₦airaland Forum

hyperflex:
I don talk am. People will just open their mouth n talk nonsense

Lol, were u expecting them to openly accept they did? Seems u don't know nigeria or u are living in denial. This is nigeria and that is how they share money in nigeria. The bullion van that went into Tinubu's house few days before election, no one has been able to account for it.

My brother, nigerian politicians are corrupt and they spend tax payers money on many selfish things.

No one is talking about the fact that they withdrew our money for election. This country will never get better, lie lie.

Yuneehk:
There's a problem if you're hot, and another one if you're cold. For the former, jealousy, insecurities creep in which is totally fine after all no one likes to share. For the latter, complaints of poor looks(size, dressing, etc), comparison with what they see outside and lust for that which is seen outside. It's even evident on the thread from comments above say one man meat na another one poison. Las las, this thing called marriage ain't got a manual.
You saw the signs from the onset sef but chose to ignore. This one will likely not change so bear your cross.

This is not really about being hot dear..
She flirts and guys know that she is available, that is why they call her pet names like love, my love. There are elegant married women u can't even dare call such name because they will send fire to visit u. She has presented her self as ever ready seductive woman online and men are bidding for her.

She rarely takes care of her kids, she leaves them with her mom only to go partying. While partying, she dresses seductively. She is hardly around, she jumps from one place to another. All these are what the OP pointed out.

The world has gone crazy and we kind of praise stupidity like we praise bbn. There is difference between dressing well and wearing stuff to seduce other men. Ladies who are still looking for men, single or ashawos can dress like that. But for a married woman, dressing like that for events her husband is not even with her means she is calling for male attendants. I know her type.

I can't force anyone to change. I can't advice anyone to do same. She can't change. That is who she is. She falls in the class of our female celebrities. Some ladies are like that. Some men are like that too.

He should leave her to live her life. He should divorce her. I feel for the kids too. They will suffer more from this. From the OP accounts, the woman doesn't even have value for kids.

truthsayer009:
OP, if i get married and have what you have right now I would totally be happy.

10 years of marriage and your wife still looks really good to 100% is rare. You need to ask God for forgiveness because you dont deserve what you have.

Even if your wife wants to play around or go back in shape, it should motivate you to join her in the Gym, get yourself in shape too. Go out with her to events, look like a power couple.

You guys always admire Beyonce when you see her. You think it was by Juju she maintained her figure after 2 kids, imagine if she was with Men like you?

What makes you think she doesnt want to take care of your children.

why don't you join her in looking good?

So u are happy to be married to a woman who flirts with different men online, party up and down wearing seductive wears?

May ur wishes be granted to u. I go like make u marry such woman and I go like f uck her while married to u.

Some of u take this 'woke' too serious. U think marriage na bf and gf type of thing. Oga said woman no even get time for his kids again and u are talking this one.

I pray make u marry one of these married women wey love flirting wey I Dey hammer every week now. Ur eyes go clear. She go even kill u sef. I have married lady like that and she is getting good bang from me steady and she wishes I fathered her kids.

mysticgal:
My dear I don tire for men,

What do you guys want?

Seems u guys don't understand. She flirts with guys. One is constantly addressing her as his love.

She goes partying and dressed seductively partying.. Who is she seducing at birthday parties?

She doesnt care about her kids. She flirts online. These are reg flags. The one is either phone romancing or romancing in real sense. Bro, if she go stop, divorce her make she continue her life style. Pls don't listen to anyone who makes u feel u are stalking her. U aren't. Marriage comes with some sacrifices. If I have a wife who parties all day and all night with seductive wears, and Im not there, it doesn't send good message about her. But u can't force people to change. U can path ways so she can flirt more.

Divide this country to end or reduce ethnic and religious contests. These contests are the major Bane of our problems and usually slow down progress..

MelesZenawi:
What Aba needs is road simple.

But due to the criminality attitude of Abians and her leaders the future remains bleak.


Let Abia state govt construct their road and leave Federal govt after all Rivers state constructed their own part by themselves.


Recently the Asaba road leading to head bridge was damaged beyond reason but as now the road is been reconstructed by Delta state government because they know the importance of good road network. Delta didn't wait for buhari or said this is a federal road.


So nothing like sleeping giant but Abia has so many criminals as leaders and they enjoy it if not how can people like Orji Uzor kalu stage a come back to power to same state he rendered hopeless.

I get your point but this is wht I have been saying. FG is complete waste of time. FG earns bigger than all the states but still want states to do part of her jobs without doing state jobs. It is completely unfair to states and that is why sometimes, I don't blame states for their incompetency. States most times handle the funding of security in their location while FG earn so much from the money sharing formula. Some states have never experienced FG presence for decades. States need more funds. FG should earn less. States should get more of the share than FG. Most money earned by FG used for overhead cost. States are closer to the people than FG. FG is just there to massage the pay of ex leaders and service chiefs. This is so wrong. If this country really want to grow, we need to really sit down and look into our constitution.

decatalyst:
Total waste to die for any human not to talk of Nigerian politicians.

