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Achor1111:
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Please out of curiosity why do you have to put your number up in this manner? I've been seeing a lot of people do this online. Why is it so pls?

Blessing185:
Whether na pride I go say or dignity or frustration or manliness no dey even make some of us voice out say we broke. We go just fem begin look up to God.. imagine going out and not eating but thinking of wat family at home will eat and u re all dey depend on..e no easy dats y most men die earlier dan their appointed time.

I tell my girl I'm broke whenever I am. I take it as a true test of her loyalty when she knows I'm broke. After all I don't need to voice it out to her that I have money anytime I do, she experiences instead.

Cokahot:
U must be kidding,for naija that has bad air pollution,from danfo,suya,okada,gen,mama put. If u like no use sponge for your face,na pile of dirt go full y face, I dare u to buy white handkerchief if u wn truly know how clean your face be. Itsjust like saying brushing with water and not tooth paste. OK na

Bros use iron sponge if you want na. I only recommend wetin work for me for op.

ICEWIN:
Why please,i want to know

I had similar problem with op. That's what worked for me.

Larrykkk:
Thanks man it's not been easy. I have sent several people to beg her for me. I begged her with everything just to let her know I'm not ready to waste the four years of the relationship. When the whole drama started I have gone for my passport because my goal is to secure a fully funded scholarship abroad but I can't seem to forget her

Same way I sent people to beg my ex too. It was a bitter experience and I'm not regretting the move, it's cos I genuinely loved her after all. Loving someone can't be a crime.

Don't think of rushing into any relationship just yet. Just disconnect from her, get rid of anything that will remind you of her, gifts, texts, unfriend her on any social space, disconnect with your mutuals that won't stop reminding you of her. You'll heal, you'll find love, you're a perfect lover after all.

I didn't believe I'll ever love someone else but see me today, I finally found someone that loves me as much as I do. I bumped into her with my new found love and she looks very unlovable. I started questioning my sense of reasoning for loving her in the first place. You'll be fine.

Stop using sponge on your face when taking your bath. Use your palm and soap only. Good luck.

It's not easy at all. I've been there.

What worked for me:

Delete her number from your phone, old text messages, her pictures and delete anybody's number that might link you up to her. Avoid the paths you can possibly bump into her in, not out of fear but cos she doesn't deserve you at all. Accept that she's never coming back and you're never going back too.

And most importantly, nothing is wrong with you. She lost someone who genuinely loves her, you won cos you genuinely loved her. Very few guys in the street love girls with their heart. Most of them are all out for the sex and you see beyond that, you're a winner already. She just lost a genuine love that's very scarce in our present world now.

Let the ghosting continue. Never succumb to being friendzoned.

ZUBY77:
Two overgrown fools disturbing hardworking people online.
The truth is that Churchhill saw hellfire.
Nothing is more dangerous than living with a bad woman, your life is just hanging on a thin rope.
I was unfortunate to marry one of such pigs but i corrected it without much noise.

Thia Kpogiri should just shut up. Helen of Troy will fizzle out eventually

I'm interested in this gist. Tell me about it please

I can't blame saga cos I've been there and I dare not say I can't ever be there again. I'm no redpill and I'm no simp. I'm just someone who loves with all his heart. I'm not scared of heartbreak anymore, I'll feel the brunt if it comes and I'll move on when the time comes too. I'll never stop loving exceptionally.

Go to your contact list and enter delete contacts first and select the particular one you want to delete. Don't enter the contact first and try deleting, it won't delete.

You have to do it like you want to delete multiple contacts at a time, then tick the particular one you want to delete and thank me later.

House wife anyday.

I work in a public establishment, I can't allow my wife work in such an environment. Never.

chatinent:
No mind am. Person go just smoke slippers come online dey yarn okoto.


By the way, let me invite the mods to take it to fp: lalasticlala, mynd44, Dominque

You did justice to it up there already. I love my woman and thanks for the advises. You gave me more reasons to love her harder. She'll be glad you saw my post if she knows about it. Thanks on her behalf too.

maiiilooo:
Guy just marry her.u have buhari's blessing. Asfar u are sure that u can change her even if u find her faulty...omo nobody perfect ooo

True. But I no know wetin Buhari dey find up there o.

I'm not even perfect too, e sure me say she fit dump my ass if she see my own skeletons too. I just want know if e dey proper to ask her about everything.

I met this girl recently, I fell very deep and I'm happy I did. I'm still deeply in love with her. I think she loves me too or maybe she makes me think so. It's a new relationship so no tangible differences spotted just yet.

Bone of contention: Everybody who claimed to have known her is advising me against the relationship. Reason being that her family is not decent enough for my kind of person, yes they know how decent I am, they know marrying her will be my next move once I get comfortable with her as I'm young and ripe for marriage . I can't even ask her out if in the first place I had no intention of settling down with her if God wishes. She's young, she seems to me like who I can teach ethics and who's open to learning. She's someone I can control in the right sense. Not someone that will want to practice feminism in my home, she's responsible to me. Our zodiac signs too are perfect match

I did some findings on my own about her, she isn't hiding anything from me. Her eldest sis is happily married and happened to be the only married person in her house. Her other elder sis is a chain smoker, she's a young widow with a little baby to nurse too and she stays in their family house as her. Her elder brother who should be my age mate does menial jobs like being a labourer in building sites and she complains about him not getting a steady job to me everyday and how he roams about the street and I talked her out of it, the young man is trying, just that he's not as privileged as myself and possibly facing depression and all of that.

