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Lezz, we once confused him to be someone else. We didn't know then he was an endophenomena dullard who copied and plagiarized nairalanders. So we mistook him for the one he was plagiarising.

But he couldn't sustain the momentum, and was found out after his false drapery was taken off.

Same dude who went online to look for diss after you blew him to smithereens.

Fearlez:
My Dear Avowed fan gone rogue, I will leave you with this post I sent to you exactly one year ago. When you started following my monikers and plagiarising my posts.

It's a record class act dismissal and public humiliation and it's the reason you have been having heart problems for over a year stalking and quoting me like I was responsible for your mother's carelessness for not demanding genotype compatibility with your deadbeat father. My only crime was that I rejected you, ignored your friendship request and Happy New year wishes because you're an attention-hungry , insecure and fragile snowflake looking for online fame.

So please learn to move on and stop following me like a disgruntled girl who lost her virginity to a love scam.

Enjoy the read,...and I will keep reposting it in response to your rants henceforth!


... why would we even believe you aren't the despicable son of a dick-swapper who exchanged dicks like you exchanged monikers!

I could string that bastard like a professional pupputeer the way I string you like a penny-craving prostitute.

Smell the reality, son , you're a madman doing 90 on the cyber freeway and you're eating up our slots meant for other reasonable followers.

[b]Please unfollow fearlez, Ftboy, theumbra, mdxcccdi . We don't need your stalking neither do we want to be inflicted with the aftershock of your abused childhood.

We can't father you. Even if we can,your bastardy has become fullblown and we can't possibly help now that your lunacy has become mainstream.

If you like rant like a lyssa infected dog, we whom you follow have publicly asked you to bugger off. We don't want you, no care about your dementia that manifests in an impulsive, maniacal followership.

If you need mentorship, then ask your daddy to quit drinking unfermented alcohol. You can't look for a father figure in an online forum kid. Shiit here doesn't exist. And if you're too dumb to notice, then you need to go back into your mother's acidic pussy and be reborn again. But ensure she treats her staphylococcus enough to spare your brains the horrors of being fried out.

Make sure you have unfollowed us when next you quote me or you won't be getting another response.

You disposable piece of human waste.[/b]

Oh nooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lezz a moderator? Uhuahahahahahahahahaha!!!

Can someone please remind me of some of the effects of narcotics abuse ---

- Hallucinations
- Perceptual Disturbances
- Aggression and fear of persecution

Fearlez:
Loooooolz, the good things about verbal-flogging that projection of human waste is that words hurt him worse than his inferior genetics.

Your Marrinee-dumpee line ,which is factual by the way,is a permanent knife in his weak heart that pumps out distorted red blood cells.

And letting the whole world know how he came to this forum begging to be thought how to use tramadol after his initial attempt landed him in a hospital should torment even Satan himself.

That's after opening a thread pleading for relationship advice on how to sleep with a girl in his own street then going further to look for a match maker who could find him any girl who would overlook his inferior sickle cell gene.

Dude never contributed anything to this forum but keeps using it like a parasite to remedy his unfortunate existence that defies spiritual and medical remedies.

The lad is a fruity dork with erectile dysfunction, and that's enough to hate oneself and project a sadistic hate for others.

This is the same dude who followed all my handles and even yours plagiarising our posts word for word just to appear intelligent until we shamed him to stop and asked him to un-follow us.

What a public humiliation!!!

And the Son of a gutterbreed stalks me for this for over a year and is stupid enough to tell the world he isn't hurt

How do people live with their own deceit?

Yeah, dude was overwhelmed by real life failures that he had to come online and reveal so much personal secrets -- his academic woes, genetic inferiority and narcotics abuse. He needed the attention that much that he sold his secrets for as little as digital notoriety.

When that didn't work, he sought out the famous and intelligent guys and tried to tag along with shameless plagiarism as criteria for admittance. He was found out and ejected like a contagious plague.

This is the aftermath of the disgrace of edimolu edimolu2 and edimolu3. Dude refused to take his rejection like a man and move on.

