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atheistandproud:
You nailed it.

Very rarely do guys gun for their friend's babe. It's usually out of character. In cases where this happens, both friends are usually snakes that are ready to bite each other in the back. This is usually the exception, not the norm.

In the norm, if Skywalker tells me about *Adesuwa for example, I'll look to go and recreate it with *Sarah. That's generally the norm.

On the other hand, I may be free and single, *Tola who is Adesuwa's friend after listening to her will want Skywalker, instead of the free single men around her. This is true time and time again.

In my university days, from 100 level to 300 level, I was single as f*ck (2011 - 2013). As soon as 1 babe started to visit, I was suddenly surrounded by options that I didn't even know that I had. It's a female mating strategy I'll never understand. Even girls that usually ignored me (because I was mostly a loner) would go out of their way to greet me or generally be nice to me. Weird.

It's very easy to knack your gfs sisters and close friends than an outsider because they'll all want a taste of what their sister/friend sees in you. A lot of men will shamelessly take advantage.

As wiser men have said, people are only as good as their options.

If you limit a man's access to sexual opportunity by the size of wallet, what you are telling him is that when he has a big wallet, he should have limitless sexual opportunities. So after working hard to EARN these opportunities, do you really expect him to throw them away?

Women can joke sha 😂😂😂😂


* = Names with asterisks are fictitious.

AndSunGorilla:
But it looks like we are repeating a pattern here, we sacked Rohr before the AFCON now we are doing same with Pacero if the news is true.

lovewins:
Weekend Football returns to Lagos

Sporting Lagos promoted to the NPFL

Let's go Sporting

Prettygirl200:
Know what you want, six months is long enough for a guy to know you and for you to know a guy and determine or define what u want in that relationship, relationship isn't marriage that you should be with a guy for three to four years doing what exactly? Fucking you continuously for these number of years? These men are time wasters they know you are in your prime and will use sweet word's to keep you in their nest, milking you dry why preparing to get married to another.

Dear ladies it's called relationship, dating which simply means getting to know each other. Six months is enough for you guys to know each other and determine if the guy is ready to marry you or not. Don't waste all of your prime with one man that doesn't deserve you and when he's tired of eating you will quickly go Marry another lady and you will be left heartbroken. These things are the reasons we have so many women that broken 💔 out there because they gave one man their best years which was wasted and ended up not yielding anything.
You should be counting years in marriage not relationships, your prime is the best time to build yourself, if you want to abstain from relationship do that, but if you must date, your dating period shouldn't exceed six months, that's a whole lot of time to know the kind of guy you are with.

Also remember during dating or relationships you are single, you owe no man your loyalty untill you are married to him. You can only be loyal to a man you are very very sure is loyal to you if not, you owe no man any loyalty, you are open to any other relationships. Dating a guy for too long won't make him marry you or take you serious, they will only sleep with you when they get tired they discard you, come online and call you names, you are beautiful ❤️ you don't deserve such men. Please Ladies I know we are emotional beings but it's good you date with your head, and not your emotions it has left a lot of ladies broken,know what you want.

MEN ARE TIME WASTERS!!!!

Kog45:
Oga Charles if Chriskels catches you go hear am Abi you no Dey hear word that this place is not for Players wey never show interest in Nigeria but we can talk about Haaland and other foreign nationalities here….okay make I shake the table small but before Oga Chriskels go catch me I don run o🏃🏿‍♂️

Danielnino00:
Milan are akso rumoured to sign that Argentina wonderkid we saw at the u-20 world cup, Romero

Philosopher1979:
WHY EBENEZER AKINSANMIRO WILL BE CALLED FOR THE SUPER EAGLES MATCH IN SEPTEMBER

According to scorenigeria Peseiro might retain his
job because Kunle Soname (remo stars, beyond limits, feirense of portugal) and Amaju Pinick
are backing him. As a result, the big men could save him his job.
In my own opinion, it means Kunle Soname can easily force him to put his boys in the team.
It means Remo stars, feirense, beyond limits players and products will be forced on him.
The biggest soname boy is the inter milan kid and so soname can easily force him.
This is just my deduction but
according to scorenigeria those two men are backing him

https://scorenigeria.com.ng/who-is-the-big-man-behind-super-eagles-coach-peseiro/

Nigerian football is full of intrigue and politics and it is not good for our football.
The only good thing is that remo stars products are usually good players
But generally, playing in the national team has political undertones.
For example, if Emmanuel Amunike is our coach Nwakali will definately get a chance
as nwakali is one of his boys.
Politics is part of life anyway

Tranquility2345:
Once I read your number 3, I realize say you are just an inexperienced Mugu writing trash to try to look wise. And you are over 40. No wonder the oyibo man say a fool at 40 is a fool for life.

