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abrahym:
Fool

Sorry is it the lady that lost everything that you're calling a fool? No vex, it's a question o.

somehow:
Except in a situation of rape, it's no fault of any guy if a woman ends up having sex.

Yes and until it comes to the case of you guys, there is no such thing as being mercilessly deceived time and again and stylishly drawn into what is really a scam until it's too late.

That never exists until you guys feel pressured to buy food for some girl or get hoodwinked by a ' gold digger ' or something that concerns only your gender.

There is nothing like deciet ? Plain bad luck ? Etc. Say whatever liberates you , man. Whatever makes you sleep at night , bros.

A world where some guys can just wake up and pick someone's daughter, who has been trained, nurtured and cared for like a treasure, spent on by family for years....... Awon guys would just pick somebody's child and use and use and label her a LovePeddler. They pick who is the LovePeddler and who will be spared from the slaughter. Big ups to my lady survivors sha. Life.

wtfcoded:
Advantage of what are we talking about here?
And if all men are really heartless as u said, it means ur Dad/Guardian made u believe that.
Wait a minute, are u a rape victim

Dis oga is here to joke ni ............

Okay I free you, fly away

Proudlyngwa:
Sarcasm or not, rape cases and allegations should not be taken lightly,I hope when men return the favor with sarcasm, people will still see the funny side, because I promise there will be one big payback

Return the favour?

Payback? What payback?


Something you guys have been doing since the beginning of time?

wtfcoded:
Don't jugde all men on how ur dad maltreated u n ur mum
After the Gods, men follows n God alone knows why he made it so.

That men follow after God doesn't mean they should oppress women. That's the point. Men have taken too much advantage.


And bruh, I'm not even emotional about this, but fire my points with equally good points, I don't see the purpose of bringing my family into this as I didn't bring yours

wtfcoded:
That sounds serious of u
Now u realize that real men are not born to take shit.

Thus you see the wonderful nature of man, aptly reflected by women.

What a wonderful creature. That gives out shit but can't take it. What an intelligent yet terrible and selfish, wicked being.

IfeomaRash:
We women always think we should always be the victims in any sorrowful case. I think its time we start doing away with such mentality. Both sexes have equal atoms of kindness and wickedness in them.Was it not recently that a woman Hausa for that matter stabbed her husband to death?.Pls o we should start giving these men benefits of doubts

How many times have men given us benefit of doubt. It is not new to see a girl opening up about being raped at five or four years and men blame her for it.

That's what is done to women in reverse. Sorry for the guy tho but ha , you see. Men can't take a quarter of the shiit they give to women

Theres no point because most women that do make up do it to assume the freshness of looks just like that 3 year old. The three year old has the looks that make up tries to mimic. She's a very young fresh beauty so what are they making up on that very young skin ? Her youth is shining already, what's the plenty glitz and the colour for ? Make up is to make someone look younger, how much younger do you want a three year old to look ?

Well she looks ok still, it's play make up.

QuitNotice:
When their mout no go fit stay wan plays.


What the devil tells me to do any time she says "...if you are truly a man, try it.".....

But if your fellow man tells you that, will you strike so quickly ?

Bigprick9inches:
You are right, These guys sound like they can create a human hair. Most of them critisizing are actually broke, ugly and hungry looking, still in mama house at above 30 type of guys.
Personally I prefer a so called fallen breast. A perky breast when naked looks unatural to me. Why I go get muscle for chest and my woman follow get chest wey look like muscle

Thumbs up

lefulefu:
don't mind d blenze lovers..they are perverts.as for me as long as she has ukwu i will marry her zamm zamm!

you no get problem sha

There's nothing wrong with her breasts, all breasts must not be perky. If only men got measured the way they do to women .

Said she can cook and she's funny, focus on that, nobody is perfect.

There's trafficking over there too. Young girls get missing and once kidnapped in that ring, their families never find them to save them. I really hope that's not the case and she'll be found.

It's not by force to buy her stuff now. Tell her you don't have the money.

It's women with some heavy guts and balls that play this kinda game.

classicfrank4u:
she's still fat sorry.

