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My boss once told me that some people marry and settle down while others marry and settle up. But I think men are the cause of their problems in marriage.
I will always remain grateful to God for giving me such a wonderful woman as wife. The solution is prayers when choosing a life partner.
Men wise up.

Please where is the sugar mummy, please I want to beg her for her number. Nairalansers please help me find her as a reward awaits the finder. Thanks.

In the wake of the increasing rate at which various individuals are been awarded Doctorate Degrees up and down in recognition of their contributions to humanity in various sphere of life,I am tempted to ask of what strength are such degrees when compared to acquired degrees in the labour market.
Please I will really want to know, cause recently in my office, my boss was awarded with such degree and some one made a statement saying it's just an awarded degree. I really just don't get.
Lala please you are needed here as I will like this post on a front page for the needed contributions. Thanks

Although enough has been said already, I will still add my little voice. As a matter of fact, your sister went too far with her request or advice. I will be more angry if my wife ever did that. So,advise your sister to go on her knees with tears before the husband to beg for forgiveness.

For me even one week is a serious task. I like sex like craze. So,I no can fit stay for one full month without sex.Mbanuuuuuu.

iphi:
this one is way different please

.There is nothing wrong asking to take her out on val. After all val is not all about sexual relationship.

Rebuke:
For me, I don't see reason why I should even do that.

Whatever works for you, all man to himself.

I sincerely don't see any reason why that should happen in the first place.

Xcept in a case where our wedding holds somewhere in Paris (outside my country ). Of course, I have no personal house there and situation calls for it. I will and my marriage will even be sweeter and last till we meet the Lord.

.Not a bad idea,but let's look at it from the point of view that you occupy a one bedroom flat,and a lot of visitors are expected at your wedding with you being the host.You are expected to spend your night devoid of any distractions. Where is the best place?

Hhhhmmmm! Op,you will be making a very big mistake if you don't continue to tolerate such a good, kind and generous woman. All you need to do now is simply rent a very expensive and befitting apartment for her to enable her continue in her sexual generosity. You are indeed lucky.Woooow! Foolishness is indeed a rare virtue.
Dear God,please never make my enemy to be as foolish as the Op. So help me God. Amen.

My brother, they also fall in love. I have heard a lot about men marrying ashawos. Please kindly go ahead with your plans

A real friend should save his friend from impending calamities.So what kind of friend do you think you are to hide such destructive information from your friend? Why do you think God took you there at that particular time?
Bross ,please kindly save your friend from this disaster.
I will forever remain grateful to my friend who once informed me of the illicit activities of a girl I wanted to marry. After having the information, I confronted her but she denied it.But I kept a close watch on her and later discovered that she was actually guilty as accused. I had to simply dump her and today she is a recognized side chick to a man that careless about her,while I got myself a humble and trusted woman for a wife.
So do the needful and end the respect and trust of your friend.

MRcocaFanta:
It could be that she got vagina yeast and she has taken measures to treat it, hence the cream you saw.

Well her message was out of anger because she feels you don't trust her and that is why she has to unblock you after an hour.

If she was cheating on you and fed up with the marriage, she wouldn't have unblocked you.

And yes indeed, ladies need space when it comes to their sexuality.

You knowing she has contacted vagina yeast could make her emotionally down.

But how she contacted the yeast is what I'm not sure about.

It could be from a one night stand she had.

It could be from the toilet.

Only GOD knows, but i will suggest you talk to her and have her open up to you, but she might lie to you about it.

All the same this is life for you.

I will suggest you take medical precaution by using condoms on her untill she is medically clean.

I think even as couples, it's good the both of you go for medical check-up every two or three months.

Trust no one, not even your wife or husband.

.Op this is the only reasonable comment so far,others are just trashy and out of point.

WonderManly:
No! No!! No!!! I don't have time for this any more: My window phone just end their support for WhatsApp. I'm not just happy!

.My brother you have to take it easy please. I sincerely empathise with you on this very ugly situation as I fully understand the importance of WhatsApp to you in this 21st Century. However, to avoid future challenges of this magnitude, please kindly go for door phone as window phones are at war with WhatsApp.
Sorry.

