slyfox35: Best friends or closest friends as some people term it is quite normal in the life of 80% of world population, I had one too.
We grew up as teens together, matured as adults together, he came to our house always and ate all his meals with us. My mom was really nice to him when she was alive. He wore my clothes and never returned them. I did not ask because my parents always provided for me although they were average citizens.
Then the worst thing in my life happened. I lost both my parents within the space of four years. Things turned downhill for me (orphans do suffer a lot.. Too much suffering for you to believe there is even God in heaven who takes care of the fatherless and motherless).
My friend travelled to an African country. He kept telling me to come over there to work that things are better there. I kept declining but after a year of constant pressure, I decided to man up, packed my bags and travelled to meet him.
Guess what? I did not stay up to 5 days with him!!!
His attitude changed by the second day, he yells at me at every given opportunity, from his best friend, I turned to his boy, the heat he was given me was so bad that when he leaves the house and he comes back, I get scared just by hearing his footsteps. I virtually turned to a nonentity to him. I had no money on me because the little I had left, he collected it when I arrived. I knew no one, I felt so miserable and alone and I started regretting why I left Nigeria.
On the fifth day ,I woke up early in the morning and shook him up. I don’t know what got into me (but I am glad it did), I told him I can’t stay with him anymore and I want to leave. He did not even feel bad about this, he did not think of the fact that I know nothing and nowhere in this country. He let me go.
I packed my bag amid tears and went into the street. Mind you, I had no one to call back in Nigeria... It was tough on me but as a naija guy and as God will have it, I did not spend even a night on the streets. I was shocked that a total stranger took me in, clothed and fed me. He taught me everything he knows. I worked for 6 months and was able to make 2 million Naira. This was like a dream to me (If you get money ehn, to praise God Dey sweet o)
I came back to Nigeria, rented an apartment, furnished it and continued working from here.
This so called best friend of mine saw my posts and pictures on Facebook and video called me to check on me (I guess his eyes did not believe what he was seeing) he asked me if I am in a hotel, I said no, I am in my apartment. He was shocked (me I nor keep any grudge against you) he told me he was coming to Nigeria and that I should please forgive him and forget everything that happened. I told him I can forgive but can’t forget.
What surprised me most are this exact words he said “my guy, if I come, na your house I go relax first abeg”
Now my fellow Nairalanders, I am asking, how should I go about this?
I have forgiven him but should I allow him into my home?
I'm speaking as a prophet to you, dont let him come close to you talkless of sleeping at yours..e get why. I pray for you that May we not read your obituary on nairaland.
ken711: I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.
From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.
She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.
Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......
She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)
I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....
Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.
The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...
The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........
Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...
Please help!
In Asari Dokubo voice...You think say you dey wise coz you studied abroad? You are a mumu man.
bestpunterever: Pls how to tell if this phone is a refurbished or original London used (image)
Please I need somebody to put me through, i'm about to buy this phone online but i'm more concerned about the authentication of the phone..
Should acclaimed real London used phone has a nylon covering it's screen or it's just a refurbished phone whose body has just been changed to make it look as new.
I need you guys to help me out.
This is not London phone...You will hardly find LG phones in London.
That's the way to go. The reason we are the way we are in this part of the world is because people don't pay pay for their negligence. Well done Umahi.
Did you read the news? It clearly says, "although she has been teleworking for nearly two months and has not been around the President's daughter in several weeks."
One will think they care about the country hence, the reason why they are resuming not knowing it's because they were missing out on their sitting allowance.
Martinez39s: Why does the all powerful benevolent god have to wait 38 years to heal a diseased/disabled child of his? Would heaven fall if god had done so in an instant? To what end is almost a four decades delay? Can't you see your god is nonexistent?
OtemAtum: People are getting liberated from this scam called religion. When will you join the train? Is it when you get duped of all your resources all in the name of religion? Pls free yourself from mental slavery.
How much do you even have that you won't let us hear word? You think the church prosper by your resources...Jesus vowed I WILL BUILD MY CHURCH and the Gate of hell shall not prevail. Whether you give or you don't give, the church will keep marching on.
