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Blackchampion:
Do u feel dis should result to break up, considering dat d gal's academic career was in jeopardy?

How's her academic career in jeopardy? If she was serious with her studies, she would not have found herself in a situation where she has to sleep with the results recorder. When she starts working, I guess she would also be sleeping with her boss to keep her job. That would be a relationship breaker for me.

batista73:
Some time ago. I Pointed out, it's not the man we should be wary of. Its the cabal behind him,we should fear. We speak of change change. AIT through a sponsored documentary has just brought to light certain issues about a prominent and highly influential member of the cabal in the "Change" party. We as voters should be more concerned about the truthfulness in this expose. Not attack the station. Lets not end up making our situation in Nigeria worse than it is. We need an improvement obviously but who will make this happen?

Exactly. What I want to know is whether the allegations are true. If they are, then APC should lose credibility and should not be shouting change.

oyb:
dokpesi making enemies for his half dead company. i smell all or nothing desperation. come may 29, this is the end of ait

Hot air. Even if Buhari wins, remember that we are not in a military dictatorship. The question is: Are the allegations true?

eleko1:
The same AIT we railed around and save from their dooms now turned their back on the masses.

Has Tinubu become a member of the masses?
They attacked Tinubu, not the masses.

babyosisi:
Take what to the police
Is the wife a juvenile or was she forced?
Wy should the police be involved in consensual sex

The man threatened to kill him if he talks. That's what he should take to the police.

oluface:
if i were you.. I will make use of my phone secretly to record his voice again... I will let him say the threat again... ... Not in a rude manner ... But i will pasuade him to say it again .. Even the supervisor wife voice will be recorded ... Then i will make a formal report at the nearest police station... I will tell one of my family about it and even send him or her the recorded voice as prove in case anything happen to me. Hope your Boss die very soon if he really want to kill you..

Seconded.

Hollawaley:
if he snitches, he'll go blank ... Dunno what the guy could do to him. So,its better he shut his mouth and live.

His life will actually be in more danger if he shuts his mouth. He doesn't have to tell the husband but he must make sure his family and close friends know so they know who to hold responsible if anything happens to him. And his boss should be informed that his family and close friends know. Police should be involved.

johncreek:
I appreciate all your responses to my current challenge...
Right now I can't even work perfectly because my supervisor's wife sent me a message this early morning; I don't know how she got my number...
The content of the message happened to be a lobby type ; I don't know if they want to set me up.
She asked me to go and ask for forgiveness from my boss for spying on them.
And she pleaded that her husband should not know; she claimed she did it for her husband's promotion.
Am just worried because this boss of mine seems powerful and well connected...
I can't even concentrate on the assignment on my table...
So confused truly.....
I see this forum as a home ; that's why I could bring it up here for sincere help..

Very good. You have some evidence to back up your story. Make sure you save any message they send you. Since your boss threatened you, make a complaint to the police just in case. And tell your close family and friends. After making a complaint to the police, meet with your boss in his office and let him know you have made the complaint for your safety but that you will not tell your supervisor. The police will invite him to write undertaking not to hurt you. If anything happens to you, he will be number one suspect.

pretydiva:
Record a conversation of u n ur boss. Take it 2 d police as evidence and expose him and adulterous woman. Wat is dis world turning into?

That's exactly what I will do if I found myself in such situation.
OP, it's not too late to record some incriminating evidence. If you have his number, you can call him and get him talking, repeating the threat. Then you can go to the police. The way I see it, he would probably try to get you out of the way because you now know their dirty secret.

Youngzedd:
The owner of the post above mine "I give up".


I wonder if the guy think that wedding is importing 40ft container of goods from China.


@OP
Go and read about Mark Zuckerberg's wedding and do same.

No time to impress those that doesn't care.

Don't mind Nigerians always trying to live above our means.

Of course I believe Gen. Paul Tarfa is the one saying the truth. Gen. Obasanjo is just playing to the gallery.
That Gen. Obasanjo was required to present his school certificate to join the army does not mean that everyone else from the north would be required to present same before being enlisted. This is Nigeria. After all, minimum JAMB score requirements are different for different states.
Having said that, it's my opinion that we should leave this certificate issue alone. Gen.Buhari's level of education is far above school certificate. PDP should campaign on issues and stop wasting time on frivolities.

[quote author=johnglo2 post=30878441][/quote]How exactly would the soldiers differentiate between APC voters and non APC voters. On election day, just go cast your vote and go home. After the voting, people are also allowed to wait around for the results. But if you intend to engage in rigging or violence, then you will have problems with the soldiers.