Op this question is very necessary. This is because many men have died leaving their families struggling to survive whereas they left huge amount of money in their account but fail to disclose their ATM pins to their wives.
For me, my wife knows my pin same way I know hers. I even ensured that we share a similar pin with a difference of one number.
In summary, every wife deserves to know her husband's pin because you don't have any business marrying a woman you can't trust except you are simply stupid.

Op I doubt if you are a graduate. As an undergraduate back then, one of the courses you must study is MYOB 101 and the course title is: Mind Your Own Business. So how come you never offered such a tudaful course? I don't want to even comment on your typo.But I smell lies anyway.

9jayes:
First salary should be for the pastor na. He prays for you for the whole year, he deserves your January salary. First seed

.Is it biblical for your pastor to pray for you for the whole year. Can't you pray for yourself? Have you also read the bible portion that says you should give your first child as first fruit? has your pastor ever told you about that? Why are they asking for first fruit of money and not of children? Wise up please.

Demaduka:
Fr Kelvin Ugwu MSP,
YOU ARE TOTALLY WRONG OR MISCONCIEVED . PAYING MONEY TO A CHURCH IS QUITE DIFFERENT FROM PAYING MONEY TO A PASTOR. IT IS WRONG TO SAY THAT THE MONEY YOU PAID IN THE CHURCH IS MONEY YOU PAID TO THE PASTOR. BY WHAT YOU ARE SAYING, IF YOU ARE A REAL FR. AS YOUR NAME SUGGEST, IT SEEMS THAT YOU USED TO CARRY THE OFFERING GIVENG IN YOUR CHURCH SAYING THAT IT IS MONEY MEMBERS GAVE TO YOU. IS IT RIGHT OR WRONG?

IF ON THE OTHER HANDS AN INDIVIDUAL DECIDES TO PACKAGE HIS OR HER JANUARY SALARY FOR A PASTOR, WHO ARE YOU TO DECIDE IF IT IS RIGHT OR WRONG?

.After quoting the whole article, one will think you have something reasonable to say,but no you ended up typing trash with no biblical back up negating the content of the article. You are dump and annoying but I will not be the one to tell you. Just continue to be deceived by your pastors and don't studying your Bible.

Cutehector:
yeah you made a lot of sense. Just that we can't have everything in life. Loose some, gain some

.Exactly my brother.

shekauvsbuhari:
Well, I disagree with you on this.I like my woman asking me for sex when she needs it. I abhor pretences in sex. A woman givin me impression she doesnt want it makes me to lose interest. I like a woman who loves sex, only she should not be a sex vendor or promiscuous. I like my woman being raw, real n direct.

.You just said my mind bro.

Cutehector:
Lucky is a man who meets a lady who is expressive in sex

.My brother you made a lot of sense here.I missed those days when one of my girl friends will call me and be very plain that she needs sex.Unfortunately, my wife is not that kind of person, just that my wife remain the best of all the girls I dated but sexually poor.
I no longer enjoy sex the way I used to when I was single. But being happily married is worth more than sexual pleasures.

I see comments bashing Op on the assumptions that she wants to be dicked by NwaAmaikpe. Well, while I share a similar view,I see nothing wrong about her going for what she wants. I see girls who are courageous to woo a man as real girls and they will forever remain my preference when the need arises. So Op is a real girl.
NwaAmaikpe is a great personality on this forum judging by his intellectual display, vast knowledge on almost every issue, funny ways of replies and never replying trolls,and as such he can be liked by any body. The main reason I can never fault the Op's willingness to meet him.
It is my Ernest desire that the Op is availed the opportunity to meet her heartthrob (NwaAmaikpe) as soon as possible so as to get a possible IV soonest on this forum followed by prewedding photos.
Congratulations are in order Op.

The problem in Nigeria is that we don't read or lack understanding. The comments I see up there are clear evidences of my position. Too baaaaaaad!!!!! The governor only spoke with wisdom just to make the intended decampees remain in PDP. Umahi is really a Wise man. Ebonyi is blessed.

