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Hardtotrust:
I am very very angry right now. I couldn't sleep last night. That is why I'm bringing this here this morning before I do something very bad. A father should be after the growth of his son and not after ruining him.

Please you guys should help me look into this matter. I understand that it was a matter of life and important concern.

I'm seriously struggling in the city to eck a living for myself and do the little I can for my family also. My father was a petty trader who hardly can provide adequate for the family. Some of us who come from a very poor background would understand this better. I mean coming from where absolutely nothing is kept for you. No support from the family and nothing, nothing and nothing. You are the one who die and same you would have to pour yourself water to come back to life. You, you and only you.

I buy fast consuming products and supply to people and make some gains from there. Sometimes I hawk the products. I was able to save up to N150k. Around May this year, I went to the village and bought some rubbers of palm oil and store them to sell around November/December and make gains.

Last week, I got a call that wind pulled off our house roof in the village. Since they are using small torchlight phone, I didn't get to see how serious the situation was. Even though I didn't have money, I sent N15k to help fix it. My father later called me and complained bitterly on why I sent just 15k, that according to the carpenter, that materials and workmanship would cost N65k. In my mind, I was just like, does this man even know how I survive here in the city?

For two nights, they didnt sleep in the house as the wind pulled off the rooof.

On Tuesday, I learnt my younger brother was being operated of Hernia. I know about the hernia but was under plan to raise money for it. And I knew there was no money to settle medical bills for operation. So I was shocked where they got the money to do operation.

As I traveled down yesterday to see them, dear Nairaland friends, all my rubbers of palm oil has been sold and the money spent on fixing the roof and paying for the medical bills for the hernia operation without my notice.

I am not taking this kindly with my father who engineered the whole thing and I want to arrest him to refund my money.

That is my life investment and it took me so much to raise the amount. Due to how things are now. I even wanted to sell two rubbers to invest back as the business is facing challenges now.

What should I do here to recover my money back? If I have another money, I would over look it but that is my life investment of my labour.

nairalandkachy1:
https://crossriverwatch.com/2023/07/government-approvals-were-given-via-whatsapp-messages-in-ayades-era-spokesperson-to-gov-otu/

Nemere2020:
https://dailynigerian.com/rufai-kaduna-tradition/

NwekeUG:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BCB_V-KNtIA

officialwdhtv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=evrHpG8q0f4

Moment UNIPORT VC asks his aides to take details of female student who dressed "indecently", threatening to dismiss the student.

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv

Offpointng:
Do you know the most annoying thing, I don't want to know how Angelic the girl might look or seem, she'll never agree to it if the siblings were to be from the Husband's side

But I doff my hat to any guy dating a girl with so many siblings sha. If your siblings pass 2 and ur family ain't rich enough, I ain't doing no Poverty Alleviating Relationship. I'm not marrying

Omooba77:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/07/tinubus-presidency-in-30-days-increased-hardships-rising-hopes/

SKIBiNSKI:
The solution is for nigerians to querry their council chairman, governors and officials who are incharge. I have not asked any question, but i will start with why has that road not being repaired by his council? You and I and everyone else should start with and asking that question. By dashing him 10k we are ignoring and denying the real problem. We are also encouraging the councils who are supposed to repair these roads to also not do their jobs. We may not get an answer but we should not shy away from asking repeatedly.

SKIBiNSKI:
You see? This here is the problem. Dash him 10k another person will dash him tomorrow and next week God will provide, all that doesn't sound logical or even realistic, it is just sheer hope. Believe! Believe that the sun will shine today! Even though the weather forcaster says it will rain all day! Just keep believing! even God doesn't believe that.




So when? Which years? Will these questions start asking themselves? never! I guess.

SKIBiNSKI:
What you should be doing rather is asking questions why the road are not repaired by his local council. isn't it time nigerians stood up to their corrupt tiffing leaders?

If You "dash" him a meagre 10k naira today what about tomorrow? The next day after tomorrow, next week, or next month?

FreeStuffsNG:
Lone man repairs highway in Ogun to save motorists from gridlock



https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/more-news/607096-lone-man-repairs-highway-in-ogun-to-save-motorists-from-gridlock.html

davodyguy:
Stating the fact.
There are over 100,000 polling units.

APC and PDP had party agents in all, as party agents are expected to stay at the polling units, count votes there and sign the form before the form is either uploaded it the hard copy taken to the collation Centre.

You're unable to get 100,000 plus agents to assist and you want to claim fraud or rely on IREV.

So what happen in those units that you had no agent? How can you prove fraud?

