₦airaland Forum

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year.

Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders..

Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank.

He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints..

How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow.

Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result.

Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

Expect an extraordinary kind of opened doors as soon as you redeemed the pledge he made.

He don't want you to miss the blessings. That's why he's rushing you. May be there's a force trying to use the unfulfilled pledge to rub you off the blessings. Reason he's doing everything to make u pay for the pledge.

Also let us know when the blessings will start flowing in.

COMPAQ:
What does Dangote have to do with Dstv. If you know economics, you should know that some industries have a huge barrier to entry and this is one of them. To enter this market and dislodge dstv takes time and deep pockets. You must be able to offer similar programming, and cheaper and possible take losses for a while to get subscribers. And this will take meticulous planning and implementation which Nigerian businesses are not known for.

It's like a new telecoms company trying to start from scratch in Nigeria to take on mtn, and Glo and airtel. Its almost impossible

I said you should go and sit down. You don't know what you're talking about.

What you're writing here is one of those theory classes your economic teacher gave you in the class room. When you come out of classroom to the real field, you'll see that there are many factors that will scatter the equilibrium of that classroom theory.

What we are talking about here is practical economics surrounded by politics and fraud.

inoki247:
Why're you people always complaining abt DSTV and GOTv shey dem put knife for ur neck ni dere are free to Air u people can always try nd Startime dey dere...


Dem force all na abi why're you guys always crying up nd down sef this life na choice...


You people saying dey don't av Political will nd DSTv don monopolize the market. We still av dem KweseTv, Startime nd diffrnt free to air why DSTv no block doz ones from running...

Abi when DSTv keeps coming up with different TV shows nd Content are the odas sleeping dey cant also come up with something..

when someone fails let's admit he don fail nd stop looking for excuses...

imagine Glo for how many years still battling with good browsing signal nd MTN dat means business u can hardly see dem fvck up even Airtel we know aw many times wey dem don sell am nd 9mobile sef jus giv it to diz people dem sabi business

You don't know what you're talking about.
You don't understand the business and it's political game.
Take Dangote and Ibeto and Bua for example. If you know the politics behind Dangote getting the upper hands above the other two, you'll not type what u typed here.

Zuchey91:
I need matured inputs please.

I am a married woman, with a child.

My Marriage has been really rocky. Quarrels every now and then.

What basically causes the problems is our differences, we just don’t understand each other, it wasn’t so visible during dating.

Although we did not date for long....but being married, it has been from one issue to the other, right from a week after our wedding.

I have always contemplated leaving, but I am yet to be fully independent.

Sometime this year, I found out he has been cheating (I was not surprised, but I was heart-broken) my discovery strengthened my resolve to leave the union.

In the process of nursing my heartbreak, I reconnected with an ex, we got talking and he helped my heal. I did not tell him what I was going through at the time...I was just enjoying the attention he was showing me.

I should state that I did not tell my husband about his cheating, I held all the emotions back, it was a very difficult period for me because I am usually the outspoken type.

My ex is not based in the country where me and my husband reside, we just communicate on phone, he says he misses me and would want us to meet when he is in town.

I should also state that my ex was married but divorced.

I would not deny my having feelings for my ex, and I also do not want to believe in a fairytale ending, I am just confused.

Madam, I will say that both of you have not put enough energy to work on your marriage to stand.
For you to slide back to your ex means that, you never dropped you pass to face your family/marriage squarely.
Let me tell you. That you ex will never marry you. When the bubble burst, he will leave you.
He will tell you all the sweet things and make you feel that ur husband does not deserve you.
At the end, he will come back use u you as he can, give u small cash and still abandon you.

I will advise you to leave your past behind you and find a way to make your marriage work.
You said you would have leave the marriage only that you have not all that independent.
That means, you are just using the man now.

I don't want to talk about the man. You are the one that need pieces of advice. So don't feel that I don't have something against your husband.

The problem wt both of you is ego.
You don't want to calm down and behave like the fool in the house for peace to reign as well as ur husband.
If you can calm down and swallow your pride, call your husband and be like.....Honey, what is it that I am doing in this marriage dat you don't like.
What are the things you will like me to be doing so that we will be happy in this union. You know that I love you and your happiness is my priority. Teach me how I can please you in this union.
I bet you, if u do dis, so long as the man has a living conscience, you will break him down. I bet you, his love for you will be rekindled and he may not find it easy to hurt you again.
This is one of the ways to tie a man down. You may think that it will be a humiliation for you to do this. I tell you, doing this will give u more peace in the home.