God bless you sir. Don't mind the empty heads just shouting slogans they hardly understand. This country cannot function unless we restructure.
Jonathan should be supported to implement the recommendations of the national conference.

mu2sa2:
l have 24/7 broadband internet service (wifi) at home too - unlimited download, no data cap for 30 days. I do all the heavy downloads on it for just 4000 naira a month. If u have this service in your area subscribe and forget gsm data bundle.

Pls which network? Sounds like a good deal.

indigene:
What a melancholy. Airtel Kenya offers 18GB per month, naira equivalent of #2650

And here I am paying 2000 Naira for 1GB on Etisalat. I don't cheat but I don't really have anything against those that are doing it. We are being ripped off by the networks and our government.
Nigeria is a dog-eat-dog society.

barcanista:
Followers of Nigeria politics will never forget the deeds of Olusegun Obasanjo when he was the President. We all know how he made himself above the Supreme Court by acting against the order of the court with respect to the Lagos State Fund. The PDP under Obasanjo had no internal democracy, it was dispotic,and the President was an emperor.Chief Solomon Lar, Barnabas Germade, Audu Ogbeh and Ahmadu Ali all served as PDP Chairmen under Obj regime. Obj ensured that he took them out of office by force with exception of Ali. Obj was the first and only President to announce the SACK of his VP because he defected to AC in 2007, the SC upturned it. Obj by itself upturned Governorship Primaries of his party in states... Ararume of Imo and Amaechi of Rivers are case studies. Obj openly threatened Olusegun Mimiko that he either dropped his 2007 Governorship bid or he will send EFCC after him. Under Obj nepotism reigned supreme, his wish was everyone's command whether by will or by force. Obj used 5 members of Plateau state House to impeach a governor
Anyone going back to this Obj for navigation and direction needs to tell us what has changed between the Obj of 1999-2007 and Obj of today. Nigerians are wise, Obj can never become an overnight Apostle of Change.

If Nigerians are wise, how do we explain their reverence of OBJ? In a sane society, people like OBJ would be avoided by political aspirants that expect to win votes.

This would lend credence to the theory that France is behind Boko Haram.
Cameroun should aggressively interrogate those guys to find out who their sponsors are.

APC are wasting their time. The army will definitely be deployed on election day to provide security. The soldiers usually mount security outside of polling stations. It's the police that man the polling stations proper. It's mostly people that are planning some mischief that are against the soldiers playing some role. They want the area boys and miscreants to have a field day.

DonaldGenes:
Left for me, You shouldn't have reacted as such


I will advice that you allow it to slide...

You're not the only girl he probably might have tried this in that school.Just be friendly with him okay

I hope you would give the same advice if she was your sister.

Nicklaus:
Very analytic, but didn't prove that It was barclay's, so it's either u don't really understand it. And just because it may hav been in existence for about a century didn't make it barclay's.

Barclays Bank changed name to Union Bank and Standard Bank to First bank after the indigenization decree. So, yes Union Bank was Barclays Bank.

Thank God for the victim's life. Kudos to the SARS team and their commander SP Abba Kyari. The man has been exceptional at his job. I hope the authorities appreciate him.

dealslip:
Having successfully destroying PDP. OBJ must be enjoying all the political affection and attention he is getting at the moment. I am just worried that OBJ and Tinubu who couldn't see eye to eye a few years ago are now best of pals singing the same song and somehow Atiku and OBJ, two sworn enemies are in the same camp endorsing a man they jointly defeated in the 2003 polls. I am confused about this kind of change where corrupt ex presidents and VP implicated in the Haliburton scam are also shouting corruption. The same Haliburton scandal that fetched a US congressman jail time. I can still stomach Buhari but the presence of these guys back in the presidency makes me jittery: Atiku, OBJ and Tinubu all in one group. Beware of this sophisticated pimps. I believe they joined the change train to protect their investments and interest. Nigerians shine your eyes, this isn't change, this is continuation. This is the reason we must be careful about politician, they become united when they smell power and money. Our participation is all they need not our contribution.
Buhari though disciplined to an extent cannot do it alone at that age. Nigeria is a lot more volatile and complex than what it used to be in the early 80s. These are the guys to advice him and place people into positions that matter. May we eventually get the change we actually wished for. Before you join them in heating up the polity ensure you get a guarantee from them that they, their children, wives, friends who have benefited from them would be the first line of defence while we follow from a distance. If they are so passionate about this democracy and want to show their full commitment then they must lead by example starting from the battle field. Since they love us so much then they must show it first by leading any protest that may occur as a result of any anomalies from the forthcoming election. Jonathan might join APC tomorrow and he would be welcomed with pomp and pageantry. Do not lose sleep or your life over them, they are only doing their jobs. Remember 3 million people died in the Civil war, there are no monuments to even recognise or appreciate the blood they sacrificed for Nigeria which unfortunately is still a country not a nation. The seams joining us are bursting at the hems due to the magnanimity and genourosity of our politician preaching division and hate. Please protect your life. Do not promote or encourage violence, Nigerians will suffer most.

