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Thanks.

She doesn't know anything. Be yourself.

GofuckYourself:
Send me a dm or post your number sister

I sent a DM.

I'm interested in the spiritual stuff you talk about.

byrron:
Thanks

You're welcome.

This is lovely. I love when one shows kindness to others, no matter how small.

Everyone wants to be a woman these days. Lol evolution.

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Looks awesome.

It's okay bro. Take heart even as it's painful. Try to move on.

Angelacruz:
I swear

So what if this method actually works? A good person will never do a bad thing simply because of the benefits. We should treat others how we want to be treated.

Nothing wey women never see for this life.

ubunja:
all begins with female simps closing their legs the way it begins with male simps closing their wallets. That's why even my own writings had to start there: Close legs. The Game really starts changing from there. Everything you can teach a woman must begin with her taking sex off the table. I think my writeup "Ice Queen Cash Queen", will be the final work on this no-sex theme before I move over to other aspects of unsimping women.

@Op hope you tagged me sooner.

Yeah, plus this is really great for the ladies.

DrFunmisticGlow:
Female simps are called, pick-me-shas, Barbara the builders and fix it felicias. We cannot help them unless they want to change. When the student is ready, the master will appear.

Well that sums it up, pretty much.

DrFunmisticGlow:
Doing it on a forum such as nairaland is dangerous. For safety reasons.

Haha, i can understand. Truly dangerous.

ubunja:
it's about being submissive to the right man. Too many women are "throwing pearls to the swine". Submission, as part of femininity, gets you through the door. After that "game" has to kick in. Namely making the man spend on you to take you seriously. Etc.

Solid points. Thanks.

CalliDora1:
Lol.. it's not deliberate though. It's just a thing with me. I don't fancy them, no matter how handsome or cute they look.

I look at color o.

OK babe.

CalliDora1:
Maybe. But I'm not that fair. Light caramel.

I think I'm along that line too. You are definitely lighter than I am though.

Still, lol its funny that you don't like light guys. Anyway its your choice. I don't look at color she.

virginprincess:
Hmmmmm, thought as much, the problem of my friend is that she thinks she can change this guy which is not possible, seriously faith needs to view this topic.

Yeah its the feeling that one can force love. That if you do everything right, the person you love will love you. That's the mistake because love can never be forced.

Love is a person's choice. Nothing another person does or says can make it happen.

CalliDora1:
Nah.. far from it.

He's not my spec cos I don't do fair guys.

Cuz you are already fair.

Happy Birthday to him, he still looks very good.

virginprincess:
I have a friend who behaves somehow, i don't know if this is the definition of a female simps, this my babe is dating a very toxic guy, the guy is so rude, pompous and mannerless, he insult and beat this girl at will, the worst part is that he doesn't spend on this girl, instead it is the other way round yet my friend still worship and adores him just because he is good looking and with the mentality that he would change one day, pls is this the definition of a female simp or am the one not getting it.

Yes girl, that is it.

Sorry about your friend though. Hope she gets out of it soon.

TSBO:
Go through some of Ubunja's threads, you'll glean some gems for women.

My own inputs, don't let your happiness be overly dependent on one person. Focus on yourself, your progress, success, etc.. However, remain grounded and approachable. There is something about a lady that is successful, has boundaries but yet is approachable and amiable. Guys go dey beg you sef. The problem is many tend to be arrogant, proud, etc, which can be a put off for responsible guys. Players know what they want, so they won't mind.

I know there are cases different from the above, just protect your happiness (be responsible for your happiness yourself), have boundaries (sex will not keep a guy), and be a boring lady. According to Ubunja, the boring lady gets the ring. Don't go offering sex on a platter cos you like a guy o. He will think if you can do that with him, you will do that with everyone else. In fact, the more you think a guy is your spec and you want him long term, the more you should be on your best behaviour, and be open but not too available.. Just know that whatever you do with him, he will imagine how that will play out with other guys. If you are too easy and available, he will imagine you are like that with other guys. If you are friendly with him but firm on boundaries (not the kind of boundaries where you have touched and tasted everything but the main thing o), he will also imagine that's how you are with others and it'll make him respect you. It is a balance, let it be clear you totally like him, support, challenge, encourage, but don't be easy lay (before marriage/strong commitment).

