered to dig out stuff about the guy so she s got herself to blame
Okay she need stop crying like a baby and play mother. Every action comes with responsibility and the baby is. No running away from it.

This topic got me thinking.
Is it impossible for a woman to fall in love with a baby she conceived with a runaway man?? When does hate come in surely,is it after the guy dumps you?
why transfer the hate to the innocent kid? Considering the baby was conceived in love,its therefore a product of love not violation/hate.
I think when she gives birth she will fall in love with that baby because its in her womb. I just hope she does because hey, human beings do the act but only the creator determines if that very act will bear fruits so that baby's destiny is not in her hands but the Maker and she must stop playing God.

She just needs to forget the married man and say its not the end of her life but the beginning of another (the baby).
Gosh there are worse things in life than deceit!
Many kids walking the earth are products of married men and some end up influencing the society positively so for christ's sake ask her not to despair but pick up the pieces of her broken heart allow it to heal and be a good mother to her kid or give it up fr adoption.
The kid could be nigeria's future president after all.

vivica its okay.
But look here if you r above 20 and still  hurling personal insults like a 10 year old, where is the difference? As we grow we let some petty things drop as well.
I find online personal attacks disturbing. Always ask urself what do I stand to gain esp considering there's no award and the people u insult have no direct influence on ur personal life. It's tiring and only serves to make u an online hero or bully which to me is pretty childish.
Just let go and focus on what matters and u will find the attacks meaningless and pointless. best still ignore

how d u propose love? Don't you know that loving a woman is like baking cake?
It starts from getting the right ingredients,mixing them well in the right proportions and finally baking under the right temperature till its well risen,brown and with a nice smell.
A slight mistake in cake making could ruin the best cake, so get it all right before u set your mind to start baking.
good luck with ur next woman

This lady is a well known Ugandan musician.Curvaceous,loaded and greatly admired in EA for her songs. I came across this story and I couldn't help but realize how easy it is to trap a lady using a fake big story.

>>Why are some ladies too lazy to investigate a partner's story before falling in love? do you fall in love first before knowing him or you know him first before falling in love?> knowing means digging out info like his education background,family or work,the basics ie.

>>Why invite a guy over to your home before finding out his real identity and background?

>>Are some risks worth taking like travelling far to meet a guy based on the stories hes told u online/phone

The story
Curvy singer Desire Luzinda and her new Nigerian lover only identified as Tunde did not end the year on a good note.
The couple had a big fight immediately after X-mas at their home in Nalya.(ug)
Desire discovered that Tunde is dealing in Illegal stuff yet[b] he had told her that he is an heir of his father’s big business empire.
[/b]
http://redpepper.co.ug

vivika:
Let me get this straight, it is not okay for me to reply people who insult me but it is ok for people to come here, where i actually want advice and insult me instead darling you are probably the absurd one

And you are very right.I am absurd.
But u dint comment on JB's post. Ok dont bother. Its a forum.

I like this JB.
Its absurd to come online seeking advise then hurl insults at people when ur ego is hurt.
At the end of the day if ur issue is really disturbing seek professional help cz here we learn from each others mistakes,go off and move on with our lives.
Then what happens? u are left hurting.

Happy new year to you and wheezy.
Good to see u back healthy and smiling.
May God grant your wishes this year as you strive towards achieving them.

Good news is, the goverment is tightening its noose around corrupt fellows but it's impossible to have a corrupt free country.
Few bad elements will always abound to spread the cancer.
I will check the site to see if videos or photos of the offenders can be uploaded for the Police Commissioner to see.
Nice one if followed by action.

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=838273.msg9909954#msg9909954 date=1325878672]I have mentors that are heavily into the Word and often time I debate with them.      I am not religious but I am not atheist.  And it is sad that those who are "religious" doesn't even know the Bible they claimed to worship.  SMH. 

I was going to go deeper but didn't want to chase the demons away.        You raised an interesting point, they commands submissive woman but WON'T DIE FOR HER.  WTF.

I also want to add that submissive doesn't mean to yield to everything that is good AND bad.  Use common sense Ladies, if the man that you are submitting is beating you or abusing your children, use your brain and un-submit!  If you have a good man and doesn't have an issue with submitting him and it WORKS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE, GREAT!  But, do not feel that in order to keep a man that you must REMAIN HIS SLAVE, no!  You deserve to be HIS QUEEN and if he can't treat you like a QUEEN then he is not YOUR KING.[/quote]See why I said submission means different things to different people. Some would rather die submitting to murderers because  of ignorance. sad.
Man and woman should be partners but the man should lead/take charge.That is my def of submission.

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=838273.msg9909820#msg9909820 date=1325877197]Since a lot of chatters like to introduce the bible for their "evidence" and failed to read it in entirety.  A man leave his family and cleaved as one with his wife.  He is considered the head although without the neck, the head is dead.  

The bible said a woman is to submit to her husband as he submits to God, why would a godless man requests a submissive woman when the bible specifically states that the man is to submit to God before he can even request a submissive woman?  

Morale of this post is:  Don't introduce the Bible if you only open the bible twice a year.  Read it and understand it.[/quote]lol chima,I never knew you were a preacher lady. Since it 's getting religious then allow me to add one about love.
Ok Love your wives as Christ loved the church and laid down his life for it.But how many men(except one I know of here) can take a bullet for their wives?
All 'relationship commands are directed at 2 people not one. So the Head and Neck is a good eg.
I think that word submission means different things to different people depending on ur beliefs so it's good to generalise.

Rooneyboy:
But most of our Nigerian ladies don't have in their daily routine,
Only just a few exposed and well travelled ones  as u rightly said still look sexy and 'competitive' (in the market) after childbirth.
In truth babe----- Do u really blame married guys that womanize ?

Ok lets put this straight first.
There's no excuse for womanizing.A womanizer will cheat whether the wife is a model or not.Its a matter of discipline,commitment and responsibility. Not size!
2>its not a nigerian thing.Most white women loose shape after the first baby.An African woman's body is strong and can bear a lot.
3>>There's nothing to be competitive about because she's married and should not live in fear of any woman taking her place unless the hubby is plain adulterous. Now that again should not be an excuse to just sit and lazy around just cz you have a ring.
I just like women who know how to balance everything.They are professional in their work,great mothers to their kids and beautiful sexy wives to their hubbys.
And remeber, Its not about perfection but being All rounded so that no area suffers at the expense of another.


Now are the husbands keeping shape too or are their tummies causing traffic on the roads? It should be both ways u know for both to be happy.

Rooneyboy:
If my mama would beat my wife to it after over 35years of marriage , then I think I would have a GOOD and authentic reason to cheat

Yah ur mama knew when to eat and what to eat plus even though she doesn't care about gym/aerobics(assuming here) she knew that walking,working around the house using her hands and not watching movies all day and night was good exercise for her.
As a result she lives longer has less health related issues and shes enjoying life.

lmao! silly dude

But seriously. I have married friends that could pass for teenagers till u see the rings. Children to me renew some people esp when they come early in life.It's what I have come to believe because of what I see. Hot/sexy/shapely wives and mothers.
And they work real hard at balancing motherhood and being sexy wives.
Its all about taking good care of that body after chilbirth plus having kids early in life while your body is still capable of getting back into shape easily.
Lots of eating plus no exercise and u become a potato sack.