On point.

hedonistic:
Nigerian soldiers are the most undisciplined, unprofessional, and cowardly in the world.

I have noticed how they cannot fight one on one (if need be). Whenever any of them wants to show his so-called 'power', they always run to call for reinforcement - and then they will pack themselves like a bunch of thugs to come and display their foolishness en masse. Even if you want to prove that you are a soldier, why not fight alone one on one like a man and beat the other guy if you can? Why do they always run away to call for reinforcement over petty issues? Useless cowards.

Most of them are just cowardly fools whose only strength lies in the fact that they are legally allowed to carry guns. Without their guns, they are worthless and cannot defeat the average man on the street in a fiist fight.

Don't mind them. And they're so cowardly that they will even deny being involved. Nigerians need to start asserting their rights by always ganging up too to beat up the fools.

Ninilowo:
The fellow got what he deserved. He didn't go to beach with a lady and he wanted to dance with one abi? Such a fellow must be a tout am sure. Thatz how Efenji Efenji of AIT was killed just because he didn't allow a ruffian to dance with his babe. As for others that were beaten, it was a Sorry case that's what we call ESPIRIT-DU-CORPS. When you deal with a civillian, itz a different ball game buh an officer.................. Ah! Na palava. And OP that wants to investigate, you can't do NADA, it's UNKNOWN SOLDIER.

Comments like yours make me want to tear my Nigerian passport.

babestella:
Shut up and stop spreading lies just to paint the military in a bad light. Your story is fabricated and false.

Were you there? What the poster narrated agrees exactly with the behavior of a typical Nigerian soldier. I'm really not proud of our soldiers.
I hope that one day we will get a responsible government that understands how to raise a professional army that we can all be proud of; Not the bunch of thugs in uniform that we have now.

suwailad:
Ah ah No rule of law under GEJ. Everything is GARBAGE IN, GARBAGE ALL OVER.
When the head is cancerous, all the body starts to smell mess.

FRESH MESS INDEED! gej TILL mama piss knows how to speak correct english

There was never a time we had rule of law in Nigeria. The Nigeria I know has always been a jungle. But we have always been ruled by semi illiterates. Now that the president is educated, I had expected positive changes. However I must say that I am disappointed.

nwafuluozoh:
You are s.illy. Go find out the meaning of sarcasm, then direct a hard knock on your head.

It shouldn't really be a sarcasm. The president of the country should make sure this never happens again. Nigerian soldiers are annoyingly undisciplined thugs. They need to be reigned in. That is why I advocate allowing responsible Nigerians to bear arms.
Very soon one shameless Lt Col will go to the media to deny that any such thing happened or that it was area boys and not soldiers.

dabigwalls:
I admired the Obasanjo Administration for the giant strides taken to reposition Nigeria in his time. I however would like to ask:

1) Did Jonathan preside over the NIPP fraud that failed to deliver 100 Kilowatts of electricity after 16 Billion Dollars?
2) Did Jonathan supervise the murders of Marshall Harry and Bola Ige?
3) Did. Jonathan endorse the lock up of AD Governors who were in Ekiti for a meeting by the then government of Ayo Fayose?
4) Did Jonathan pursue the sharing of N50 Million per senator for term extension?
5) Did Jonathan instigate the neglect of Lagos-Ibadan Expressway and. Benin-Ore Road in their killer conditions?
6) Did Jonathan bring down Odi in wanton disregard for the sanctity of human lives?
7) Did Jonathan embark on frivolous threats of political enemies with the EFCC?
Did Jonathan oversee the massive rigging of polls during the 2003 and 2007 elections?
9) Did Jonathan make himself Minister of petroleum?
10) Did Jonathan declare that elections were do-or-die?

Chief Obasanjo does not serve history well with his recent outbursts. GEJ may do better, comparatively speaking, after 8 years or Buhari after 4 years.

You forgot to include the abduction of a sitting governor, Chris Ngige of Anambra State. Obasanjo's govt was more corrupt and lawless. I still remember how he came on tv that time to say that Ngige should go and honor the criminal agreement he signed with the Chris Ubah cabal to be sharing Anambra State allocation every month. Such an immoral fellow.
In a normal society, people like OBJ will never be accorded any respect. That Nigerians still regard his opinions shows how debased our society is.

