₦airaland Forum

Its very hard for a step mother to give boundaries to young teenagers.
I think its time for you to sit down with your husband and have a conversation about this issue.
Tell him that you are not comfortable with his daughter sleeping in your bed and that it has to stop.

20-30k but they make more money than that especially during scarcity Period.

How is this advice powerful?

The men who are using Samsung and Nokia? Are they saying they can't find women? Is it every married /partnered man that has car!?

Please girls should set their standards as they please.

Is she white or black. Her skin color is very different.

congratulations, skilled workers are the nation builders.

6 days of the week and over 8 hours per day for 25,000 Naira monthly.? This is pure slavery.

All these thieves should be arrested and sent to kirikiri for at least 10 years with hard labour.

For how long will Tompolo continue to terrorize Nigeria?

Raymondenyi:
refer to my comment above...
The O.P sleeps with d guy for cash... (dats d only way they would have been "friends" for long as she claims) ; for her no emotions attached.... these females are hoe men... Donot ever value their classless selfs

C.C : revolva

@ raayah : u are being a big foool to actually think that guyz fiancee will leave him because of this... She will never do that... U really seem not to understand the kind of economic situation we find ourselves, with the unappealing and lazy women making it worse...

Is it really necessary for you to call me a fool?
You should learn to give your opinions without calling others names.

If you bring tire to burn the thieves - you are a murderer
If you follow to shout,'beat them finish - you are a muderer too!
If you contribute kerosene - you are muderer.
If you use stone or sticks to hit the thieves- you are a murderer too.

Muderers and the theives both deserve to be in prison and will both go to hell!

Now to all jungle justice people on nairaland - how many have you killed?

advocates:
Home breaker! See what your senses are made up of. Wasn't she warned that the in question is not single? What's are business telling the fiancee what transpired? Amebo. Ladies are just good at pock nosing. Better if you ask her to advise her man's friend.

So you calles me a home breaker, meanwhile the man who is going around sleeping with random women is what? If he doesn't want to stay in a relationship, why not be single? He's putting his fiancée at risk for disease.

Better for her to know Now, then when she is married. Do you want her to be dealing with his girlfriends and out of wedlock babies in the future.

Abeg

BiggyB242:
You want to break his relationship up because he broke her friends heart. Evil thing girls do you want a pay back lol

I don't just think the man is a serious person jare. Playing with random girls up and down while he is engaged.
And you know some random girls carry disease.

He has a fiancee too?

I think the best thing to do is to tell this man's fiancee the truth. She needs to know what her husband to be is upto!

Why are putting up pictures of this guy?

If he stole, let the proper authorities deal with him, not nairaland.

When I commented on a post, that having Tertiary education does not guarantee success in life, people called me bad Belle.

Why don't you learn to do something/ get a skill while or even before going to university to support yourself and help out your family.

There's a lot of successful people who went to the government technical college, learnt good skills, had work experience and also went to university successfully.

otokx:
Primary Education is a right, any other is actually a privilege even in advanced countries.

They wouldn't know all these!

Bootybuttchic:
oh please stop saying that and regarding ur president are u also saying all the nda boys are less educated.....nothing beats having a bsc,or do u think deep down even seun he wouldnt wish to own one,forget the money abeg......i make clothes,bags,shoe,beads, a caterer and still a student cos i knw its a goal,its a feet to achieve,not about using a cv to look for job,but its a step in life that can help a person at a point in time.....ur telling him to waot till je makes money ,why do u think a person who wants to study law in a school,but wasnt given ,but got english,decides to manage that course or are u in france?do u thinks admission is beans in naija that u joke with......something that some people who reject courses have to right jamb 6 extra times,before tgey get their course of choice,abeg think before u type or lock up....and calling ur post rubbish isnt hypocritical,cos i have seen a whole lot of reasonable people typing what makes sense,and lest i forget its stupidity to comment on a thread if u really dont have something to say,than type nonsense just cos u must talk...u shld have just told him to commit suicide and wait till God sends him back to the world as dangotes child .....mstweew!

Lol... If you cannot make a counter point without calling me wrong names, I can't take you seriously.
Secondly, what did you do for the guy in this thread?