Fearlez:
Loooooolz! The snowflake was looking for another 15 minutes online when he hasn't even made any useful bit of his entire lifespan except run to Nairaland to seek advice on tramadol use.

The poor boy is still suffering emotional concussion from my year-long verbal punches and he isn't even intelligent enough to keep me interested.

If he is still hurting after more than a year, then I need no more response , let the hurt shadow him till his last moment on the green planet.

I have finished the job, he's just the consequence.

I thought tramadol abuse was his greatest life casualty until he encountered you.

Now he's a chronic lezz-addict. Dude can't stay without quoting you no matter how hard he tries. He searches for you forum-wide at the dictates of his burning rectum.

You're damn right about you living in his brain rent free!

I said "marinne reject" and "marrinnee dumped him" but the dude said marinee dumpee.

That's to tell you how my words sink in deep into his veins and they become a part of his pain.

Marinee dumpee was my favorite cliche I used in taunting him months back.

You aren't surprised it stuck to him like a stamp on a mail, do you?

Hahahahahahahaha!!!

Fearlez:
kid, this thread is dead for weeks, how do you accuse anyone of visiting the thread if you weren't here visiting as well, especially as that person chose not to quote you further?

The annoying thing about you is that you have a mental disease rendering you unable to do your own mental evaluation before projecting your mental sterility online.

And I don't want to ever here you yapping about marriages or wives. You're in no position to advice anyone on marriage, if you're the best example of the union of your mother and father in matrimony, then marriage should be considered a union of unproductivity.

After all, your parents are horrible examples of marriage after birthing a tramadol addict, a serial Nairaland dumpee, and an intellectual nematode who has been exposed on this forum for copying my lines word for word to impress people on Nairaland who don't care or know about his existence. A self-hating drugged up crack fiend like you should be ignored and left to rot in the fury of his self-unaccomplishments.

But then, isn't quoting and stalking me part of your life's compensation?

Bemused idiot.

Oh no, I thought you have denuclearized! You're one sneaky rogue element with a stockpile of deadly armory.

Now you've blown this degenerate with narcotics withdrawal symptoms in bits and the redundant old boring fart had to switch to his well worn-out cliche of "boring". Uhuahahahahahahahaha!!!!

But then again, why engage a piece of broken human debris like edimolu , edimolu2 and edimolu3? The same dude who relies on tramadol for erection sustainability, a sickler and marrinee reject? I tell you bro, he needs this banter so badly to create an online fame for himself. And what better way to garner cheap online publicity for himself than to stalk and follow you , nairaland's all time greatest forum-wide?

Like a desperate up and coming artist, this F class dunce needs you on his track trash to get noticed.

Now walk away bro. Marinnee dumped him, league of monarch tossed him high through the window after he was weighed and measured and was found to be half the worth of a sac of rotten onions.

Fearlez:
Phew! What can I say. Edimolu After One whole year, fearlez is still living in your head rent free. You give people so much power to dominate you mentally and emotionally.

Dude has been suffering from lezz withdrawal symptoms since you pulled the plug off.

Don't give that tramadol addict a cheap ride through the gate of fame.

ChatDicted:
She appreciated her good service with a car and her facial expression reveals how grateful she is for her kindness.

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To view the real essence of life, you need to start solving the riddles of life backward and you'll see things the great who lived happily saw.

So, why not appreciate, love one another, and be grateful for life despite tribe, race, or religion? There is love in giving and sharing — she just proved it.

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Thank you.

Good write up except for your cheap shot at sexism.

Balyz:
I'm not a Muslim but I'm not a self righteous Christian bigot either. Christians also kill people too. In plateau state last week a video emerged showing Christian youth slaughtering innocent passengers on the highway

Then you're a cold blooded reptilian attention seeker with a twisted sense of judgment.

Fool! We're talking about a well coordinated, thought out and organised mass murder and displacement of mostly Christian population with state backing and you're yapping about people barely trying to defend themselves from being wiped out.

Self-righteous, attention-seeking bonehead like you.

kestolove95:
Biafra lazy yoots..