Emilord:
I hope is not that Awkuzu SARS,because that place is a HELL FIRE...You wouldnt believe what i witnessed there when i was once there on trump up charges against my person...Thank God she is in good health.I hope they didnt hang her!

It is Awkuzu SARS. It's unfortunate.

chocolateme:
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I have good news today!! My mom has been released so thank God with me. Just like I narrated the last time about all I knew about the case, I want to let u all know the latest development and full details of what happened. I told you the last time that I only said the least I know and one of you advised me to leave Lagos and go down and see her and also know if there is more to the case.

I travelled home on Wednesday (3 days back) after getting permission from my workplace.

My mom was released on that Wednesday around 6pm one full week from the Wednesday she was arrested. In fact 20 minutes after my younger brother brought her in, I entered the compound. I'm really happy and sad too because of her condition of health, of course you guys will understand me. She looked very horrible, lean, frightened, vulnerable and weak. Dark circles all over her eyes, suddenly she looked older than a 47 years old woman. Well, it's well. I lack words to tell you all about her situation because it brings dark clouds to my heart.

First signs she was exhibiting was over consciousness of her environment, at any door sound or loud voice, she seem to jump out of her skin and terror fills her eyes and she will start shaking, we managed to make her feel at home but it wasn't working, she wasn't able to eat yet. The truth is that my mom has this childish part of her life that still amazes us till now. We, her six children 3 boys and 3 girls all out of university believe that it was her early marriage at 15 that made her that way. She cries if you don't call her on phone for one week and pouts a lot. She is also a very strong mother, I don't know how to make you understand that my parents can never defraud anyone with the kind of hearts they have.

She ate only twice there so she lost all will to eat and till today, she still drinks only malt and water. But she is been taken care of by the family doctor, she will be fine. I have two phases of details to tell you people, 1: how she was released and 2: the full details of the case. Tnx for your patience on this.

THE FULL DETAILS:
I called my dad to narrate exactly what's up because I really don't know everything in details and this is how it happened; for those that knows main market Onitsha, you will understand this, my dad among other traders was among the people that bought over shop allocations then in one of the locations where shops building projects was going on then, a certain politician then, a woman though can't remember her name was involved in the project. They were building those shops and by then everywhere had been bought over even before the completion and all of them has their ownership and validity documents at the LGA. My dad said that the project later entered into political whatever and they halted the project, meanwhile , that was the documents that was used for the collateral. He banks with Union Bank over the years and funny enough, they have issued loans on 3 different occasions to him without collateral based on trust and it was later paid back. So on this issue, the bank contacted these property evaluation office to go and evaluate the property then. This may sound odd and unbelievable but that's the truth. The woman contacted by name "Naomi " (not real name just to call her that )went to our head office in Bright Street where my mom stays and met her on that fateful day and narrated why she came, my mom welcomed and gave a seat. She had to wait for my dad to come so they can both go the property for her job.

My mom said that after some time while they were just talking about business and stuff, she got up to go complaining that she is too busy and the weather was hot, mom urged her to wait but she left and few minutes later she came back and told mom that there is nothing really much on why she came that its just a procedure, that she will just take a picture of our shop and complete her work that its nothing though since they will repay the loan, she brought out her work camera and took snapshots of our shop and then left and that was the last time she came. Forwarded to this year now that the bank came, mom showed me photocopy of the letter she wrote to the bank concerning how she can be able to pay up that money and even the time frame was included, so they can grant her request. She is yet to receive a feedback from the bank before this thing happened.

They asked for collateral this time because of the setback on my parent's business, if you know No. 7 Bright street main market, u will know what happened there few years ago.
I found out as i got home that It was not even the Bank Manager that arrested my mom though I don't know if he has a hand in it from the background.

The bank went to the LGA for confirmation and then went to the property but found it not active and non existing, they summoned Naomi based on her evaluation evidence not been what they see now, she later called my dad to impose accusation on him that the day she came that he shouted her down and asked her to leave and that was the last thing I know my dad will do, my dad became very surprised and asked her if she can recognize him on sight, that was she not the one mom said that took pictures of our shop the day she came, she cut the phone. I heard she told the bank manager to give her few days to sort out the mix up that she wants to go to the LGA to clarify something, I don't know what happened but I think the bank found out what she did and then started having issues with her.

That was how SARS came and took my mom, it was at their office that we found out that her report says that my parents are frauds and she denied been the person that came for the evaluation on that day, she said it was the youth corper that served in her office then that came for it.

