₦airaland Forum

So true.
Remembered a former gf, whom I broke up with because of her excessive lying. After that was she was on transit and called to stay over, I agreed but through out the night avoided her, I the morning she was sobbing and left. She later got engaged and wanted me to come to her wedding. I refused. Two days after her wedding called me to express her anger over my not showing up. On new year day she called severally and I ignored her only to send a provoking text. I kept wondering what does she want after marriage.
I discovered that in most ladies heart rest almost forever the first man that has been very good to them in care, love and sex. Some also after marriage and bearing children dress their male son just the way their ex does dress especially if the husband does not. Some cannot just stop comparing in their heart their ex and their husband. It just tell you about ladies, once they open up their heart, body and soul and they received care and love, it stays engraved. To them it does not matter if the man is married or not. It is not temptation, but attraction and it take a spiritual high lady to brush this aside.

FlawlessRebirth2:
OP...


NO1=ARE U STILL STAYING WITH YOUR PERENT? ABEG WHUCH KIN CHILDREN RELATIONSHIP B VHAT(no offence)...

No2=NO WORRY...NA HER SPIRITUAL HUSBAND DE AT WORK SO....U BERRA RUN



no3=KIKIKIKIKIKIKIK

You literally took the No 1 out of my mouth. Both of you are still young and are living under your parent or guardian roof, hence no available space indoors to express your romantic passion.
Also I think a lady needs a private to optimal express herself and it's the duty of a man to provide a secret and serene location not outdoor.
For a man he can do it anywhere, but next time restrain should be shown, this time the ops went to far. She feels you taken her as a street girl.
What to do? Just continue to beg her and assure her you are not like that and also 'love her so much, you can't resist her'

None at the moment.
I think both will be too costly to maintain.
A landed property in Asokoro or Maitama Abuja will be much desired

Wisdom is profitable to direct

To whom much is given much is expected
He is got to start doing something to earn money aside, if music is not bringing in the income now.
Please stop giving him. If he needs N50k. You can only assist if he says he had ben able to earn and save minimum N35k
Please I don't want you to be disappointed but help him in making money by suggesting legitimate thing he can do to earn money.
I know you love him so much and your fears are justified, but don't be his ATM, what if he meets someone richer than you? It will pain you so much. As long as you are not married yet show restrain.

v4victory:
A lot of families that I know in this country drinks garri as their lunch but since the out brake of lasser fever
they don't drink the usual garri that used to be their lunch anymore . And it becomes hard for the parent to provide lunch for their family, cos frankly speaking it is not easy for some families to provide three square nutritious meal for their kids.


so am here to know how far about lasser fever in my country Nigeria. Has it gone out of Nigeria? or is just hiding and waiting to take garri drinking fans unaware?.
please let me know the situation so that I can tell my pips to start their normal affordable meal of garri and groundnut .

It is not the garri that causes lassa fever. Garri was implicated in the saga because of the way we process and store it by drying it on floor, by the road side in sacks etc. It is possible that in the processing or storage this 21 breasted rat that causes lassa fever had visited the garri and passed it feaces or urinate on the garri. Until you are sure of the processing and storage of garri you got to hold on. Ironically non of us is sure of the processing whether or not these rat had visiTed our most famous staple food

I am always the objective type.
She has got to give me a reason for her action. Then after had to rationalise the reason. If the reason is cogent and she promise never to do it again, I'll forgive her but postpone the wedding for 6months.
There have got to be a reason why I wanted to marry her in the first place and that reason cannot just disappear immediately.

Is this a site or what?
I thought a site got to have 'www' before

Just broke up for few days and ready to upgrade your side chick of 4yrs to the main chick.
Bro I dough my hat for you.
Anyway to your question you don't even need to ask her out ( when she has already asked herself in by all what you said she has been doing for you) your side chick had been doing all that needs to be done for the past 4yrs! Ok you want to formalise things, please go ahead.

Then you turn around and accuse him of disobeying court orders.
Uneasy lies the head that wears the crown especially for our president. He wants to obey court order people says no? He does otherwise people shout foul. Which one do you want him to do?

Oma307:
Am naive when it comes to this, that's why am asking?

in that case, it's only a practical session that can make you confirm by yourself what actually happens when sucking is going on. Words cannot describe it

Oma307:
Does it rise i mean the breast

I know you know much more than I do. Please tell me whal happens whenit either sucked or careesed

It is more of a delight for the ladies. Have you ever wondered why ladies will leave it unduly in the mouth of their baby. I think ladies delight men sucking it
A firm tight pointed ones. Whao! I love to see it rise majestically. The big ones can suffocated one.
It tells me I'm pleasing her

lurlah2014:
So the mother does not do the same?

Let me give you an example to explain my point. A father may be planing how to earn or save money to ccarter for his child say university education when the child is 5years old, at that moment the mother is thinking of getting a blanket to protect the same child aganist cold for this very night. You see the fathers futurist responsibity only comes to play when the mothers immediate responsibility is taken care of. in this example if the child does not get blanket this very night he may get cold and die and the future plan and responsibity of the father will not come to pass.

lurlah2014:
I am not sure if the artist is right about this?

