₦airaland Forum

BeeBeeOoh:


If I may ask, do you wanna get her arrested as your legally married wife or a concubine??

E be like sey u wan smell small rod or abii watery beans dey hungry you?

Arrested for what exactly? Did he rape her? Op, you are not married to her, you do not have any business confidently talking about "your baby" except you want to be unfortunate! You guys think the other men that went through the rigour of paying bride price and sponsoring their weddings are fools? You just want to impregnate someone and have a baby with no commitments? Thunder will fire you!

Raymeg7:
from what u said last, I understand that the problem is from ur wife, and secondly, ur not the man of the house, which nonsense is she talking about and ur here saying Obim said, please ur too weak to handle such accusations,

I have such issues in my family too, but not my wife, this is between my elders brothers wife and our third son wife, the wife of our third son is accusing the first son wife of poisoning their dead baby, which she denied outrightly,
Remember this issues has been lingering for so many years, I did not know, when I find out is when we came for my mum burial,

How do I solve the problem, I started by insulting our elders brothers for not taking the issue serious, is when someone goes in for it u will both do something, I shouted on the two wife and told them point blank that they all seize to be my family if they will not reconcile today, my sister's supported me, and that issue as of today, has died and they are back again as friends, someone need to be hard on them, they are women, if u leave them, they will even go after ur mum and u won't do anything, except ur guilty of the offense,

Baba tell ur wife to apologize to ur brothers wife, except what she is saying is the truth, how can my wife accuse my brothers wife and ur here asking for advice, my wife must go and beg them or no marriage, which nonsense is that,

This if exactly what I wanted to type. Op's wife should apologise, failing to do so passes just one message - he slept with his brother's wife.

Moh247:
Brain dead community


Anti aircraft gun and machine guns cost ₦5,000,000 Ak49 cost ₦1,000,000

₦400,000,000 would fully arm 300 combat ready men

If you ask this people to contribute #15m to build a decent clinic to meet their health needs, they will say no! It is the job of the government. If you tell then to contribute #5m to build a good road for themselves, they'd say no, the government should do it. Government will never do any of those things and the people will continue voting the idiots into power. But see how they quickly paid #400 million to kidnappers. The problem of Nigeria isn't just a leadership problem.

Pickmycall:
Check you mobile banking app.Chikena.

It may seem tedious but that is what I always do. I don't even go round with the SIM connected to my bank accounts.

agboghai:
Most times, the traditional remedy for jaundice is what my mum used for my kids. As funny as it may seem, Mum C dey use blue OMO and bitter leaf dey bath my kids when them get am, and e dey burn the jaundice within 1 week. After the bathing, she go put the baby for morning sun. Mama, may your days be long. Amen.

Fact is most babies with jaundice recover without any medical intervention. Your children were just lucky. If you know what fire jaundice can be, you will not even take that chance. Omo indeed!