Whatever happened that turned you into this hateful bigot got the better of you.

CilicMarin:
So you should be given a life ban for all the abuses on President Buhari?

You first have to bring a post where I insulted him.

CilicMarin:
Myn.d4.4 rule 2

Yet this was an earlier post from you:

CilicMarin:
Let him forfeit the 300 Million Naira and then spend some time in Jail. Perhaps next time, he will think twice before standing as surety to a Criminal terrorist.

I spit on his pig head.

Calling mind4.4 to do what exactly? Even in trivialities like this you're far from honesty and fair play. When the stakes are high...

Little wonders your political leaning is based on deceit, sycophancy and evil.

You won't get far.

CilicMarin:
Ipob yoot, It is 100 Million Naira each for the sureties, which sums up 300 Million Naira. We all know Abaribe is going to pay for himself and others.

The only thing I deduced from your posts is insecurity.

Mindfulness:
The guy you are engaging here is a well-known scammer. You know him.

I'm sorry i missed the party midway.

So, how is the guy you referred a scammer?

UjuJoan2:
And yet countless women ate breadwinners in their families. How do you expect them to defer to their husbands as the dominant gender, when they probably work harder than he does and provide more than he does.

I don't see myself as a feminist, but I think people should be recognized for what they are worth, and not sidelined based solely on thier boilogical make up.

I'm a woman married and living in my husband's house. And yet when some structural work needs to be carried out in my father's house, I contribute. The idea that I am somehow not worthy of inheriting anything from my father, and yet I contribute equally with my brothers who will end up with the whole inheritance is completely unfair don't you think?

Let's face it, there's no 'evidence' of dominance. What we have is a long history of imagined superiority, based solely on a factor we have no influence over.

It's the same reason why my female boss doesn't get the respect she earend, even though she came out the best candidate out of the all male applicants. It's the same reason I took my male colleague for lunch on his brithdady and the waiter brought the check to him, even though I clearly placed the order. It's the same reason people think women stay with abusive partners because the soeciety only see women Divorcees as failures, when in actual fact it takes both male and female to make a marriage work!

You talk about the absence of evidence of male dominance, and a long history of imagined superiority. But I'll tell you that just about everything you love was invented by man, from your disposable sanitary pad to the car you drive. Your identity is man created and sustained. Your village boundary was lined by the blood of your forefathers and by their bravery your identity was created and preserved. Even right now as we speak, your life is being protected by men who outnumbered women in a 9-1 ratio in the military and police service.

Denying your gender has no role to play in your abilities and inabilities is living in denial.


It doesn't matter how smart you may sound or what your academic credentials hold. What matter are those feminine hormones in your system and how they react to pressure, coercion, deceit and brute force. This is where leadership and dominance step in.

I don't see feminist lobby groups complaining about the lack of female population in the armed forces, police service, fire service etc, but they complain of not having enough parliamentary positions, bank executive positions. Hmmm! Greedy vultures. Feminism is a scam, It's a brand of false civilization.

moufan:
you are a fooooolish idio.t,so burning jersey is a terrorist act? ode,oponu

If they can burn pictures and jersey to portray their displeasure when the object of that displeasure is not within reach, it is safe to conclude what they'll do should they find him within a bombing distance.

And you, you're worse than a fool, you're a stench to the sweet fragrance of human civilization; a religious automated zombie and a member of a primitive set of bloodsucking brutes and uncouth animals.

WotzupNG:
Israeli Defense Minister Avigdor Liberman has said that Lionel Messi and his Argentine team’s draw to Iceland in the 2018 FIFA world cup in Russia is as a result of the team boycotting a friendly game with Israel which would have held in Jerusalem few days to the kick off of the world cup.

Argentina drew 1-1 to world cup first timers Iceland with Lionel Messi throwing away an opportunity to put his team in front when a penalty he played was saved by Iceland goalkeeper, Hannes Thor Halldorsson, who emerged man of the match.