It still baffles me what the likes of ATIKU is coming back to power for, instead of him to keep enjoying his loots, protections, and respects he gets from the successive Adamawa governments.

Yea, exactly what I don't understand why Buhari and others are still doing in politics. He is paid for live and forever will enjoy treatments of head of state which runs into millions.

flexyrule:
They harvest anything good the African continent can produce.
Doctors
Engineers
Footballers
Economy
Natural resource
Even human organs
Is this continent a specimen for experiments?

Yea, becus ur leaders keep failing, while the masses keep being stupid.

EVILFOREST:
The same OIL MONEY...
Are BLACKS not Cursed..??, because the kind of fruits we bear get me perplexed.
We really need to define our role in this world...
PLEASE, when will BLACK ARABS start thinking like this..?

Well, until blacks accept that they are truly inferior in the scheme of world, the better. No matter how wicked the UK might have been, they would have been better than our present leaders..

Here js the issue with blacks:
Blacks are naturally wicked, greedy and pathetic liars.

These three factors are the reason we keep producing useless leaders..

Blacks can function perfectly well in any system they didn't build, but can never build a system on their own. This is why blacks can do well in USA, UK, and others. The systems there have been properly built to checkmate and control greediness, wickedness, and lies.
Blacks can't build a system on their own because the greediness, wickedness and lies can't allow them to.

A black man has two naira, he will steal one and half, and still will not use the remaining half to build what he was paid to build. As Nigeria is now, some people can buy Nigeria from Nigerians by simply offering them luxury things, money and power. That is how greed works. A black man doesn't mind having 500 houses all over the world, that is greediness.
Wickedness is why a Blackman will use his fellow for money ritual, a black man will kill u becus u are progressing better than him, a black man can use spiritual means to block ur ways, etc. That is how wickedness works.

I can go on. Sentiments will make some people dispute these facts. These greediness was the major reasons whites were able to penetrate the continent and defeated our past leaders and turned the tribes against one another.

shamecurls:
Fulani kidnappers


Who asked the kidnappers about their tribe?


Stupid Journalism!

Read the story.

The very important person does not have a name.. Lol. These elites Dey use nigerians play sha..

That was how the Wude kidnap kingpin has been forgotten..

Well, our leaders know that we are wet pussies. I have never seen people like Nigerians in my life. So no one among us is willing to put selfishness aside and question these leaders.

All our activists do is make noise, they dash them Ghana must go and voom, they will keep quiet.

This country messed up. Southern leaders have no ball. They need to change the electoral laws. We can't keep having huge and uncontrolled population at the expense of development because some regions wana rule for ever. This will not work. The north keep pouring in huge numbers of kids for the sole purpose of ruling for ever while the same huge population remain a huge burden to the country.

Look at the new CBN policy, only kano state is a productive state. Our tax from southern Nigeria is used to share and feed northern nigeria..

I dislike southern leaders. They are too selfish. They make us, productive southerners slaves to dormant North. Our tax is huge. Pls anyone close to southern leaders should tell them to demand for change in election laws. We want to control our birth rate. Many in southern Nigeria are now controlling their birth rate, but northerners are still birthing anyhow for the sole purpose of election. If they don't want to change the election laws, we should divide the country into regions. Simple.

mapet:
The South west that many south-easterners severally called slaves?

Same way South west called south east slaves too. South west started this shit. Obasanjor did 8 good years. When it was the turn of GEJ, they betrayed and followed north. Now North is planning to retain power come 2023 and they will achieve it as long as South west and east are divided..

elganzar:
Osinbajo for President

Peter Obi for Vice

Yoruba and Igbo together should rip The North of power


#2023

Sincerely speaking, south west should support east for presidency. Obj has ruled for 8 good years. If south west, South east, south south, and middle belt come together, North will beg for breakup of Nigeria.

CAPSLOCKED:

THIS GUY IS THE REAL GOOD FOR NOTHING.

PEOPLE HAVE BEEN COLLECTING BEATINGS AND BULLETS, HE NEVER SAID ANYTHING.

COMMON SLAP YESTERDAY MADE HIM REALIZE HOW TERRIBLE THE COUNTRY IS. MADMAN.

CELEBRITIES KEEP REACTING TO FOOLĮSH THINGS LIKE BIG BROTHER INSTEAD OF IMPORTANT THINGS THAT HAPPEN IN THIS COUNTRY. WHEN THEY'RE IN TROUBLE THEY SUDDENLY WANT US TO PITY THEM?

POLICE BRUTALITY MUST GO ROUND. NA TURN BY TURN.