johnflo:
I am moved to contribute my part to make sure your innocent baby does not become incapacitated for something he/she knows nothing about.
I am naturally social media-aversed (I rarely comment, due to personal reasons) , but this is one of the exceptions where I often break my rules. I don't want your baby to suffer the consequence of untreated/maltreated jaundice which include athetoid cerebral palsy, hearing loss, bad vision, and worse off intellectual disabilities.
From the earlier comments, I have read a lot of wonderful counsels from loving fathers and mothers who have witnessed or experienced these before. At this point, I would not condemn any of the advice given, but I would give my honest advice based on my personal experience too then you can decide.
My son was delivered strong, bouncing (5kg) and almost health (I said almost because he too was diagnosed of jaundice immediately after birth in one of the popular private hospitals in Lagos, that was the only health issue). He was immediately placed under Pediatrician care 24/7 (he was being checked twice daily by consultant Pediatrician).
As others said, they were only checking for his bilirubin blood level on a daily basis, it was not supposed to go outside of a certain level and we were told if the level does not become normal after 7 days of treatment, I would need to give him blood (blood transfusion), to make sure the billrubin is controlled otherwise, our baby might suffer the consequence. I was lucky to be surrounded by trained Medical Doctors and Pharmacists in my family and they gave me stern warning not to
discharge the baby against the Pediatrist advice. My wife was on hospital bed recovering from delivery while our baby boy was undergoing phototherapy for jaundice, I was hardly able to control my emotions seeing my son constantly blindfolded and placed under some controlled phototherapy glass cubicle 24/7 for more than 7 days. The only time we remove him is for his mother to breastfeed him and for Pediatrists check and blood tests. I wept daily, not because I could not afford the treatment, or because I can’t donate blood for my son but because I don’t want him to have any health issue, and I wouldn’t want my wife 9month great effort and courage to be in vain.
To make the matters worse, across our room is another jaundice patience who had to undergo blood transfusion, I prayed ours does not get to that, and if it does, that God should make everything to be successful. I summoned courage and was only praying.
Fast forward to 7 days after birth, after the final test, the first Pediatrician checked the final result and they realized the bilrubin level was just around the safe point, about 0. something higher, he said we needed to go for blood transfusion, but gave a caveat that whatever the senior pediatrician says is the final. Later that day, the senior Pediatrician came (a very old man, over 70 years), he checked the result and looked at me, he told me, the result is just around the safe point, but a bit higher, do we go for blood transfusion? I responded with a pounding heart, sir, I will go with your experienced advice, then he paused for around 30 seconds, he wrote some things down in the result sheet , (I feared the worse), then he told the nurse and the other Doctor present there, this is not so bad, I guess we should give it 1 extra day of treatment to decide, an lo and behold, on the 8th day, the bilrubin level became normal, however he still told us to do one day of extra treatment. And so after the 9th day, the result was still the same as it was on the 8th day, just below the normal level. So, he told us from his final check, we are safe to go home, and that we can be placing the boy under early morning sun by the window for 30 minutes and come later for further checks. We went home, did what he told us, and went for additional check after about 2 weeks and our son was declared free.

I intentionally wrote the above long story to let you know of my experience and how God eventually helped us (through the brilliant Doctors). Those 9 days were the longest days I have ever experienced in life.

I have also witnessed those whose child had jaundice and were only treated at home with sunlight and some local concoction.

My strong advice: I supposed your child must have been diagnosed immediately after birth and must have already gotten some treatment before you were discharged. If not, please please and please, take your child to at least any general hospital (please look for the money by any legal means), and get treatment for him, even if he has been treated before.

You should not take chance with "just a home-made treatment" for such a sensitive baby (judging for how long your baby has had it, so you would not regret it later, that is not to say home treatment does not work, like I said, we also applied home treatment after proper medical care. I pray your baby get well soon and you are back here to share your positive experience.

PS: This piece was written in haste due to "the precious life" involved and so there was not time to check syntax and semantics. Peace.

Forget about syntax and semantics, you made a very valid advice. I hope she follows it. My baby was not as lucky as yours.

Singlelover:
for about two weeks now, but fast growing.

My baby started crawling at 1 year and 8 months. Stood up at 2 years and never walked till he was 2 and a half years old. He is three and doesn't speak. He responds poorly to sound, we were told he is deaf. He had jaundice that was poorly managrd. That doctor that adviced you is stupíd! A person that went to medical school and still gives that kind of advice to the mother of a baby with jaundice is nothing short of stupíd. Take your baby to a good hospital NOW for phototherapy or even blood transfusion (whichever is necessary). Two weeks is a long time sister. I hope it is not too late. I am not trying to scare you, but I know what my eyes saw this last 3 years and I don't wish it for my enemy. It was in two weeks or so that my baby ended up with cerebral palsy.

Cantonese:
“ The doctor at the Royal Free in Camden became suspicious about whether the alleged victim was aware he was the donor of the kidney and whether he was 41 as his passport claimed.

The 15-year-old was given the passport of a 41-year-old in order to get into the UK, but did not know he was there to donate a kidney until he went a hospital appointment in London, a court heard yesterday”.

Very poor story.

Immigration officials both in Nigeria on exit and the UK on arrival would have stopped him, with a passport containing an age far older than his appearance. Immigration in Nigeria usually troubles first time traveling youths with fresh passports. If he went with Ekwerenmadu’s team, he would have escaped Nigeria, but stopped at the UK airport. How did he beat immigration on both sides.