Kenshinmunac:
*sigh* searching and searching for a girlfriend, all to no avail. Young cool fine guy, but very lonely, no girlfriend. I don't think at this point with all this rejection that I will ever get married in life.

I have searching for a gf, met some girls who turned out to be nasty gold diggers, I didn't wanna waste my time on them cause I'm not a flirt, I'm not looking for a short term relationship so having "fun" with all these girls seemed like a waste of time to me as Sex is not my problem, love is.

So I met this girl few days back, we got talking, I fell for her instantly, she looked calm and very honest, she is not all these girls who do kk in chat, she is caring and very simple, hard to come by., we flowed really well chatting and I was very happy I found someone as I quickly asked her out and she said "let's see how it goes"

I said okay, so today being Sunday, normal chilling day, I called her, very eager to see her beautiful face once more, we got talking and she said I should come to her side.

So I said okay by six,

Six reach I entered road straight to her side, 30 mins drive, when I got close I dialled her number twice she didn't pick I thought maybe she was taking her bath or something was patient and kept on going, so when I got there by 7pm, I called and called but she didn't pick up the call and she was expecting me o!

Na so I begin call her, Even send whatsapp message and direct message all to no avail. I got so maddddd and pissed off, I almost cried because I don't know why I'm being treated like this by ladies. Head to toe I complete, face I fine, fashion sense Is great, but yet, my handsomeness and the growing cash I get can't even get me the slightest fly talk less about a lady

*sigh*

By 5 mins past 8 she called me, by then I was already going home, and she began to plead, this where error words.

"please I'm sorry, my elder brother took my phone to share WiFi, I didn't know he would go far"

I asked "didn't you tell him you were expecting someone"?"

She replied" i did na but he did not listen, I can't just come and stand on the road and be waiting for you, please don't be angry"

In my heart I said Chai! What kind of excuse is this?? This girl just told me indirectly that I'm not important.

So painful.

I see guys with their girl very happy preparing for Christmas, me i have none. All I do is admire beautiful couples and wish It could be......

Unfortunately the sad reality greets me in my face.

I begin to lose my self confidence gradually because of rejection.

Smh, all I feel right now is self pity, all I can do is lament.

I don't know if I just dislike women right now self.

.Simply blame yourself for this. You were supposed to call her by six before moving to her place,but you failed thinking because we had an agreement, things will work out normal. Op you are still a learner. Always ensure you make arrangements for unforseen circumstances just like it happened, and be proactive. My advice? Simply forgive and plan another date with her if you really wanna be sure her apologies were genuine.

pafra:
Prophecy by apostle johnson suleman for the year 2020

.Noted

Hhhhmmmm! My wife must read this.

czarr:
I don't do bitter, man hating girls, who lack wisdom but mask it by being rude...deep down they are insecure, her bluntness and rudeness is all a front, a defence mechanism to hide her deep hatred of herself. ...you can tell alot about a person from the way they write

.She is a very good girl. Only having fun online with her trolls.

czarr:
I only loff beautiful girls

.That means you loff her since she is also beautiful. I know her very well.She is my cousin and she is romantic too,so you will be very Lucky if she likes you too. Rodha please come, you have a new lover if you are interested.

I press my clothes with iron. I know that op is disappointed because he was expecting to see me type bress and booty.Ifa hear! And I will continue to press them any time there is light cause my wife just washed them and there are very rumple.

czarr:
lovers? that happens only in movies...

. I know and that's exactly what I am saying because this movie you guys are acting is becoming more interesting by the day which may one day turn out to be a reality.Be sincere, are you in love with Rohda? cause I see you addressing her as my loff.

Czarr and Rohda you guys will soon be lovers from the way you guys are quarrelling. But for now, Czarr has the upper hand in this contest.Still waiting for more entertainment.

Just let him understand that the woman he intends to marry may not be comfortable having you around which may possibly distort peace. So he should let you go and let him understand that you hold nothing against him. This barrenness stuff may simply imply that there is lack of reproductive compatibility between the both of you, not that you are really barren or perhaps you guys needed more time but he was much in a hurry.Don't allow his action weigh you down. Just keep trusting in God the giver of children.