But I think your suggestion. Will change my mind set about the meaning of this illustration.

I think the inscription on the photo is wrong.
It should be that the mothers (being the child is real in her womb) cares for the immediate responsibilities or near needs of the child eg what to eat and daily well being, but the father (being the child in his head which is virtual) is futurist ie care for what the child will become, how to send the child to the best of schools.

bebe4u:
@drwhopl and 190 you don't have to physically have sex with someone else before it is considered as cheating. Even if u lust after someone else in your heart apart from your partner is cheating. Besides a factor like prolonged absence can make me cheat on my partner sexually but that will not stop me from loving him. Its called venting out.

The complexities of love ( decision), emotion (desires) and the human hormone (passionate inordinate desires) . Does that mean everybody has to get a plan B or stand by 'generator'

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hi all, I have been wondering; why don't I ever have the urge for se.x?

When people tell me that you can't live without se.x, I don't seem to understand it. I can and have lived without it. So if I can,why can't you?

I'm in my early 20s and have never ever had the urge for se.x, I'm a Christian and very religious. what could this mean?[/color]

Please be patient. It will come to pass in the fullness of time

Great men seize unusual moment to bless somebody, it is only the few men that see opportunity to receive great blessing.
Lord let my date of blessing come and let me see the opportunity and take that step that will make me receive it in full

Bros the truth is obvious to even you. Maybe you've not gotten under and are waiting for that,
Sorry you will spend tire
Abeg save money for your project

It depend on the overall dressing and looks.
Smooth and lovely skin lady and high cleavage is a magnet to men eyes, bet you some ladies will want to look as well

EastanPower:
Please o, where can I buy correct bush meat like grasscutter in Lagos?

Go to Epe or Ikorodu side. Correct and fresh ones are available. You may also see antelope and aligators

Husband scarcity? NO! No!
Rather wife and wifely materials scacity? Yes! Yes!
When lady dress sexy, she get those looking for sex
When lady lacks courtesy, she cannot be courted
When ladies believe that it's is only her body that can hold down a man, then every body compete for her man

Ben 40yrs in his parent house!!!
Even Jesus started leaving his parent house by 12yrs
I don't know of the educational status of Ben.
All I see see in Ben in a no! No! No!

Yet some expect these same people who couldn't put a party in order to put Nigeria in order.

MyPWisINCORRECT:
Why do we celebrate mediocrity in Nigeria?

If I were Tinubu, shame won't allow me receive any Award at least at this time. After all the noise about bringing "Change" to Nigeria, our nation isn't making any headway since his protégé assumed office.

Job losses is now the order of the day, hyper inflation is rife, value of Naira is 400 ft below sea level, insecurity is at its crescendo with Book Haram, Avengers, IPOB and Militants ramming from all four cardinal points, 2016 budget of corruption, Shiites massacre, increased power tariff, etc.

There fore I ask again, does Tinubu deserve the Sun Award knowing the crucial role he played alongside Rotimi Amaechi in installing PMB?

Change I no see!

Thank God for Tinubu.
A rallying point for all progressives. A midpoint for all irrespective of tribe or religion. A wise strategist and a nationalist. Men like him are rare in African and in Nigeria, if not, tell me another in Nigeria who stood for his own (politically for 16yrs) and battles all the power that be and came out victorious.
Tinubu deserve an international award as 'Man of the year'
Ops Tinubu is not Buhari, and you are not Tinubu.
All this are the last challenges and pitfalls the new opposition, shameless priding itself the biggest opposition in africa wants to put on this administration. We enjoyed corruption, manipulation, and now a new page had to be opened of transparency and prudence. You don't expect an easy change

ernesty20:
Beg NOI to come baq

From the look of things all wailer don't even have any positive contribution but just to WAIL! WAIL!! and WAIL!!!

Elosky20:
hope naija will do same

Please Ban ALOMO Biitters

Flexherbal:
They feel he can deliver them.

Maybe through Ecomong or Bkok haram?

Boko Haram are my brothers- Goodluck Ebele Jonathan

Goldmind1:
The poster was wrong. Instead of saying that Pastor Enoch Adeboye went to Aso Rock to meet PMB, he said it it the other way round. Between the two of them who went to see each other.
I think the SW Christians are selling themselves so each cheap to Islam Fr. Mbaka tried it and the SEasteners tongue-lashed him.
4 out of 6 states in the SW have muslim governors and U people say U are running the biggest churches in Nigeria. I pity people who troop to your churches. I pray in my house and God answers me.
I am not trying to mix tribalism with Christianity but I have seen that the Sw Christians do not allow their Adamic nature to die, rather they boast in hypocrisy.

Cocoforni ignoramus Type 1

sunnyb0b0:
Jonathan remains untouchable.

Jonathan is TOUCHABLE.
The issue is the singular action of accepting defeat and handing over makes the situation precarious, because in this part of the world it is not common leaders sit tight and manipulate the electoral process ( but thanks to Jega in our case) and the whole world want to encourage other African leaders to hand over and not seat tight hence prevailed on PMB as it will be yardstick for other African leader, that if GEJ is tried others will be scared and many do everything to remain perpetually remain in power.