The boy’s story makes it easy for us to understand. He claimed that he was offered a job. One would ask how someone he never met before offered him a job in England. Was there no offer made to him for a particular assignment? Surely that would be difficult to believe. He stayed in the man’s mansion in Abuja and enjoyed great food and drinks, according to him. What was he doing in a man’s house, who was not related to him and gave him such great life and offer.

I think the boy was offered the assignment by an Ekwerenmadu contact. He accepted it, looking at the amount of money available. If the court of Justice Ekwo allows it, then we can see the boy’s account details. Ekwerenmadu would not have been stupid enough to give him money in cash. That would be an evidence of some form of transaction between them.

The UK doctor helped the boy when he told him about the disadvantages of loosing one kidney. That made the boy change his mind. They called in the police and the boy saw his opportunity to remain in the UK.

Hopefully the courts, with evidences presented, would clarify this issue that the UK police, in a hurry to go to court, did not sort out.

Someone is traveling at the instance of a Nigerian senator and you are saying immigration officers in Nigeria will stop him. Shay you dey okay?

chukwugoziegi:
5/10.

You're such a generous rater.

The movie na trash. More like 1/10

I started watching it on Netflix yesterday's but stopped after 15 minutes. I thought I was impatient.

Think9ja:
That someone is set to resign doesn't mean he has resigned. (That is if it's true)

Coming from AriseTV, I will take this news with every bit of scepticism.
AriseTV are known for breaking fake news only to then retract it.

This is the reason why Channels TV will keep on winning multiple awards over their counterparts.

Let's wait and see

Now that it has been confirmed, do you not feel ashamed of yourself?

Fira09:
TINUBU and his fellows are just confused......

other parties has picked their own candidates and a structured APC are there battling for who to have the VP slot.

On PETER OBI MANDATE WE STAND GIDIBAN.

You won't understand. Tinubu is more confused than Buhari right now. That VP issue is why Tinubu should have left Osinbajo to represent APC, but hunger for power won't let him. He MUST pick a Muslim candidate to woo the Muslim north and that will be his doom. Christian northerners are not idiots! Tinubu is eating the dust! On Obi's mandate we stand. We no dey give shi shi!

Oplomo:
But in the south they frustrate you and their staffs ask you to pay bribes. INEC staffs in the south need to be taught a good lesson..

Many of those bribe taking INEC staff in the south are Southerners. The attitude of the average southern person to money is disgusting. They think money is everything.

EBMedia:
IGBERETV report

Reminds me of Mariah in Sound of Music.

The code did not prohibit porn content, it prohibited "non consentual porn content", and a content can only be deemed non consentual if and only if at least one of the parties involved did not consent to it's circulation online. This very very lazy journalist is crying wolf when there is none.

JAMO84:
That one na your own personal problem

Tunisia is actually one Muslim country where polygamy is not allowed.

iCauseTrouble:
Someone asked me for a giveaway here some days ago, I went to check his profile and posts and saw him campaigning for APC and Tinubu. I was dumbfounded. I mean, how can an unemployed and hopeless youth that doesn't know where the next meal will come from be campaigning or supporting Tinubu or Atiku to win..... You all should know whether I gave him the money or not

I hope you blasted him and refused to help him.

PointZerom:


At a point, he pulled her pant and flogged her bare butt. He had a change of heart and wore her pant back.

Make we laugh abeg. Maybe she is winding a simp somewhere but falling mugu to a tout, all in the name of hanging out with a badt guy. Fatai, you for no wear the pant back, you for flog that bare bum bum Wella!

xtivin:
Mtchew. Half story!!!, The guy gave you funds to start business and now wants joint account you are now putting the message as if he is the problem. Better agree with him quickly. These people sef

You got the message bro. These vjay people and their ingratitude.

Jalinspy:
Here to check name. Am not surprised though

The OP wanted to confuse us by refusing to include the tribal name of the criminal, but every smart NCAN member knows that Ahmed is a name that is most popular among Hausas and yorubas and the Hausas do not travel widely to perpetrate treachery. It leaves us with just one option. I will not mention the name of any tribe for the sake of political correctness.

bibianna:
What will happen to our vulcanizers?

