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TheBigUrban2: You sound like one of those wise but annoying old parents.

"son, buy a small car you can manage...dont act like you are a playboy"

I can understand where u are coming from. But u will appreciate the wisdom of modesty soon enough. Everyone desires that head-turning rides that would make the ladies swoon and heads turn, but the reality of it, and the vanity of it, are not mates. Cheers!!

TheBigUrban2: What about young girls of 21 to 22 driving range rover evogue?


So what statement should a man of 24 make with a car?

Are you talking of THEIR evoque or their parents'? Is it to drive it or maintain it? Besides, with my amateur robbing skills I can easily dispossess such a girl of such a car, and she caused it partially. Am not saying its honourable to steal o.
A man of twenty four should make a statement of propriety, convenient economics, and humble modesty. A toyota muscle is not too bad. That's of course if he bought the ride with his money, and is maintaining it himself.

I agree. The '09 Highlander is too big for. A twenty-four year old, coming from a bent of modesty and economics. Though I don't know his financial capability.

A man's ride speaks volumes about him. Be sure to make the right statement

I am well versed for the job. henchyman@yahoo.com

finniblinks: 1)A little bit of arrogance
2)A little bit of dominance
3)A little bit of aggression
4)A little bit of omnipotence
5)A little bit of lack of attention
ADD YOURS..........

depends on the kind of woman

yes ooooo

My question is, must things get this bad before the government acts? Supposing the beneficiaries had nowhere to borrow money to keep up before this payment comes? What about the ladies who may contact 'the big one' from lascivious involvements? Simply avoidable situations

cc150615: submission doesn't equal to the husband becoming a dictator That's where most guys get it wrong, I'm submissive to my fiance sef but that doesn't mean he just lords over me,reasonable men know how to strike a balance

I agree with you all the same. I am only trying to point out the fact that you must not expect explanation for each and every decision.

HarrveySpecter: Why engineering vacancies scarce this two days?

I tire o my brother. We have God sha

cc150615: Nd why won't he wanna divulge the reasons That's if he has any aside being insecure, Btw I pity for ur gf o!

I believe you read my post well. I believe it was just an oversight you did not see my views on bf/gf relationships.
If you are married, better submit to your husband FULLY. If you are not, be sure to when you do. You have everything to gain. I know what my God promised women who do, apart from the inherent emotional advantages.

cc150615: Nd why won't he wanna divulge the reasons That's if he has any aside being insecure, Btw I pity for ur gf o!

I believe you read my post well before commenting. I just believe it was an oversight for you not to see what my take is about bf/gf relationships.

If you are married, submit to him TOTALLY. If you are not, be sure to be submissive when you do.

That girl loves you not.
I don't see where a relationship where love is one-sided is going.
As a matter of fact, I won't even ask if you want to take her back or not. DO NOT!!!
The problems and more heartbreaks inherent in your taking her back are too much.

Some people have not done it

freecocoa: Why would it be better? Even husnand sef, the only reason I'll understand is if the partner has a reason to suspect her, still he should look for ways to catch her and take his decision instead of taking decisions for an adult because you feel its your right to.

Everything was going right till you said 'even husband sef'.
Forget westernization and civilization, your husband has ABSOLUTE sway over you. Your reasons not withstanding. Better obey and submit to him.

If she regarded the boyfriend, she ought to ask his permission, not informing him after she had already made up her mind. That's the cause of the altercation. But that's friendship anyway( which I don't subscribe to).
I still say she obeys the boyfriend. He may have reasons which may outweigh hers, which he may not necessarily want to divulge at dat time. It happens. Who says it must be all about insecurity?

I don't know how old you are and what your status and disposition in life is.
But you are a human being. A girl I suppose.
So you want to quit the relationship because the sex isn't good enough, not because you are convinced it is off limits till you are married.
The boyfriend is saying you have started, so you can't stop. Hmm
Well convince him you aren't cheating, and tell him your real reasons. Deal with the outcome.
That is if you want to spend the rest of your youthful productive time looking for better sex.

A lot can cause this. It could be that
1. She may not be in a good mood at d moment
2.She may not be really disposed to chat at that time
3.The disposition of the friendship at that particular point.

But none of these is reason enough to demoralize, weaken and declip a willing chatmate. Personally I don't have people who do that habitually, but if it happens I will ask what the matter is, and if there is no change I ball out

God says water, man says coca cola, fruit juice and squash
God says horse and camel, man insists on aeroplanes and cars
God says Marriage, man says dating and boyfriend/girlfriend

A lot of trouble will be avoided if we will for once let things be the way God made them be
Believe you me, a lot of psychologists and pros will be out of business if we just stuck to Gods way of doing things.
This guesswork will be unnecessary if whoever is concerned will just wait on God prayerfully for a husband.
The devil has really cheated us.

Nothing annoys me more than this brazen display of insensitivity by government. Why begin a thing you know you will run into trouble some way into? I don't like this.

