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masterpiecer: i am 29yrs old, i hope to get married soon, since i was 23, i ve always wish to be the best husband to the woman that would be my wife, but i ve noticed that a lot of married folks(mostly women), complains about their husbands, so i want to know what are d most necessary things that a woman would want from her husband to make her happy?

would appreciate tips from married ladies most.
thanks all.

Long One: There you go, judging me before knowing me.

Long One: Right, I’m sensing it’s about security with you, if I’m wrong and it has to do with ‘out of the box thinking’, then my humble self can take you beyond the borders of ‘box thinking’, and lead to an out of the box ‘thinking induced’ climax in the process.

Long One: True, but it’s not about starting (getting to the water), but also finishing (drinking to your fill) which is why I originally asked what you’ve done with the knowledge.

Long One: Quoting 50 cent ‘in high school you was the man hommie, the f*** happened to you’. Modifying it to ‘in university ranking you was the man hommie, the f*** happened to you’.

Long One: In that context, yes I am, except you want me to say it in pidgin.


Moreover, I didn’t say good and bad, but strengths and weaknesses. You can’t use good and bad as humans are inherently flawed. Looking at it spiritually, we come into this world with one fist closed (natural childbirth) and when we die of natural causes, we open our fist. Life happens between those two instances when we supposedly release whatever we had in that fist. (Call it purpose, destiny, strengths, talents, whatever)

Back to the team yarns, they call this the ‘synergistic effect’, look at it like two meshing gears (sorry for the technical bit) where the peak represents strength and the trough represents weakness. The strength of one individual complements the weakness of the other and so forth leading to rotational motion, which in this case would be a harmonious existence.

Long One: We can disagree to agree, and then disagree again.
The higher performing graduates from such are usually socially awkward, I listened to an iTunes podcast a few years ago on the Cambridge boat racing team – I can reference it for you when I get home. Before they could get them to perform, it was a woman who had to calm them down as they were all intellectually sound, so could not give in to each other’s decision.

Long One: I meant you should not limit yourself to just one type of University for a potential mate, but look at the man in question. How his strengths and weaknesses complement yours. Not focus on the type of University.
Believe me, I’m also learning from you, just as much as you are learning from me. There is no right answer, just different points of view. It is still your life, just as much as it is mine.

Long One: There you go again, judging us, the poor old ‘others’. How about 2pac – dropped out of high school, has a stature in Germany due to his lyrical prowess; Steve Wosniak & Steve Jobs – withdrew from School, both contributed to the microcomputer revolution with Apple; plus many others.

Long One: Hahaha, cheeky you, but nice one.

Long One: Finally, we are on the same page even though I don’t believe we are products of our environment.

The environment can influence you positively or negatively, but you ultimately have that choice. You hear stories of people who came from terrible environments (ghettos and the likes), yet they still made something of their lives. So, all in all your environment does not determine what you become, you do.

Long One: I’m tired of all this analysis, why don’t we hook up to discuss more, then let nature take it’s course. What say you?

wildorchid: Will personally do all of these?

tchaik: They have killed the guy and shared the money joor!

intelligen: Evry1's tilting towards d same direction.."leave her"its nt dat easy o..cos i luv her so much bt i gues i jst ve to take a walk tho ve decided to observe her for d next 3wks cos i stil talkd to her bout it on fone dis morng n she gave d usual apologies wt a pledge to change..my final bt painful decisn wld be influencd by dis latest promise of hers afta 3wks of observatn...i had 2 major hrtbrks in d past n stayd off relatnshps for a yr b4 finaly fallng for her widout realisng i was stepng on hot iron....

damilola15: You're right. Someone is probably looking at this thread and thinking "what a business opportunity".

Reference: The age equation is equally embarassing. Politically suicidal ? Debate anyone ?

jay bee: Ask yourself the simple question, Is the romance section functioning the way it ought to be?

Let me give you a pointer. I believe the section was created for like minded people to discuss relationship issues and in turn offer valuable advice to one another. Most of the traffic that ought to be diverted to the romance section are now being transferred to the family section simply because we are deemed to be a group of peeps whose only purpose is to have FUN. I'm not saying having fun is a crime but you have to agree with me that we have a dedicated section for that.

It's in our own vested interest as key stakeholders to get the romance section back to the state it used to be where people had be guaranteed to receive solutions to whatever romantic situations they find themselves in.

honeric01: Why do you need to hear from him again sissy? anything cute = edo lol (devil's wink)



You're in the "carnal spirit hehehehe)



Jolosy ke? i like it when Edo dudes get una attention hehehehehe. Edo dude are few in number but mighty in mention.

IZUKWU: Does cheating mean you don't love your partner? Couldn't it be a weakness or just lack of self control . Doesn't one have the capacity to cheat on the one he loves .that you are in love with a person does it really prevent one from lusting after another? Or getting a hard on?

ogugua88: Don't take your frustrations out on me. She's still single. Go toast her.

As for me, Miss MBGN or not, you won't catch me with any crooked politician, be it courting or smoking garri.