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One of my friends (she's absolutely amazing! the smartest person ever!! anyways . . . ) was telling me yesterday that APD isn't actually targeted for men just for women. If that's true then it's absolutely ridiculous. Men are encouraged to sweat but women aint? How can it be dictated to a woman how her physiology is meant to be like, to top it off we are encouraged to use pore blocking agents which are potentially dangerous to 'fit in' to this category. So we are using products that damage our bodies in the process, while men who sweat and need these products more are allowed to be natural. its a dem shame! But at least i've learnt now, i'm soo used to using APD but i'll stop now, sweating is only natural use deodorants to mask it,take showers daily (2ce if you have the time), avoid greasy skin moisturisers, continue life healthy and happy.

female on female bashing. . . . #itsallgood. I mean we can't all be amazing like me *kanye shrug*

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]I have noticed that TOO MANY people are under the impression that non-Nigerian women goes out in the hunt looking for Nigerian men. I mean WTF? I know I am going to bruise some feelings...oh well.[/quote]I find it soo weird, some of them really believe it. I mean really believe it, thats why they go about actin complete dickheads and giving the rest of us bad reps.

ijebabe: Oh I meant to say she 'probably' loves the guy.
I still stand by my opinion that abortion is not the only way out of this and she should not be influenced solely on what others think.

Having a child is by no means a way out. It's the way in to more problem.

I can't imagine being in this sort of problem, but it seems people seeriously underestimate pregnancy and childbirth. Talkless of parenting, people seem to think it's a walk in the park. And that any old jane and harriet should parade about with a pram. Having a child should be a planned decision between 2 people. You don't have to be incredibly well off (though I prefer people were before they started popping criminals) but you should at least have a peaceful mind, body and wallet. Be in a solid understanding relationship long enough to trust your partner (male or female) and his commitment to the unborn child and know that he'll be a good father (or a good mother).

The op imo is neither here nor there, she doesn't know what she wants, she isn't in a stable relationship, she doesn't seem to have a healthy understanding about herself (the whole god sent me a dude that impregnanted me in a month rubbish) and to top it off her babys father is jobless and penniless. What kind of table are you setiing for the child. Imo it probably takes a greater love for the unborn child to understand that you cannot be a good parent to it and cater for it like a parent should.
She needs to think with her brain, the brain she refused to use when she got herself into this predicament. And the jobless man is busy impregnating women. . . well done to him. How is the op not soo sure he doesn't already have many kids about the gaff?

shymmex: If your thang stays dripping like RiRis, you sure can get me 'puzzywhopped' as well.

eurgh *shudders*

shymmex: Oh, kl!!

But coogar ain't someone to mess with.

Queensmith can testify to that. Just move to another thread, a word is enough for the wise.

are you assphucking him to? damn shymmex you get around. What is queensmith testifying to?

Crown Prince: I knew it,i knew it...regular abortionist will come here defending the cause of action rather than morality.
Let me tell you all protagonist of the abortion world and new world orders...you are all killers and destroyer of not only destiny but human kind. Seek the way of the Lord and flee from trangessions!

this little rant is not enough, since you are a man (i assume) and you don't have a womb, i suggest you go and adopt 5 orphans for morality sake. To give you enough credit to rant even more. So you can add- I fathered 5 orphans because I am soo moral to the end of your argument.

ijebabe: A lot of good comments already but the one thing that I would like to stress is for the lady not to be worried about what her family and others think. [b]She loves the guy [/b]and I'm sure she wants to have the baby regardless of the difficulties she's facing.
Her family might be upset but they will come around eventually when they have time to calm down and think!

Love ke? in 4 months? they've probably been dating for less. #whatslovegottodowithit

Crown Prince: I knew it,i knew it...regular abortionist will come here defending the cause of action rather than morality.
Let me tell you all protagonist of the abortion world and new world orders...you are all killers and destroyer of not only destiny but human kind. Seek the way of the Lord and flee from trangessions!

this little rant is not enough, since you are a man (i assume) and you don't have a womb, i suggest you go and adopt 5 orphans for morality sake. To give you enough credit to rant even more. So you can add- I fathered 5 orphans because I am soo moral to the end of your argument.

ijebabe: A lot of good comments already but the one thing that I would like to stress is for the lady not to be worried about what her family and others think. [b]She loves the guy [/b]and I'm sure she wants to have the baby regardless of the difficulties she's facing.
Her family might be upset but they will come around eventually when they have time to calm down and think!

Love ke? in 4 months? they've probably been dating for less. #whatslovegottodowithit

Goldieluks: You are a bloody dimwitt, i actually took this fool seriously.

*Arnold schwarzenegger voice* BIG MISTAKE lmao

r231: my fridge. . . .

lmao- you are a sinner! what kind of sweet tooth from the devil!

Denningtedy: I WOUNDER[/color] WHY THIS RICH BOYS WOULD BE FIGHTING FOR [color=#770077] ...[url][/url]http://www.mediatakeout.com

Rihanna has built a solid brand, i have nothing but respect for that girl, given she looks hideous and sounds like a cat she sure knows how to consult the god of sexy!

got chris incarcerated and drake puzzywhopped! the girl has superior powers!

drake says #backthatassup!

if this is true #gatdayuuuuum!! i mean i always thought drake wozapussy with his love songs . But if it's true i hope he beat chris ass! im totally #teamdrake!

and chris get better security!

Rocktation: But then again, how exactly is giving birth to a child that you're not very sure of being able to cater to its needs, morally acceptable? Someone may remind me of life's intrinsic values now, but is its sustenance not included in those values?

#thatisall

Every child has the right to a decent quality of life. You deny the child that quality when you selfishly give birth to uphold soo called 'moral' values.

