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Romance › Re: Funny Response Only: Why Are You Still Single? by qtguru(m): 9:56pm On May 03, 2023 |
Passionnfruit: When you go marry your babe na? Since all these years! Asap |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Kind Of Job Do You Do And What's The Hardest Part of Your Job? by qtguru(m): 3:55pm On May 03, 2023 |
engineerkola: Yeah you want them to assist for free. Nah. If you maintain good relationship with them and compensate them properly whenever they assist you, they will come back. But when you take advantage of them and try to act smart, everyone will avoid you. They can't because most of them are C++ engineers and other languages, they are scientists non are that familiar with DOM/JavaScript. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Kind Of Job Do You Do And What's The Hardest Part of Your Job? by qtguru(m): 1:52pm On May 03, 2023 |
Software dev hardest part is architecture design and algo, there has to be a design pattern that allows expansion and also doesn't break. The challenge is most of my colleagues can't assist, so it's left to me to research and figure things out. |
Romance › Re: Funny Response Only: Why Are You Still Single? by qtguru(m): 11:59am On May 03, 2023 |
Wedding money |
Travel › Re: Mauritius Study And Work by qtguru(m): 4:24pm On May 02, 2023*. Modified: 8:34am On May 03, 2023 |
so I called a friend and he said Police Certificate is not required for Mauritius, I just wanted to confirm this. I just checked, and there is no police certificate required for Mauritius Premium Visa. |
Romance › Re: Ladies Would You Remain With Your Spouse If He Suddenly Goes Broke? by qtguru(m): 12:45pm On May 02, 2023 |
tosinhtml: Lol, but the question is very valid nau. It is very normal, men are likely to leave a sick spouse while women are likely to leave their broke spouse.
Most for better for worse usually end up in separation in Nigeria as opposed to divorce, then sometimes they get back together later on.
[s]It is also depressing to stay with a broke spouse, so let's just keep it real.[/s] It is also depressing to stay with a broke man, so let's just keep it real, because a lot of us guys are dating broke spouses if you think about it. |
Romance › Re: Ladies Would You Remain With Your Spouse If He Suddenly Goes Broke? by qtguru(m): 12:29pm On May 02, 2023 |
olabrinks: The mental exhaustion of carrying the home will depress me. If he can take care of the kids and home whilst I work and provide, there might be balance. If I’m expected to do everything, it won’t work, as I’m not a machine. So my answer is no. I'm glad you appreciate the mental toll men carry on for the household. Because we too do get depressed especially if that effort at home is not appreciated. |
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Romance › Re: Ladies Would You Remain With Your Spouse If He Suddenly Goes Broke? by qtguru(m): 9:38am On May 02, 2023 |
shaybebaby: Depends on the reason why he "suddenly" went broke and his attitude after the brokenness began.
Financial irresponsibility? Yup, I'm out. Something like loss of job, downturn in business through no fault of his? I stay.
Woe is me attitude and refusing to get back up with something doing, however little? I'm out!
Concerted effort to rebuild? I'll stay. You have a valid point, I lost my job during covid, my babe was with me we were on NSPPD for a week, I was applying like mad, some people do break down and find it unable to move forward. The fear of not knowing what to expect. |
Career › Re: Workers' Day:share Your Hustling Experiences And Your Present Job. by qtguru(m): 9:40am On May 01, 2023 |
My clients are not Nigerian, so work still dey  |
Romance › Re: Marry Your Skin Color by qtguru(m): 8:48am On May 01, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Marry Your Skin Color by qtguru(m): 8:27am On May 01, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Marry Your Skin Color by qtguru(m): 8:23am On May 01, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: You joking right ? If I reason you ehn I swear you can't resist, be forming hard man online 😂 All na mouth and that's what most guys do online Pele it's like you have trust issues with light-skinned men. If you're fair-skinned sorry, but plenty of guys will find you attractive don't worry about it. |
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Romance › Re: Marry Your Skin Color by qtguru(m): 11:07am On Apr 30, 2023 |
Wordsfrombimpe: Ah you sabi melanin gan
But you have to stick to your color comrade
We don’t want shortage  I will be extra romantic to madam so that one dark-skinned brother doesn't steal her. |
Romance › Re: Marry Your Skin Color by qtguru(m): 10:55am On Apr 30, 2023 |
Wordsfrombimpe: Lmao marry your skin color ladies
Make our black guys marry their black skin
That's why there is shortage of dark skin guys and ladies
Don't be oliver twist I'm not attracted to light-skinned ladies. ever seen an ebony body shine after putting oil, so beautiful |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why I Gave My Life To Jesus by qtguru(m): 10:34am On Apr 30, 2023 |
jesusjnr2020: Just reading out just words is not enough, you must mean it.