You mean fuckanizers? They'd have to go get another fuçking job?

Ahmed0336:
No be same illness rich man for naija go take pepper soup take cure while poor man go use either ginger or Yoruba stew take cure?

I have it. It's not a serious thing. When the sufferer stays for long without food or water, acid from the stomach moves up and burns the throat. That is why I don't fast.

StPete:
But Nigerian Police is totally stupid. Asking her to check her dm like it’s a casual chat and responding by past 8pm when the incident started around 1! 7 Fucking gruesome hours in the hands of kidnappers? What if her phone has been collected

The dumb police did not even suspect the kidnappers can collect the phone and mislead them. We are in trouble in this country. Intelligence agents with zero intelligence.

Broveens42:
Shows you can't grow if all you know is learn from your seniors.(ie if you are even learning anything)
There was a report on how some elite countries expressed interest to understudy Nigeria's strategy in curbing ebola at that time; that's how big boys reason.
Would you say Nija was better than USA ?

Just imagine! They learnt from us because we did what they couldn't do. Are you suggesting we learn electricity generation from people who have epileptic power supply?

SARSCoV2:
Learning from other countries who have broken similar challenges being presently faced by Nigeria.

What does Nigeria have to learn from Egypt that is far ahead of us in all ramifications. We do not share similar ideology, culture and system of government.

We could as well learn from America, Germany or the United kingdom if we desperate to start from the top, which will still be of no use.

Rwanda and Ghana are fastest growing economies who happen to just be coming out of the shackles and challenges being presently faced by Nigeria, and such destination would have been worthwhile as their are still evident developmental tracts which are visible and presently working for them.


If you must import ideas, you have to import from where best fits your scenario. Not importing ideas from Alaska to West Africa.

Is it from people that are far behind you that you want to learn? Some of una Sha!

InfinityFabric:
Who cares, no one likes them anyways - until they're needed.

And they don't worry too much about being liked. They are very happy being by themselves much of the time.

PhenomenalAustin:
I'm sure he must have hurt a kid to warrant doing this


Keep up Sourcerer, yhu my fave nlder

Just imagine this kind of thinking

Parachoko:
Obasanjo should go and rest.

He had the chance to put this country on the right track, he didn't, he was busy trying to make 3rd term possible for himself.

We would be doing far better if he got the 3rd, 4th & 5th terms.

Odunharry:
Biko dey put their location..

Meanwhile, welcome to lalasticlala abode.

Lol they do not have any location. They are ordinary 3d drawings.

franchasofficia:
Hahahahaha.


In 1966, this same Adara people, including Benue, Jos and all Middle Belt people foolishly joined Hausa-Fulanis to massacre innocent igbo sons, daughters, children and women living peacefully in their communities in a heartwrenching 1966 Northern pogrom targeted at wiping out Igbos from Nigeria.


They foolishly allowed Fulanis to brainwash them in the name of Northern Nigeria to massacre civilian Igbos living in their region just to achieve Fulani age long devilish agenda to remove Igbos who have been the only obstacle stopping them from taking over Nigeria.


Today Fulani is showing them their true color. Fulani is showing them shege without pity. They thought Igbos were their problem, but they didn't know that Igbos where actually their lifeline, Igbos have been the only tribe bold enough to confront Fulani and tell Fulani to hell with you! And reason Hausa-Fulanis are scared to ever support an Igbo man to become President because they know Igbos won't tolerate their nonsensical leadership style.


Look at them, Buhari have empowered them so much that they now have their own attack helicopters they now use to attack their targets. It will only get worst since Nigerians refused to have sense.

What do you know about the Adara people you dolt? Are the fulanis not killing igboa and raping your women? Àkuya.

Liodins:
80 people...that's like 5 bus. Hiw then do they escape all the highway?
This news sometimes dey sound like joke to but I know they are true

They said they kidnapped people in the village and you are here talking about highway. Some of una sef!

Vulturereloaded:
Lol. Youths in the Poverty captial of the world learning lesson from the oppressors?

That level of idiocy will never ceases to confound me.

La click, la die!