Tweeting about Messi’s loss, Avigdor Liberman said,



An Arab Israeli lawmaker, Ahmed Tibi also linked the miss to the withdrawal from the Israel game, tweeting a poll asking,

The Albeceleste of Argentina pulled out of its final pre-World Cup warm up game with Israel due to pressure, threats and intense protests from the Palestinians after Israel decided to move the game to Jerusalem from Haifa, where it was originally to have been staged.

Jibril Rajoub, head of the Palestinian soccer federation, said that the match was politicized after Israel decided to hold the match in Jerusalem. He urged Arab and Muslim sports fans to burn photos and T-shirts of star player Lionel Messi if the game went ahead.

A disciplinary proceedings against Rajoub has been opened by FIFA.




https://www.kemifilani.com/2018/06/messi-penalty-israel-defense-minister.html

@ the emboldened:

And you wonder why the average Arab/Muslin is seen as a terrorist.

UjuJoan2:
You know what bothere the most is the way people intentionally misinterpret whatever she says concerning this issue.

Adichie is not being misrepresented. She's being called out for who she really is -- an opportunistic, insincere, feminist.

UjuJoan2:
Dana Leosch even went as far as cooking up a non-existent problem in an attempt to silence her.

Let's just at least agree that Female genital Mutilation isn't as prevalent as it used to be. But saying it's NON-EXISTENT suggests like all feminists, insincerity seems to be your stock-in-trade.

UjuJoan2:
So what if she felt successful women shouldn't be defined by their domestic roles, as opposed to successful men who believe that is secondary to their achievement

That's the core problem with feminism -- trying to compare women to men with all the obvious biological and physiological differences. True feminism lost its soul to greed and discontentment. Looking across the gender table, at the size of a man's plate is a sign of complex and greed. Today, a woman who derives joy and contentment prioritizing her domestic responsibility over her career is being ridiculed and intimidated by a host of feminist she-devils.

UjuJoan2:
. She wondered why Hilary felt right by doing that and it turns out the woman was just going with what society thinks she should do. She edited the profile didn't she? Someone else might feel differently and if she believes that out of all her acheievemets, being a wife and mother takes the prize, she can stand by her profile description and let it be the way she thinks it's best. But CNA's point is that one's decision shouldn't be defined by societal expectations. Because let's face it, we all know what kind of 'husband' Bill was to Hillary. I'm not sure she'll be asking Michelle that same question, especially since Obama also highlighted his domestic r responsibility in his own profile. Something like that should be a family mandate, not necessarily reserved for the woman.

Adichie more than wondered, she indeed interfered with the Clintons matrimony unduly while directly indicting Mr Clinton. It was insensitive. Her greed must have gotten the better of her good judgment. After all, having Bill Clinton's wife face to face for an interview was like a once in a life time opportunity for her.

When the woman in question isn't complaining but stood solidly behind "what kind of a husband she's got", I wonder how it mattered to you and Adichie.

Feminists are just a bunch of women with man problems, a bunch of rebels suffering from acute discontent and greed.

UjuJoan2:
Also, i love having the door held for me, which is why I don't hesitate to do it for other's, even men. Something as humane as that shouldn't be reserved for just women.

Don't you just love to sound off! A healthy male will find you sexually distasteful the day you try opening a car door for him in the matter a man does for his woman.

UjuJoan2:
Oh, now I see where all this is coming from? Imagine us gender-lly limited beings, trying to claim equality with super alpha males like you. What a nerve!

"The nerve" is backed by a long generational chain of evidential dominance in every sphere of life.

UjuJoan2:
Just because she's not going about it the way you want doesn't mean she's not doing the right thing. Sometimes to make progress in the war, u have to win the small battles.

We will not deceive ourselves. True Feminism doesn't exist. It lost its soul to a band of disgruntled misandrists who wouldn't admit that their ambitions are hampered by their biological limitations.

UjuJoan2:
Feminism is a fight of freedom . . . There's nothing pretty about it. The fact that she was born and bred in an environment where women are marginalized should be a motivation for her cause, not a deterrent.

