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Kuns84:
You can only blame the likes of pocohantas for the absolute shiitshow Nairaland has become

Nope. That's your opinion.

I'm so happy for her. Congratulations dear.

Haha.

One of them on Facebook tried it with me too. I contacted another friend of mine from Nairaland. Guy told me it was a scam. Mr Kanyidi thank you for saving me from a scam.

I was so shocked when, some months later, I sent a link to the same person that claimed they were doing business, that said I should sharply send my 25 000 which I earned from writing a truth or dare/ game book for kids.

This person that had been speaking to me with polished English......hmm.....was speaking correct pidgin. I confronted him/her on what he had tried to do. He said he didn't do anything and he doesn't know me.

Haha....I would have cried if i lost that money. Writing day and night to earn it, and planning on it.

People are wicked.

lexy2014:
Proof that can't be seen and even u hasn't seen? Examples that even u ended up discountenancing urself?

How about you define what you are standing for here. Also your proof. As I've been answering your questions. I think it's only fair that you express yourself more on your view and your own proof.

lexy2014:
U are d one who was disputing their claims and if u are doing that, then it's on u to prove them wrong with d right and valid information which so far u haven't been able to provide. If u say this:

"Side business + Career or family support or anything."

Then provide proof of it. There's a difference between belief and guessing. U can't on one post acknowledge that u are guessing and making assumptions and on another post claim that ur assumptions and guesses are beliefs. Guesses/assumptions are not beliefs. Ur comments aren't adding up

In some case like this one, they are similar.

I've stated my points and you don't think they add up. I don't have the job of making you believe me.

I think if I brought forth examples, and you don't understand my examples, then the effort is futile and I have tried my best.

All i have stated here is enough proof for me.

lexy2014:
So if u can't prove what u are saying, on what basis are u making d claims that u are making? If u say some peoples point of view is wrong, d onus is on u to provide proof that they are wrong. So far, u haven't been able to do that. All u have succeeded in doing is making guesses and making emotional comments about good or bad

No, the onus is not on me, because those with opposing views cannot prove theirs either.

I'm making my claims based on my belief just like the people on the opposite. Neither did i challenge them, you mentioned me simply airing my views. Plus, i added my opinion that such thinking on their part is not right. My opinion.

That is have an opposing opinion means I have an opposing belief. That I have an opposing belief does not mean I must prove it.

Even if I cannot prove it, that doesn't mean there is no possibility that I am right.

So. You think your way. I think in mine.

lexy2014:
this is what u said:

"Side business + Career or family support or anything."

So far u couldn't prove it.

Some folks made some claims about d woman & her car and u retorted that they are wrong. D reason I engaged u was that I was hoping u will have some information that will change d perception. But u didnt have that. U were guessing d same way u say those on d opposing side of d argument are guessing. I didn't ask u for belief. I asked for proof. It's d same way believe that d other folks u are up against believe

Lol why would you ask me for proof? I can't prove that.

Neither can the guys saying she used her vagina to get the car.

Such claims are destructive. That a woman is a whor.e to have money. It is very bad.

Now mine is better. I don't have proof. I just believe so. It is a more sending belief than the insultive one peddled here.

lexy2014:
I haven't made any assertions so ur claim below doesn't stick:

"You also don't know, but you guys are sure she's into the sex business"

U are d one who made claims trying to dispute what someone said but u couldn't prove and substantiate ur claims.

If u say that "It will be safe to say that nobody should make assumptions, especially mean ones, on what we don't know", how come u made d following assumptions:

"...but you guys are sure she's into the sex business"

Who are d "you guys"?

If u claim that she has side businesses, family contribution & yet u can't prove it, what's d essence of jumping into d conversation? It's still u making unsubstantiated assumptions which u accuse others of making.

Here u are with a contradiction:

"She could not sustain that money because she has a family to feed, a house in an expensive place to pay for or it will be taken from us, workers to pay, extended family, etc. So that money becomes nothing as fast as it comes. Ify mom was single, no kids or nobody to demand money from her, she could have been saving that money and bought a car by now."

But yet, a woman who u don't no her source of income, no known business can afford a 100m vehicle.