Instead of fooling your old age with all these small children wey lack of toto dey vex them, Better go and hustle if you don’t want God to hammer that your coconut head with poverty in your retirement years. Nonsense

Philosopher1979:
You see akata women are like this because of the history of slavery and rascism against black people.
The black women were raped and the men taken away from their families and this created
a legacy of black people coming from dysfunctional families.
Also, i think their men are also very irresponsible.
Here is the home situation of a black person.
The mother is a prostitute (maybe a stripper) while
The father is a criminal in and out of jail
The children they produce will be nonsense like Anita Brown

Yoighaman:
Hmmmm....na wa o...

Karlifate:


The larger percentage of their population are raised by single mother, with the father in jail or where he's not supposed to be.

People, especially women, that grow up without [strong] father figure in their life, will take up the masculine frame themselves.

god Amadioha help you if she's from Harlem, or other areas with dominant gangsterism.


In this day & age, be wise in your dealings with women cos when push comes to shove, no one will listen to your side of the story.

Men are seen as disposable utilities.

Pukkalolo:
You are asking the wrong question. The idea isn't to just confirm a girl sexual attraction.

Before I tell you why you are asking the wrong question, let me first answer the question regardless.

There are different ways to find out if she's attracted to you.

But one way to find out is by simply asking for compliance. I mean, asking her to do something. For example, like--> asking her to come hangout with you, or ask her to accompany somewhere, or asking her buy something for you, or asking her to follow you on Instagram or whatever.

Just make a demand, if she comply, then just take it as a sign she might be attracted to you. It's no big deal.

Like I said, attraction is very primal. There's nothing special about it.


In fact, if she's still interacting with you after you've indicated interest in her, then you can just take it as a sign that she's attracted or at least somewhat interested.

Here's why you are asking the wrong question.

Like I've said on this thread several times, attraction is not a big deal . A girl can be attracted to 10 guys but will do nothing sexual with any them because she's not sexually comfortable with them.

In fant right now, there are girls around you that already like you. It's no big deal. The reason you're not smashing any of these girls is because they are not sexually comfortable with you. Nothing more nothing less.

I stopped worrying about creating attraction in a woman when I realized that attraction is different for all women.

A female is already attracted to certain trait and qualities in a man, and this attraction is highly dependent on her current circumstance.

When she's in high school, she might be attracted to the pretty boy types. But when she's mature and educated, her taste changes...she might now be more attracted to the busy 'coperate' man on suit; the man doesn't even have to be handsome.

You see, change in circumstances leads to change in taste.

The game that will work on the 18 years old 100 level student, might not work on the 25 years working class lady who's an accountant in a bank because this woman have different priorities, life experience and personality. Basically, she has a different circumstance.

That's why Stella might enjoy naughty chat, while Cynthia will despite it. It's her circumstance that made her despite it.

Circumstances are huge. The alpha game that worked on a girl that didn't grow up with a father figure might never work on girl that grew up with a masculine dominant father.

This is why you can use the same game strategy on two different ladies but it will produce different result depending on their circumstances. If a game strategy works on one girl but doesn't work on the other girl, it's not because the strategy is faulty... it's because her circumstance doesn't tolerate the strategy.

Attraction will always be affected by the woman's circumstances. Circumstances like her age, education, values, self-esteem, experience, physical appearance appearance and so on. This is why, despite all the apha moves and game you are spitting, she's still refusing to drop her panties. She's not the one refusing you;. It her circumstance that is refusing you.

This is why when meeting a woman, I'm not concerned about creating attraction or making alpha moves or spitting games. I'm more focused on building sexual comfortableness.