Oh, exactly what I wanted to say. These guys think because e never happen to them, they will never voice out. Nigerian celebrities are disappointment and I don't ever pity them when they come up with this type of story. Nigeria is like this because those who could have spoken out have refused to because "e never concern them".

koolaid87:
No behaviour profiler

No forensic investigative unit


Nothing works for Sh1thole


Na to dey chase yahoo boi up and down

Even the yahoo boys are part of why the country is a shithole.

PureFace1:
Keep deceiving yourself


I served in the East and I Know what I am saying

U have been to all eastern states and went to all the residential areas. You are the one deceiving ur self. I say go barracks first.

PureFace1:
I am not saying there are no Yoruba in South East because that would just be stupid but saying they full there is just a lie


I have been to three state in South East and I know what I am saying

And You are the one that said I don't travel

I have traveled to three states in the East and I know what I am saying

My brother, them full there. Enter barracks alone u go think u Dey Yoruba market.

PureFace1:
There is a Yoruboid tribe In Delta State call Itshekiri

But that Enugu is a lie because I have been to Enugu

At least I spent 2 weeks in Enugu

are u alright at all? How? There are yorubas transferred to enugu by FG who work and raised families there. Ur replies only showed how myopic u are. Most of those yorubas in agbor I'm talking about are from osun states. We gist a lot. The guy I told u about who played a huge role in my wedding is from osun state. He stayed in agbor before moving to sapele where he built his house. He is married to an abia woman and they have three kids.

One of my departmental guy, a yoruba guy from ekiti state is currently staying in nsukka now and has started life there. Becus u have been to enugu for two weeks, u now know enugu. Guy, Yoruba men and women plenty for aba, onitcha enugu. They are doing business, mainly in herbal niche. I won't argue with u again I can see u aren't really out of ur ethnic sentiment. Very crazy u could actually make such reply.

PureFace1:
Keep deceiving yourself

What is keep deceiving ur self? U sre the one deceiving ur self. I served in delta state, agbor precisely. There is full area hugely dominated by yorubas there. In fact, u will think u are in South west. I do go there to buy agbo to drink.

One of the guys who played a major role during my wedding early this year na Yoruba who is based in Agbor before he migrated to Sapele where he built his house. In my department back in UNN where obtained my degree, we had some yorubas in our class. Many yorubas Dey UNN. I schooled in enugu and yorubas full there.

Go to aba, u will see many yorubas too. Anambra nkor? Dude, travel, okay.

somehow:
So you're saying Enugu is only as rich as local governments in Lagos?

I don't understand. How? A state governor decided to upgrade a community hospital and the locals celebrated him and u are saying this?
Can u believe ur self? Dude, wetin concern lagos concern this matter? Abi is lagos now new York city? Last time I checked, no single state in nigeria is as developed as ordinary cape town city in south Africa. Pls I don't have energy for negative vibes today. Go to work. Thanks.

mrvitalis:
Those who pay such tax are in minority....they cant talk people wont understand

Bros, tax is tax. There different types of tax and they are all tax. Every Nigerian pay value added tax. And that runs into trillions. We don't want to talk about others. Stop justifying something that is not worth it.

Govt does not provide water for Nigerian, we provide our own water. We source for our own electricity. Our fuel is expensive, and we still fuel car, we fuel generators.

Telecom companies spend billions monthly to generate power A-side paying power companies. Same as banks and other companies.

We also pay for our own private securities these days. So the most basic things of govt are not provided to Nigerians. Yet, the same govt does not buy fuel, they use it for free, the same govt does not pay security, they use the ones we collectively maintain, they don't pay for water, it is given freely, they don't pay for feeding, they don't pay for health-care. More tax will never make the govt responsible.

It will not stop govt from shooting protesters. In developed climes, five persons can protest and no one will shoot them. U don't need heaven and earth to protest. U would be killed in Nigeria if u protest. Taxation does not make people protest. The govt needs to create the environment for such.

mrvitalis:
Firstly i was a buhari fan but now keep me n him in an elevator one of us wont come out n it wont be me

But tax is a motivation ...how much tax have u paid this year

I have paid zero kobo

You don't pay value added tax? If u work for govt or private sector, ur salary pay a type of tax as well before you get paid.

By the way, I gave u a life example, those who pay such tax are yet to protest for the poor utilization of their tax because police will shoot them. If u know the number of nigerians in secret detentions for voicing out, u wil weep. Nigerians pay all sorts of charges already bro. And that runs into trillions.

mrvitalis:
Do u look at the religion or tripe of the owner of the bank u bank ur money ?

Nigerians dont care about leaders because they dont really contribute anything ....its ur luck if u get to power ....its nicer delta oil money

But u if u are tax 20% of ur income plus other tax amonting to 20k a month would u have an excuse not to vote
Would u have an excuse not to protest ?