A certain man laid at the pool of Bethesda for 38years waiting for his miracle and he didn't complain nor give up until the miracle came but this microwave generation wants magician and not a Christ the miracle worker.
To proof the integrity of your company and the validity and vitality of the product against Covid-19, do a 5mins video on social media platform, with your location explaining to Nigerians and the world at large about your vaccine. The world is currently in need of problem solvers! Donald Trump, Angela Merkel, Vladimir Putin, Boris Johnson and Emmanuel Macron will look for you. Forget Jibril Al Sudani because his time is up. Some strong men are already on ground to take him home.
Please pardon me in case of any grammatical error. My story will be long, pls kindly bear with me and read to the finishing point. I'm ready to accept any insulting comments, it doesn't matter to me now.
I'm a 25 years old guy, not really financially buoyant but an average, money never dries in my pocket and back account as a hustler. Am currently still in part time program in university.
Now let me go straight to the point, here is my story. I started dating one beautiful girl back then in 2014, we were in love until something came up. There was a time I came home and she visited, that was the beginning of our separation, my mother warned me to stay away from her that she doesn't like her.
Honestly, I didn't know how to breakup with her without hurting her because she loved and cared for me so much. I love my mother so much and I listen to her as well. So, I started to avoid her, reducing my number of calls with her, sometimes when I visited home I won't tell her. All these to make her change her mind but all to no avail, I couldn't tell her what's up so that she won't hate my mother and make both of them enemies of each other.
She noticed my unprecedented and unusual behaviors, she asked me what has she done I only told her that I was very busy and concentrating on something. She later got fade up and started minding her own business because sometimes she would call I won't pick her calls, so she decided to let me be.
Fast forward to early this year, she went for a business trip and returned, so I decided to pay her a visit because even though we are no longer in love but we are still friends. I was hoping to visit her in her shop but she wasn't there, she told me to come to her apartment, I went there, we gist and had funs, she started making a move to me and we eventually had an unprotected sex.
I was thinking that she was a big girl and can take care of herself but after one month plus she called me and told me that she was pregnant, I was speechless and couldn't believe her, she threatened to report the case to my mother if I didn't show up and proffer solutions, my mind jumped. I hurried to her place and she showed me the pregnancy test result, we calculated the months and it was exactly the day I had sex with her, from that day till the month is exactly what was written on the paper.
To cut the story short, I got lost in thought until she waked me from my daydream, I told her straight that I wasn't ready for that, she should do something about it, so both of us agreed to terminate it, it was done successfully, I wasted much money on that moment but it didn't bother me.
So, after a while she called me and told me the sudden changes in her business that money disappeared from her hands always. She went home and complained to her dad, her dad suggested they should visit a native doctor to find out what was the problem. They visited the native doctor and he apparently exposed and told her what she did, that the pregnancy she terminated was the reason behind her misfortune. He listed all the things she will buy for cleansing and the total money involved. She called me and told me the development and demanded my own contribution (money), at that moment I didn't really have money to provide and she couldn't believe me.
Now am afraid if she will angrily expose me because she told her people that the person that got her the pregnancy is not around he traveled abroad. I haven't answered her since then because I have been busy thinking about my mistake, regretting the day I visited her, crying had I know. I returned but I didn't tell her so she won't visit me. Right now am having a double mind if I should adhere to what she told me by contributing money for the stuff, but the other hand, am asking for God's mercy upon my life, so if I should contribute money now it means I will be committing sin upon sin. I don't really know what to do now, I told her that I will visit her whenever I return to discuss with her but I haven't done that.
Presently I have a fiancee am dating now, my mother knows about her and she accepted her as well, also thinking about settling down with her when the time comes. I will hurt and loose her if what I did exposed.
Pls advice me my good people before I commit suicide and end everything, you can insult me if you like, it doesn't matter to me now, am very desperate human being now. The native doctor even told her to tell whoever that got her the pregnancy to also do his own cleansing or else he will encounter problems in life.
Should I also listen to the native doctor man or seek God's mercy, of whose report shall I believe..? Will there really be any problem, and what do I tell her now.