I know change is not easy, it never is, and it can be acheieved from ay where, thank God for social media and globalization. that's why we need the likes of her, who will use hammer to drum it into your heads. Whether you want to here it or not.

I'll bring you to a speedy summary of what that wonderful exposé is all about; that your darling Chimamanda is an insincere, opportunistic glory-craver.

J2381:
if success if define by the likes of you, who praise those who deceive foolish individuals that look and type like you, no wonder Nigerian pastors are smiling to the banks every Sunday.

Those boobs of hers taking the center spot of her DP offer a peep into the dark, empty gully she calls her cranium.

The well-known aphorism, charity begins at home must have been lost to Chimamanda Adichie when she stepped into the media-aided limelight. Perhaps, finding the perks of notoriety too overwhelming, she reached out for more themes to keep basking in the spotlight of media hype and a new fame nowadays guaranteed to anyone who dare challenged the status quo even without scratching deep into exceptional brilliance.

After Adichie's notorious interview with former Secretary of State, Hillary Clinton, where she expressed her displeasure over Clinton's prioritisation of her marital status on her Twitter bio, comparing it to her husband's, the warning bells came off.

Are we looking at a sadistic, vengeful core feminist, whose major goal is to avenge male folks for their alleged "wrongs" or are we looking at an honest feminist who takes the plight of women into genuine consideration?

Did Chimamanda Adichie actually peered at Hillary Clinton's Twitter bio information and then searched out her husband's,Bill Clinton, bio for comparison?

For she clearly pointed out the difference between both Hilary Clinton and that of her husband insensitively and rudely informing Mrs Clinton of her husband's "crime". That was the red flag highlighting Adichie's lack of respect for matrimony and people's wishes.

I never cease to worry had Chimamanda Adichie discovered that Bill Clinton had placed "husband" in the front row in his Twitter bio, would she had picked offence at the choice of his wife, Hilary?

I doubt it. So we're, in essence, dealing with Chimamanda's preference for how the Clinton's should relate to one another.

Quite recently, Chimamanda rocked a media storm again (she just wanted a back-to-back front seat at the online media circus) when she again express her displeasure of male chivalry in holding doors for women. It took Dana Loesch, the National Riffle Association spokesperson to blast Adichie and expose her grand hypocrisy.

Loesch said, Adichie should worry more about the prevalence of female genital mutilation in Nigeria, which by the way is false as Loesch also showed her profound ignorance and lack of general knowledge. Female genital mutilation is not only outlawed in Nigeria for decades, it is convenient to say over 90% female child in Nigeria are born without genital mutilation.

Nevertheless, no one has pointed out to Chimamanda Adichie of the plight of women in her own tribe, in her own ethnicity and region, the South East of Nigeria where women are still forbidden to inherit ancestral lands of their fathers.

It is disheartening that Chimamanda will worry about how Hilary Clinton placed her marital status on her Twitter bio; that she will spare a thought about Western men opening doors for women when millions of women in Eastern Nigeria like her cannot inherit their father's homes in death even if they as females were the only child.

It is preposterous that none of Adichie's works have ever highlighted the plight of women in Eastern Nigeria where tradition forbids them from being rulers or breaking kola nut or attending "Umunna" meetings except when summoned for questioning or as witness.

In Enugu, Chimamanda's birth place, some communities traditionally forbids women from eating gizzard. In Eastern Nigeria, a woman is forbidden to interfere in the negotiations of her marriage between her family and that of her prospective husband's family, making her a bystander or spectator in the negotiations of her own marriage.

Chimamanda would have been partially forgiven if she was born and raised overseas but she had her birth and formative years in Nigeria and she chose to wear the cloak of hypocrisy in nice drapery, worrying and fretting over women of Western birth whose material fortunes are far greater and superior to those of her kith and kin she left behind.

Chimamanda wasn't a priest rejected by her own folks, she's just a preacher who never preached to her suffering people but pretend to be a crusader, taking the gospel to those who have the mastery of it, hence not needing it.

Source: www.lodega.com

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Elder001:
You know what? you're way more stupid than I thought.



