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Gentleman900000:
Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her.

Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again.

Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not.

Send me a PM and ill tell you what to do.

Nigeria and most importantly, the sourtherners missed a chance to be liberated.

Where una dey see this money? If I try this kind mistake, it will tell me "insufficient balance"

May we not read this year, A nairalander who posted, "What’s The Name Of This Bird I Found Dead At My Doorstep?" is dead.

N800 Billion got burnt beyond recognition...Election money is sure.

Pray4meJC:
For privacy reasons, I'm an old nairaland member.

About 22 / 23 years ago, a classmate in secondary school lured us into the act of masturbation. Few days later, I started practicing the act and eventually ejaculated after tough stimulation lasting almost two hours. It got to a point I was almost getting addicted doing the unclean act.

Thereafter I graduated to pornography when internet was just starting in Nigeria.
I went further to committing adultery and fornication in the heart rather than with the body by peeping on girls and women having their bathe all to fulfill my lustful eyes. I even watched couple have sex by peeping.

Even though I have stopped and repented from these like 12 years back, I still find myself struggling with other bigger problems called wet dreams, unusual erections and wormlike vibrations in my body and sometimes body freezing at night for 30 seconds to 1 minute.

These wet dreams occurred 2 - 3 times in a week and repeat same in like manner every week compulsorily throughout the year and go on and on the following year. I have gone for several dry fasting and prayer deliverance to no avail.

I don't see myself having sex in the dream when these wet dreams occurred. Sometimes, when the wet dream is about happening I'm conscious and try screaming the name or blood of Jesus but it seems am just very powerless and before I know it, semen has spilled out and I will remain like that. Sleep is distorted and all efforts to sleep is impossible.

Sometimes, when I go to bed early by 8PM and I get caught up by wet dreams by 9:30PM, it means sleep for that night is gone completely. I sleep maximum 2 hours daily because this stuff has messed my mind and life up.

Whenever I lie down to sleep, different uninvited thoughts start forcing themselves on my brain both those that happened today and the ones of years ago. I always try deflecting them by replacing them with bible quote or singing praise to God in my head.

I woke up since 2:30 am today with a wet burser soaked in semen and started typing this because I couldn't no longer sleep. Afternoon sleep is very impossible for me as it has never worked for even 1 minute

I'm greatly troubled and worried because I read my bible and pray before going to bed. I dream about my former schools etc.

As I speak, this stuff has rendered me financially devastated with millions in debt. Could not obtain university admission 19 years ago, brain can't simulate, not married, no kids. Very recently this year my health (details withheld due to family members who might find this posts) is suffering as I can't do anything to earn a living as I easily sored tired in the heart.

PS: At night, every day for all these years, uncontrollable strong erections will suddenly start building up whether I put up underwear or not and I think this is more than the 'morning erections ' science talks about. This is pure spiritual manipulation for me. Same thing happens when I get close to some females whether matured or underage, stupid uncontrollable strong erections suddenly pop up without any sexual thoughts whatsoever to these innocent females. Unfortunately, these arousal is also a problem because it inhibits low self esteem, shame and quick withdrawal from whatever discuss I'm having to avoid the bulge being noticed.

Lastly, a year before I got myself ensnared in all these evil activities, I was already developing memory loss and a single headache that almost took my life prior to all these. The headache can be best described as "sawchain and hammer " tearing the skull to pieces and lasted for hours and resistance to drugs. That was the first and last time I experienced such and any other for that matter.

Where do I go from here? Depression is real when solutions are being defiled.

You need deliverance and more importantly, be in a prophetic ministry.

Send me a PM

No wonder Natasha Akpoti left the party for PDP.

The real Buhari's failure and corruption will be told when he's out of office.

So what's special in this? Can't you see the account is their pidgin page and it's run by a Nigerian? Same way they have french page, German page etc

emmanuellex:
Hi guys. Please I need your advice.
About 3 years ago I found out she was in my friends house while she told me she was going back to her family after visiting me in my school.

I hacked into her WhatsApp messages due to my suspicions with how she often keeps her phone from me and I saw the chat between she and my friend telling him that she missed her period.

I love her so much and I decided to let go due to her statement about what she did was because I also cheated on her with a friend of hers. There was no evidence that I ever did such.

Everything was going fine until this year 2022 when I discovered she’s doing thesame with another guy.

Please I need your advice.

Your mumu never do...spit on the thread and walk away.

The man of God, Prophet Abodunrin failed to understand that BEFORE YOU CAN STOP THE MOUTHS OF LIONS, as did Daniel, you must first reach a deep level of purity of life! As the prophet himself insisted, "My God hath sent His angel, and hath shut the lions' mouths, that they have not hurt me: forasmuch as before Him innocency was found in me" (Daniel 6:22).


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Your foolishness on Obama is beyond man's redemption.