Kunlexic:
Education is not a privilege but a RIGHT.From ur right up now u are saying children from rich home only have access to education...smh

Did you miss the part where I said he should wait and save up until he's financially capable to go to university.

Tertiary education is not a right. Its a privilege.

Bootybuttchic:
dont mind that girl....she really typed rubbish, [b] nothing beats having a bsc no matter [/b ] what,why cant she drop out too and go and learn hairdressing its a skill too.....ordinary words of encourage she cant give....ode

Misinformation! Degree is definitely not the best path to success. Millions of Nigerians arr rich without degrees!
the president of Nigeria does not even have a degree!
You think hairdressers don't make money

I'm not discouraging him. I only told him that it may not be easy. I told him to wait and secure funds that will help him go through university easier, this is also on par with what others are saying - deferment.

It's time for us to start encouraging trades in this country.

It's also hypocritical for you to call my post rubbish, when you also did not give a constructive advice.

Obas101:
How long do u think d job will last? Nd mind you he's a guy he needs to build himself for a beta future. Dissapointed dis is coming from a suppose literate ladylady

I am a literate lady, so I know that they're are many ways to success.

So a grown man and woman decide to have sex....

Djicemob:
What is a 42" TV doing in a prison and how would a prisoner be taking selfie and making calls in a prison?

Op you are high on coke

I don't think that guy is in prison

First Turn on : Ass
A nice muscular ass.!

Another turn on: Teeth.
Strong, white and perfectly arranged teeth.

Another turn on: Dicck length
Anything less than 8 inches turns me off

Turn on: Hairy legs and chest
A smooth leg and chest doesn't just do it for me, I like hair

Turn on : Car keys.
I don't like trekking, end of story.

Turn off: Hairy privates
Nuff said

Turn off: Virgins
I'm not a patient teacher.

Turn off: police officers
They are just annoying to be honest.

Turn on: Big lips
You know, cos I like to be eaten.

adainternet14:
Are u sure? Please where did u get your information? He doesn't want to waste money in this hard times o. Cos he's already gained admission.

A lot of people write Jamb multiple times. I can't guarantee that he will pass or get admission again though.

Blame the man. He should have at least gone inside to get her. Why was he sending people.

Yes he can!

tensazangetsu:
This is very very cold just because you are opportune to be where you are in life, you have no idea what others are suffering or passing through. Op I think you should drop you account number here I would love to see what I can do and I will like your permission to share this story. And op never ever contemplate suicide, it's not worth it at all. You have to stick around and see how your story ends. And to fellow nigerians, please don't give birth to kids you cannot afford to care for.

Its cold but its the truth. He needs between to be told. It's going to be very difficult for him especially looking at his story. He will need at the very least 100,000 a year to study ( including his needs).
Why not wait it out till your'e at least financially ok. His whole family is dependent on him. He's paying debt off, sisters education, rent and all that. Where will he get the money to school?
Even a part time job in the university is not easy to get.

He can work a few more years and save up and go to university comfortably.
He can beg for money now and use faith to continue his university.

I like to pick the more realistic option.

Secondly, university is not the only. A lot of Nigerians are millionaires from their handwork - painting, electrician, business owners, etc.

My own advice is why do you want to go to university?

You've been working a factory job that you have used to train your siblings and families. Why don't you open a business, or go to technical school ( learn handwork) or continue your old job

You cannot afford university, and it will only get tougher. What about next term school fees, house rents, textbooks money, feeding and transportation money for four years?

studying with those kind of uncertainty is bad, you might fail out or even get kicked out for non payment of fees. Graduating from university does not guarantee a better life.

If you really want to go to university, upgrade your skills and jobs. Save a lot of money that can cover your fees for four/five years and then you can study

That aside, I hope you get all the help you need!

Matthew 5:28 ( KJV): But I say unto you, that whosoever looks on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

Happy birthday!

Your hair,make-up, dress and smile are all on point!!

You look gorgeous.

You will be wasting both your time and your partner's time.

Wasted emotional and financial resources.

Don't date someone you don't want to marry

TonyeBarcanista:
*Checks profile*


I love what I saw

Honored to be recognized by you!!!!

fxx2:
Then she should keep it (not public)

Even my wife @ 32 got it better...

Lucky you