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Google helps, most of the issues I face, I have to google to even understand and fix, Linux is not an easy OS especially with distros that don't give hand holding

Arch is complex, so why not try KDE Plasma (Kubuntu), been running Linux for 6 years as my primary choice of OS, I only use windows to edit videos.

Darwin theory: Female Edition

MrBrownJay1:
i am born and bred in France so pretty much traveled all over Europe (Spain Belgium, Italy, Holland, Poland Belarus, Lithuania, Latvia, Ukraine, Russia Sweden finland etc) ... but i have actually lived in the UK, Norway, Denmark, Poland, Czech republic, Switzerland, China, Japan, Australia, Argentina, Brazil, Colombia... and of course, as you live in these places, you travel to neighboring countries to visit.

...and again, in any of these countries, i can tell you a story (whether good or bad) about Nigerians

You sir have an impressive number of countries travelled, I hope to do such, this serves as an inspiration.

He deserves it, the guy is hardworking and disciplined

Okealaaye:
Think she would kneel down for her husband if he had no money? Siddon there! Women no get no chill with the poor. Like you don't know that women and money are first cousins!

Your job is to ensure you don't end up with women like that

IyaebeTheGreat:
That’s because you judge people too quickly just by mere comments.

You're right, I'll research them on Linkedin and Twitter before judging

IyaebeTheGreat:
Hope it’s not for the camera

I didn't expect that from you. I thought you were the optimistic type.

Karlifate:


If a woman is going through rough times, she can be saved by a nice man.

If a man is going through rough times, the only one who can save him is himself cos nobody will even look at his direction.

💯

Some of us don't know how to beg for money. so we have to overwork.

Surprised we have a sexless community on NL, times have changed.

Deicide:
Haha o tried crossover and didn't even get pass the initials step. I was just being flooded with different logical and quantitative questions. "Which object fit the box" bla bla bla. Lol, How did you do it though?

Cheat, by viewing the answers in one platform, I paid for it for a month, it had a lot of answers from quantitative. The name of the platform is Chegg

WhereMyLoud:
Abeg who read throw small light.. Make e no long oh

2 sexless couples not having sex and want to adopt kids

Kobojunkie:
1. What in the world is this Christian aspect you speak of? What part of Christianity informs you that sex is some sort of sin in marriage?

I said sex before Marriage not sex in marriage.

Kobojunkie:
1. The bond between them is that of lovers, not siblings.

Well different strokes for different folks, in this case, no strokes I guess.

Kobojunkie:
1. What in the world is this Christian aspect you speak of? What part of Christianity informs you that sex is some sort of sin in marriage?

It's stated in the Bible, Sex before Marriage is a sin, I can understand the POV of abiding by God's law.

UyaiIncomparabl:
No. He told me he was asexual and how he finds sex very irritating. I wondered how he was going to fare in this judgmental and perverted society as ours. I would not say he was gay as well. These type of people may not be so widespread, but trust me, they do exist.

Interesting.

Flamemignon1:
Asexuals do exist and I'm super disappointed in you especially for a programmer living abroad,you should know people like these exist or you decided to hold on to that Nigerian mentality?

lol I dey Naija with una o but amen

Flamemignon1:
Asexuals do exist and I'm super disappointed in you especially for a programmer living abroad,you should know people like these exist or you decided to hold on to that Nigerian mentality?

I know they exist, but it's strange no sex during marriage. She might as well be my sister

UyaiIncomparabl:
Nah. Not true. I once dated guy who was not so keen about sex. He was okay with the fact that we could spend the whole day talking about literature, nature or some other mundane things. He found satisfaction in companionship than sex. Our time was brief but he was one of the best guys I have ever encountered. He was so selfless and peaceful. So, it’s not impossible. Asexual people exist.

Dating not marriage. I can understand the Christain aspect of it, wanting to not have sex before marriage.

dontrulee:
I started with reading books by Osho, then watching his videos on YouTube.

I also did the same with Sadhguru

I listen to Sadhguru, thanks I will watch out for Osho

dontrulee:
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I do have urges but I've found a way to transform them. My first sex wasn't enjoyable maybe I was expecting too much from it. I had previously learned the method of sustaining ecstasy through natural meditation techniques.

The pleasure obtain from sexual intercourse is very minute compared to that from Meditation

Any resource, I'd be interested in that

dontrulee:
I can relate to this story because I'm asexual. I've found ways to gain pleasure that's higher than that from sexual pleasure. My current gf is a virgin and asexual too

You don't like sex ? why ? don't you have urges as a man ?

Chirowman:
do you think that everything has to centered on cheating and gay . When you come to terms that sex only works when you have thought of it and a burning desire for it . That's when it controls you ,some married folks stay months in same room without sex . Some men and women stay years without sex , it's all about decision.

Sorry, I do not understand the concept of asexuality. Why would I be with a sexless woman esp as someone with a high libido? there are women who want sex in a marriage. let the frigid couples stay with each other.

LoveTalk:
I'm speechless.

No vex Cynthia lol

remsonik:
How I wish this could be for me when I marry, having sex once in a week at most, have our children and both of us can feel good with it...... No be say we go dey pound ourselves daily like pestle pounds mortar.

Once a week or 2 is ideal, especially with busy lives, but no sex for 5 years is weird.

LoveTalk:
Did you even read the write-up? 😂

Yes, I did, one of them is cheating or Jide is gay. who marries into celibacy