Smashing. Phyno go and cut that hair! You look like a vampire!! You make me remember the hypnotized temple priests of ancient Greece!!!

And lastly...women that do not know God.

I agree that she needs help and is somehow needy.
I expected that top on the list of her needs would be to find a way to get into school.
A BlackBerry Q5 phone?
U gave her a Lumia 520, she didn't appreciate. You started it.

I don't know what u are doing or your status, but the only person who deserves such largesse is your wife, if you are not Don Jazzy or Dangote. Am not even talking about the misplacement of priority on her part.
You want to stay with her JUST because she is pretty and young. Na wa o.
If you can't handle it, leave that girl pronto!!

I do not like women that have no regard for the Word of God. These then follow
1. Being overly loud
2. Disrespectful
3.Culture of entitlement
4.Snobbish attitude
5. Ugliness
6. Weight (anything above chubby)
7.Loquaciousness
8.Some measure of indifference.
9. Piggy disposition
10.Taking people for granted.
11Feminism/chauvinistic opinions
12.Over-independent attitude and disposition

Those people asking for pictures, are you saying it can't happen? Well, for me, its a dicy one. God please o!! Nobody is to blame sha. If she doesn't want to marry you, the sea of heads watching won't make her. Let's be fair let my man just take it in his stride and move on.

I am not contending that more jobs were created, at least for now, though it is highly contestible. But that is not important. My question is what kind of jobs were added that they are making such hulabaloo about. The seven-to ten kind of jobs. The thirty thousand naira and less a month kind of jobs. The kind of jobs that put you always at the mercy and whims of Chinese and Korean illiterate 'expatriates'. The kind that does nothing to lift one above the poverty line.
I believe God for and I am looking foward to a time when these postulations will be a reflection of stark naked realities, at the grassroots.

Well, it is not suprising to hear things like this about couples, especially when finance is the bone of drag. Any woman whose Christianity reaches her purse is really born again. But I have always known that it is disservice to be disappointed over a woman's misbehaviour; they are wired to do just that. Sit her down and express your mind to her. By the Scripture, she is meant to submit to you in all things, whether you are working or not. But if its convenient give her the cash. But she is being truly irrational.

kingbella: my ex told me that im too nice and that i deserved an equally nice guy, i was like wtf? u are breaking up with a gal cos shes too nice? anyways i went to his house (when i went to drop the keys after breakup na) turned all the taps on and locked the doors, he was out of town and came back weeks later to a flooded house( thats what happens when u live alone in a compound) murrafucxer came to beg me to take him back, that i was really capable of being crazy. I was "ain't nobody got time fo dat" no time for dysfuncional relationships when im tryna be a grown woman

You are not nice

egokudiowomoney: There is a lady called Grace that do come to charge her phones in my room.Atimes she will wait for like 15 minutes for her phone to come up with at least one bar so that she make short calls.During that 15minutes we normally discuss about life in general.Thi s lady know that i’v once married and not living with my wife again (separated).Atimes goes on she started complaining about untidiness of my room,the way i used to put clothes on chairs etc.One day she came as usual but not to charge phone but to watch movie,after the movie she asked me to loose all my window curtains including the one in the bedroom which she does not know whether they(the one in bedroom) are dirty or not.I was surprisd when she returnd the following day with the curtains and hung them herself.I was suprised with her attitude but just to appreciate what she did,i pecked her but the pecking immediately turned to kissing.We kissed for over 15 minutes and will later have s*x that day.Although she always tell me about her boyfriend which i know from our conversations that she loves him very much but she always say that guy is playboy.
Due to the love between us,she always tell the guy whenever he calls her that she is no longer interested in him again and that he should go and meet,Rita,Amaka or Elizabeth which she later confide in me that the guy has been dating the three ladies as well.The lady love me and i love her so much to the extent that i cannot do without calling her about 4 to 5 times in day because she has gone back to school. On my birthday she posted a very romantic post on my wall in which my family members and friends know that she is the one i’m dating.
The problem now is that my wife recently sent my friends to me that she want to come back and that i should forget what happened in the past.Although what happened between us was just minor misunderstanding but she took it high.so she decided to come back to me after spending more than a year in her mother’s house.Now i have forgiven her because of my son but the problem is that i still love
Grace and again if i tell her to go i will hurt her .Should i tell her that i have reconcile with my wife or what should i do that will not hurt her feelings?

So the only way you could appreciate her laundry for you is by pecking her on the cheek okwa ya? This is why the Scripture says God hates putting away. There is always bound to be problem when one side-steps the Word of God.that wife of yours is to blame for all this if you ask me. Thank God u were sincere enuff to remember you had a wife. Whatever happened with this Grace is a sidefling. Its your union with your wife that God recognizes. Go back to her. Cheers

All's not well that ends badly. The philandering married man gets infected, the mean woman goes on a purpoted spreading spree and gets her fingers burnt, sorry life cut short. Does that man deserve the noose, seeing he will live with death?