Youdondeymad:
Good morning peeps, I have been pondering about this issue since last week.

I was chatting with my nephew on whassapp few days ago,while we were chatting, I observed something strange. He is planning to settle down with his fiancee very soon, I was surprised when I saw the picture of his fiancee but I pretended as if I don't know her. I have dated this babe before (to be honest), I dated her after I broke up with my first love few years ago. We dated for 2 years and 3 months, I don't really know what to do. I don't want to burst my nephew's bubbles because he is so much in love, I don't have any problem with their union but I'm planning to avoid the marriage.

Am I right or wrong, please no bashing or insults, thank you all.

Youdondeymad:
Good morning peeps, I have been pondering about this issue since last week.

I was chatting with my nephew on whassapp few days ago,while we were chatting, I observed something strange. He is planning to settle down with his fiancee very soon, I was surprised when I saw the picture of his fiancee but I pretended as if I don't know her. I have dated this babe before (to be honest), I dated her after I broke up with my first love few years ago. We dated for 2 years and 3 months, I don't really know what to do. I don't want to burst my nephew's bubbles because he is so much in love, I don't have any problem with their union but I'm planning to avoid the marriage.

Am I right or wrong, please no bashing or insults, thank you all.

Mynd44:
For me, the guy code comes into play.

The only way, I can get past having "stirrings" towards her is after express permission by my friend.

Forget Love or her being sexy, the code comes first

Youdondeymad:
Good morning peeps, I have been pondering about this issue since last week.

I was chatting with my nephew on whassapp few days ago,while we were chatting, I observed something strange. He is planning to settle down with his fiancee very soon, I was surprised when I saw the picture of his fiancee but I pretended as if I don't know her. I have dated this babe before (to be honest), I dated her after I broke up with my first love few years ago. We dated for 2 years and 3 months, I don't really know what to do. I don't want to burst my nephew's bubbles because he is so much in love, I don't have any problem with their union but I'm planning to avoid the marriage.

Am I right or wrong, please no bashing or insults, thank you all.





Its so easy buddy, a say goes like this" some secrets are better forgotten. ......but wait u culd b d linche in a way, wuld av advice u let dos 2 love birds be while u and i get our love story started........but u dont wana go to d wedding coz of ur past r/ship escaped rada u cant stand being on d losing side....pls dnt get me wrong i understand how dis goes, besides i got proposed by my elder sister ex-bf......i liked his witty n funny nature but i turned him down coz.....i culd see d future, i will always hurt ma sis cos d love btwn them was so real...support honey gotta quench that tiny weak side of love u got 4 d gurl, let go, bless n support ur cousins union and get ur suit ready 4 d day...... Sweetheart one more fin u should do is guard ur self n emotions, cos i know n can tell the spark n rush of emotions wen 2 ex-lovers meet.... Its always like love at first sight either from d girl or u......now at dat poin ur cousin left in d dark will fall prey to the estranged -entangled -love(poor thing). But only you can stop anyone from getting hurt n u just did dat by seeking ppl opinion which is a good step.....So boo is also tym u get ur woman so u dnt find urself yarning for her.....After all my jaguns boooo......i tink u know dis two love birds beta than we all on lalastical blog do....if u tink keeping dis as a secret n taking control of any situation that comes with it wont hurt anyone den go on OR letting d cat out d bag wont hurt anyone rather set things sstraight den go on with it........its ur decision baby....Think,Pray and do the Right thing Baby..... Goodluck......

Youdondeymad:
I don't have any problem with their union but is it normal to tell my nephew about our past escapades.
We are very close and I'm afraid he might not forgive me if I ignore his invitation.


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Youdondeymad:
Good morning peeps, I have been pondering about this issue since last week.

I was chatting with my nephew on whassapp few days ago,while we were chatting, I observed something strange. He is planning to settle down with his fiancee very soon, I was surprised when I saw the picture of his fiancee but I pretended as if I don't know her. I have dated this babe before (to be honest), I dated her after I broke up with my first love few years ago. We dated for 2 years and 3 months, I don't really know what to do. I don't want to burst my nephew's bubbles because he is so much in love, I don't have any problem with their union but I'm planning to avoid the marriage.

Am I right or wrong, please no bashing or insults, thank you all.

Youdondeymad:
Good morning peeps, I have been pondering about this issue since last week.

I was chatting with my nephew on whassapp few days ago,while we were chatting, I observed something strange. He is planning to settle down with his fiancee very soon, I was surprised when I saw the picture of his fiancee but I pretended as if I don't know her. I have dated this babe before (to be honest), I dated her after I broke up with my first love few years ago. We dated for 2 years and 3 months, I don't really know what to do. I don't want to burst my nephew's bubbles because he is so much in love, I don't have any problem with their union but I'm planning to avoid the marriage.

Am I right or wrong, please no bashing or insults, thank you all.

nkwuocha1:


I married a friend's ex

Youdondeymad:
Good morning peeps, I have been pondering about this issue since last week.

I was chatting with my nephew on whassapp few days ago,while we were chatting, I observed something strange. He is planning to settle down with his fiancee very soon, I was surprised when I saw the picture of his fiancee but I pretended as if I don't know her. I have dated this babe before (to be honest), I dated her after I broke up with my first love few years ago. We dated for 2 years and 3 months, I don't really know what to do. I don't want to burst my nephew's bubbles because he is so much in love, I don't have any problem with their union but I'm planning to avoid the marriage.

Am I right or wrong, please no bashing or insults, thank you all.

Kondomatic:
I can't marry someone that my sibling or relation dated and if I see them with my ex, I will tell them the truth. Whatever they decides to do with the truth is entirely their business.

The reason I cannot marry the woman is because feelings can be rekindled. They can have sex again if they have had sex before.

Mynd44:
For me, the guy code comes into play.

The only way, I can get past having "stirrings" towards her is after express permission by my friend.

Forget Love or her being sexy, the code comes first

Lexusgs430:


Just look away ..... Your Wife/girlfriend would be someone else's ex ....... We are all recycling ourselves, directly or indirectly .......

Bumbae1:
Nope
Trust me wont work out
Besides it's like taking someones left overs ....

Mynd44:

This post is wrong and unfair. Except you are marrying your first BF/GF, you are also leftovers.

Being the ex of someone you know is not a sin

JeffreyJamez:
Y'all always be making everything a big deal. Lol....dude there's no biggie about this. It Didn't work between you and the babe but it worked with your nephew..wait......hollup?!.... NEPHEW?!!!..like, your elder sister's son?..wow!.....well.....that's not the point.....it's no biggie really

VERDA:


Left over??,I am sure you have an Ex, are you his leftover?? ,I understand it might be somehow getting married to someone a friend or brother has dated but calling them leftover is taking it too far.

SIRmanjar:
Pls don't try it o,they might continue from where they stopped behind your back..It has happened to so many people that married there junior brothers ex.They will continue especially if the guy is good in bed ad richer than you along the line.
Apart from that how you go marry woman wey your brother or frend don see,use her body finish..NEVER!

Youdondeymad:
I don't know what to do,he has my pictures in his phone,I don't know what the lady would tell her about me.You know love is crazy,I don't want family wahala.


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Fourwinds:
y are u afraid of him settling down with d girl.? it is simply because u don bang her well well

Youdondeymad:
I know but I won't date any of my friend or sibling's ex.



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Bumbae1:
Nope
Trust me wont work out
Besides it's like taking someones left overs ....