Your life ,your choice. I didn't marry to to all burden on my shoulders.



You're probably a village tout that has never left the chores of Africa.



Your mind is made up, I won't do anything to convince you

The only women that find interests in alpha males are African women and some Asian women.


Sorry I can't risk my life for anybody irrespective of the gender. You're a woman or whatever doesn't mean you're important than men.
You're equal to men so save yourself.
and as for the finance I'll continue to share bills with my wife even if I'm a billionaire.

You're just a fool.. I'm done with you
Don't disturb my mentions because I won't reply.

I hate idiots.

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You're a piece of human dross from a skewed cultural experiment; a bio-cultural casualty and a victim of gender identification crisis. An epicene klutz who sacrificed his gender responsibility on the altar of a false promise. A modern day woman slave driver.

Those loud cheers that greeted your birth, the drinks that flowed in celebration of your sex, that hope that your father's legacy has been secured in the strength of your loins all colapsed on the fragility of your sick mind.


You have made a poor bargain, trading your self-dignity for a fool's promise, that you're wise and civilized when you adopt a modern fad and culture. What a loosed cùnt you are.

Lazy wuzzbag, anti-brideprize idiot. You love freebies so much, don't you? You should have gone full fledged parasitic and be a gigolo! Shameless waste of male headcount.

You found a canopy in "modern civilization" to hide from the rays of the true test of being a man.

When real men look at those feminine virtues in women when considering a potential lover, an underperforming sissy like you with low financial expectation has his greedy, bulbous eyes fixed on the size of her purse. Shameless he goat!

Elder001:
First of all, Do I know you from anywhere? Why quote me
with insults, clearly there’s something wrong with you. You
can argue and disagree without being ridiculous.

Funny how you seem incapable of taking one back in the chin.

Below is an earlier post from you in reference to me. This is NL, you punch and get punched. If you can't take it then walk away. But crying foul after being served with your own medicine is just another sad pointer to your intellectual hypocrisy.

Elder001:
The funny thing is he hasn't met up to 1% of the world's female population but he's making that useless generalization.

What I denoted from that post is that he's a guy or man with skewed 18th century mentality and probably living in a cave.

Elder001:
You can't manipulate me, okay?
That post meant that if a man expects his wife to provide financially then he should breast feed a child to the fullest to see how it looks like. No matter how you try to twist it even a madman will understand what you meant by that post.

Wrong! Too bad your comprehension ability is below par.

Elder001:
If my wife can get her hands on my purse why shouldn't I get my hands on her purse too?

There's a vacuum in between her "thighs", you're meant to fill her up and not to deplete her.

Elder001:
You clearly aren't as intelligent as you claim. There's not about inferiority complex about what I just said.
This is the 21st century not 1910 and family values have been redefined.

Values? Redefined? By who? By those whose culture and ideology you have swallowed whole like a sex-starved nympho mouths down a còck!

Elder001:
There's nothing real about being an alpha male. That you prefer to be a traditional or alpha male is a choice don't force it on others. Other men mustn't be like you.
There are men who prefer to share the house chores with their wives. It's only a matter of choice /preference.

Stop being a clown for once. You proposed your own idea of how you think "civilized" men should conduct themselves in matrimony and I expressed a contrary view. So stop being that emotionally imbalanced male with your cheap blackmail. You're just as guilty.

Elder001:
Now ,who doesn't want an easy life?

Before you stands this great barrier restricting your effectiveness in debating effectively -- basic comprehension of the English language.

Elder001:
There are two types of men in this world; the alpha males and the beta males.
again, that you prefer being an alpha male doesn't mean all men must be alpha.

Men now do house chores. women also provide financially.

Alpha males are men who don't share bills with their wives and won't help domestically and will always want their approval before anything is done in the home

while
beta males are men who share bills with their wives and also share house chores with their wives.

The alpha males are already declining in numbers globally.
Most of them have already embraced the beta ideology.

Africa is the only continent where alpha males are still dominant.

Enough said.