Most of the time it's not even about that, women are told what is moral and what is right by men, a woman has every right to do what she pleases with her body, be it carrying a child, giving birth or refusing to do any of it.

Goldieluks: Hmmm..that trust-less guy? no no..
besides am taken too,lol

lol whats trust got to do with iiiiit!

Vikin: Hello dear, she is 31yrs. I think she wants the pregnancy. Because at that age, 4months into relationship, you get pregnant and you are asking of what to do?

We ladies know all these tricks.

OP, she knows what to do, if am in her shoes...i keep the baby since am working, i try to support the guy as much as i can.
If you can date him broke and refused to sleep with c0ndom, i think you should be able to cope with the outcome.

soo true- what if he has aids. . . eurgh

scaredy: I dnt knw if my fear is rational bt I'm a virgin n I'm scared stiff of sex.pls wat can I do to get over des fear cos I want to have sex with my guy.I'm so eager to

don't havesex with him until you are ready, you feel this way because he hasn't made you comfortable enough. (i hope you are of age sha? last time i gave advice on sex turns out the girl was 19 lol)
Anyways, it is not by force you have sex especially when you are uncomfortable with it, my (male) friend lost his virginity when he was 20 for the exact same reasons. It's a painful experience and you should make sure the dude is worth your time (or at least good in the bedroom).

jay bee: My friend is 31 and dating this guy who met her 4months ago, she was heart broken and out of relationship for over a year and God brought this guy her way who is in madly in love with her and really wants to take it futher in no time but he's restrained with money.

My friend is working and praying that her guy gets a good job as he is hopeful too. but now she's pregnant and confused what to do, should she keep the pregnancy as the guy is not dennying it and telling her not to fret but stay calm while they think of what to do next, though everything falls back to money, or should she do away with the pregnancy and rather take her time to plan with the guy on having a good start? she's bothered about dissapointing her parents and what people will say. please can you help post this for peoples candid answer if they were in her shoes? she asked me and ernestly i don't know what to say.

PS: From an anonymous Nler

she's pregnant for a jobless man she's only known for 4 months? Women really know how to get themselves into sticky situations. . . . . .

[quote author=12 inches!]I have been there too...All these fake pregnancy and abortions just to collect money. There was this girl I was dating that tried to do same to me. She was my 1st gf actually. Thank God I had a friend who most guys and girls will call player but who I call a sharp experienced guy and he had told me abt such tricks. So when this girl who I had helped financially in the past tried to take me for a fo,ol. and trick me I called her bluff This my 'player' of a friend once told me that if a girl tells u she's preg and u're not sure. Just tell her she should born the baby. So when my ex gf was haggling me that she's pregnant and she needs 25k for abortion, I told her to give birth to the baby that my mum will take care of it and be happy sef.She stopped talking to me for a while and we quarreled. Later we got together and when I asked her abt the preg, she told me she just discovered she wasn't pregnant again. In short the baby just disappeared. That is the last time I ever trusted her. She jst became a tr.amp to me. I jst f.cked her tilll I got tired and moved on.
Ps: she was the one that always begged for us nt to use protection. So she cn con me later on. Later pple will say men her evil. Women nko?[/quote]lol-she will beg you not to use protection? You too will not use it? well done.

so whats gonna happen to the companies implicated in the subsidy scandal? and why did they even bother to trick this man? It doesn't make any sense, are they trying to discredit the panel?
It's unprofessional to indulge in such at a crucial time like this, resources should have been focused on getting to the bottom of things not conjuring up more scandals when other matters remain unresolved.
Nigeria sha, they know how to dramatize things.

she probably even has hepatitis or hiv. silly silly girl, see that one sided convenant. Why didnt he swear no other woman will see his cock and u will be the only person till he dies? he was always going to up and leave u girl. He just wanted to give you his stds first.

nonsense nonsense village people

nonsense

and more nonsense

nonsense

the guy is even a pedophile, young gils shouldnt date old men!

what the hell is going on here!!??

this is just hilarious!

Sagamite: Walrus-like tranny, he likes trannies.

With your blubber and a face worse than Kola Boof, you will turn him the fck on.

You will not need to make fictional boyfriends up again to stop us yabbing you that you have none.

do you have no life at all? Is that why you must make a big deal out of absolutely eeeeeverything? I mean I know you are sad and pathetic and misery loves company n all but you are a really messed up case.

bloody hell!

shymmex: And am I meant to embrace you for talking down on naija guys?

you are meant to embrace the truth.

Goldieluks: And you?? who do you want?? don't lie!!!

you better go and find yourself another dude. The one you are following is taken Can't you see sagafag trolling him everywhere. Do you really want to fight for a gay?

Go after brixtonyute he's just had his heart broken and is probably vunerable, a nice goldilocks is just what he needs!

ronkebp: Not too sure, just read it here from a poster....if she did, she knows what she will get in return...that lady is so expired!!!

well if she's doing it all for show then kudos to her. If not then she definitely needs help, her choice of partner is questionable indeed. I don't know why any self respecting woman will date that man talkless of buy him shit!

i've been saying that my pastor should get a degree for a while now so i can take him seriously, he cannot continue to write controversial books without a dr before his name. . . pastor just doesn't do it!

It's never too late, if she needs to do it she should do it no matter how old she is. EVen 50 year olds go back to uni, weigh the pros and cons and get going! life is too short!

are tokens like the pinsentry? I've been wondering for aaaages how on earth those things work! does anyone know?

shymmex: I'm overly sensitive, but you're moderate, huh?

The same chic who curses anyone that disrespect naija chics..

Am i meant to embrace those that disrespect naija chicks?