Why?

Because I discovered that her sexual comfortableness isn't affected by her circumstance.... This allows me get ladies with different ranges of circumstances: I'm not a Muslim but have dated couple of beautiful Muslim ladies; I have dated a woman who was my total superior in an office environment; I have dated women who are quite older than me and younger than me;
I've even got "invited" by a celebrity, duh...
I think I talked about how I first met her on this thread.

https://www.nairaland.com/7453206/experience-celebrity-yesterday-big-shame

The reason I was able to get these women wasn't because I was busy spitting games... It because I was simply building sexual comfortableness with them.

Attraction is important, but Attraction is limited by circumstance..and circumstance can prevents attraction from turning into sex and intimacy...

But If you can build sexual comfortableness with a woman, you become unlimited.

Lack of game or not being alpha enough isn't why she's losing interest in you. Most problems men message me with about their issue with women somehow involve their inability to build sexual comfortableness.

I hear complain like:
"She was giving me greenlight before, but now she's suddenly losing in me and she's now giving me attitude."

Wait, let me ask you... Let's assume you like fried rice.
One day, you walk past a restaurant, then you start perceiving the smell of fried rice. You decide to enter the restaurant to buy the fried rice.

In the restaurant, instead of serving you on the plate, they put the fried rice on the floor and ask you to eat it from the floor.

Urg!!

Won't that make you lose interest in the fried rice?

Of course.

It's for the same reason that girl lost interest in you.

Yes, you are attracted to fried rice, but it doesn't make sense for you to eat the fried rice from the floor. If they want you to eat it, they need to put the food on the plate. But since they didn't do that, you lost interest in the food and move on with your life.

Yes, she likes you and will like 'eat' you, but it doesn't feel right for her to eat you simply because she likes you... Giving you the pussy just because she likes you is like eating fried rice on the floor. She would never want to do that.

If you want her to 'eat' you, then you have to put yourself on a plate.

That plate is called "sexual comfortableness."

If you want to learn how to create sexual comfortableness with women, then click the link in my signature or profile to learn more.

Stay blessed.

charlesemeka85:
the boy na fool

He would hv remained with Sheffield Wednesday and play in the championship next season that making such useless move

Em fall my hand big time

Truidstar:
😂😂 Brother Abeg….. no make me laugh. Manu that is tactically inept that’s who you want as coach? We never learn our lessons on this country.

Emperormartin:
You lacked social exposure when you were growing.

You parents caged you and consigned you to themselves and Your siblings thinking they were doing you good but they've finally destroyed your social life.

It's not your fault but your parents fault

You just have to live with it and then fathom a way to train up your next generation

Amedino99:
he is supposedly earning 3 million rands per month in Saudi which is about $163k. We are struggling to pay pj $70k. His contract ends next year. What is special about us that he will drop Saudi team to coach us

Philosopher1979:
THESE OIL BASED PERFUMES WILL MAKE YOU
SEXY
GET THEM NOW

0!7!0!3!2!2!6!1!9!1!7

Good for you

Get it now

Good

luminouz:
Lmaooo..no be simps dem.be ni?

Of course, they think spending money on women is the BEST way to get her. I like the first story though, he collected his food jejely and went home to eat it.


Lol...Me, luminouz will go to supermarket or restaurant and see a babe jejely buying her own food and offer to pay for her? As per what? Na me wan chop am? I have NEVER done that. When women call you stingy, not a real man, wicked, selfish and harsh...they are just saying 'i am pissed because I can't manipulate your black ass'

And I love that shiiiiiit

typicalgamer:
He was never going to break into Salzburg first team not in this season anyway

Did you watch Salzburg play to be saying such false narratives

This is purely lies and an agenda on his top 💯 percent form Samson Tijani would not break into RB Salzburg first eleven not 2 seasons ago not this current concluded season,

You think everyone supports Man U and Chelsea abi

I’m a Salzburg and famalicao fan and tijani is not good enough to make our team yet

Injury or not

TheSuperNerd:
More Update on Chukwueze-Milan Transfer Links

Di Marzio reports that Milan will meet with Chukwueze's entourage/Reps this week to see the possibility of establishing personal terms with the Player.

More to follow...