God1000:
For those of you that think Barack Obama is evil because of his policies and stance on homosexuality, he's a surefooted Christian, a true believer in Christ, he goes to church regularly.


You can see him reading the holy bible

He's a proud Blackman as well, I remember him going to his ancestral homeland keyna as senator and president.

Just imagine smh

Bottom line is you have a soft spot for her (perhaps , you've been checking her backside) and she knows it; that's why she has the audacity to tell you (the boss), to leave the shop.

I see her telling you oga I'm pregnant.
I see her become the madam of the house.

This is the kind of argument that Apostle Paul warned his son Timothy to stay away from because they are pointless and waste of time.

Whether he resurrected on a Sunday morning or Monday morning, it doesn't matter; What matters is the fact that he died and rose again on the 3rd day and how you decide to calculate your 3rd day is upto you.

Crizzycross:
How can the Friday be good when people can not afford food to eat?

It is written,

"Man's own foolish decisions are the root cause of his problems but he has the temerity to blame it all on the Lord" (Proverbs 19:3, PBV).

Check your decision making and stop the blame game.

You are dating a transgender.

OkwuEziokwu:
Ladies And Gents. Honest Opinion. On A Scale Of 1-10, What Wud U Rate Dis Body?

What would you suggest I improve on?

Keep going, you will soon reach Simon Ekpa's level.

Put hidden CCTV in strategic location in the house before travelling since you don't trust any of them.

Happy Good Friday everyone.

Putting fish net around your compound to trap it could have prevented this.

When a general speaks like this, it's not a good thing. The summary of this statement is that she died because Pastor Paul Enechie didn't know she was going through domestic abuse and as a result, proper help could not be rendered.

Oh! No wonder the good books says, WHERE THERE IS NO VISION, THE PEOPLE PERISH" (Prov. 29:18). The word "vision" in Hebrew is "chazown," meaning, "prophetic vision." All over the world, people's lives are stagnate simply because they endeavor to live their lives without consulting with a prophet who can guide them into the perfect will of God through prophetic visions.

As Holy Ghost filled, tongue talking etc as Apostle Paul was, he admitted that he didn't know what will befall him and he had to seek the service of a prophet called Agabus but in today's churches, they want to relegate the office of the prophet.

Be wise, don't die in that situation. Let the prophet prophesy to you today!

Atiku as president and Wike as VP will be too hot for terrorist.

This reminds me of 2 Kings 7:1

“Then Elisha said, Hear ye the word of the LORD; Thus saith the LORD, Tomorrow about this time shall a measure of fine flour be sold for a shekel, and two measures of barley for a shekel, in the gate of Samaria.”

The scripture cannot be broken.

successmatters:
PDP, If you know what is good for you, hold a meeting and choose Peter Obi as your consensus candidate.

I don't see anyone in APC that doesn't have a baggage big enough to allow him talk in front of Peter Obi.

Peter Obi is a very competent candidate who's time is now.

He can fix the economy
He can generate employment
He can scatter the cabals
He can kill godfatherism
He can stop government wastefulness
He can get good ministers and heads of security agencies
He can insist on due processes
He won't allow foreign nations to cheat Nigeria in any trade
He is very honest
He is a workaholic
He is very healthy
He is younger than most of the aspirants out there

In as much as Peter Obi is all of that and more, this is not the right time for him. He should be planning towards 2027 because the next president of Nigeria will be a Muslim from the North and he will create an enabling environment for someone from the East to take over. All those shouting Tinubu, Osinbajo etc are wasting their time.

This I have seen and you can take it to the bank.

GooodHardDick:
Nigeria is gone!

Peter Obi to the rescue!!

I stand with Peter Obi

You heard it here first, The next president of Nigeria is a northerner and he's a Muslim. After him, Igbo will have their turn in 2027. I will advice you to stop clamouring for what will not take place now. As days goes by, i will reveal the person to the general public even though the person is already aware.

Anthonyoz:
Delima of letting it go just like that ,it would still hurnt chicken and fowl ,so I decided to throw it inside a nearby gutter that lead straight to the stream maybe they it can have a nice habitants they with larger forests to hunt ,so I let it go

For your mind now, you think say you dey wise? You're a mumu man.


It is written, "And I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your offspring and hers; he will crush your head, and you will strike his heel.” Genesis 3:15

May it not strike your heel when opportunity shows up.

These are not bandits but an arm of the Nigerian Army.

Even his declaration speech is ful of lies

As the current VP, your impact hasn't been felt, your voice on crucial national issues that is troubling the nation is nowhere to be found. You stood on the side of the oppressors inorder not to lose your job. I will rather vote Buhari for a third term than to vote for you.

Thanksful:
Goodluck might succeed Buhari. Something just occurred to me.

Tell Atiku Abubakar, congratulations...his time has come.