But the thing is that my mom heard of her name and knew that it was the same person that came to the shop that day. Well my friends, she was the one that called SARS for my parents, she instructed them to focus on my dad and that the family will hurriedly run around and pay the money. Even the day they came to the house, mom refused to allow them enter the house without a search warrant but they pushed her violently to the ground and one of them twisted her fingers. So concerning the shop I narrated on the other thread, it was an alternative shop of my parents but the bank refused it that it won't fetch that amount.

The actual amount loaned is 2.5 million and the interest is 6 million not 7 , my mistake. That's all. Another thing is that despite the fact that they have mom, they kept looking for my dad everywhere asking us to provide him. They were really hell bent on catching him courtesy the woman's request. She actually used SARS so that they will manipulate the situation so my dad can pay up the money and I don't see how it's her business for the money to be paid. Ok enough here.

HER BAIL:
I don't really understand the type of lawyer they had been using on this case, seems lawyers differ, his own was to file case to Federal court before mom comes out, very sluggish man though young and with family. Wednesday and she was still there, all the people my dad contacted were told by SARS boss that its fraud and they kept stretching the case. So my youngest sister contacted her friend in Abuja to talk to her dad, she mounted pressure on them that Wednesday, later a call came from State CID Awka to SARS that a person with a so so case at their custody should be brought to Awka with the case file that morning. They put my mom in the back of her Hilux and took her to Awka, they met the man and my mom told him everything as it happened, the man was shocked on hearing that she even stayed up to 48 hours in SARS custody not to talk of one full week hmm! He then asked for the complainant to report to Awka, they called her and she said she was at Asaba that she was coming, 3 hours later, she didn't arrive, they called and she said she was almost at Awka. 3.45pm she has not been seen and the man said he won't conclude on any decision until the woman comes, she stopped answering her calls and switched off her phone. Unknown to them, she went straight to SARS office to see her people, they put a call to Awka for my mom to be brought back! Meanwhile, the man in charge has gone out, I don't know what they call that his rank again, weda CPO abi IP whatever.

My mom noticed what was about happening and started begging an officer for his phone to make call, he dialed my sister's number, she already knew the source where the call came from through them. She told her what happened at Awka that they want to take her back to SARS, hmm!! My sis started her lamentation calls again and as God may have it, the man called and told them to wait for him, on arrival, he got to know that the woman never reported and went to SARS office, the man then made called to SARS department and gave some instructions and sent someone with them.

He told mom that she should not panic that whether the complainant surfaces or not, that he will send her home but she still has to make another statement, all these were done and they took mom back to SARS and bailed her with 50k, the woman has long left the office before they got there and nobody has heard from her since then till now. The lawyer asked for 300k to file the case, he was not even aware that my mom has come out, my brother called him that day and he said that all these TO and FRO movement is not yielding anything until he files the case, he was given half of the money so we can gather the rest. But that's for only filing the case fee, I don't understand him and he has not even come to the house to see mom and find out how she got bailed. They said she should report to SARS on Monday for their routine check.

My mom was actually in their cell 2 where other 27 women were, no space on the floor to lie down, she is actually suffering from the daily habit of them shooting young guys dead anyhow after which by midnight, they gather the bodies and go and dispose them, no one can avoid seeing those bodies and even hears shots when they were been killed, it's a small place so everything happens around them there. I even heard they sometimes uses this nylon bags to cover their heads before strangling them with iron chords, she is really more traumatized and frightened by what she had been seeing there than her condition.

She said the place is just like another world. Jungle justice. But all the same, thank God for my mom, she said that her greatest gift of all from God in this case is that her husband was never caught because if he was ever taken there hmm!! Who knows what the turn out of events would have been by now. So that it, I have told them to get another lawyer for this issue.

It's ok if you find these details lies or with some hidden informations, but thats everything there is to it. I understand most of you that called my dad names believing he is not man enough to face it, I agree but let my parents be complete and alive for us. Thanks everyone.

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I am really happy for you. Your family will eventually overcome this challenge. Our country is a real jungle. I am particularly disturbed that SARS at Awkuzu are still carrying out extrajudicial killings. I wonder if the Commissioner of Police is aware. I would like to know if the commissioner was made aware of your mom's case. Even if it is a fraud case, I don't think SARS has any role to play there.

R.I.P. DJDola. You are in a better place. May God grant your family the strength to bear the loss.
And to the TeHN crew, may God bless you all for your selfless service. I am truly impressed.

coogar:
you are behind the curve.....
read my comments that followed the one you quoted.

Seen it. Scratch my comment. That lady and her family messed that guy up for life. It's good he told his story so others can learn from his mistakes.