I recited those words severally and was yet a sinner bound for hell, until I truly repented and the difference was clear. What activities do you take to help you mean it, I find myself in that predicament. I pray and believe but I still live in sin sometimes. Thank you and happy Sunday. |
Romance › Re: Marry Your Skin Color by qtguru(m): 10:32am On Apr 30, 2023 |
Wordsfrombimpe: Marry your skin color
Biko
Fair people marry fair
Black people marry Black Never, I like black skinned ladies more. |
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Family › Re: You Left Your Husband Because He Was Cheating. Then This Happens (pix) by qtguru(m): 9:35am On Apr 30, 2023 |
lordally: Boss , please if you have the PDF , can you send it to my mail uhegwualexander@yahoo.com
I would appreciate it. Thanks so much I'll send a copy |
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Family › Re: Borrowing & Not Repaying: Have You Ever Encountered Such From Family Or Friends? by qtguru(m): 7:56am On Apr 29, 2023 |
Evestar200: Have you ever lend money to someone and when is time for them to pay they will tell you or do something that will make you regret ever helping them?
Share your stories. Depends on the amount |
Family › Re: You Left Your Husband Because He Was Cheating. Then This Happens (pix) by qtguru(m): 10:47pm On Apr 28, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: See as you and others are sounding so cool online but it's entirely a different ball game in reality. But I somehow believe you because you are a very busy guy and might be too occupied to handle multiple women but it doesn't stop you from getting down with any aoof that crosses your path 🤣 Irony is I've turned down alot of offer. Sex is cheap, a baby isn't. Read the framework for poverty book, reckless sex and having a baby is the fastest way to be broke as a man. I don't mess around because I know some bit.ches want to retire on my head. Not every man thinks with his penis. |
Family › Re: You Left Your Husband Because He Was Cheating. Then This Happens (pix) by qtguru(m): 4:09pm On Apr 28, 2023 |
koladata: no man willingly stay with only one woman, they all stayed because they have no options and they have to remain faithful to their option.
any man that willingly stay with one woman has medical issue. every healthy man should get erection every morning , every single morning regardless of if she's on her period or in the labor room. I'd disagree, some men don't like stress, it's just that Nigerian women neglect their husband's, which man is happy in a sexless marriage. |
Family › Re: You Left Your Husband Because He Was Cheating. Then This Happens (pix) by qtguru(m): 3:38pm On Apr 28, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: But you'll cheat in marriage, this I can see. Never, I hate dealing with more than 1 woman, you women stress men too much. I'd rather than stick it out with one. Cheating is too much stress. before I was dating, I tried dealing with 2 women and it was the most stressful part of my life. I'd rather be alone than have multiple women stress my life it's not worth it. |
Romance › Re: Waist Beads Have Turned Some Nigerian Men Into Mumu by qtguru(m): 2:50pm On Apr 28, 2023 |
Divoc19: How about men that wear waist bead too Jazz or diabolical reasons. |
Career › Re: I Am Approaching 40 And Am Scared My Dreams Are Not Realistic by qtguru(m): 1:46pm On Apr 28, 2023 |
didroon43: Well it is not easy in Nigeria especially these past 8 years under Buhari.
What I can advise is to try to save and create another source of income. With two sources of income, you would be closer to your dreams than you can imagine. True |