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Angelfrost:
It actually depends on the thread... I am an excellent conversationalist in real life, and this means I switch manners depending on the conversation group I find myself.

There are threads where I have no choice but to be calm and overtly gentle, while others compel me to be over the top... I am like water!!!

Thanks all the same for observing.

Hmm ok.

Angelfrost:
Just get that paper first...

Lemme see which fine geh wee call you ugly!

You've changed o. Since I've been following you....you were so gentle and calm in your comments before.

Nairaland did this.

Why must people always go a step further? They said they want to show you shadows, but by force some people will try to open the whole thing. Violating the privacy the filter provides.

JOACHINpedro:
I'll go through these journey to see someone's daughter's unclothedness??

Exactly.

Its just that, on social media, you can't decide what happens after you post. Anyone from anywhere could attack you or do something with your post. That's just a consequence that follows it.

If he can't push his weight, they will still maltreat him, despite the g wagon.

LadySarah:


That is what you always say when presented a deepeer lifer or chosen, you will run and end up marrying the pancaked face one every Saturday.

pls leave this matter cos as it is, you guys don't know what you want.

Said it all.

They even treat the pancake face like she has class and is expensive...

While they treat miss natural like she is so cheap and doesn't deserve any pampering.

Your sis is beautiful. Congratulations.

Of course she doesn't know anything, or what it really means.

She just needs a lot of talks and well, parents start giving their kids sex education very early. So nothing untoward happens to the kid.

She really doesn't know the implication of anything right now, just talk to her and tell her what it means.

Please I'm coming, I'm trying to reduce to her size...


But seriously she needs to eat and be healthy...

justosee:
Is there any Nigerian woman who will marry a man who lives in a single room apartment?
She will not marry you in the first place unless she got pregnant.

Okay okay. Believe what you will. Even if it taints the women who would actually do that.

Been there, know exactly what will happen.

If you are going to make the mistake of thinking that, maybe you are being unfair to him, maybe he should get your body so he can be caring and loving you (i know you want love and not just money), you're in for a nasty shock.

Let me prophesy for you. This is what will happen if you actually give him your virginity. I see guys here saying its because you held your body. I laugh. And i laugh again. Here is what will happen:

- You will send romantic texts, do everything nice for him, remember him, pay for outings, love him. But you will be secretly feeling like the final touch is to give the the virginity. Shey you don't want to lose him now? Shebi you love him? Okay

- You will give him the virginity. After which, according to these men's posts here, that is when he can also invest or LOVE you. Abi? Nl guys

- Surprise. Rather he ups his nasty game. He still doesn't call nor text you. He still doesn't remember your birthday. He will be forming like you are the man and he is the woman. You will be the one steady toasting him. Bringing more money on dates. It will be exactly like you are 38 and he is 22. You will drop in esteem. You are now the one chasing an old man. And with all his age and money, he will still be using your emotions to flex like a little kid.

- Eventually you grow distant. Oga doesn't care if you come or go. Yes, dear. That's how it goes. The relationship is like you dating yourself. You stop wooing him, like the man he has turned you to. Eventually, after losing weight, getting ill due to heartbreak, suffering in solace, you leave without telling him relationship is over. Let me add, when he sees or hears you are hoing round with other guys, to get over him, he won't forget to quickly label himself a victim. Call you a cheat. Over a relationship that never existed.

- Last last, you become one more of the girls nl guys say are hoes. The ones they say, oh, we can't marry, but they are here saying, no sex, no love. A bricklayers wife who depends on him, has no money, set up a birthday surprise with paper and balloons for him. If this guy loves you, why can't he text, call, say happy birthday, do small things that don't need much money.

- When someone doesn't love you, he gives excuses over simple things like texts and calls.

Well. This is all i have to say. If your story is true, and you don't want this future, leave. I'm like your future self coming to warn you. You love him but he won't change.

Men pick who they want. If you pick a man but he hasn't picked you too, you have to leave. Men do the picking. That's the secret truth.

southniyikaye:
can you marry a bricklayer?
Let's start with that

Yes I can. I would have problems with my family, but if his character is what I want, why not?

southniyikaye:
forget about me choosing a bad woman, I say again, no Nigeria woman will do this if the boyfriend or husband happens to be a bricklayer

That's a lie, I would. Y'all always relate with nasty egotistic women and when they turn on you you blame all women.

Don't leave your marriage. Your family wants to use you to eat money, and they will leave you to bear your emotional turmoil from many marriages alone.

It's for better for worse. Be faithful. The next man is the same as the first. Who's to say he won't become poor too? When he does, what would all your efforts be for?

There's no paradise anywhere, all the men are the same and no marriage has no problems. He's not beating you, as that can be the only reason to leave.

Richdee1:
Seems this thing is taking a toll on your mental health
I'll advice you guys to take a break from Nairaland
Cyber Bullying is real and if you cannot handle it, avoid Trolls on Nairaland

I simply don't reply them, because when you avoid them, they still attack.

So after all the friendship, him still chop am?

PenName55:
Many of these guys are kids that should have been kept at the kindergarten section of Nairaland if there was one.
There are adults with empty skulls too who are sadists that envy trips like this one. They will be saying "when I traveled to France, to Italy" but they've never stepped at the departure section of an airport ever in their lives.
The most painful thing is when they start the troll and insults no mod will check them but when people caution them and return their insults the mods com rushing
at u with ban.

Nairaland lacks organization.

We just have to be strong when on this platform.

I love this.

Kai! So sad.


I hope so much, I pray SO HARD that she regains her vision. Let a miracle happen. Chai!

NiklauseFred:
That's why i always tell them,if they don't know what to comment,they should just keep mute or drop emoji commot instead of dropping hate words.

Those are real, living demons amongst us. They have no morally justifiable reason for doing what they did.

The haters have done their work and now they are silent. I wonder what these people think of themselves.

KemiMo:
I love your submission! Fact!

Lol he can go and find an angel like himself. That is clean and pure just like him.

Lol, you kept asking and asking her, but now she told you her past, and the truth, now you can't swallow it. So I ask, why did you ask?

People with no business with either of you kept telling and telling you about her. It is either these strangers love you TOO much, or they hate her too much.

But if you knew such knowledge would make you go mad like this, why keep asking and asking? You 4 break up already, because you already believed those rumors. You wanted to play out the unnecessary drama of being a victim?

To me, you knew if you pressed enough she would tell you. And you knew you wouldn't be able to take what she tells you. So you just wanted to play an unnecessary 'angelic victim' role. If you believe what people said, what's all this drama for? Why not make your decision an leave? Than make her tell you again? Knowing fully well that when she tells you, you will keep her in suspense then dump her? Na wa o.

Drama loving king. Cut to the chase and stop punishing her and go if you want to go. Period.

chizzypresh:
Don't mind him,he doesn't

Better.

iLegendd:
This is good. I like how two of you are having a good rapport. I'm the next Ned Nwoko. Only one woman can't handle this sweet d*** bestowed on me. I need at least 7 united wives. Any woman who wants to have it all to herself is greedy.

All of you must live in peace. No conflict or jealousy. I'm only trying to obey the Bible.

So you like polygamy ?

chizzypresh:
Where is it na

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