Family › Re: Russia Mum Kills Baby &Son Jumping 190ft To Her Death With Kids In Her Arms(Pix) by qtguru(m): 12:52pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
damosky12: This, yet again, lets us see that the communalist African culture is what we find in nature... All these Western world are fraught with artificial everything - from food, to culture, to lifestyle... During work trip in the US, I saw an homeless man with ipad and phone and was thinking to myself that this homelessness get levels, Westerners are very isolated compared to Africans, here we have family and friends to rely on, to a degree, there you're on your own. |
Properties › Re: I Cried When I Entered The Houses Of Billionaires In Lekki by qtguru(m): 8:41am On Oct 14, 2021 |
If you see houses in Banana Island, you go know say money dey this country. Beautiful expensive houses no one stays in. I was just consoling myself that my reward dey heaven.  |
Programming › Re: Tailwind CSS Vs Bootstrap by qtguru(m): 11:49pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
I prefer tailwind Bootstrap is too restrictive |
Family › Re: Russia Mum Kills Baby &Son Jumping 190ft To Her Death With Kids In Her Arms(Pix) by qtguru(m): 10:12pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
 if only the Husband was around for emotional support. but Solider has to go on duty. Christ imagine what the husband is feeling now |
Programming › Re: Advice On Impostor Syndrome by qtguru(m): 7:36pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
olubantylove: PHP/Laravel. Guy no panic, PHP/Laravel is not that hard, just read on their documentation and know the design pattern it uses and the rest, you will learn on the job. |
Programming › Re: This Is What A Recruiter Told Me About Software Developers From Nigeria by qtguru(m): 6:21pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
islamics: Yes it does. Na make Oga qtguru con make the link available and make he coordinate with the other Boss to move it forward. join.slack.com/t/koding-school/shared_invite/zt-x7wxcatg-_iU4vvtdTJ7mNvsBlvajxg Here is the link for anyone who wants to join, I can't manage the group anymore, so I leave it to the community, I will just post videos and help those who are interested ? All the best bro |
Programming › Re: Advice On Impostor Syndrome by qtguru(m): 5:53pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
olubantylove: Hello everyone, let me just go straight to the point.
I got an offer recently as a backend developer with a company and I will be resuming work in some weeks time. The issue is I feel like I'm not good enough to take up this role, like I keep doubting myself.
I haven't work with any company or organization before. All my experience has been building web app for people, I've been doing that for like two years now.
I'm happy I got this role, because it wasn't easy, at the same time I feel like can I do well in this role?. I don't know if anybody felt the same way the first time they were taking up a software role too?
So software devs, I need your opinion on this. Thanks. What stack ? we all do, but luckily enough documentation and Youtube videos lately. |
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Programming › Re: This Is What A Recruiter Told Me About Software Developers From Nigeria by qtguru(m): 10:36am On Oct 13, 2021 |
airsaylongcome: So I will try my best to keep this thread active by raising points of discussion so that prospective remote IT workers can gain some insights. I must state (even though I agree it is biased) that I am not so into encouraging people from other careers to jam pack the remote IT market in Nigeria. A lot of people are now beginning to rush into this space as there is the perception that it is very lucrative. There are several other career paths other than IT that also recruit remote staff. Accounting/Bookkeeping is one of such. Same with finance. And even Pharmacy (for drug trials). If anyone feels offended by this discrimination from me, I apologise in advance. But that's just me
So, often; most remote jobs advertised (at least for the US markets) are for full time employees even though you may have to work remote. Recruiters will indicate if the openings are Remote-US only or open to international applicants. Full-time remote jobs outside the US are very difficult to get (based on my experience) because your employer will have to pay tax to the Nigerian government and most US businesses aren't interested in that because it adds extra level of work for them.
The other alternative is to be hired as an Independent Contractor which is where we as Nigerians have good chances of getting hired (if you are good o!)
@Lindner and @qtguru what has been your experiences regarding this? Do you guys currently work FTE (Full time Employee) or Independent Contractor? I work FTE and Independent contractor, Remote jobs are not a problem just that no job security, so always improve on yourself incase things go south |
Romance › Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by qtguru(m): 10:17am On Oct 13, 2021 |
Martinelli35: Although this did not happen to me, but it brought a very heated argument between i and my fiancée.
I saw a video on Instagram where a man caught his younger brother sleeping with his wife. He saw them but they did not see him, he pretended he did not see anything.
A few days later he told his wife that he wanted to surprise her with a gift and told his brother to help him out, he said he wanted it to be a surprise and so he tied up his wife’s eyes with a cloth and then also told his brother he had a surprise for him too, that one also had is eyes tied up.
He then took them both downstairs and gave them both empty cartons to hold. On one side of the carton he gave his wife he wrote “she cheated on me” and on the other side was the caption “with my brother”. She was very excited at the expected gift and was smiling throughout and giddy with anticipation, meanwhile oga was filming the whole drama.
On his Brother’s carton he wrote “my brother slept with my wife”, of course he was blindfolded and didn’t know what was written or the fact he was been exposed and humiliated to the world. Oga now gathered her jewelry, makeups and other stuffs and started putting into the cartoon. Madam was jumping up and down thinking of how many and heavy the gifts were. At the same time oga had carried all his wife’s property and thrown on the road while videoing the whole scenario play out. I leave you to imagine the shock and humiliation on there faces when the blindfold came off.
