SmartPolician:


I never said so

Everyone will age whether marriage or no marriage.

Juliearth:



Coming from a chicken-brained simp who thinks women are generally like the woman who birthed him and his sisters, I am not surprised.

Juliearth:





Maybe if you had used a fair judgement, eliminating " most" in your narrative, I would have given you a fair reply. "Most" Nigerian ladies are gold diggers, according to you, yet the statistics in our tertiary institutions show that there are more women than men...

Farki:


That's just legal prostitution.

enirock:
This looks lile a recipe for yahoo. Why would you want to take advantage of someones emotions and extort him/her? If the relationship is purely physical and she gives of her volition then thats ok. We all have forgotten karma bites back.

enirock:
Population-wise, women dwarfs men and op may have used 'most' because of those he had come across, or experiences from friends or what he has seen. This statistics been postulated, does it negate his assertion, or do they correspond. For me when you bring the tertiary institution into this discuss, you open up a 'can of worms' that will give credence to op assertions (statistically I mean)

virginprincess:
I don't care what you think, that your fucking business.

virginprincess:
My friend shut the Bleep up, don't you see career ladies everywhere, i really pity those girls that will depend on men like you after marriage.

Zzor:
Is this your own way of saying you won't make plenty money to take care of your woman?you better change this your reasoning ooo,you should be thinking towards making money so you can make your woman very comfortable and happy and not what you are posting here.

fati2001:
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unah go dy complain yet nah u "ZOOGERIA MEN " GO STILL MARRY EM " EVERY SATURDAY.
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I just witnessed one yesterday. she's a school dropout.. didn't complete one semester and no hand work but she got married yesterday to the same NIGERIA Man.

merieam16:
that will say Nigeria ladies aint loyal

Elder0001:

It's absurd to make money because of women.
Make money because it is necessary for survival not because you want to impress another gender.
Y'all women should endeavour to make money too, don't just sit down while your credentials waste away because you think a man has to do everything for you. Why attend a university if you don't want to put the certificate to use and earn money to make life better for yourself?

franchasng:
some Nigerian ladies are beginning to dream high and also earn much more than guys oh.



You see this social media and eCommerce of a thing, they are helping Nigerian ladies a lot now, most of them earn far more than oil company workers today from the comfort of their bedrooms or school hostels.


You have a point, in this time and era, I will advice any sensible young man to marry an ambitious lady with visible goals and plans of becoming successful in a field she chose.

Don't marry a mentally, physically and emotionally lazy and jobless lady if you love the future of your kids.


Marry smart humble ladies, they will make your life easier

enirock:
This is exactly the problems with weaklings - so when women impoverish you with demands and milk you dry and use your money to support their secret lover, build a house, buy a car and train herself in the University - take care of her parents and keep posting you to wait until she completes her NYSC before you marry her and when she is done with you, you are broke and she marries your best friend, that is not yahoo KWA?
Civility demands you be open to everyones point of view without prejudice nor throw weak punches to score cheap points. At a point in life, we all have been jilted in love, and some grew through that experience while others regressed. It working for your friend but you do not know his contributions to the growth of that relationship (irrespective of what he tells you). Society may have weaponized ladies to dependency but there are always exemptions to every laws. As regards to the weakling jibe ( I do salute your alpha status in the manosphere).

Juliearth:




If he is basing his judgement based on his personal experience, then the word "most" is not tenable. How about " from my personal experience with women, I have come to realise that..." This is subtle and a fair representation of the situation on ground as it relates to the op.

pansophist:


Francis, where person fit meet this smart ladies you always talk about na? Give me address, I wan go there.

I need one, just one

enirock:
While most of us may make hasty generalisations, there abound a great percentage of female folks who has this mentality ingrained in them (I would love to be proven incorrect/wrong). Society psycho-conditions 'them/some/most' to see beauty as a wealth generating venture, and those who through experiences would have swayed this young ones encourages them to pursue that which failed them(personal experiences though). We see the girl child gradually loosing a sense of decency,morals, and most going with the crowd thereby, soiling the word 'girl' for those whose moral compass be intact.

LINTUNE:
why do u like to twist words abd misunderstand someone, im thinking u are doing it on purpose, nd its not cool

Dpsychologist:
This phenomenon has occurred for a long time now.

Women have entitlement mentality starting as a teenager her mom tells her how that she will marry and her Husband provides for her. She also observes her parents.

The Most intoxicating is when she begins to grow older she gets an Overdose of attention. Even if she coughs a guy will tell her she has the most Beautiful cough in the world . Guys + sugar daddies provide her with whatever she needs coupled with Narcissistic attention she gets from 5000 friends on fb, countless msg on WhatsApp and unfettered attention on Instagram and the likes.

She is always favoured anywhere she goes for the fact she is a woman.

When she gets married she will be taken care of till death(unless unfortunate circumstance). Her work is to lie down like Log of wood while the Husband sweat himself to please her.

Peradventure she is not a stay at home mother. As a Career woman her money is her money while the Husband money is their money.

She gives birth and the Husband take care of the children.
When the children grow she will still be taken care of.


Tell me why wouldn’t she feel entitled?

ogbonti:



my brother I am not saying my friend is not contributing to the relationship, the point I am trying to drive home is that giving should not be a one way street - most naija girls do not give even when they have AND their man is in trouble financially - they only collect and that is a parasitic relationship - if this is too hard for you to understand- then its ok, that is what you want for your LIFE, but please, do not try to convince others to be like you - THANK YOU!

franchasng:
first of all, my name no be Francis oh, don't let the handle mislead u oh lol



As for the ladies, it's just that I am not a fixer, never liked it and will never be one, would have fixed you up with one or two, but u know guys can never be trusted, even when they want to put the tip of their dagger inside that thing, they will disguise that they have come for marriage or serious relationship but all na wash, that's why it's dangerous to be a matchmaker for guys


I see lots of these ladies everyday oh, both on social media platforms, real life, in fact they are everywhere except u don't have good eyes.


Try instagram. I am sure u do come across such ladies but feel you don't need them because of theit age; most of them are above 27yrs. If you want a quality lady, avoid girls of 25yrs below, search from 30yrs above or maybe 27yrs

Juliearth:





What better way to know than to conduct a study. I can facilitate this research. Conduct one per geopolitical zone in the country and let's create another thread to discuss findings.

victorian:






God bless you.

Please don't matchmake any guy for anyone.

They all have sweet mouth as if they want to really settle down and marry but check the guys life, it's either he smokes igbo as a hobby or he neck deep in debt because of baba ijebu. Or he's a fucccking player looking for more good ladies to mess up!
You really understand guys and their deceptive paroles.

Thumbs up!

Heartlessbanker:
how about women/girls and their "relationship scam"?
Why do you have hairs on your chest though? Abi I nor see well

victorian:







It goes both ways.


Hairs on my chest?
Seems you have eye problem!

Go fix those eyes first!