I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.
At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.
And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.
Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...
pls I need advice, prayers and support.
Bros, there is nothing wrong with your marriage. Do not believe those false prophets.
Start making money today and your marriage will bounce back all by itself because one of the fundamental ingredients that sustains a marriage is MONEY.
And you make money through selling a product or offering a service.
I don't care about your certificate, learn a skill to offer value and you make money.
Don't be deceived by first class degree certificate in this age and time , don't get me wrong, those papers are good but they are not what you need in this kind of situation. You need to be able to solve problems to make money. And do not listen to those asking you to divorce your wife.
Learn any tech related skill and thank me later.
Some you can even learn online for free. How many white Kola jobs are still available this time?
Knowledge brings money. Above all , love God, pray , but while praying, take action.
I will offer you free guide on how to go about it. Peace be unto you and your family!
Guyman01: The case is now becoming more of PM News gossip. All these side attractions and distraction is not necessary, she is an adult for goodness sake, focus on what happened to Mr Ataga and not who and who she slept with as a runs girl, don't be shocked when you find out she has even slept with your IGP in one of her outings, I hope you will have the guts to tell us?
She has never mentioned anywhere that her foster father was having an amorous relationship with her, the man defended her as a daughter which was expected of him when his house was invaded and he didn't know what she did outside and she also confirmed he wasn't aware because she told him she just returned from school and it's obvious from neighbours account that she dresses like a 'Nun' and well behaved at home while outside she is a different person which implies that the man was playing his role as a disciplinarian oblivious of her double lifestyle which she most likely picked up from friends after gaining admission to UNILAG. I don't understand the desperation to rope the man in because he resisted her arrest initially, that's the first instinct of every father.
As Igbo people will say, just wash the old woman's wrapper, if you say you want to scrutinize every part of it thoroughly dont complain to anyone if you find a piece of excrement, I mean shit
Ireportlive: If you truly think Tinubu gives a fvck about what you put on your head, then you know Sabi bobo Chicago
You people have started wearing him suit and forcing him to look clean and smile like you did to BUhari in 2015 , and that brought us here. You still want to extend the woes right? anyways, we are watching...
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President Muhammadu Buhari Thursday in Seoul, South Korea, expressed delight as he witnessed the signing of the Memorandum of Understanding (MoU) between Nigerian National Petroleum Company (NNPC) Ltd and Daewoo Group of South Korea for the rehabilitation of the Kaduna refinery.
Abeg which language this person use do the voice over for the video?
Chai! Who did this to Cross River? But this governor get mind sha. He is just there acting comedy while wike is busy developing rivers . And the people of the state stay watching the youngman fooling them with grammar. Meanwhile the whistle will soon blow and the 90 minutes is almost over. O.Y.O crorebastay(CRS)
goodmike7: DEAR OP PLEASE DONT FORGIVE YOUR HUSBAND OOO..NEVER YOU ARE VERY BEAUTIFUL AND FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT..YOU ARE VERY HOLY AND WITHOUT MISTAKE AND MEN WILL TROOP IN THEIR NUMBERS TO MARRY YOU AFTER YOU GIVE BIRTH. YOU DONT NEED YOUR HUSBAND AND WHEN YOU REMARRY, IF THE GUY TOUCHES YOUR PURSE, PLEASE LEAVE TOO AND RENT ANOTHER APARTMENT WITH YOUR KIDS. YOU HAVE A VERY GOOD FAMILY MEMBERS WHO ABHORS YOU FOR 2 MONTHS WITHOUT REACHING OUT TO YOUR HUSBAND YOU HAVE A FATHER WHO ENCOURAGES YOU NOT TO GO BACK TO YOUR HUSBAND, VERY SUPPORTIVE FAMILY. YOU DONT NEED A MAN. I LIKE YOUR COMPETITIVE SPIRIT OF OWNING YOUR THINHS AND 200K IS WAY WORTH A DIVORCE FROM A MAN WHO TOLD YOU ABOUT A PROPERTY, ENCOURAGED YOU YO BUY IT AND GAVE YOU THE NECESSARY DOCUMENTATION IN YOUR NAME OOO.
Registeredguest: I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.
I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)
Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.
After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...
Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says "I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.
3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.
My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.
How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.
No insult please, I have cried enough.
Kai!. Immaturity can sometimes be annoying. Husband, immature, wife immature. Little issue that should have been resolved with simple apology and a smile. Both of you need counselling honestly. Why cant your husband apologize? is he God? And why cant you overlook it? ego at work.
Not insults please, sometimes we need to speak sense in a harsh way for it to enter skull. You too went too far. packing out of your matrimonial home because of 200k? haba , no na. And your egoloaded hubby too looked away? That is the beging of a crack in the marriage. Issues like that you, wake each other up when it's 12 midnight and sort them out. Go back home my dear, swallow your pride for the sake of God and peace. now you know he swindled you of 200k, all you need do is to be mindful next time. take things easy, life is too short to drag issues for that long. my 2cents
wasuka14: My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.
Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.
I am mentally stress with what am passing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too.
The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding. Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning. Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket. And the funny thing is that, both the sisters are not working so as to at least support with something.
For now, am managing to pass night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder. I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.
My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian.
See how my heart is panting as if it's me it's happening to. I can imagine. First, is your wife's twin sister not doing anything? Solution: 1. You need to raise money and rent her and her kids a room apartment to manage. 2.Ensure you encourage her to get something doing no matter how small, let her turn her hand and not coil in one place waiting for you and her sister. 3. if there is the means, you can start selling anything even if its pure water in front of the house should number 2. fails 4. If you guys are christians, help her to seek some support from a church that can be of assistance. Bros, i no envy you at all.
N3TRAL: It is 2023 that the whole of Nigeria will know that the North are not ungrateful.
The bulk of Northerners are people who keep their words. Arewa people are people of integrity.
More than 15 of their sitting Governors have sworn with their lives that Asiwaju Bola Tinubu is the Next President of Nigeria.
All that is left is to reinforce the obvious victory is for His Excellency, President Muhammadu Buhari GCFR, to stand on the campaign grounds and reiterate it in Hausa language that Tinubu is the next president and Jagaban will win the North. Our President made himself the chairman of the campaign council and as vowed to do this.
In the South West we will deliver for Tinubu because he is the most competent. Lovers of GOOD THINGS in the South South will add their 25%+ each to solidify our victory. The South East will support us the best way the can if Simon Ekpa and the ESN allows them to vote.
We are certain that victory is ours and on Jagaban's mandate we stand.
Your analysis is for man. What is coming is beyond Buhari. Mark my words.
Sowore is immature. He hasnt grown up yet to become presiedent. That position is not for people without self control. "He that has self control is greater than he that conquers the city" says the holy book. Until he grows up, i dont think he is ready.
Politicians will always know what to say. And what to say is what the people are lacking in the existing administration. That is a simple strategy. Tell them what they want to hear. And that is what Atiku did.
https://twitter.com/farooqkperogi/status/1581333082904596480?t=rLanUekLkebDe4bx8ERQ5Q&s=19[/quote]Lol. Wait o, i thought he was pinned down all this while not to speak publicly? So who unhooked him? , whala e dey o, But his handlers are really doing a bad job. Our potential president abi? This is to confirm the fact that when it comes to politics, the north is years ahead of the south in thinking and strategizing. I cant say more than that.
Look, this allegation by Wike is too weighty. Wike is a sitting governor and a lawyer, he understands the legal and moral implications of making such a heavy and damaging allegation on someone in the calibre of Ayu.
I think there may be something Ayu is fidning hard to explain but rather routing for peace.
For instance, those monies returned by the NWC members alone show that Wike may have a point, else Ayu would even have threaned litigations.
But like someone said above, Nigerians cant just resign from an juicy position, rather they will prefer to die there. Na wa o.
If not, was Ayu under the influence of anything when he said on national TV that if the presidential candidate emerged from the north, he was resigning? Or did anyon point an uzzi at him? This country has no serious leader, not even one.
Obavoh: God just blessed me and my wife with a bouncing baby girl at 6:15am early this morning. My home has 3 soldiers and 1 princess . I am happy.
Join me to celebrate. For the women looking for fruit of the womb, your prayers will be answered.
P.S: I might not be a millionaire but I do not beg to feed, clothe or house my wife and kids.
My eldest child is 4 and will begin school next January by the special grace of God. I will see all my kids to university level.
I will give birth to as many children as God blesses me with. As long as I keep on performing my responsibilities, I will not lack to provide for my family. Add by the grace of God na bros...
I rather spend on my wife and kids than carry multiple women and live a reckless life.
Stay blessed
Sounding like someone criticised your action. Free world bro. Enjoy your life and family. You dont need to take permission from anyone to do all that. Congrats.
Reactions have trailed the emergence of an Hausa lady, Hajia Amina Muhammed as the People's Redemption Party (PRP) house of assembly candidate for Calabar South 1 State Constituency, GRASSROOT REPORTERS reports.
Hajia Muhammed who was grew up and schooled in Calabar, Cross River State, will fly the party's flag in next year's election.
See reations on Facebook: Richard Friday Inoyo "I don't know her or heard her speak. But, I love her audacity."
Ojah Ojah: "Kuku contest for governor is back to south"
Ani Akak: "This is how Nigeria is supposed to be. Fight on my dear sister. There is room for national consciousness and no space for tribal sentiments".
[quote author=Fairbanks post=113513360][/quote]Being born again is not left for a man to see and believe but between Yinka and God. So even you cannot say if indeed he was born again not matter how close you may have been to him. So dont be too sure bro.
Family › Re: Married, But Living As Single by qtx(m): 7:23am On Nov 12, 2022
Chai! Who did this to Cross River?
