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buske:
No..but seriously, if the guy knows he'll pick up his girlfriend and he knows how his girlfriend will react in such situation.... Why call another lady and offer a lift??

He did that out of spite...And the mumu lady also displayed how shameless she is.

Only God knows how long and how many times they've been at such disgusting attitude and behaviors.

If you ask me.. That's a very good sign of an unhealthy relationship.

Medunah:
If he had parked and told her to get out of his car and zoom off leaving her dere, would he have died??

Cos tell me, if it had being his fellow man or a lady stronger than him insulting him, would he have slapped him/her??
Why to guys tend to go physical on ladies weaker than them??

Just so you know there are women who have done worse and the partners handled it other ways than being physical.....she is not your child, you don't correct her by beating her, if he slaps her today for doing this, wat will he do when she does worse Turn her to a punching bag??
I am not justifying what she did but he should av kept his hands in check.

PS: I never said what she did was right!! Whatever it is she did still doesn't justify him going physical

Cybertext:
Not feasible in This Country...

Apart from network problem et'al... This criminal bandit are so desperate and might chop off fingers of card bearers just to get what they want...

queenDD:
Every woman wants her home to be better and more comfy than that of her mum, op I bet your sister and cousin sisters want the same thing too..

anitank:
That is precisely my point!! Just like you every single man also look for materialistic qualities in ladies(fair skin,tall,beautiful...), that's why most end up marrying the wrong ones and eventually regret it. Some men are still lonely waiting for the "perfect" woman. So stop making it look like that behavior is only exhibited by ladies

pippimp:
No it's not. It's all lies. There is only one thing a woman checks for before marrying a guy. Can he provide comfort or have the potential of providing it someday. Every other thing is secondary. Height ko. Height ni. If that were the case Lara would never have married Oshiomole.

anitank:
and it's just a ladies' thing?

OP you as a man, don't you also look out for certain "qualities" in a lady you'd like to spend your life with?

ayindejimmy:
ok... My bad.

ayindejimmy:
where's God fearing, humble, diligent and intelligent in all of these?
This is the wish of a materialistic lady, not every lady

Lots of marriages fail these days as a result of the unrealistic goals and expectations that couples set before marriage. Many people venture into marriage for the wrong reasons; some cannot even say why they are in it.

Ladies most times are to be blamed here; they always seem to have certain standards the men are expected to meet before they agree to marry them. They keep chasing vague things and pay little or no attention to important matters. Many women get married because of the pressure placed on them by their family members or the society.



Some of them feel the need to get married because their mates are doing it and they want the man they would end up with to fit some fictional characters in their heads. These wrong choices or criteria often make them fall into the wrong hands and ruin their chances of being happy.





Find below some of the weird things ladies check in men before marrying them:


1. Height

This is the first thing a woman is likely to say when you ask her about the things she desires in a man. Every woman wants men that are tall. No one wants a short man.

Some women would even say they cannot date men that are taller than they. Thus, when they meet men who are tall and have one or two traits that fit their vague qualities, they tune in and fall in love with them.


2. Well-furnished Apartment

Ladies do not want to settle for less now when they are planning for marriage. Every woman wants a man who is successful and has different properties to show with it. Men who have their own houses are presumed to be better than men who don’t.

These houses have to be furnished to taste and classy for the women to fit into them. If a man does not have this or something close enough, some women would not agree to marry them.


3. Wealth

Every woman wants a man that can see to her financial needs. Money is important to a lot of women out there and they would not settle down with men who are struggling financially.

Men who cannot meet their needs may not even make the list of suitors they would be considering. It does not matter whether the man has some hidden demons as long as he has enough money in his account.

4. Cars

Now, it would amaze you to discover that some ladies would not date men who do not have a car. As soon as you approach them on with your ‘leggedbenz’ and they do not see you holding a car key, it is a no-no.

Some ladies love comfort and would not trade anything for it. Before you stand a chance to talk to them at all, your appearance has to speak a ton about you.

5. Romance

Some ladies simply love it when they meet guys who are romantic; they love men who would read lines of poems to them and make them feel like princesses. They enjoy the attention they get from men like these and would immediately fall for their gentle and romantic gestures.

As far as some of these women are concerned, the men’s ability to show love and care while being romantic is more than enough.

6. Citizenship

As soon as some ladies get to know the guys asking them out are not Nigerians or they have dual citizenship, love happens. Ladies love the concept of marrying foreigners or men who would give them the fair chance of stepping outside the shores of this country.

You would be shocked to discover that some ladies would be willing to marry some men as soon as they know they have passports to other countries.


7. Presence of six packs



Women certainly love men who are physically fit; they believe guys that are well-built are manly and would be able to perform better than men who are not. The presence of six packs would make some of the ladies melt and get wet on the spot. They would always choose a man with a firm body over a man with a pot belly.


8. $exual Performance

Women no doubt love men whose strength in bed can be likened to that of a stallion; they love men who can drive them to different peaks of desire when it comes to $exual activities.

Knowing fully well that many women end up cheat*ng in marriage as a result of $ex, they would rather go for men who would make them go wild with desire and leave their bodies limp after being satisfied.


9. Occupation



Many ladies want to get married to men who have good jobs. They will always ask about the men’s place of work within the first few minutes they meet and would use the details to map out their plans about them. Men who work in oil and gas companies are seen as better suitors as compared to those who teach.


In the same light, bankers are preferred to mechanics. Women love the idea of being known with men who have good jobs in the society.

10. Talent and Fame

Some ladies want to marry men who are talented and famous. It is highly ridiculous finding women who are ready to spend the rest of their lives with certain men because of the talents the men have and how famous they have become.

Therefore, it is not strange when you see some women who have dreams of getting married to some artistes and public figures they do not know personally. As long as they have talents they like, then getting married to them is no big deal.

lugiano1:
Please people does mtn hotspot?

Fourtune56:
How do you got it

marv1:
Bros nawa for u o. A girl who is a complete liability, only to clean, wash and Bleep. Finish 200k in three days. Nothing more . Is there any future. This is why we have a lot of failed marriages today because people have refused to use their head b4 they enter into marriage. A woman that is managing u will definately drop u when she sees a better maga to manage. 'She used to be a bad girl' according to the Op. Out of abundance of heart the mouth speaks.