Don't go fighting the man or doing cos he has done.
Don't fight a man in a marriage.
Men are naturally warriors.
Fighting is is naturally embedded in them. It is their comfort zone.
You can't defeat an enemy in his comfort zone.
Drag him to your comfort zone (which is making him feel at home around you), defeat him there.
Make him feel as the head and his ego will boost and you will in turn control him.
He will be thinking that he is in control while you are the one in control through him.

Wishing you a very blissful union.
Much love from us here.
I don't think that you guys have serious problems that should bring about divorce or separation

Ecbatana:
You'd do well as a writer OP, your story's ending is laced with gloom. Probably there were hints of him tilting towards insanity but was ignored by those close to him till it spiraled out of control. It could have happened as a result of some deliberate action(s) of his, orchestrated by foe or inherited from bloodline. May he find cure!

His write up is great. Well articulated.
Laced with good grammar.
I never wanted the story to end.

begoniaa:
Yea... The same way hypergamic women are the prize, abi?

Which burden will she be left to carry? If she come leave you first, nko, if you lose guard, na who go come lose? Oh. You think say she no dey reason another bobo for side too, seeing as you are? Continue to deceive yourself.

Your "consequences" would be of no effect if women do not subscribe to them and play to the rules. You only behave like you're the winners because women believe so and treat you as one. If nobody, man and woman, no send the other, you think we'll be here crying about marriage and whatnot? Mtchew.

Unfortunately, nature did not made it so.
Women MUST send men while men send money.

They used Cassava Starch on that trousers, that why it was very difficult to iron it.

This is bullshit. The DPO is supposed to be receiving disciplinary actions by now.
He is a fo0l.
Let's even go by his own version of the story lies.

Why will he allow 2 girlfriends pass the night inside his office?
Is this kind of thing officially admissible?
Didn't he go to the night duty with his service piston?
Or he came back with it together with N50,000 bribe he collected from motorists and innocent/bad boys at night, kept it under his chair and did not see the girl collecting it.
He saw the girl off to pack and did not know she has collected her gun.
He based his evidence on the word of the Alfa.
So with that, the other girl is no a suspect too.
From his previous statements, one can say that he no longer want that girl as a friend and for that can do anything to get her off his life. That include false accusations.

abouzaid:
Omakwanu ka anyi si kwado? Lol

O na agba ha ghaari.

Just look at the legs of those scanty crowd, you will know where they came from.
Igbos don't dress dat way especially Owerri youths.
Not to talk of when they heard that a president is coming to visit them.
They will look relatively smart.
Even those that the visit took by surprise, will still not dress like what we are seeing in these pics.

AnanseK:
Now they only want to do business, (illicit drug business I suppose, and then to launder the money).
Other times they want to have Biafra but they also must be President of Nigeria. You can’t be more confused than that.

Do you want to trend?
Use another topic to trend.
Biafra and IPOB issue will consume you.
Ndi Unity Beggars Association.

This Tuface of a guy knows how to win public love. This is why it will be very hard for too many people to hate him irrespective of anything he does.
Even when he does not mean it, he always knows the soft words to use to get people to his side.
He's very tactical.

engrfaruq:
I wonder where this thoughtless game will take the Igbos to. How will they expect any meaningful political position to come their way with this block nonsense

Go and sit down my friend. Tell us how many meaningful political positions that have come to Ndi Igbo all these while they have acted like fools just for the sake of peace.
Be reminded that Ndi Igbo are not even clamouring for those political nonsense. What Ndi Igbo want is just let us be. Don't try to bully us. Don't intimidate us wt ur political powers. Allow us to do our businesses and take care of ourselves by ourselves.

When you obey these simple rules, everyone will be at peace. Not obeying them, then you want to see the bad side of Ndi Igbo.

Angelfrost:
Do they have elders?!! If at all they do, do they respect or honor them?!!... Such a pity!

For your information, Ndi Igbo only respect elders that have what it takes to be a good leader/elder.
Ndi Igbo don't asslick anyone no matter the name u bear or how rich you are.
What Ndi Igbo want is someone that truly has their good at his heart. You will see Ndi Igbo dying for such a person.
That is why you see Ndi Igbo dying for Onyendu Mazi Nnamdi Kanu. If he comes out tomorrow and start messing up, Ndi Igbo will join hands together to throw stones at him. That is how Ndi Igbo roll.