Tell this Obi guy to stop wasting his time and 🤑

Kuginzi:
https://punchng.com/im-taking-baby-steps-of-pains-to-fix-nigeria-says-tinubu/

adenigga:
Source: https://punchng.com/Subsidy-removal-FG-saves-N400bn-in-four-weeks

Tntsi:
After acquiring your vehicle licence, and all other documents needed , you come every year to pay to show that you own the vehicle.

Welcome to Renewed extortion, renewed robbery and embezellment of the common man.

osuofia2:
Carry on Ribadu. You de deliver.
Who else noticed bandit's are on holiday after Buhari left

ijustdey:
https://punchng.com/ig-to-withdraw-mobile-police-from-vips-establishes-special-squad/?amp

ysgs:
Good day. I am here to reveal how i cured my sister body odour. Ingredients are sea salt, castor oil, activated charcoal, yanko, lemon juice You grind the activated charcoal, grind the sea salt together. Mix castor oil and yanko together. Use the activated charcoal and sea salt you mix together to bath with lemon juce with it. Leave it for like 5 to 10 minutes before you wash it away with water. Then use the castor oil you mixed with yanko to rub your whole body. Repeat this up to 3 times consecutively. Bad odour is gone for life. This tested and working. I have also use it to cure up to 6 different peoples.

ernesco0816517:
Why can't Akwa Ibom State Government just copy only this one from Lagos?, INI local government area in AKS has a fertile soil for rice cultivation .




Wish our oil ll dried up,so the govt of AKS can think outside the box,all their thinking is oil money from FG every month....wicked and lazy mofos.

Kuginzi:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/06/fg-okays-re-opening-of-seme-border-for-vehicle-importation/amp/

sultanofpigs:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/06/tribunal-tinubu-inec-kick-as-peter-obi-tenders-total-pvcs-in-32-states/

MrNotAgain:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y737bGrslmQ



Source- https://www.channelstv.com/2023/06/21/i-will-make-community-policing-work-igp-egbetokun-vows/

Samantha124:
Yep, I'm like that.

Samantha124:
This is the issue I have, I find myself being emotionally attached to my nephews and nieces.. I think them and I have this special bond to a point that most of them also feel comfortable opening up to me.

This past weekend my nephew was taken to an initiation school, I just had to travel all the way from Durban to Polokwane just to see him before he leaves... The last time I left home the relationship between me and my mom wasn't going so well, but my father managed to talk to me and asked that I forgive her even though it's not easy... I was able to put everything aside for the sake of my nephew because I wanted to see him before he leaves for the initiation school.

Those who may wonder what an initiation school is, it's a cultural school whereby kids who are about to enter puberty, or are already in puberty are taken in order to be taught cultural virtues and principles of transitioning from childhood to teenhood.

His mother brought him to the family house on Saturday afternoon, I spent the entire afternoon gisting with him and he was nervous about the whole thing of going to an initiation school... I had to calm him down.. They were already late because other kids had left with their guardians to the mountains in the morning... My mother then called the royal house to make some inquiries and she was told that they could bring the child the following morning which was Sunday.

The following morning my parents and my sister along with my nephew left for the royal house in the village, the boy's father met them there and from there, the boy and the father were taken to the mountains, where the boy will stay with the others for four weeks.

The father just wanted to drop his son in the mountains and leave afterwards, but he was told that he must be around for at least 2 days to make sure that his son is well settled.

It was so difficult seeing him leave and I couldn't hold my tears, he's just so adorable and I sometimes wonder if he'll be able cope with the living conditions in the mountains for four weeks.

I remembered of how he talked about wanting a PlayStation when he visited the family house back in December, so I bought a PlayStation 5 for him as his graduation gift from the initiation school, they'll be having a party at his home when he returns, but I won't be able to go because of the protection order I have against his father... I gave the gift to my sister for her to give it to him.

The relationship between his father and I may not be good, but I love the boy so much like he's my own.

My other brother in law has also talked of how his children look up to me...

So I'd like to know if you guys have also found yourself emotionally attached to your siblings' children.

Wildkat02:
Nobody is whiter than the whites? And I’m not black but negro. I don’t subject myself to that slave language Black, u guys call yourselves.

Waist beads, piercings and local tattoos are all part of the African culture, from the ancient Dahomey empire down to the hinterland in ancient Nigeria. But u guys were brain washed by religion to see everything as evil. So you’re the one trying to be white 😂

Wildkat02:
Stereotypical mindset. It’s just like saying guys with Mohawk (Gallas) hair style or neat dreadlocks are criminals

fadilaMaikiriki:
Hello all!

What's your opinion about women with multiple piercings? What do you think of that or them? Does it affect your opinion about such a woman? Will your opinion about a woman change if you notice she has more than the usualpiercings on the ear lobes? I have about 4 piercings on my ear lobes. I don't know if someone's opinion about me will change if they notice that. Or if those piercings will have any effect on how the person sees me.