Now this brings me to my own scenario. Now I love my fiancée very much and as is customary of me, I send her funny videos I see online. We laugh about it and all. So I sent her the aforementioned video and she laughed and then got serious and asked that if I was the Husband what would have been my reaction, I told her that I won’t be violent, but that would be the end of the marriage. I would be done and I would never forgive her, but that after time must have passed, I would eventually forgive my brother. That is where issue escalated o. She said that would be very unfair of me, that they both deserve equal punishment, I told her that he is my family by virtue of blood and that can never change, though he betrayed me, but we remain family and I won’t want my parents go through the agony of seeing there children apart. But that my wife only became family by virtue of the trust we have towards each other and that once that is gone, nothing holds us together, besides I won’t be able to stay together in the same house again with her.
She just started ranting that it means I would choose my family over her and that I won’t treat her equally and that what am saying says a lot about me and she got really pissed at me. She took it really personally.
My question is, did I do anything wrong? Is my assertion a totally reprehensible one one devoid of logic? Or am I being unfair? lol una dey fight over skit. |
Crime › Re: Man Caught After Poisoning His Friend's Coca-Cola Drink! (Video) by qtguru(m): 12:57pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
These people nice, na to rain am slap and blows. |
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Romance › Re: Whats The Hardest Part About Being A Man? by qtguru(m): 9:15pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
It's that no one cares about men. |
Programming › Re: This Is What A Recruiter Told Me About Software Developers From Nigeria by qtguru(m): 7:29pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
islamics: There is a slack community opened by qtguru though it has not really been active. Why not make leverage/build it up from there. Some peeps here are part of the slack. He opened it with this same goal of remote stuff but Oga don busy now dey juggle two job.   But I like the fact you guys are keeping it alive, I will update there from time to time |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Do You Love Your Job? by qtguru(m): 6:02pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
I love my job, it's also my hobby so it feels like I am not really working. |
Programming › Re: Go And Study Your Algo And DS by qtguru(op): 2:01pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Syncy: OK.
Please, how do I bypass purchasing a product key to activate Microsoft Office? The apps are refusing to work without the activation. go to DirectOnPC but mine is paid because it is 3k monthly for Family plan |
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Romance › Re: Vv by qtguru(m): 1:13pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
I've never heard guys talk like this must be bantz |
Career › Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by qtguru(m): 11:00am On Oct 09, 2021 |
I do, cuz sometimes you need advice from a partner. It depends on the spouse though |
Romance › Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by qtguru(m): 10:58am On Oct 09, 2021 |
You tied yourself with this woman by having a child, your cross to bear |
Programming › Re: Chronicle Of A Data Scientist/analyst by qtguru(m): 9:57am On Oct 09, 2021 |
LoverOfLove: Hello qtguru. I'm reaching out as regards your need for a Yoruba translator. I've gone through the requirements and I'm very qualified for the job. In fact, I currently teach Yoruba to people in diaspora. I could send you evidences if you don't mind.
If the position isn't taken yet, I'd like to take up the job. Already sent |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Is The Shortest Time You Have Been Employed? by qtguru(m): 6:17pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
3 months, they didn't have any task for me so i left. |
Programming › Re: Go And Study Your Algo And DS by qtguru(op): 4:58pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Syncy: Hi qtguru. Do you mind if I try the Yoruba translation gig? Already sent someone, but I will let you know if anything changes. |
Romance › Re: I Just Realized Something New About Nairaland by qtguru(m): 4:30pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
President Buhari
Wow how did someone know about that ? |
Programming › Re: I Have A Google Coding Interview Coming Up. I’m Panicking!!! by qtguru(m): 1:54pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
I even get your number already sef |
Programming › Re: I Have A Google Coding Interview Coming Up. I’m Panicking!!! by qtguru(m): 1:51pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Remove I have kept the page open |
Programming › Re: I Have A Google Coding Interview Coming Up. I’m Panicking!!! by qtguru(m): 1:47pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Guest911: Is it a WhatsApp or telegram group? WhatsApp Group, but barely started much, hard to find free time. |
Programming › Re: I Have A Google Coding Interview Coming Up. I’m Panicking!!! by qtguru(m): 10:38am On Oct 07, 2021 |
Guest911: hahaha. boss himself. Omo how I go take remind you na when I no dey come office. Add me to your study group na. Remember that guy you sold infinix phone for during your days at Interswitch. Then we later met at Andela cafeteria gisting about your next focus being money making  Lol I remember sure thing, I need ginger sef , no wahala , how I fit add you ? |
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Programming › Re: I Have A Google Coding Interview Coming Up. I’m Panicking!!! by qtguru(m): 7:35am On Oct 07, 2021 |
There are some sites that show some Google Interview questions, all the best and prayers too |
Programming › Re: I Have A Google Coding Interview Coming Up. I’m Panicking!!! by qtguru(m): 7:34am On Oct 07, 2021 |
Guest911: Where is that qtguru guy sef lol. We both worked at Andela. Anyway I thought of buying leetcode, but I’m glad I got the algoexpert instead. It comes with very thorough system design questions and I only paid $65/yr leetcode is double that. Plus clément(Algoexpert Guy) really explained these concepts like I was 5yrs old For real, Maybe I will look at his course, I am watching the Skeiner video, free time scarce, oya reveal yourself.  |