Points taken. There need to be more females teaching stuff about how to get it right too. Thanks.

Nazgul:
The problem with female simps is that they usually fall in love with the wrong guys.

They're attracted to irresponsible people and players.

They hate guys who sincerely love them. They friendzone them, treat them badly and give the wrong ones a chance.

They feel giving their virginity to the wrong person would make him stay.

They're easily moved by words that's why they're easy prey for bad boys.

They get constantly used by these boys and their heart get broken, but they never learn.

With time they'll become feminist and hate men. Every man is a devil to them.

When they begin to clock 33-40 their love for men will automatically resurrect, they'll want the God fearing good guys who by that time are all married with kids.

They'll lament how hard it is to find a responsible man to settle down with. That's why there are so many unmarried ladies today.

Truth is you're responsible for your choice. When you're dating a guy who touches you recklessly in public places, have no detailed plan for you in his agenda aside testing new sex styles on you, then you're wasting away your youth in the name of love. When he's done expanding your pvssy, he'll move on to the next one.

Women should learn to be wise these days.

Nice contribution. There are some good points here. Thanks.

Shortyy:
Yeah, it's not out yet. Still on it.

I pray it comes out great and millions get to buy it. Keep it up.

Scientists:
The movement should not be to unsimp them but to enlighten them that sex is not all that men seek. They should not be a burden to him, they must also be hardworking,smart and always profer solution first instead of always complaining and blaming the man at any small mistake.

Well I'm not talking about women that reason that way, but thanks for your contribution anyway. Even if those are not the women we are referring to, those that think that way can learn from your contribution.

Shortyy:
This is a very nice topic you've brought up sweetheart, and I'm working on it. I just pray they'll read and put it into action.

A woman who thinks she's weak because society has labeled her so will continue to be mistreated and disrespected by men.

Before you'll gain your respect as a woman, you need to prove to society that you're not weak, and your life does not revolve around men.

You can only control your emotions if you set your standards. Not the standard from society or men, but your own.

And being financially dependent.


Okay, I've said too much already. My book will soon be out.

Thanks so much for this nice contribution. Much love sister .


Wow, you have a book now? Can't wait till its out! I love the fact that you are helping to empower women. That's just so nice of you.

Scientists:
Women are more inconsiquential than money and children.

Bible says "women, respect your husband"
Why callin them simp for obeying the word of the most high

The problem is not being submissive.

The problem is where girls are submissive for years but don't get appreciated, nor married. Or anything. Still they cling to the man like a last resort.

That is the problem.

CuteMike01:
Come to think of it, I might be of help in that.

Let's see what you have to say.

demmymoney:
Submission doesn't equate to being a female simp

A woman who knows and understands her femininity won't find it hard to settle down with a MAN

Only women who think they are equal to men end up hitting the wall without having tangible relationships with men and always end up with 15 dogs and cats to replace 4 not having children

Are you sure that is the only reason women are single?

Just like there are guys that do everything to make their ladies happy and get nothing in return....

So also there are ladies that do everything and keep being dumped too because to their guys something inconsequential matters more.

Zzor:
Hmm lol, female simps really need the education

Yes dear, your suggestions will be appreciated.

Good Morning.

Some women amongst us are extremely docile and emotional. It is always the case of chasing after men rather than the popular story of guys chasing after ladies, for them.

Some are simply just doormats. To add insult to injury, when they come out for help, they are heavily insulted by the other gender. Even when they ask for advice politely.

These are not your usual. These are :

-Nothing after seven years of 'faithfulness and paying the bills' type.

-Perfectly nice and good and for everything he wants, but trampled on and labelled as stupid and clingy type.

-The kind that the boyfriend has to bat away with a stick, literally. Ride or die abi ride and die types.


Anyone can drop suggestions here about what can be done about this. I think there should be more pointers to help over submissive women, just like how men have helped and raised over submissive men from the dust.

Women, lets help each other. Contributions on how a woman suffering from men due to her over submissive , 'simping' behavior, will be appreciated.

Thanks.

DexterousOne:
While what you said is not false in totality,
The quality of women we have out there is equally worrisome too.

Gone where the days when women were actually women
Now what we have are people bickering left and right

Everyone has changes to make.