Fat but pretty now! That skin changed ! And looking so clean , dressed fashionably. Like a classy BBW. And she's still fat but less of that big tummy and kinda curvy . Plus sized model things.

Seriously everyone has their time to shine, don't be decieved by the fact that someone looks local today.

She's so cute but isn't this a little early ? I'm just worried that the internet is a place for adults cuz there are more sinister beings that even adults can't handle. I'm all for a child becoming a star early and all, but this is still worrying.

Congratulations on the weight loss dear. You are really an inspiration, I want to be super slim like I was before so I'm trying

lexy2014:
from d short time I have interacted with u, I can deduce a few things. U are clearly speaking from experience. But unfortunately, u are using ur experience as a basis 2 judge other peoples experiences instead of asking how did they get it right? D couple in question have been married 4 3years&counting but u don't seem 2c d beauty in that. Whether d woman asked d man or whatever u think didn't happen, d woman isn't complaining. Male or female, we all "move 2 our tune" cos we were all created with a will. D success of r/ships whether they b romantic, professional e.t.c, is a function of shared visions, shared values and shared expectations. When these 3 are present, r/ships work like magic as give and take will b easy. 4 some, they find compatibility easily, 4 some others, they take their time 2 finetune their visions, values&expectations. Whichever d case, its never a finished process. Its a fluid and ongoing process. Those who are able 2 manage it by continuous synergy, are in 4a long haul. 4d reverse, things fall apart. So take ur time 2give these folks some credit

I don't have a problem with the couple. I adore long unions. But to me, his advice is fake.

I honour your opinions and you honour mine. Let's agree to disagree. I think this issue has been given more than it's importance tho.

lexy2014:
u said "he decided to calm down for her"...doesn't that contradict ur position that men can't b pleased? u say that one question didn't make him decide 2 marry her, what other questions did?

That statement doesn't contradict my position. Why ? His decision to calm down for her is one of HIS OWN CONCLUSIONS. He chose his own time, and chose the woman without any influence from whatever things she thinks lured him in. That was an independent decision that was not based on her " pleasing him " . And no other questions made him decide. This man made up his mind without her , just openly pleased her by saying she contributed to the togetherness.

Most men move to their own tune. Most people are logical thinkers, love is mostly a myth. That man planned and did it, she has no influence on him. That's how it is for most of them.

lexy2014:
are u sure about that?so what about d guy whose story we are all congregating to discuss

Abegi, because he decided to calm down for her ? You really think that one question led him to marry her ? You'll be surprised how unemotional and coldly calculating , logical beings they are.

Guy don calculate and decide, based on him being ready. Notice what I dropped here, ' he was ready for it' , and simply she happened to fit his current desires, lucky for her.


If not. She could ask angels to whisper the question for her. Her garri will soak there.

Na so. Another time a bunch of men will come out to warn women from pressurising them, that it's even a turn off and will even stop them from proposing once the woman asks. There is nothing you can do to please a man or make the relationship work because nothing can please a man. He only chooses to be pleased.

If your relationship works and leads to marriage, it's just God, or your own fleeting luck. Not by anything you do for man whose list of demands never stops or never stops changing.

A woman he can always sleep with. A woman who won't complain one bit, a woman who will not ask for romance, love or dates. She should also keep things clean, cook and wash well. Do the duties of a woman well.

This is what a guy wants. A sex doll that is entertaining , pleasant and useful around the house. Doesn't take much maintenance, does her job, looks good, f***s well and shuts her mouth. That's all.

The irony is that though they always sing of love and women, Nigerian men mostly don't think of love, they need their mulla! Who cares for the love any more, very few men and women.

Then they sing of love. Everything translates to sex in our heads mostly. Nobody cares to hear words of reason. In fact it is those that talk sense that are seen as stupid.

* Guy dumps girl, she cries and is miserable, but tries to move on with her life. Everyone feels its normal because guys have choices and hey, he got bored or didn't want again , everything is not by force.

* Girl dares to refuse, or dumps guy, he goes all out on her.