U said:

"It will be safe to say that nobody should make assumptions, especially mean ones, on what we don't know."

Is this not an assumption below?:

"People make money off business to that amount."

Or as far as this story is concerned, do u know?

By asking a suggestive question, when I said sex cannot get her a car, you asked "What did?" It means you are indirectly saying that there is no other means you see that would have gotten her a car.

On this same thread you can see guys congratulating her vagina. That's the 'you guys' I'm referring to. And the assumptions made which i do not like. Saying she is working 'harder harder', indirectly saying she got it through sex.

Well i can't change anything you think. I hope in the future you can be more open minded about where womens fortunes come from.

Like you said, i made assumptions. I am only proferring other ways/options she could have made money. I am trying to engage you on other possibilities. It does not mean I have to know her personally or have proof. I am trying to sell you a more liberal mindset.

Even if i cannot calculate how, i believe she can make such money without a man. It is simply possible through other ways, in my belief.

lexy2014:
U are saying u don't know but earlier u said:

"Side business + Career or family support or anything. It doesn't have to be a man."

How can u say u don't know yet u are making unsubstantiated guesses? If u don't no, on what basis are u then making other inferences?

Could ur mother's business provide a 100m naira as gift to just one member of her family? Who are her rich friends that donated at least a 100m for her? What work did she do that enabled her save a 100m naira?

When u said "anything", what is "anything"?

Also in all my life whether it be rich or poor guys, i have never seen a man that is willing to give a woman such an amount because if her vagina. Never ever.

If it even truly happens, lol, maybe 500 000 or 1million, which i believe will be super rare. Or she asks for a business or has a baby for him. That is also super rare. Lol isn't it naija guys again?

The one with 50 naira can't give 10 out of it, which nigerian man will give you 100mill because he is sleeping with you?

You guys don't believe nonsense but you believe the nonsense that sounds sweet to you.

It doesn't exist. No man will give such an amount just cuz the woman is sleeping with him.

lexy2014:
U are saying u don't know but earlier u said:

"Side business + Career or family support or anything. It doesn't have to be a man."

How can u say u don't know yet u are making unsubstantiated guesses? If u don't no, on what basis are u then making other inferences?

Could ur mother's business provide a 100m naira as gift to just one member of her family? Who are her rich friends that donated at least a 100m for her? What work did she do that enabled her save a 100m naira?

When u said "anything", what is "anything"?

Anything refers to the options I laid down.

You said I don't know, but I'm making guesses. Thats true. Still. You also don't know, but you guys are sure she's into the sex business. It will be safe to say that nobody should make assumptions, especially mean ones, on what we don't know.

Okay, let's say I am wrong. How come sex is the only way a woman can get such. In more than a million women, are you trying to say all the actresses get money from sex? If so, why is it that men are making such money without sex? Are the men miracle workers, or are you saying all women are dunces so they cannot make money through such as well.

My mother has not made up to 100 million from her business but she has made millions. She could not sustain that money because she has a family to feed, a house in an expensive place to pay for or it will be taken from us, workers to pay, extended family, etc. So that money becomes nothing as fast as it comes. Ify mom was single, no kids or nobody to demand money from her, she could have been saving that money and bought a car by now. She often says that when complaining.

People make money off business to that amount. Its not everyone that will come out to say it.

membranus:
In ur dreams.

Is not gonna happen.

Lol but its like you guys want to switch roles na.

lexy2014:
I can see d vehicle is a brand new G-wagon. Am not sure of year but a 2016 is 100m naira. 2017, 2018 upwards are more expensive. Or maybe u thought d car is a 10m naira car?

Can u pls name d side business + career or family support that enabled her afford d vehicle? What do u mean by "anything"?

I wouldn't know, but she could have saved for years. She could have friends that she did great favors, they contributed the money to her. I have seen women do that. I have seen working colleages do that.

Rich relatives, maybe decided to help her. Any good business woman with sweat amd effort and years work can gain such money. My mother has gotten huge money from her business before.The money was used on various family needs and workers were paid. So....

Everything isn't about dick and pussy.

thebosstrevor1:
No breast grows out naturally on a man

This person injected chemical to grow up breast.

His aim was to be a woman, no wonder, he is obsessed with feminine cloths.