From every indication, this girl isn't okay with her family reputations herself, not like I'm happy about my own family's too just that I've been lucky with how we were able to conceal it in our own little way. I love this girl and I'm very much interested in helping her, she isn't in school yet and it seems she won't be anytime soon as her dad is just like mine who doesn't see value in a girl's child education. She wants to learn tailoring and I've told her I'll support her as much as I can. The downside to this is that she's a grownup girl from a less caring family, she needs to earn money for her upkeep and I'll rather she learns tailoring to secure a future for her. I pray God strengthens me.

I was raised by a single parent cos of divorce as against a lucky her whose dad and mum still live together for many years now. I appreciate her family for that single act of a complete family regardless of what her siblings do with their lives.

In a bid to know this girl better is me wanting to confront her with all these stories I hear about her family and hear her own honest part of the story and conclude concretely if she's who I see her to be. I don't think this will be a wrong move, it's just proper I know who I'm fvcking with.

What do you think? Do you think I should just let her go right now or I shouldn't confront her or maybe just flow with the tide and breakup when I see things I don't want from her? Just your honest opinion.

But you're ugly na. That picture is filtered. Can't say about the old cargo part sha

Speak for yourself o

So what will happen to us who prefer violence? Am I a joke to you?

TWLifestyle:
ur a hypocrite .

Yes I am

Top notch sense of humor

Not religious

Mildly social both in real life and social media

Tall, skinny with mad ass curve

Straight and hot legs

Submissive and don't have problem with me playing the dominant role.

Seeing those ladies up there supporting this union, one can't deny how many lesbians we have on nairaland. Your sexuality is your cross so y'all should stop the hate. I love lesbian porn though

damoceile:
Nah money I dey find like this... All these useless vagina people don show me shege... Nah so so friendzone dem dey put me, makes me wonder if I'm not good enough for a relationship

It's obvious you're not good enough

I make my intentions known as soon as I start getting the feeling. If she says no, I'll be 100miles away from her. She becomes a stranger asap, e go shock her as much as her NO shock me too. I can't get friendzoned, we can only be strangers to each other

If I even be your friend and I develop feelings and I let you know about it and you turn me down, forget it, we're now strangers regardless of how long we've been friends for.

SeyiFargo:
20 yrs

Just 5 years into masturbating and you're looking for solution to a problem that doesn't exist

I stopped worrying about masturbation and the addiction reduced drastically. I still masturbate for the record. No harm, no fear, just cum and sleep

It's healthy for me if you ask me, it's my own little vice as expected for every man. I don't smoke, I don't drink, I don't fvck olosho, I only fvck myself and I love me for it.

Masturbation will be healthy once you stop worrying yourself about stopping it. I last long with my GF, she cums first, I'm healthy. Masturbation relieves me of stress and I feel more relaxed after climax.

God will bless the first day I masturbated, my life took a better turn from that day. I can't be sex starved anymore, I control sex and not the other way round.

I don't know when I started masturbating though, I just know I was in my junior secondary class and I'm 2years post nysc now so do the math. I'm very healthy.

My little advice. Please eat well, boost your immune system. Take blood capsules on a regular, eat well. Masturbation, just like sex, fvcks your immune system up. Supplement it with synthesised drugs for immune system buildup and eat very well too. And most importantly, worry less about it, you'll be fine.

walkingshadow911:
that thing scares me a lot. even my married ex still talks to me about it.
any man that trusted his wife whom he didn't met has a virgin is a MAD MAN.

I disagree sha

Trusth101:
This is really sad, RIP to the dead,once it's 10pm I advice Uber drivers to stop working,the country is not safe anymore

Mhen even if it's safe, 6pm is it for me.

If you check now you'll see that he went offline to amass more money.

We need to dey careful even we dey find this money. May his soul RIP.

The girl smart. Her response dope. I love her comeback

I love the energy

Iyaebe:
There are flaws I can't overlook and I'm not going to pretend about it, a person that cheats in a relationship will also cheat in marriage so what I won't take in marriage I won't pretend about it now,I'm no Annie Idibia.

I followed you to know when you'll make your next post.

About everything, I mean everything I said. I don't have anything against you though. I didn't mean to hurt you even if it seems like you're not hurt. I'm happy you dropped your profile pic too even if you didn't drop it cos of all I said about it. In the midst of everything I see bravery. We can all be better in our own little way. I don't hate you but I won't take your opinion about men lightly even if it's yours. Take care and good night.

Parisian:
Why don't you tell the op whose gf just left him about body count?

Just so you know I read and ignored you.

I'll share all your quotes on me henceforth just for clarity about how much I'm ignoring you.

Parisian:
You need to pick a side and put your brain to good use while at that.

How is she an opportunist for leaving a cheating partner. For the self acclaimed "superior gender" you lot are incredibly undeniably daft.

The girl left a cheating partner but here you are blaming her and calling her names...But the op didn't even mention anything about cheating from his wife to be and you meninists are all over the place throwing tantrums like a convulsing child saying she's been cheating....Lmao

So cheating is only bad when it's done by women? Lmao, mumu people.

I won't give you the pleasure of exchanging words with you.

decasey:
I wonder why u are wasting your time responding to does bunch of lunatic, you own them no explanation, allow them to continue desiving the bitch , they are all the same . This set of persons will never last long in a man's house and they will keep blaming men for thire failed marriage or relationship. AM HAPPY FOR CHURCHILL no matters what they say about the guy, what matters most is that he has found PEACE.

No peace beats having a sound mental health. That's what Churchill is enjoying now. I don't even know how a lady will say she's a responsible woman and be in full support of Tonto's act of breaking up with men everyday.