Would u prefer we dont tax and remain like this ?

What politicians earn in a year is not half of what civil sarvants earn in a month ....that's a fact

Government jumbo salary has nothing to do with our lack of development ,lack of funds is

My brother, nigerians have protested, they were killed. They were locked up. Increased in tax will still not make govt not to shoot.

I'm scared, seems u are Buhari's fan or in govt. Companies are taxed multiple times. At least there are people who are taxed heavily running business today. For instance, in markets, shot owners pay heavily on tax compared to what they make. Why have they not protested for better market infrastructure? I can use Aria ria market in Aba (pardon the spelling) my aunt husband has business there, I know series of tax his company pays, he complains, he is not alone. The tax has not added any value to the market. The market is still in shits. That did not make them to protest.

Nigerians don't protest because among the other reasons I gave u, they don't want to die. I have spoken to many Nigerians who scared of coming out to protest because our police don't use water to handle protests, they use live bullets. Increased in tax won't change that except govt decide to be reasonable.
Nigerians are poor. I don't know where u expect the heavy tax to come from. Middle class in Nigeria is extremely weak. Govt needs to be reasonable first. In Africa, we know govt use military and police to intimidate citizens into silence.
2face wanted to protest the other time, go and ask him what he went thru.

mrvitalis:
Do u know why nigerians give politicans free hand because in the real sense we dont pay tax

As at today the average nigerian pays less that 600 a month as tax ..and u expect heave and earth from that

Id it development before tax or tax before development

lol, u guys are funny. So, u really think ur leaders will cut down on their pay? Our senators are among the highest paid in the world. U really think paying higher tax will make Nigerians go out there to fight their leaders when the leaders have used ethnic and religious sentiment to blindfold Nigerians? Politicians that have used illiteracy and poverty to cage Nigerians.

Seems u dont understand the Nigerian system. And funny enough, Nigerians pay tax, there nothing we do that does not have value added tax. Every worker has his tax deducted before he gets paid. Go to business areas and see how much tax is been collected from traders. They complain bitterly of multiple tax. Telecom companies lamented the other of multiple taxation. Nigerian leaders should show evidence of the tax they collect and not use the little collected to tell police to kill protesters.

How can u use police, a public institution funded with taxpayers money to kill protesters who are protesting against bad leadership and u want others to happily pay tax. There is nothing I will say that will make sense to you. So, let forget it. Nigerians cant hold their leaders accountable becus we have been highly divided via religion and ethnic sentiments.

Secondly, Nigerians are naturally greedy. Those who can organize protests are easily bought with lucrative offers and positions. That is why u cant find a decent activists anymore.

ur celebrities who could have become voices are benefiting from politicians. They offer them deals and use them for money laundering. So they get paid. The masses dont have any organized framework. Labour union that should have easily helped organized the masses are highly compromised. They cant speak against the govt becus they work hand in hand.

mrvitalis:
Im not ....if we must grow people must learn to pay tax

Abeg, some of u are really funny in this country. What is being done to ensure that our tax is used for development instead of paying politicians, senators, governors, and looting?

We are not doing anything in that regards but we want more tax? It doesnt work that way. The money Nigeria has that politicians are looting and using to pay them selves is way enough to tackle majority of our needs.

9jaRealist:
Dude, it's not just about money but how you use it...
Instead of building 10 substandard clinics, build one excellent hospital.
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Baba, there was no need for the comparism with lagos. Compare with her mate. Abi na only lagos Dey south west? U know most times, some of u simply think only lagos Dey south west.

That was just a community hospital he helped to upgrade. Nothing more. Like I said, the entire country including lagos is in mess.

14:
Egypt, Nigeria and morocco combined, are still smaller than South Africa. So which country is the most powerful in africa?

They don't know how robust SA is.

somehow:
The interior shown so far looks like that of health care centers built by LGs in Lagos.

Well, I am not a fan of any naija politicians becus they are all foolish.

But I really dislike this type of comparism. Lagos is richer than all the other states. Lagos was a former capital of the country and most of companies didn't leave the state even after capital was changed. We go in and out of naija thru mainly Lagos so do u know how much they make from Nigerians? I buy stuff from China, it must land in Lagos, na Ma money be that too. Look at South Africa, she divided her country central govt into three states. This was done to help spread the central govt across the country and bring even development. But in naija everything na ethnic domination. That is why the country is useless. Notwithstanding, lagos state only shines becus she is in the mist of losers. The entire country is a mess including abuja.

ihitenansa:
Very cruel..












But did they have to flaunt their nude and lifeless bodies like this? No respect for the dead whatsoever.. are u a Zulu savage? Why all this justifications? So because a man slaps his wife (which is bad enuf)so its justified for any random man to slap the woman ..

I am not but I want us to channel that energy we used to attack SA on our leaders to fix our country. Simple.