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slimtoney: Hmmmm, I got married 9 months ago and abt 2 months into d marriage she got preg. She is such a rare gem. No vomit, no spit but she sleep alot. I took over bathing her wen she is weak, I cook, even she feels bad dat she is arround n I hve to do all that house chores. For d first tym since we met I washed her undies n I was glad I did. I feel her pains. Right now every other projects are on hold cuz I want to make her n our child comfortable. My regret now is dat my job has taken me away frm home. She is so strong n appreciative. She say a word of prayer 4 me every morning. Am lucky. I wanna do more

ileobatojo: Wow Cindy, what a horrible, disturbing story. Sounds like you fell into the hands of a mad man there. I thank God for you that you made it out with your life and for your new bundle of joy. May God heal you, protect and provide for you both and may your son bring you joy always.

Efemena_xy: @ PrettyCindy, you poor dear!

**Lots of hugs & kisses for you**

No woman should have to go through what you've been through. It is indeed strange that your (ex) hubby threatened to get someone else just 3 months into matrimony & yet when you take in 3 months later, he demands you have an abortion? Odd one.

Anyway, May your baby forever be a source of joy & blessings to you!

May the good lord always give you strength & bless you and your baby for always...

cotton101: prettycindy - so I wasn't the only one that went thru hell during my pregnancy. Its almost like we went thru the same thing - my ex even denied the pregnancy initially. man i saw hell, even when I had a threatened miscarriage at 7 weeks he spent 2 days outside the home with one of his many girlfriends and refused to bring money for hospital visits.

he sent me abusive texts during the pregnancy and even after the baby was born - to date (and my daughter is almost 1 and a half) not one penny or call or text to ask if she is alive. High blood pressure almost killed me and my child while giving birth. but it is well o!!

Wislet: hmmm. Nice nice nice. God bless ur families.
know I'll meet someone great who'll gve me sth extra special to write too! Heheheeh. Show up fast o jare.

tpia@:
prettycindy

your ex sounds like he has a screw loose somewhere.

though we havent heard his own side, but still.

joanana: There is nothing wrong in marrying a stammerer, it just basiuc control n besides they r really hot tempered when they angry n can destroy things cos de words refuse to come out|!!!! all is well

TroyJay: Majority of ladies would prefer an older guy. Assuming your friend is of the same age as you, and the brother in question is younger than you are, would she want to date a younger guy? Now if the brother in question is older than you are, who are you to stop him from asking your friend out? if he wants to date her and she is agreeable to it, are you saying you wont allow it?

Flashaldrin: And what if i read it to the end?
You sound like one of those girls that find it difficult to get a guy so you wanna make it difficult for other girls if you can, sorry but its simple psychology

bennyraz: i like your maturity. All i needed was for you to clear your username. Like we all know, some people derive fun in opening multiple Ids to make up stories or hype themselves. And if you've noticed for a while, it as turned into a norm. So, we all have to be watchmen/watchwomen on this romance section to fish out the same user under different id's if peradventure we come across one. And personally, if you felt offended with the way i carried out the spreading of the news, i apologise.

Flashaldrin: if they knew the men were like that they wouldnt have ended up with them, men are bloody chameleons!

xtain2rule: re love is hard to get,in dis world we cant live witout love wot i hv to advice is dont worry d real man is on his way,real love dont cost much pain,,,,,,,,,,,,jst take care of d one u hv if d story is real,xtain2rule@yahoo.com can help

MOBBDEEP: @ OP,
That's where we got it all wrong. Stuttering, similar in features to Tics, is an Acquired disorder & it is more pronounced in heightened emotional states e.g anxiousness, being worried, having to explained yourself well especially with long/complex-compound sentences or using multitude of words etc.
It is a well known fact that Stuttering also simulate spectrum of another class of disorder referred to as Social Phobic Disorders where performance with a third party & sometimes a 2nd party is usually faulted.
Hence, in that family friend of yours, I'm, until seeing otherwise or proven contrary, faulting the child-raising skills, especially that has to do with vocalization & speech-making.

Come to think of it good people of NL, as my tribe dey talk am for our proverb say na thief fit track the footprints of another thief on a rock, who do you think is best placed to understand a Stutterer more?
No be another Stutterer?
There are more important traits, qualities, features, personality xteristics etc to use in weighing the dynamics & prospect of a union rather than things that were not under the individual's control, more so that it won't contribute much to the breakdown of the relationship.

@ Bennyraz,
I'm so sorry for you !!!
That's quite something to have experienced, which in real fact qualifies as ABUSE. If only they knew that it wasn't you. After all, it the defect could have even been from them from errors arising during your up-bringing.
Ignorance in humans, myself inclusive sometimes, doesn't cease to amaze me! A poor mother rejects vaccine, child develops fever, instead of mother to take him to clinic or at least use anti-pyretics e.g Paracetamol syrup, she binds baby in heavy clothing like 'sigidi', then baby starts convulsing. They start thinking it is the baby's fault & then to correct that, they stick his/her legs into fiery flame! Imagine?
That's what you call 'animal in humanskin'! ( If I may borrow Baba 70's song )

El Guapo: [color=#0066ff]Even a Creche Kid knows that -- I mean a kinda Logical Definition i.e Genus-Differentia Definition! [/color]

Flashaldrin: Why not?? Whats your choice in the matter?? Na your business?? Will you marry him?? Whats the guarantee the person he eventually marries will not be worse.
The best you can do is to tell him the truth about what you know, the decision is his!
Wait, is this even a question