A man with 2 big breast and a penis is still a man.

She has a vagina too. Some animals are also born male and female. I have read of some sea animal....i think a shrimp of some sort.....it is born as a male and gradually becomes female as it grows or vice versa. Some animals like some octopuses can fertilize themselves and give birth. Will you then say this is a lie?

What will you do if presented with a baby with the two organs, 'intersex' a real child? Will you kill the child and say its an abomination?

I think the best thing for you will be to be presented live with a human baby born with both organs. Then you will understand.

Someone7:
They might as well just get neutered and their balls taken off. They are no men at all

Yes, some can remove their balls so they can be taken on dates, toasted and fussed over. So they can stop working and sit at home while the woman does all. So they can be the ones collecting urgent 2k.

We need to encourage them to come out and have surgery. We will support them.

lexy2014:
What did then?

Side business + Career or family support or anything. It doesn't have to be a man.

Someone7:
Imagine being a man and leeching onto a lady for your subsistence

Hahaha.

That's what they truly want. So many men want to be women now. They are just not bold. When they are bold enough, a lot of men will start wearing make up and skirts and demand to be treated in a feminine manner.

Congrats, sex cannot get a woman this.

NiklauseFred:
If trolls doesn't come around then I may be made to believe that this is not nairaland but 'Reddit or Quora'

I really appreciate ur contribution and concern.

You're welcome.

NiklauseFred:
Ok.

It is a good thread. I'm just stating why people might be scared to chip in. I still love the thread honestly. If you can brave the insults, you can make more.

Nice thread, but it might only bring trolls on those emotionally vunerable ones who try to share. There was a time when nl was cool and a good place for these kinds of topics. People really responded well and got support too, but now....

All the smart mouths and insensitive ones have flowed in, so its not safe anymore.

Its so nice to look this good at this age. He is really a very handsome man. He has favor on his side.

Lets take good care of our bodies so we van look good when we are old.

ignis:
One face for beauty without brain, and the other face for brain without beauty.

I believe the other is also beautiful.

Unusual of me, but i find that kid really annoying. As a kid, even if i was dying, i dare not try that shit, neither would my brothers. I don't know the training that involved, but i sure know beating and severe sterness was part of it.

Till today it irks me when i see children act that way because for me, it's either i was never that type of child, or I never dared it. Some certain things i had to grow a little, just to have the guts to try. Some things i did....lol...beatings had reduced....that is why...lol.

I really got angry when my youngest brother would try that. It is because they didn't beat him like us. My father would have to leave the bed for him. I felt that was a very spoilt attitude, for a child to dare such.

When they put the fear of God in you, you as a child will see 'ojuju calabar' coming to your bed but you will prefer to die there than to dare go to meet your mom and dad. Abeg it's just lack of discipline.

SATANNIST:
the hell here is cold. bible says the botomless pit will be open later. t is not open now

Haha, hope you guys had a new years eve party. When I'm not busy, perhaps I will think of visiting.

SATANNIST:
too much money and pussies. if you got a sweet pussy i can invite you now to come experience what the satans life is like

Thanks, but I'm not ready to visit.

Enjoy. At least you guys won't get cold.

SATANNIST:
i was wodering too. cos i dont get all this simp shit.

Lol, how's life in hell?

Truvel:
I Av Given Some B4. One Of Dem Is Dat, She Should Be Financial Independent(don't Let Him Do Everything 4 U) Dis Doesn't Mean Dat U Shouldn't Receive Gifts/money 4rm Dem When Dey Willingly Do So. 2ndly, Don't Support Any Man Financially, Who Is Lazy Or Who Has Refused To Get A Job Or Work.

Good point.

Truvel:
There Is, If Only Dey Are Ready Or Willing To Accept It.

Yeah started seeing some.

'I want to marry a young girl' crew.

This is the spec of all those guys that call women evening newspapers. They just can't say what's truly on their minds.

That aside, this is bad. Not even 30 or 40 years. Years below twenty. 16 years. Very very bad.

Priam:
Did you really get the point of the post?

I did. I'm just focused on some points here.

IntersexSherry:
added some more pics

Cool. You have a great figure.