Wrong once again! The alpha male is every woman's dream as long as she's mentally and psychologically healthy. We ARE the last man standing, the warrior, the defender, the stand up guy.

Like in the movie Titanic, in the face of great danger to life we say WOMEN AND CHILDREN first to safety. But sissies like would SHARE everything! From finance to physical threats and dangers.

You need your testosterone level checked!

Elder001:
do yourself good by posting links to this statistics .

Nature indeed.. You must be living in a delusional world
I'm forced to ask. ..are you married?

They're all over the place. Do yourself some good and engage google.

If you're a real man, those assertions by me would drive home. It is basic.


No, the delusionist is you who ladens a woman with extra burden aside the natural stress and challenges being a woman entails.

Until you are one weaker in strength and can take in semen in your uterus and go through 9 months of gestation, push a baby out and nurse it while undergoing physical, emotional and psychlogical healing then can you comfortably sit your lazy ass down and EXPECT her to be a co-financial burden bearer as you.

Elder001:
Hey.
This is Shìt, you know?

What exactly are you trying to say with this post?
When did men start breast feeding babies?.

With a comprehension ability this shallow, I don't think you possess the basic cognitive requirements to participate in this debate. My elementary employment of satire should fall within the purview of your intellectual circumference.

Elder001:
for the big heart stuff ..
man stop saying shìt, things ain't so anymore .

I don't think any Self conscious and intelligent man will want to marry a wife that can't co-provide alongside him.
Even the so called traditional men or alpha males want women who'll contribute too.

While women folks are encouraging one another to "get that money" and be INDEPENDENT, most 21st century pussy-fied males like you are thinking of how to put their lazy, greasy hands on their wives' purses, shame on you!

Elder001:
65% or more of married American ladies share bills(co-provide) with their husbands... so wtf is your point?

Times have changed.. men do the chores too you know.

That's why it's called a civilized world ,yeah?

You follow?

I stagger at the weight of your gross inferiority complex and bemoan your ever eroding self-identity. Oh, America and her host of Western minions can serve as pointers in many areas of human endeavours, but not quite when it comes to morals and family values. Overwhelming statistical evidence shows a near-breakdown in family values in these cultures.

While I appreciate the fact that the demise of REAL MEN is looming, real men have always helped around the house with domestic chores, but it's always on voluntary basis and never on an obligatory criteria.

Your definition of civilization stems from a weak and pliant mindset, persuaded by the flickering lusters of the promise of an easy life.

bukatyne:
You are making my case for me.

In theory, (practical life is much more complex) women are to do chores and men are to finance the home.

Shouldn't it occur to anyone that it would be natural for a woman to feel 'bitter' when she is financing the home because she is expected to do the chores + finance the home?

Why do people behave as if the 'bitterness' is a vice especially when the husband is still traditionally inclined?

On the flip side, would a husband be happy picking up most of the domestic work after financing the home?

You're right, a woman who's a co-provider, footing 50% or even more would feel bitter and resentful doing most of the chores. But my point is, in majority of the cases, even in the so called civilized countries, women who contribute more end up doing MOST of the house chores. Point is even when faced with cultural evolution, most men will still be men.

bukatyne:
Thanks

They do not go into relationship with the expectation they'll be doing MOST of the financial spending BECAUSE they are expected to handle the domestic turf.


@Bold: Show me a man who would be happy handling work stress and finance while he has a wife then I would agree it is a woman thing ELSE, it is a human thing. If there is a delegation of duties, nobody will be happy doing every body's job.

Now, the above is theory.

In practical, it doesn't work that way.

Women are meant to do most of the house chores and men are expected to rake in most of the finance for the family upkeep. This is a biologically and physiologically backed gender categorized roles.

Statistics have proven men are 5 times more likely to cheat when their partners are the major breadwinners and it is partly because they find such women less attractive.

On the other hand it has been proven that men who do more house chores engage less in sex and their women find then less attractive.

When humans abuse nature, they can't escape the consequences.

There are lots of men who are the breadwinners, paying most/all the bills in the home and are happy and fulfilled doing it.