Donspicey:
You get sense pass

Hahahahahahahahhahahaha.

nairavsdollars:
Train To Kill
Can you allow this okada rider take you to your destination?

The write up on the shirt did not say;
Trained to Kill
It says;
Train to Kill

It's an advice. Asking you to train so that you can master the art of killing.
So the write up did not say that he has bn trained to kill.

All these bloggers using ambiguous captions. Is it that they lack good grasp of the language or just a deliberate act?

Caption looks as if the father rejected the money raised

Very smart guy.
He knows what he wants. He know where he came from and where he is going to.
A very careful and meticulous man.
I love this man.

5ThChild:
Op valETA1 space your content into 3 or 4 sentences per paragraph. This will aid people willing to read the article no matter how long it is.

Do you know that there are rules that paragraphing must obey.

So, he will have to break those rule because there are lazy ppl that are too lazy to read?

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright

The husband is a pussy ass niggar

Bunch of pussy ass niggarz and simps everywhere

He is a poor man.
Poverty has over humbled him.

Shellsploit:
Amazing response!!

I dey tell you.
The response is so beautiful.
They call it "Shut up response."

Romanoff:
In the display of indecency?

Thankfully not.

Whaoooo...this response sweet me die.
My dear, you can never matter in any irrelevant thing.

I wonder what that woman you responded to always feel like.
Spit.

Composure in the face of trouble can help save you.
Fear kills faster than the real danger.
The man first of all calmed his wife that was in the house down.
Told her never to worry.
He was brave and was nor running helter skelter, rather he found himself a place that seemed secured to hide himself from heavy objects falling from up.
This decision was what really helped his survival.

Jeezzzz....How does this one manage to breath naa.

If money grows on trees.
Girls will date monkeys.

Mercychen:
God forbid a community tool. I will never marry such because you won't have peace of mind being with such a person and knowing every minute he's out he's off to one of his numerous sexcapades.

Disease full everywhere. Can't risk it.



Is it where men are scarce?
Look,. I've dumped someone before because of the number of girls and ladies on his Facebook friend list. Talk more if im aware you're a public toilet. I won't even let you come near me in the first place.

Those people you dumped don't have money.
If they have enough money....I mean money as in M.O.N.E.Y
You will never leave them.
You will be singing the song that you want to change him.

Offpoint1:
Are you pregnant? You talk like someone with pregnancy pregnancy symptoms.

Another unfortunate Offpoint

How true is this?

TELEPHONE CONVERSATION BTW LADIES:
Mary: Hello luv
Sarah: Hi babes, how r u 2dy?
Mary: Am fine dear, I'v missed u a lot
Sarah: Me too
Mary: I'm calling jst to inform u dat I'll pay u a visit dis afternoon
Sarah: Okay my dear, it'll b a great pleasure. Will be expecting u sweety.
AFTER DROPPING THE CALL
Mary: I'm going 2 visit dt dirty girl again
Sarah: this witch is coming here again, she thinks I'll buy her drink with my money again, she must be joking.

TELEPHONE CONVERSATION BTW GUYS
John: Bastard how far?
Francis: mad man I dey, how ur drunkard father?
John: my papa dey. Ur extra large mama nkor?
Francis: u b fool O. How far, u dey house? I dey come charge my phone
John: okay, no wahala, bring money come make we drink beer o.
Francis: idiot like u, later na.
AFTER DROPPING THE CALL
John: dt Francis can be very funny at times but always great companion
Francis: john is such a reliable friend. Make i check make sure say enof booze dey O.

CONCLUSION: girls are always seem nice 2 each other but they never like themselves
Guys are always mean and rude but they will always have each others back
TRUE or FALSE?

You approach me with respect.

Offpoint1:
She's dead and gone... The rest is from your mind, you're yet to forget her and let her go.

Always talking Off-point.
Who told you that she's dead and gone?

Onyi22:
Who is Zubby
Is he married?
What does he know about marriage
He should pls shut up, See how easy for him to say that Annie lacks home training

Wt all due respect, Aunty Onyii, please can u tell a better advice that Zubby should've give, since u rejected the one he gave.
Thanks.

The kind of stories/revelations we will hear between 3 to 5 years after the tenure of this Buhari regime ehnnnn.....people will run mad.
When they start telling us all the secret things they did, even to cry, you no go get strength to cry.