You will be adding more miserable things into your life if you do the so called cleansing by the native doctor. As a matter if fact, a sword awaits you if you go the way of the native doctor..... PM let me help you out. God punish the devil.
I'm the guy that likes to flirt with women (trying so hard to change). Sometime last year November, I hand some sex encounters with 4 different women (2 unprotected) and by first week of December I started experiencing some symptoms which include;
1.White tongue 2. Occassional diarrhoea (watery, oily and formy stool ever since then. I feel sudden need to ease like twice or thrice a day). 3. A gradual weight loss (I eat very well, mainly fruits and proteins with carbohydrates on average) 4. Occasional hand tremor. 5. Occasional body vibration and fast heart rate.
I used to smoke marijuana and take alcohol, but stopped. I also masturbated for about 5-6yrs, then stopped last year which added to flirting with women. I've not masturbated since then, but still take alcohol (mainly vodka).
I went to a university teaching hospital, met with the consultant and explained to her just as I'm doing here (she was wowed!). She then directed me to do HIV test (came back negative), H. Pylori test (also came out negative) and another test (I've forgotten the name).
She then prescribed, nystatin oral suspension and vitamin B Complex which I've finished taking, yet no change. Meanwhile, I've taken fluconazole, antibacteria and probiotics of late.
I'm waiting for the lockdown to be lifted to go back, but before then, (who knows when this whole problem will end) felt i might get some help here.
Please Doctors, what could be wrong with me. Especially this diarrhoea and white tongue. My stomach is always rumbling after eating. Please help.
bennyrazz: Is there no man of God in Nigeria, America, Italy, Spain etc I don't intend to bash leadership of the church in Nigeria but my intention is to challenge them, how many church denominations do we have in this country? Probably 10,000 or more
We all know that there is God but this is the time for our General overseers, Reverends, Bishops to prove to the whole world that the raw power of God is in them. But where are they? Hiding and busy doing virtual churches. imagine you closing down the house of God because of Corona virus What nonsense!!! Go to the hospital, heal the sick, raise the dead because Jesus did it. This will promote the kingdom of God beyond Nigeria, this will glorify the name of Jesus all over the world. Medicine has failed, Scientists are failing, what are you doing as a man of God? Prove to the unbelievers that Jesus will never fail to heal them if only they confess him.
Listen, if a man called by God can truly go to where corona virus patients are and he can demonstrate the power of God by healing them in the name of Jesus, do you know what that will do to the church in Nigeria? It will be all over the News, People that don't believe in Jesus would believe, alot of people would get born again.
For it is written in the book of Mark 16:17-20
17 And these signs will follow those who believe: In My name they will cast out demons; they will speak with new tongues;
18 they will take up serpents; and if they drink anything deadly, it will by no means hurt them; they will lay hands on the sick, and they will recover.”
They will lay hands on the sick and the sick shall recover, Pastor, General Overseers, Bishops stop hiding under virtual churches, go and prove to the world that Jesus Heals. Prove to the world that truly you are called by God, afterall Elijah proved to the world that he was a man called by God. Prove your own, let the whole world see it and glorify God in heaven.
@Myndd44 @lalasticlala
Take some time and watch this video and you will weep for our generation of God's general.
Abbeylanre15: A lot is hidden from the populace about this virus of a thing.. Why is it attacking only the big names in Nigeria? Like this govt really needs money from WHO..Hahaha... From Atiku son to Bauchi Governor,to Edo Speaker to President Kyari n now El-Rufai.. I'm perceiving a filthy game of politics here
It's because the big names are the ones that brought it to Nigeria. Abi do you have access to Abba Kyari?
According to report, the covid-19 cases has dropped significantly in China and there are no new cases. so technically, he was right to declare 27th of March.
Health › Re: Coronavirus: 'missing Link' Species May Never Be Found - WHO by PROPHETmichael: 7:55am On May 19, 2020
What nonsense!!! Go to the hospital, heal the sick, raise the dead because Jesus did it. This will promote the kingdom of God beyond Nigeria, this will glorify the name of Jesus all over the world. Medicine has failed, Scientists are failing, what are you doing as a man of God? Prove to the unbelievers that Jesus will never fail to heal them if only they confess him.